Ask a guy who's not so hopeless with grills now anything.

You really think anything's gonna happen except people calling you a normie? I mean I'm a normie, but even I know there's no explaining it to autists.

Normie get out reeee so on and so forth reee

>>35189303
oh look it's a
>late bloomer normie thinks he is / was ever a robot
episode
I hate this episode

>>35189352
you never know, man. stayed up all night working on some beats, ended up rewarding myself with a youtube nostalgia trip, commented on a /b/ thread, now I feel like helping some helpless bros out since they all congregate on this board and I was one of em (I still am in important ways). If I can help someone, great, if not, whatever, I'm just having a v good day and feel like sharing advice if anyone wants it

>>35189387
Good point, well your advice does nothing for me because I'm a gay man but I look forward to seeing what happens with this thread.

>>35189303
nobody here wants your advice. you're trying to teach PUA to cripples. fuck off.

I can lift the metal Jew all day but I'm still boring. What do I need to have in a personality?

>>35189415
just be yourself
this is not an original comment

>>35189303
>Shoot any questions you got my way
Alright, I'll bite. How'd you do it? What changed you that you suddenly became attractive to women?

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>>35189303 (OP)
>Shoot any questions you got my way

I've never woken up with a reason to face the day. Not ever. Time and meaning have slowly started to slip away from me and now I dread to wake up each day. My desire for self improvement, companionship, for life itself has dwindled to fading spark in a great black abyss. How does one escape the abyss?

>>35189432
No one including me likes myself, how about some non-meme advise? I've only had some interest when I pretended and played the game, but I need to get better at it.

I'll ask again: what do I need in a personality?

>>35189383
nah g, my hentai folder was embarrassingly large until I got the guts to delete it a few months back. it sounds like a silly dramatic move but it honestly makes such a weird subconscious difference if you consciously distance yourself from pornography. just do what I do, make yourself so busy doing hobbies and plans and working on yourself that you don't have time to fap. I think the increase in testosterone gives yourself a subconscious energy boost which you can spend on self-improvement things and it all ends up being 10x more enjoyable than porn, every time I end up fapping these days (which has been a lot this week lol) I instantly regret it and wish I'd spent those last 30 minutes doing more important stuff

>>35189487
that is depression, man. it's fucking rough. I went through it for 2 years on and off, had so many late night walks along motorways thinking "if I just walked forward it'd all be over and I'm indifferent to that idea". I need more imformation to really help you out, but one thing that helped me figure things through (a suicidal friend who is now fine suggested this) was I drew a diagram of my mind and wrote down everything I was thinking of. From that, you can figure out what is actually wrong in your life, and you can start seeing what you need to get sorted out. Take things one step at a time and it'll all build up until you're unexpectedly happy when you wake up. I've felt like that for a few months now and it's been so good

>>35189303
So why are chicks now hitting on you and where is it happening?

>>35189473
it really wasn't sudden, dude. it was gradual. my first encounters with girls were all out of pity and drunken mistakes, my first kiss was some horrendous looking girl I just got with because my friend told me she was really into me, and my first bang was that friend as a drunken mistake. I knew I'd just have to get drunk with her and shit would happen, I knew that from the get-go, I eventually let go of my unnecessary standards, went 'fuck it', and shit happened. since then I've been busy doing hobbies I love which makes me happy, I unexpectedly talk about those hobbies with many people including girls out of a love for it, then sometimes they suddenly like me for my passion. other times I got lucky, I said hi to a girl in a club or festival out of boredom, then they suddenly were all over me. they all went nowhere but it was acting in the moment that got me somewhere with them when they gave obvious signs of interest, which is just eye contact, talking to you a lot, smiling at you, touching your arm, it's ridiculously obvious once you got the ball rolling

>>35189415
depends on what you want. if you want to hook up, fuck personality, girls at a young age are kind of shallow, if you approach them confidently and are relatively fit, just make eye contact, touch them a lot, if you're good looking they'll reciprocate.

but for something that lasts, for getting a personality, "be yourself" is very true advice. it boils down to figuring out what you like and are interested in, wear that on your sleeve, talk to people you share interests with about those interests, girls come as a result of that

>>35189604
>once you got the ball rolling
Yeah, I'm still stuck on that part. I have a few guy friends and go to a party every month or so and I'm able to be sociable and interesting but girls are just not into me that way. Honestly sounds like you were just a failed chad who started slaying as soon as you had an ounce of confidence.

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>>35189531

I'm on day 2 (TWO) of nofap and I already want to cave. I'm bombarded in life and on the internet with sex and I just can't handle it. My limp dick is in my hand right now. Doesn't help that I have nothing to do all day.

