Meaningful first sex

>>35274761
Mine ment something :)

That's off the table for guys these days.
Probably ever.

t. chad

I lost my virginity when I was 14. I don't remember who I had it with. My life has no meaning

>>35274761
I had an opportunity to get laid in high school but I turned her down, because I had no feelings for her.

I'm achieving grand wizard powers not because I can't get laid (I'm sure it would be a tremendous struggle if I tried though) but because I want to lose my virginity to someone special.

Also I'm paranoid af about the possibilities of STDs, pregnancies, etc.

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>>35274761
Was like that for years, starting to lose faith that this is every going to be a realistic thing nowadays.

They tell me the same thing, I am not bad looking and I am in good shape and social enought o attract girls. I have turned down over 20 one night stand style things and quick sex crap.

In the end I figure that I was stupid to not just fuck the 20 bitches. I also feel that if I had maybe one woul dof got pregnant and fucked up my entire life with her bullshit.

So yeah, not sure how I feel anymore about this. I will be getting a vasectomy as soon as possible though.

I am very close to just go doing a booty call or fucking a random tinder/net slut or just charm a girl irl into a one night stand.

Saddens me and I am sure it saddens you but hey man what other reality do we have?

>>35274761
>Loving, passionate sex with a girl I love and am in a relationship with.
lmao
>I will never lose my virginity
Yup.

>>35274761
I feel it.

I do want to have a connection, because then it feels natural. I remember the first time I almost fucked someone, how it moved so smoothly. If I hadn't sperged out and said some shit about my mother or ages of consent I wouldn't even be talking here.

I wanted to, but i have yet to actually have a meaningful relationship or find anyone that seems to find me even remotely attractive, so i decided to just fuck sluts and hate myself

I can tell you from personal experience that having "meaningful first sex" is only asking for a lifetime of pain afterwards.
Fuck as many whores as you can and then call it a day.

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>>35274818
What's the point of sex if it's devoid of meaning? We could all buy a blow up sex doll and fuck the shit out of it and it would physically feel the same as fucking a girl but I think we can all agree would fall far short of the real experience precisely because there is no meaning involved in it.

I can easily just use my hand. Sex has to be about more than just the physical act. It has to be about an emotional bond and connection between two people.

OP, how old exactly is this qt?

>>35274858
It's much easier to use my hand than to fuck sluts, and there's no difference at all from my point of view.

I wanted the same thing. I waited so long for my chance, then I finally got it. Had a qt gf, liked all her friends, saw her all the time. I was so happy that I waited it out and lost my virginity and had my first kiss with a girl I could see myself marrying someday.

Then she fucked Chad, started an argument trying to make it my fault, and made all our "friends" hate me.

No matter how meaningful you think it is at the time, there will be a 99% chance she fucks it up and you realize it was never meaningful and was exactly the same as losing it to a hooker.

>>35274946
Why did she fuck Chad? Why couldn't you please her?

>>35274864
Or it could be a drunken act that happens spontaneously when two horny people get alone together.

>>35275003
Do you really expect someone that's here to be able to hold down a relationship? I'm obviously an autist.

This is why I'm still a virgin. I could very likely fuck some roasty this weekend but I want a gf that's not vapid and I don't have the skills to pull it off :(

>>35274875
"never fall victim to no bitch. jerked my dick, and still got more hoes than a pimp"
that's a direct quote from one of the greatest hip hop songs ever recorded

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>>35274864
Yeah well dude where do we find that? Because the ones I have talked to really just lie and say oh yeah that will be special then when push comes to shove they insult you for it later when shit goes south with their drama and arguements.

So yeah they dont feel the same, you, me, the other dudes wanting this special love, we are fucking broken dude, broken and fucked up by societies standards.

What do you see as a way out? Die a virgin? Thats where me you and the others are headed.

I lost mine to my practice gf. really wish I didnt.
I actually still tell people im virgin because I wish I was.

>>35274761
Know what you mean my man.
I'm not into the whole one night stand thing either.
I have been waiting for 22 years now for her to come. I'm probably going to be waiting another 22.
i had a chance with a girl i liked at u i could never gets to balls to ask her out. she has a boyfriend now and were still friends, every time i talk to her she mentions him and it kills me.

>>35274864
>What's the point of sex if it's devoid of meaning?
The meaning is making your dick feel good.

>>35274761
I know the feeling anon. But I'm more and more tempted each day to just go out and lose it. It's pretty easy to get laid, but pretty goddamn hard to make it special.

