I never asked friends or other people about their lives during conversations. Mostly because I don't care about anything and I don't expect them to ask me the same.
That makes me an asshole and I just realized that it might be one of the reasons I feel the way I do. Does anyone else suffer from this?
Can you shop a cat head on that picture?
>>35192314
i do the same thing but didn't realize it. i also don't care but now i make a little effort to ask a couple things about someone to help the flow of conversation and so i don't seem self centered
>>35192314
I've noticed that I basically never "push forward" in a conversation, like even if someone mentions something that would be interesting to hear about the thought doesn't even occur to me until several hours later
>>35192596
But it feels fake if you have to force yourself. Doesn't that drive you crazy that you have to fake such basic things?