Just today I learned the girl I've been into got DP'd by two european guys and it really made me hysterical. It's not even a jealousy thing. I thought she was different, but she's just another whore. That's how it always is, and it really just makes me fustrated.

I'm going to get drunk for the first time this weekend and already get high at least once a week. That's the only time I don't have the constant voice of "fuck this gay earth" in the back of my head.

A girl I semi-know tried to talk to me today and I actually just looked at her, yelled nonsense, and ran away. With no exageration.

Wasn't really any questions but venting.

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>>35189387
>and I was one of em (I still am in important ways)
Damn, you really want it, don't you? Fine then
NORMIE GTFO REEEEEEEEEEEE

>>35189549
most of it was luck. I'm a solid 5/10 face and convinced myself with the "woe is me I'm terrible I'll never get with any girl nobody likes me" thought pattern to never try, and whenever I did, they'd not be interested, or I'd put them off by being super annoying about chasing them up regarding a date to the point where the date never happens. as the years went on I started dressing better, I started finding joy from doing things I like doing, I started trying way less hard with women out of cynical bitterness from the past, and from a young age I wanted to go out to clubs and festivals quite often. At some point my happiness and good vibes started being visible to girls by being just comfy in who I am and what I do, so sometimes I'd talk to a random girl not even trying to hit on them ("hey :) what drink you getting?") and they'd be all over me. I'm still not very confident with flirting, but just by being happy, dressing nice and saying hello, sometimes hot girls who really wanted to get laid would take the lead, I went with it and got more experience like that, and now I have a lot more confidence in approaching girls. those experiences were literally a handful of times from years of going out

>>35189634
then dw man, it'll happen. last time a girl hit on me at a party was months back and I haven't gotten laid in months too. I am definitely not a chad, but now I know the signs, I feel chill in knowing I could get laid if I really want to, but I don't like the options I see. fuck, there's a girl who lives 15 minutes away from me I could bang if I wanted to, but on the account of her being a 4/10 I don't. being single is really my own doing but that totally doesn't bother me these days

>>35189706
Mind posting a pic of yourself? I'm seriously doubting you're a 5/10.

>>35189706
the tone of that read as reaaaaaally high and mighty lol, apologies all. I'm nothing special, I don't do anything special, I've just gotten lucky lately, but you can make your own luck and I'll try to help y'all however I can to do that

>>35189660
I'm sorry, man. You are completely entitled to feel shitty. That'd fuck me up too. I see why you would want to cave, if you really want to, go ahead, but try and resist. Again, not jerking off helps give you a subconscious happiness boost. It's always when you're bored the desire creeps back in, that's what makes me cave too, just keep yourself busy however you can.

All I can tell you is, I know you don't believe me, but their behaviour and the fact they aren't very into you is absolutely nothing to do with you. Girls and people in general are very self obsessed, who cares that they didn't want to use you for a bit of attention/sexual satisfaction? More power to you, fuck em, you can spend that time on other things rather than wasting hours getting to know them so you can bang.

As for that girl... That's what I mean, man. *She tried to talk to you.* **She probably likes you in some form.** It's ok if you did that, I've done similarly cringey shit, I'd say if you can, try to talk to her again and apologize, give her another shot. Or don't if you're not into her, just keep an open mind is what I mean.

>>35189771
Sure, g. hang on, I'll do a selfie.

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>>35189771
here you go. shouts out to any potential random ppl that recognize me but I doubt anyone I know browses here

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>>35189889

This can't be real.

Is that just a bad angle.

>>35189889
you could be alright if you worked out and fixed your shitty cut and glasses

t. black dude

>>35189889
So this is the "failed chad" that bangs 9/10s whenever he feels like it? What the fuck?

>>35189943
exactly, man. with a nice cut and contacts I look alright, plus I dress nicely these days, so I don't look too bad out and about, when I'm at home idgaf how I look

I tried for aaaages to bulk up last year but I had to eat so much food all the time it was exhausting and I only managed to put on 10lbs, I was aiming for 160 and got stuck at 150 so I just gave up at some point but since I'm very busy doing things I'm passionate about I'm actually much happier than I was last year and I still get hit on regularly so I guess that shows personality matters more? helps that I'm tall too duh (6 foot 2)

working out would make success with girls way easier, they think just like us, just being hot and confidently approaching them will get you laid so often, I just can't afford the all food and supplements I'd need to bulk up right now, but I'm fine with that, I can do that in a year or two when I'm regularly working and can afford to, right now doing more important self-improvement stuff

>>35189942
see I told you I'm a 5/10, maybe even worse but that's great cos it proves my point lol

>>35189986
no. no no noooo. I don't get 9/10s whenever I feel like it. I still get a ton of rejections and dead ends, but it doesn't bother me any more because the successes that have been happening more and more frequently remind me that I'm not a hopeless, unattractive mess that I used to think I was, and it reminds me that looks don't really matter with women, as in them being hot doesn't make them any less achievable unless they're of a certain type (the "I am very hot and know it so I will only bang hot dudes" type, and they tend to be very shallow and have zero personality and aren't worth your time anyway)

thanks so much though, dudes, cos this is what I mean - there is hope for us all. if I can do it, you can too. keep the questions rolling.