>>35274761
When you're younger and the person you would lose it to is likely a virgin, it's okay because you don't have to impress her.

When you're older and you spend time with someone you think is special, she might be expecting some experience, and if you have none, she may get disappointed or lose some of the attraction she had to you. After you get to a certain age, I think it's safer to build some experience so you can impress the one you actually care about.

I don't know about "special" but yeah, I don't want a one night stand.

"Never fall victim to no bitch
Jerked my dick
And still got more hoes than a pimp"

wow that is powerful stuff here guys.. like poetry

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Yeah I feel that

I'm 21 so maybe it's still possible but doubtful.

I want my first time to mean something not only for the girl I'm with, but for her as well since it will also be hers.

I want it to be mutually awkward because I think it'll be more fun that way for both of us.

There will be no preset standards set by other people that either of us will have to live up to or feel conscious of. The entire world will stop existing as we explore one another for the first time.

We can move into adulthood together and it would be a great change from having been alone my entire life and having to transition into the next phase also alone.

Not all that concerned about sex, I do plenty of other crazy shit anyways. I'd prefer to meet someone I actual have something with but if someone decently attractive wanted to have something casual I wouldn't say no. If I died right now, sex would be low on the list of things I wish I had done.

I've thought about using my sperm and a surrogate to conceive a daughter through in vitro fertilization, then losing my virginity to my own daughter.

I know I would love my daughter with all my heart, and I hope she'll love me back. Plus I would be the first person in all of history to ever lose his virginity to his own offspring. Also, it would mean my daughter was immaculately conceived. I can't think of anything more meaningful than that.

When I donate the sperm, I'll have to masturbate into a cup. I don't think I'll need any porn to get off, I'll orgasm just from knowing that one of the sperm coming out of my penis is half of my future daughter.

It's been so long that I don't even care any more. Just on its surface, just the thought of the actual, physical activity feels exhausting. I can't even remember how many years it's been that I've been operating on minimum power consumption mode.

Moving beyond that is the depth of feeling. I'm not physical attractive and I'm not emotionally attractive. I can't even conceive of a person who would want me. Even if there were, I don't want anybody to look at me. I don't want anyone to see what I really am.

There's never going to be a woman to gaze at me with longing eyes. To gently run her fingertips along my skin and through my hair. Brush her lips against mine.

There will never be anything.

>>35275335
nigga you 21 you have been an adult for years.

>>35274761
>I'd rather use my hand than have sex without meaning. I want my first time to be special.

this is why everyone's telling you to just do it, because the sooner you lose this rose-colored delusion of what sex is, the better off you will be. you'll quit being somebody who's planning to get into a relationship and start being someone who's actually working on relationships.

>>35275425
lmao millenials are deluded faggots by default. pretty soon the average age of a teenager will be 25

>>35274761
Stop caring about that, life is too short and it's definitely not a fairytale. First times are only "magical" in fucking Disney movies or romantic comedies.

>>35274761
Same boat. 26 KV and since it's probably never going to happen, at this rate if it were to miraculously do occur, I'd want it to be special.

The time for getting it out of the way with a prostitute was when I was 20. Now it would be worse than staying KV, to have lost it by paying.

>>35274761
I turned down sex with about 10 different girls.
Saved it for the one I really care for.
I'm 18.

>>35275368
What if you only have sons.

>>35275425
>>35275501
I know I'm an adult but not having had sex makes me feel less like one

>>35274761
I didn't and don't regret it. Never understood it. I'm a shutin neet lost my virginity to a Thai hooker at 15 at a fancy massage place. It's just sex why do I care about my first time. Im 26 now don't remember her face but remember I had a great time.

>>35274864
As someone who has cum inside a tight 14 yr old and also used to own a blow up doll and fleshlight, I can tell you the real pussy was way better and you are deluding yourself. Even with a rubber the real pussy is better.

>>35274761
35 year old guy here, I posted in the original r9k back in the day, saw this on the front page.

Lost my virginity when I was 17. I have no memory of it. I remember my first kiss more. I do recall there was a pregnancy scare immediately afterward cuz we didn't plan fucking and had no protection.

It's really not a huge deal.

>>35275614
They can check the sex of the embryo before they put it in the surrogate.

>>35274761
>Anyone want losing their virginity to actually have some meaning and be special?
Everyone does. Ideally I would like to lose it to my sister. That would be super special. Too bad life doesn't work that way for people like me.

