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Have any of you ever actually tried being yourself? Or do you

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Have any of you ever actually tried being yourself? Or do you just ignore it like all other advice?
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Stupid 3dpd poster
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Of course! Thats why I cut off all contact with females and spend all my time indulging in my hobbies.
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>>35219734
Yep
Didn't work
I am myself almost all the time
Hate it.
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>get drunk one night
>start being myself
>go on long redpill rant about how women are all whores, the 80/20 rule, what chad thundercock is, and how they only want it
>normies at the table do nothing but laugh
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>>35219734
What the fuck are you trying to even ask?
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>>35221939
yeah because you're wrong and pathetic

change yourself
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advices are useless
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>>35221996
I'm pathetic but not wrong. Women are all whores, they only want chad, the 80/20 rule is a documented thing and people like us need to spread the word
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>>35220948
same

I'm only "myself" when i'm alone. Trying bee myself around others just doesn't work. I lack basically all social functions and don't care anymore. Like I bought lunch today and cute cashier made a joke. I know I was meant to smile or something but I just didn't and I don't regret my decision.
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>>35219734
>tfw you are not actually yourself
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>>35222040
Wouldn't that mean that more successful genes are being passed since 1s aren't propagating? Isn't that better for society?
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>>35222128
The keyword being "successful" not "better". The pic anon posted has nothing to do with mating patterns, but with mating desires and trends. This isn't indicative of any sort of genetic positivity
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>>35219734
When I try to be myself people call the police

Unfortunately, I'm not joking
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>>35219734
I did, until I realized that I don't really have a sincere self.

Depending on who I'm around, I always tend to reflect their own personality and interests. If some guy is a hype weeb who's always yelling about memes and video games, I'll do the same, if I'm hanging out with a dude weed lmao shy metalhead then I'll also be like that, etc.
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I'm always myself. But myself is an autistic weeaboo, so that it doesn't help me much.
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I'm an autistic Nazi pedophile
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>>35222836
>B-but you broke da law!!
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>>35223091
>Pedo
No probl--
>Nazi
Ohhh...
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>>35219734

The problem with that is that you must first know who you are.

Normies have an easy time attaching themselves to labels and basing their identities off what either others expect from them, or modeling someone they seek to become.

Robots are either not self aware enough to realize who they embody adds no value to others or self aware enough to know that adding value to a relationship while staying true to themselves will take more effort than they're willing to put in.

Personally, I feel robots have a lot of potential, more than the average Joe. It is the self-awareness that if they tried, they wouldn't be easily satisfied that makes it a challenge to start.

Also, nobody knows who they are in their 20s.
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>>35219734
I feel like the more I am myself the more annoying I become. Seriously, I don't know why. Anyone else?
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>>35223319
Faggot I'm TOO self-aware.
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>>35222885
Ah holy shit anon, I'm like that to.
I call it a chameleon personality.
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>>35219734
What does this actually mean? Like I want to do this. I don't have an identity though like, that's the problem. I'm disqualified as a human being. If you have a way to reclaim my humanity I will try but right now the problem is I have no self to be
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>>35223408

I addressed that.

> self aware enough to know that adding value to a relationship while staying true to themselves will take more effort than they're willing to put in.
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>>35223319
That's not what self aware means dumbass.
And if anything, your post reflects the exact opposite of what you're trying to prove.
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I now have a fake persona at uni because my real self didn't work out. It's hell because I have to pretend i'm an ultra confident normie now even though I hate most people I come in contact with.
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>>35220948
>>35222043
/thread
Normalshits don't understand if we actually attempted to be ourselves in public we'd be ostracized until the end of time
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>>35223471

Please, provide us your definition.
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>>35219734
Basically yeah. Once I realized all my old friends are drug addict scum I stopped talking to them. Same with chicks. I currently run 2 businesses outside my already full-time job. Trust me, whoever you're so-called friends are, unless they're on the Forbe's list, they're not worth it.
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>>35219734
Nobody would try not being themselves if being themselves didn't lead them to robothood. The real meaning behind "just be yourself" is "Act like a normo until you become one".
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>>35219734
You really should not be yourself. When normies say "just be yourself" they actually mean 'just be like us'. You have to adapt to your surroundings in order to be effective.
If you want to 'fit in' you will mold your personality and behavior to be a part of the group. Fitting in will bring you friends, girls, connections, jobs, and all the other benefits of being a 'normie'.
Once you are part of their society you will then be yourself.
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>>35222040
Your dad is a chad? That makes you a chad so fuck off
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>>35219734
If I was going to be myself, I would tell 99% of the people around me to fuck off, keep non-stop jokes about "senpai" and anime girls, be 3x more lazy than I already am and openly compliment girls on their asses, tits and armpits (and by compliment I mean "Hey I think it would be pretty nice to lick your ass" or "I really want to fuck your armpit"). In other words, I would be worse than I am atm.
Faking yourself is the way to go.
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