>>35189531
>bruh just be urself
I don't even come here often, just paying a visit, I'm in decent shape, I study most of the day, I masturbate maybe once a month if I get the luxury.
I do have a porn folder, but I hardly even use it. I don't really remember where it is even.
I am 27 and still a virgin.

You are not, nor you were ever, a robot.
Just a late blooming normie. That is all.

>>35189303
How do you even ask a girl out? Like what thought process goes into it? How is it even conceivable for people to work up the balls? It what state does the woman have to be with in order for it not be creepy?

original?

>>35190056
to expand what I'm saying about girls - they're only people, guys. they get lonely. they have their ups and downs. a lot of them live boring, uneventful lives, a lot of them spend their days working/studying then going home to a computer screen for hours, sleeping, like we all do. boys liven it up, as girls do for us. not all of them, but a majority of good looking girls are lovely, normal people who don't think their looks make them anything special. if you just approach them confidently, engage with them as an equal individual - because they are, bitches ain't shit - and then maybe mention that you happen to think they're really cute, they'll love the compliment and attention you're giving them, and they'll happily go on a date with you. girls are reflective creatures. if you're happy in yourself and just approach them with good vibes, you'll get good vibes back, and if you don't, remember that it's nothing to do with you. sure, you can fuck up and make mistakes, I've made many along the way, but you live and learn, don't beat yourself up about it, don't take rejections too harsh, and remember there are girls absolutely everywhere.

also, do what you're happy with doing. you don't have to get laid every other night, I don't and I feel great right now. if you think you can make yourself a chad, feel free to try, but there's no pressure. just be happy, life is short, do whatever you want to do while you can.

>>35190096
I'm sorry to hear that, my dude. Do you hang around women that often? I set my sights on going to a 70% female university from high school because I was really interested in the arts despite doing a computer science degree, I thought it looked like the perfect environment for me and being surrounded by girls all the time deffo helped me get more comfortable around them. join a social club of some kind? do a sport? take up a spin class? idk, man.

if you came to bitterly vent at me, feel free, but if you want some actual help, gimmie deets.

OP you're doing a thankless job, I really appreciate the depth you put into these responses

>>35190132
I've never been on an official date, bro. Every girl I've asked out using the word date has shot me down or flaked out. The moments of success have never been with the word "date", I think our generation seems terrified of settling down and commitment for some reason. Whenever something has gone well with a girl, I've met them, we've gotten along, I get their details, and then I suggest we "hang out" one evening one on one. Alternatively, I met them at a bar or house party, we've made out or banged, so all the hard work is done already, and they're up for meeting again.

It's fucking terrifying and horrific the first few times you ask someone out on a date, putting yourself out there like that only to likely get shut down, but now I don't really care. I think the key of it is being happy with yourself and living a life that consists only of doing things you like doing, that way you don't cling to success with women as the only thing you have going for you. Then whenever I do go out on a date, I just pick things I like to do, and if they enjoy it too, great, if not, fuck them, I'm not changing my life to suit their needs, I'll find someone who will genuinely enjoy my company instead. Same reason why I don't mind rejections now. If they can't see me for the great guy I am, someone else will, and my past successes that have been building up over the years only confirms that view to me time and time again, these last few months especially.

>>35190200
I know, right? Idk why I'm doing this either, I'm just feeling great and bored lol. I was just about to go practice mixing a set for a student radio show actually but you saying that made me realize "oh shit wait people might actually be finding this helpful nevermind" hahaha

roll up the questions ppl I'm going for a smoke

>>35189387
Thanks bro. Can you throw some bro tips my way to fix my autism?

>>35190296
that is suuuuuuper vague. what'd you mean by autism? I haven't slept all night so I might collapse soon but I'll get back to y'all if I do, keep the thread going or I'll make another one later if this dies

>>35190361
I was trying to be snarky and I mean I have diagnosed autism and I can't really fix my problems. You seem cool though so take no notice. Keep it up what you are doing.

>>35190247
>that way you don't cling to success with women as the only thing you have going for you.