>>35274761
Mine didnt mean shit. I lost it in a drainage ditch under a bridge.

We weren't even dating, she kept friendzoning me. It was a really weird time

>>35274873
Not OP but 16 at the time the photo was taken

I feel that way.

But I've accepted it's never going to happen, and I'm just hoping I die peacefully in my sleep some time soon.

>>35274761
losing my virginity was the biggest disappointment in my life so far. it wasn't an escort but it was awkward as fuck and I couldn't even cum. still dead inside just like before

>tfw 8/10
>tfw it doesn't matter because i can't get it up if i don't have an emotional connection to the girl
Feels fucking bad man

>>35274761
>tfw lost virginity to another virgin
>easily the worst sex ever and the most forgettable outside of being the first

>>35274761
I can never understand why someone who's as naturally pale as that would ever want to tan themselves. I mean, look at those pink nipples and perfectly white skin. The rest of her looks like a leather bag.

First sex is not a magical meaningful thing. It's awful and awkward. This is why you idiots are still virgins, believing in fairytales.

my first, and thus far only time was pretty special, even though it occurred far later than normal and wasn't in the context of a relationship.

it was with an 8/10 girl i had known for about a year, i only lasted 5 or so minutes inside her before i came deep inside with no condor, but she was super understanding and the lead up to the entire thing was just very romantic and slow. we took a holiday to my parents' summer house and it took 3 days and nights of talking and before i was even comfortable enough to start touching or be touched by her, even though we knew before we went away that it was going to happen on that holiday. then at least an hour more of kissing and touching before i was comfortable enough to actually get naked.

it honestly changed my life, because prior to it happening i was chronically depressed and obsessed with my virginity and sex. and now that it's happened, even if it never happens again i feel infinitely more content now, and i have zero regrets for how it went down. in a weird way it has even made up for all the suffering that came in the years prior, because it all led to that one perfect moment.

I think you people are taking the meaningful first sex meme a bit too far. Like sure don't go fuck a hooker, but it doesn't have to be with the girl you're going to marry. Somebody you like and have fun with is good enough. I lost mine to a married woman which is a bit odd, but we were friends and fucked on and off for years.

Also, knowing that you are attractive and able to please a woman in bed will give you the confidence you probably need to get with your dream girl in the first place.

>>35274761
>Tfw you had the chance for a meaningful first time at one point but screwed it up

I had the chance lots of times to fuck girls I didn't care about but I didn't. But the closer I get to 21 I feel like I should of just done it when I was younger. My logic is: Why fuck a slut at 20 when I could of done it at 17? I've already waited this long, might as well wait for it to mean something. I don't know though.

>>35277343
You'll wait until your grave like this.

>>35277150
You really sound like one pathetic mentally ill retard. Before you were comfortable enough to get naked? What the fuck is wrong with you, you limp-wristed sack of shit? Fucking kill yourself

>>35277410
>What the fuck is wrong with you

vitiligo, pretty ashamed of my body desu. kept me from dating as a teen.

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Was 5 months into my first relationship. We were scared because we thought it would change things. It didn't . Went at it like bunnies after that. We lasted 3 and a half years. I was 16 and she was 15. And we thought we'd be together forever.

But I guess it did mean something the way I lost my virginity. I have no regrets.

>mfw all these bitter whormies calling this ideal a "fairy tale" because they are jealous of people who actually have standards in their life

>>35277409
Yeah I already decided that losing it before 21 (My goal since a kid) > Losing it to someone meaningful

>>35274761
I don't even know what I have to think from my first time... This greentext happened 2 weeks ago:

>be me, 20y/o
>have first date with qt 3.14
>she is one year older than me
>we kiss after the movie and go to her place
>after making out for a long time, we have sex (finally lost V-card)
>best night of my life, never been so intimate with a girl before
>few days pass
>suddenly she doesn't want to meet up anymore
>says she has problems with her exes and that she doesn't feel ready for a new relationship
>FYI: she broke up with her ex 2 days before our date, so I kinda understand
>she wants to stay friends for now, feelsbad
>I still talk to her and I'm getting gradually more 'open' with her about my feelings.
>She is very kind and said that maybe in the future we 'can give dating another shot'. But she also said that this could take a long time, since she has had to much problems with this stupid ex of her and doesn't want to commit to a new relationship.
>Trying to become FWB now.