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How to stop feeling like a burden?

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I think my biggest problem is I am afraid of talking to my friends because I dont want to burden them. I never ask them to hang out or ask if they are doing anything.

I just got into a discord server with a few friends I recently made and I feel like Im talking too much. I feel like they get annoyed at me since I havent known them very well and Im new to their group.

Is this natural? Do peopme actually think like this? How can I overcome this fear?
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>>35229617
I get this feeling too. I feel like I "inflict" myself on people, rather than interacting with them.

I solve this by getting drunk, all the time. That way I have no anxiety, and any embarrassing things I say can be excused with "Oh, I was drunk, I don't remember even saying that!" Whether I remember it or not (which I typically do).
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I feel like that sometimes, I doubt they care too much unless you go full autism.
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I used to feel that way too, the way I overcome it is by trying to alienate myself from them, I went full retard. Trying to cross the lines I've created. Quite liberating desu.
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>>35229617
Dude, don't worry. I feel like this literally all the fucking time. I always wait for muh friends to text me first. It works when you have friends who ask you to do stuff, but it sucks when you're trying to get a gf.

I'm a bit drunk right now because my buddy asked me to go to the bar, but if it weren't for him asking, I'd never have gone because I always feel like I'm burdening my friends by asking them to do shit, so I always wait for them to ask. You're not alone my friend.
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