Kek, you wouldn't be so happy if you didn't have sex though you stupid faggot of a normie.
It's funny how you normies say that "sex is nothing special" but start to chimp out if you don't get it for 3-7 days.
At least be genuine, you're not on kikebook, none of your stupid ass friends know that you're here and posting.

>>35190096
We really need to wordfilter "just be urself" to "I'm a bitter kissless virgin who didn't even read the post I'm replying to".

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>>35189387
>now I feel like helping some helpless bros out

It's another, """helping"""-someone-out-to-get-a-cheap-sense-of-superiority episode.

Just switch to my laptop.

Quick answer to the question "how do I know if a grill likes me" which I'm sure many of you want to know - honestly, just look at them, man. Hold some direct eye contact whilst talking to them, if you get some weird gut feeling that you think they like you, you're probably right. Attraction is this unspoken feeling between you, there's other signs like them asking you a lot of questions, standing close to you, touching you, but that feeling when you look at them and they look at you trumps it all.

>>35190390
absolutely, bruv. I'd still be fucking crushed if it didn't happen once. But I'm not lying, I haven't gotten laid in months, and i genuinely don't care at all. This was the first year that being single on valentine's day didn't cut deep.

Sex is cool, it's fun, but it's like... A brief moment of pleasure shared between two people. Once it's done, you have a moment where you realize "...Oh. That sex thing is over now, and my life is still the exact same." Sex happens when the timing is right for it and when they're into you enough, it doesn't change the world, it doesn't change your life, it gives you a tiny bit of validation but nothing else. Those times when I got laid didn't make me feel any happier, it's just made it easier for me to stop caring about girls.

Don't give up. Don't tell yourself you will forever be a virgin, be kind to yourself, let your barriers go, let your walls down and it'll happen. Fuck the anxiety, don't get stressed when you know a girl is into you, just keep talking with her, keep hanging out, you'll bang, and you'll see it changes nothing about yourself, her, your life, or your status with her. Relax, it will come, and you really don't need to get laid on the regular to be happy. The kind of people who fuck super often are messed in deeper ways, that uncontrollable crave for sex is a sign of low self-esteem IMO but not in all individuals, some people have some kind of unconscious knack for it.

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>>35189303
You sound like a Poo In Loo.

Leave and never come back wannabe-chad normie filth.

You were never one of us and never will be.

>>35190413
maybe, man. I just had a very nice evening and I'm quite a sympathetic person, too sympathetic for my own good (that sympathy stops me from making moves on girls that are unsure desu, if I wasn't such a faggot worried about if they liked me too maybe I'd get senseless sex more often). I was useless with girls before, and I suddenly feel like spreading some advice on a platform where people who need it might actually benefit.

If not, oh well. I can stop replying at any time. No loss to me, I'm just trying to help you out, if you want to get mad at me for it, that's your decision. I don't think I'm better than any of you, I just think that getting with women is a skill like any other, I've probably had a bit more practice than some, and I want to help give you all a chance to self-improve as well.

>>35189303
how do i become you

how did you do it

>>35190413
It's another "I want to be a bitter virgin and lie about actually wanting a gf" episode.

How do I keep a lid on my spaghetti? I see girls looking at me a lot whenever I go out, but I can never bring myself to talk to them, and when they talk to me I'm in such disbelief that I sperg out. When I'm not interested in a girl I don't have trouble talking to them or making them laugh, but if I'm around a girl I really like or think is into me, I get too caught up in trying not to make mistakes.

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>>35189889
>Legit 3/10

Delusional normie is delusional.

Nothing to see here folks. Move along.

>>35190504
op help i actually wanna try for once in my life

>>35190460
Nigger, I only had one chance in life for sex and that was with a girl that was even more nervous than me but I fucked it up because I was to scared to make that step further.
That was 5 years ago, now I'm a 25 yo NEET highschool dropout with no job experience at all. And to top it all off, since I didn't give a shit about my teeth hygiene for the majority of my life, a few of my teeth are literally fucked up, one fell off and the other one is rotting away, and one at the front has a bad looking hole. I really started to take care of myself overall this year, I even started to eat healthy and stopped smoking almost a month ago but I don't have any money to fix those teeth and I'm a social pariah.

>sex doesn't change the world
yeah, obviously
>sex doesn't change your life
now you're just talking shit, it evidently does at least to a certain degree. Saying that it doesn't is just bullcrap and you know it.
If a man is not able to convince a woman to have sex with him, he's not only missing out on a vital part in life but he naturally loses faith in himself because a man who can't get to have sex with a woman is a man who can't procreate. It's in our fucking nature.

>>35189604
What hobbies?

