Hey guys I'm a reformed Robot and a Manlet with a wife that is taller than me.
I found this place three years ago and have never posted. But I'm here to answer your questions. If you have any desire to " get it together". I was bullied terribly for a very long time and could barely even engage with humans, it was the source of my autism. I was so damaged from it that I adopted drug and alcohol problems to cope . But then I pulled it together, so ask me anything you want. I'm happy to do my best to give advice.
I too exhibited autism and was fat out of shape and a Neet up until around 21. I'm 33 now and have wife kids home career. Even a small company I run on the side.
Please feel free to ask me anything, I don't really know you guys but I was one of you and well If you want to talk i'm here. Be back in 40 minutes or so and I'll answer every question I can as long as the tread is up.
So you turned your life around at 21? H-how did you make the change?
>>35260055
Honestly, I went to college and completely put myself out of any and all comfort zones. That is the gist, i wasn't happy with who i was so i just went out on a really long limb where I couldn't take it with me.
>>35260055
When I moved I ate right because of poverty and exercised daily. I made a few gym friends and didn't hold my prior experiences against them.
Things kind of blossomed from there. I got a night job and made a few friends. Next thing I know I have a social life. Keep exercising and then bam meet a person with a lot of parallels and then we get married.
>>35261270
I guess my major advice to put yourself out there again in a different place. Get a student loan and move away and leave anything you can't carry here.
Things won't be easy but I really think being risk adverse isn't healthy for the majority of people.