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Why don't you just talk to her?

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This question is passed around a lot, and regarded as a throwaway question. I'm here to tell you today that just talking to her is the best thing to do.

>B-but muh height!
>B-but muh face!
Why are you assuming that someone will like you or not? Just go for it.
>"Ew, get away from me, anon!"
If someone says that when start a conversation, they're an asshole, plain and simple. Seriously, you've got nothing to prove. Tell yourself that, and you will help yourself.
If you try and argue with me, you're shooting yourself in the foot.

>Be me
>5'3
>Confident in myself
>Got a gf that's taller than me

The height meme is exactly what it says, a meme.
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>>35295477
>If someone says that when start a conversation, they're an asshole, plain and simple. Seriously, you've got nothing to prove. Tell yourself that, and you will help yourself.
>do this
>discover all women are assholes
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>height is just a meme bro!
>just talk to her!!
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Well frankly I don't know what to say.
I mean, I can make bullshit shallow conversation, but I don't know how to get further than that.

To get to know someone who you have to disclose your interests and opinions, and I feel like an alien.
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>>35295477
>Why don't you just talk to her?
i'm not sure if i want to pump and dump or if i want a serious relationship
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>>35295477
Are you attractive? If yes, then fuck off.
Your point is invalid and you should go back to normiebook.
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>>35295656
You don't need to have a deep conversation when meeting someone. Every topic is pitched with either a question or a statement.

>That's a nice watch.
>Is anyone sitting here?
>It's a great day today.

Act no different than if you were talking to a friend. Then end off with a "we should talk again sometime. Could U get your phone number?"

>"Ew, no anon."
If this occurs, refer to the first post.
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Girls instinctually see manlets as cucks
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>>35295736
I'm about a 6/10.
How did I get my gf? I'm a decent human being. I can interact with human beings. That is all you need.

>"But I'm a 0/10!"
Before you can get someone to love you, you have to love yourself. Cliche, but true.
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>>35295797
Post a pic of yourself.
now
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>>35295769
How do you know that? If you got it from this board, you may need to take a break from /r9k/. Did you see it in porn? Again, take a break. The only way you can get a gf is by going up to her and talking to her. Men that want pity love are cucks.
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>>35295477
>If someone says that when start a conversation, they're an asshole, plain and simple. Seriously, you've got nothing to prove. Tell yourself that, and you will help yourself.

This just made me realise I live in a world full of unrepentant assholes and will have to spend the rest of my life surrounded by them.
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>>35295820
Do you think I would be on 4chan if I was a 10/10? No. I would be out being a Chad. The only reason I'm here is to share my experiences and to help you out.
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>>35295752
Yeah it is all really simple and I can do that kind of shit when it's someone I'm not interested in fucking.
Well, passably well. I certainly don't have the gift of gab, but I'm not full autist either.
The ones I do want to fuck... I suppose it's part fear of rejection, and part fear of finding out I have nothing in common with them.
It's kind of a common cliche that the more attractive the girl, the more shallow the personality. Probably not entirely true, but it's hard to shake that perception in the heat of the moment when the adrenaline kicks in.
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>>35295876
Who the fuck do you talk to, man. I think you need to find some other people to talk to.>>35295897
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There is no attractive feature about my body or personality. Shoo, normie, away with you.
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>>35295897
You don't need to fear rejection. People experience rejection all the time

>"Sorry bruh, ice cream machine broke."

You may not be able to talk your way into a girls pants the first time you try, but it takes practice. You don't need bravado to talk to someone

>You have nothing to prove.

That sentence will help you a ton when wanting real confidence over bravado.
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>>35295797
There is no way I'm stopping loathing myself until I prove to myself I'm able to do anything, so by your logic I'm in an infinite loop.
That means born a virgin die a virgin for me.
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>>35295919
Okay then. You can go back to your hole and hate yourself for the rest of your life.
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>>35296001
Well then, I guess you can never be saved. The only way to learn is to want to be taught.
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>>35296023
No, I want you to hate yourselves with me.
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>>35296051
Sorry. I'm past that. I guess you'll just have to join me in the confidence club.
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>>35296066
No, I'm gonna get drunk and piss in the club's doors and make everyone in my party have to leave because I got banned for life.

Don't test me, normo bouncer.
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>>35295884
Your presence is only bringing us down, now kill yourself and go back to teddit.
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>>35296204
Well, inside of your basement for the rest of your life and hate yourself for not talking to that cute waitress. I'll leave, but you'll regret not taking my advice when you're alone on your death bed.
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>>35296286
Well, you can*
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Why the FUCK should I?

*I* have a Mercedes
*I* am nicer than other guys
*I* have nicer clothes than every single other fuck

And yet I have to talk to her? Fuck that, fuck them. Ill stick to hating them here
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>>35295477
>Her.
Who are you referring to ? Not everyone has that person you know. Just because you assumed that you have had a person that you cared about it doesn't mean that everyone has one.
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>>35296337
Well, following /r9k/'s "only ways to get a gf." You should be able to get one if you talk to them.
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>>35296352
I'm referring to the cute bartender you stare at all the time, or your hot classmate in your forensics class.
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>>35295477
At least you faggots have friends. I've no one, I cant feel comfortable with any human being. I hate everyone.
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>>35295693
the ever elusive question. you're not alone anon
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>>35295997
tbf it's hard to find girls attractive
I mean, physically, yeah, there are a lot of girls that interest me, but I feel compelled to want something with a little more substance than that.

from my observation girls are a little more shallow. which I don't mean in a pejorative way- 'Deepness' or the obsessive nerdiness that is typical of men has its drawbacks.
The problem is that the basic normie culture that they are embedded in is so nauseating to me.
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Totally agree! I'm 6'1" and I get no girls
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>>35295477

>talk to her
>become friends
>ask her out
>get a no
>"why can't we stay friends?"

Fuck off. We're not all cowards, some of us are just not boyfriend material for some reason.

I have so many fucking friends who are women, but it's safe to say none of them would fuck me if they were held at gunpoint.
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>>35295477
>bald at 23
>wagecuck cashier
>live with my mom and dad
>no college degree

you want to send me on a suicide mission?
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>>35295547
This only proves that height is a meme even more. Obviously whether you're a manlet or lanklet if you're not attractive then you won't get a gf
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>>35296395
What about those of us who encounter zero women in our day-to-day lives that we're not related to?
The few times I encounter women in a social setting they're always accompanied by a S.O. and any attempt at conversation is immediately met with "I have a boyfriend, he's right over there."
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>>35295477
i have talked to her
she lives in another country
i haven't even initiated any romantic or sexual dialogue between us
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