People always say "talk about your hobbies", but my main timespender and moneysink is managing servers at home. This isn't interesting to most people.

>>35190504
It was gradual. I think getting myself interested in fashion was the first step, it taught me how to make myself look presentable, and looking good is the easiest way to attract women. So if you want an easy first step, make sure you're relatively slim, start looking up fashion (/fa/ is decent but their taste is too goth for everdyay life IMO yet they'll give you some ideas), pay attention to what people wear, figure out what looks good and what doesn't. Men have it much easier than women in that a nice fitting pair of jeans, a good button-up shirt and some nice trainers/boots/formal shoes in colors that fit each other will always make you look great.

If you want to go further, start working out and consider bulking up, but depending on your metabolism, putting on weight might be a ridiculously hard task. I gave up doing that now.

After that point, I think I started hanging out with people I'd consider good friends and going out with them. It sounds silly, but just going out with a group of friends makes you look more attractive, especially if there's girls in the group, and even more so if they're hot. Just relax, be yourself, it's not hard to make friends, and having friends to go out with regularly makes you look normal when you're out and about.

In the meantime, when I'm alone I would spend time doing stuff I wanted to do with self-improvement in the back of my mind. I've seen a lot of movies, I've listened to a lot of albums, I read sometimes, I'm a pretty well-rounded individual. Figure out where your interests lie and surround yourself in them, you'll make yourself happy like that, you'll have a lot to talk to with people as a result of that, and if you're going out regularly with good friends whilst doing all of this, it's inevitable you'll find a girl to connect with.

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>>35190532
That doesn't even make any fucking sense.

>>35190602

it makes perfect sense you conceited fucking clown

t.other anon

>>35190559
No, dude. I'm sorry about that time you screwed up. Now shut the fuck up and pull yourself together. if you tell yourself you will never get laid, you will never get laid, but it will come if you chill. I've fucked up numerous chances to fuck and I'm actually friendzoned now by a really cute 8/10 indian girl who is the very definition of manic pixie dream girl because I ignored her suggesting I snuggle up to her one night I crashed at her place after clubbing. Don't let your past haunt you. We're now really good friends and I don't mind we're not banging because I'd hate for that to change our dynamic, but we talk all the time, we hang all the time, and we share a lot in common, so if it's going to happen, it will.

And everything you just said about man's nature? That shit only matters to you, man. You're telling yourself that. Anyone who has gotten laid will tell you that is sad, elitest bullshit that holds yourself back for no reason. It's stuff you tell yourself out of a more deep-rooted fear of getting laid, fear of rejection, something you don't want to do. There's something scaring you about getting laid, I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's the truth.

You can do it if you really want to, man. I believe in you. Don't beat yourself up. You are not a failure, no matter what you tell yourself. I'd happily get a drink with you, we probably have stuff in common and would have a good night out, and one of my mates would probably be interested in you.

>>35189706
>I'd put them off by being super annoying about chasing them up regarding a date to the point where the date never happens
fuckkk how do i avoid this? i can't tell if the girl i've been trying get to hang out with me is legitmately busy or just too polite to tell me to go fuck myself

>>35190602
>reee I want a gf tell me how
>ok here's how
>reee fuck you normie I'm not even going to read what you wrote

>>35189303

any advice for taking control of a conversation and directing it towards getting laid?also general advice for giving her some subtle hints that she can catch onto.

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>>35190662
>And everything you just said about man's nature? That shit only matters to you, man.

So you want to tell me that a man who fails to attract a female is not a failure? Top kek desu lad.
You truly are a normalfag and don't even have the balls to be honest and politically incorrect on cuckchan out of all places.

>It's stuff you tell yourself out of a more deep-rooted fear of getting laid, fear of rejection, something you don't want to do. There's something scaring you about getting laid, I'm sorry if that sounds harsh, but that's the truth.

Armchair psychology desu. You know what I said is true, stop denying it like you're on kikebook trying to score points with some libtard sluts.

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>>35190682
I didn't even say I want one, but allright faggot. Kek

>>35190559
Sex is only fulfilling if you do it with someone you genuinely care about, it's not a need but it is within our nature to want it. I was in a relationship for almost a year and was having sex 3-4 times a week depending on how much we could see eachother, it was great but now that it's over I'm not hating myself for having no one to have sex with and getting frustrated over it, I just want someone to form a relationship with and just be with one another. Don't get me wrong sex is an important part of any relationship, but if you're not having it while being single it really doesn't matter.

>>35190753
>muh love
>he still believes that a woman can truly love you for who you are and not just for the resources you can provide

time to wake up and smell the coffee, goy.
Of course no woman would ever admit that because they don't have the balls to be honest but they are snakes who can't have genuine empathy (only used for virtue signalling) and feel any real love, like a man can do.

>>35190164
dam u really are strong

>>35190674
You fucking can't. WELCOME TO THE DATING WORLD.

I still struggle to leave girls I like alone. I try to play it cool and the best way I do it is I genuinely keep busy doing things I love (I go out to clubs often, I'm working on learning music production, I'm trying to organize my own club nights, I message producers on soundcloud asking for exclusive beats to play on radio shows etc) so they're not on my mind, see if they get back to me in a timely fashion, if not, I try to forget about them.

I really don't know what to suggest desu, I can never tells with girls I ask out if they're actually busy or being polite... All I can suggest is message them about 2 days after meeting, give them 3-4 days to reply, try to message them one more time if you hear nothing, after that, leave it, move onto the next one. I really don't fucking know tho bro, girls are a myth with organizing dates, these days I just try to react and live in the moment and don't get so attached to other forms of communication.

A situation happened with a girl that really fucked me up emotionally, it made me decide to withdraw from all social media for 2 weeks, told people to contact me just by phone, blocked her, and during that time I really zoned out and worked on myself. Now I get way less emotionally attached to social media communication and now it turns out I read that situation all wrong and I'm seeing the girl for a drink again in a few days, just try to realize that people always get wrapped up in their own shit before remembering you exist (unless you're really hot or they really really like you then they'll instantly find time for you)

>>35190736
thank you for the chuckle, bro. I am very happy right now. Your words did nothing because I can sense the projection. According to your words, I am 10x less of a failure than you, so if you want to continue beating yourself up, continue, otherwise, shut up and listen.

>>35190788
Who hurt you bro?

>>35190593
>Figure out where your interests lie
how? I feel like I've lost all my hobbies and nothing interests me anymore.

how do you know that you like to do something?

>>35190788
That being said... You are totally right with this point. Women work in a biochemically different way to us, dude. That's just how the game works. They love differently, and to be frank, I think a majority of women will leave you as soon as they know another viable, loyal option pops along.

But there's nothing you can do about that except be so comfortable with yourself that you don't need love. I needed it for some periods of my life, but now I see I was probably better off working on myself, and those relationships all went up in spectacular flames because I liked them and clung to them too much.

Don't complain about the bullshit of the game, evolve to rise above it and not care, because there is nothing any of mankind can do to change how women work. Let it go. Relax, life is short, go for girls because they're fun to be around, not because you need them, and you really, really don't.

>>35190839
why bother living at all, then?

>>35190839
I think I'd just kill myself if I was like 30 and single with no hope, fuck being on your own, once you experience true affection and care from another person that's all you want in life, maybe not right now but definitely in the end. It's probably just me but yeah fuck being alone if you can help it, I'm not gonna just go for any slut but I'm sure as hell not forcing myself to live alone just because I don't "need" a woman in my life, fuck that

>>35190829
And we are back to depression. That's your issue, friendo. Do the thing I suggested before, draw out a shape of circle on a piece of paper, write down all the stuff on your mind, then you can break down what it is that is making you feel so bad and think about what needs to be worked on. Once you start doing that, the joy will creep back in from your hobbies, whatever it is, and you'll start remembering what you like doing again. Then go do that thing, find frends who like doing those things, go out with said friends who like doing those thing too, bam, you'll be happy, bam, you'll find chicks who will want to be with you.

>>35190855
Why not, man? :) Don't you like their company? Isn't there a better feeling than being with a beautiful girl, making out with them, fucking them? Everything in life is short-lived. Why not give yourself some happiness and enjoyment while you can? We're only around for 100 years at best, 50-70 for most of us, and it'll flash by. Why not spend that time doing things you love, being with people you love, trying to get with girls you want to be with whilst you can?

Don't overthink it, don't let your anxieties and problems stop yourself from being happy. Just *be*.

>>35190885
BRAP BRAP. PREACH.

>>35190855
Exactly
~original comment~

>>35190896
>Isn't there a better feeling than being with a beautiful girl, making out with them, fucking them?

I thought you were saying that it's just some quick, forgettable fun, and that you shouldn't care about it. I don't get it, are you supposed to care or aren't you?

>>35190931
You should care if you find someone who cares about you, otherwise I think just chasing girls for sex and attention isn't fulfilling and can fuck you up emotionally in the future. It all depends on who you interact with throughout life and what you truly care about.

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>so used to rejection I've basically given up hope of ever even getting a first date
>meet girl through friend
>she seems interested
>series of obstacles prevents me asking her out
>it's now been 3 months and we rarely speak, now feel it's too late to try
>not sure what I'd even do to ask her out even if she was to say yes.

Fix this with your precious normie magic.

>>35190801
>Your words did nothing
Wasn't supposed to be insulted, just seeing reality

>muh projection
yeah, this word kinda lost it's meaning over the years, same as calling someone a "nazi" for whatever reason.

>>35190931
What he said. >>35190961 It's a confusing dynamic, intimacy is something we really want, but it can be confusing and not really worth the damage it can cause you. Know what you're looking for then go get it, but don't let it compromise your self-esteem and balance, it isn't worth it if it will. Build yourself up to a point where you're ready to have intimacy and the confidence to go for it, but also for it to disappear at any given moment.

>>35190994
Whatever you say, bud.

>>35190931
He's just a filthy normie who wants to win arguments. Normies aren't very consistent with their opinions and their always change, depending on what they have to do to get laid.
Welcome to todays degenerate, cultural marxist world where men betray eachother for 15 minutes of cheap intimacy. The normie anon might say that "sex isn't so important bruh" but if he could sell one of his friends for sex with a 10/10, you can bet your ass he would. This is why our society is slowly declining an decaying, there is no loyalty, no honor just instant gratification.

>>35191034
naw, senpai. you are in a self-wallowing circlejerk of pity with others who want to do the same. I'm just trying to give you an out and some perspective on how women aren't that hard to get, if you want to convince yourself girls are some unattainable prized possession and that you are all failures of men for not attaining them, knock yourself out. I have, it's not that hard, I was like you once not so long ago, if you want to push away all the advice, go for it.

>>35191034
>le normies are dumb degenerates robots are smart meme

Robots are trash tier humans.

>>35190801
>According to your words, I am 10x less of a failure than you, so if you want to continue beating yourself up, continue, otherwise, shut up and listen.

Nigger please, everyone can smell the underlying patronizing tone of yours there. Of course you feel superior over all the virgins here and you know it. You're just trying to hide it and disguise it as "genuinely helping" because you don't want to feel like the bad guy. Not saying you are in any way a "bad guy" or that anybody's failures are your fault but it's obvious that you are virtue signalling for yourself here.
Nobody wants your """help""" here, in fact we don't even want you to comment here at all, just leave us the fuck alone and go annoy somebody else.
If you love to give """advice""" so much, there is a fucking designated board for just that called /adv/.

>>35191053
>I was like you once not so long ago
No you never were.

>if you want to push away all the advice, go for it.
Yeah, what would the world be without your annoying babble, I mean "advice". Humanity would cease to exist. At least you wish

>>35191082
>Of course you feel superior over all the virgins here and you know it.

Cool. What's your point? I posted in here rather than /adv/ because I know the robots who come here need the help more.

If you don't like it, leave the thread. Clearly some people are benefiting, if you don't like it, the close tab button is right there.

>>35191090
cool cool

>>35191060
Did I wrote anywhere that robots are so fucking smart?
Reading comprehension. Learn it faggot and now go necklace yourself.

whilst I'm mixing and answering questions enjoy this banger

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GtVUkyzvhU

anyway this thread is getting derailed, do u guys have any more questions?

>>35191090
No faggot you leave because this board isn't about giving advice, it's about posting greentext stories.
Go to reddit if you want fake compliments for your excellent """advice""".

>>35191090
>true robot fallacy

He was like you. What is so hard to understand about that? He changed, so can you. The only requirement is that you have to want it.

>>35191180
No he wasn't because we're different human beings you retard.

>muh willpower
implying I didn't fucking try my ass off already and always failed. Fuck off with your just-world bullshit, norman.

>>35191227
Stop lying. You haven't tried shit. You are exactly like was, with the exception you want to continue to be miserable.

>>35190986
yeah, man. do it! be honest. if you're just like "yo, I wanted to ask you out months ago, never did, you wanna hang?" If you're already not talking, asking her out is the only way to resolve the problem.

Worst thing that happens is... You continue not talking or hanging out? Like you already are? The moment is passing, grab it before it goes!

>>35190986
further advice - I'm sure she'll say yes if you give off the right vibe, best way to do that is keep the message short and simple. Copy and paste this -

"Hey! I gotta be honest, it was super nice meeting you months back and I've always wanted to ask you out, but obstacles always stopped me from doing that. You down to grab a drink some time? :) x"

Keep it short, to the point. If she says no, that's ok man, you did nothing wrong, just this one isn't feeling it cos she's wrapped up in her own shit/is seeing someone/is getting over her ex/is a cunt, it's shit to do with her. A message like that is totally reasonable and if you're a decent guy, which I'm sure you are, there's no reason for her to say no. Good luck!

>>35191317

we talk occasionally, only really in person when we both happen to be doing something our mutual friend invited us to. That's why I'm so scared that I've missed my chance and I'll be friendzoned already.

I get that the most prudent move would be just to try, but I have no idea what to even suggest we do, I have no idea how to even start the conversation. I'm basically a social retard and overthink everything until I do nothing.

>>35191355
ok dude, read the second message I just sent. Just go for a drink, chat, see how it goes. I'd say if you think it's going well, suggest going to a club afterwards if she's that kind of girl and you're that kind of guy, see what happens. If not, then just see if she's up for hanging out again another time, or think of some other fun activity to do after if things go well, keep that connection alive, going and fun, live in da moment, and if it's to be, she'll want to keep seeing you.

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>tfw I look like cyanide
>tfw pretty handsome

think I'm gonna make it bois

>>35191500
yh bro

trying growing out some facial hair too, I never did because I thought it wouldn't suit me, got hospitalized for health issues last week, grew a beard, compliments everywhere all the time for it lol, even tried to get into a gay club for a friend's bday a few weeks back and these two random birds offered to try to let me in, they asked how old I am and said "wow we thought you were older not in a bad way though the beard suits you makes you look more mature" so maybe some stubble will suit ya too anon

>>35191529
last week lol I was hopitalized last year* I mean

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>>35191034
I agree with this but not wholeheartedly.

Little bit of both. There is a dopamine problem in our country but there is also love and joy.

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>>35191529
Thanks for the two cents homie, as soon as I start consistently getting facial hair I'll follow your advice.

>>35190164
>if you're happy in yourself and just approach them with good vibes
too bad i am depressed, cynical and egocentric narcissist

>>35191682
That's why you gotta fix the depression. Not for girls tho, that isn't how it works, you've got to do it for you. Tbh I obsessed for months about winning over a 9/10 art college girl that was into me, initiated things then suddenly lost interest, I went through tons of self-improvement shit lowkey trying to win her back since she stayed in vague contact. Then this situation happened in January that made me think "fuck her", destroyed me emotionally, made me focus on myself and now I live a great life regardless of what happens with women, they're just the icing on the cake.

...Guess who I got coffee with last week after calling her out on her flaky bullshit. And guess who I'll be getting a drink with right next to her house after her work after in a few nights.

Good things come to those who grind. Work on u, get yourself sorted out, the womyns will come. Even if they do, they'll leave, so fuck it, just have fun leading a fun life and enjoy them as they come and go, ride the wave.

>>35191824
>focus on myself
i'll try doing that
getting some work out equipment and going no fap
gonna see where it gets me
it can't possibly get any worse i guess

Still here, famalams. Does anyone have any inquiries about anything at all?

>>35192856
seems like nobody for now
i was passin by so have a bump famalam
glad ur happy. keep it up

>>35192856
Just out of curiosity Is your default state happy?

>>35193551
lately, yeah. for many years, no. i'd say 2013 was the last "good" year I had. second year of uni I was doing a course I didn't enjoy in a relationship with an extremely emotonally abusive lesbian who told me she loved me for a year before dramatically changing her mind. third year I got myself very stressed and existential about the end of the best years of my life, so I ran around doing everything but studying. year after that was recovery, taking some time to focus on me and sorting myself out. now this year has been unexpected fun from the get-go since I'm completely done with studying, doing shit I love, my depression has been gradually creeping away since around the tail-end of summer last year, and i've been straight up great since that mental crash and reset in january. I have a rough plan of what to do for six months (work, switch off, save up for festivals, do music stuff, get back on a computing career end of this year or next year if I enjoy the time off from academia that much).

idk how long it'll last, but i think this year is gonna be the best year in a while for me. looking forward to it. hoping my advice can help some of u get to that point in your lives in your own ways.

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>>35189889
Can you post a pic of any of the 9/10s you smashed? I'm an 8/10 and I've never had sex with 9+, and you're clearly a 6 so what's going on here???

>>35189383
Why do you autists hate everyone

>>35192856
There is this grill i kinda like and we have a nice conection, but i think she has a boyfriend, what do i do? We really enjoy eachother company
But i dont know if something is actually going to happen or if im going to be stuck in the friendzone
I see her almost everyday so i there is no way to cut contact either

sorry for bad english

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>>35193794
i can't, bro. they were all festival and club hook-ups that discarded me when we were done. tried to text em or hang with em again, never heard from them. i just got their numbers and deleted them, there's no point in hanging on to shit like that obviously. they were all blondes, though? tall, slim, small chested but ridiculously cute faces. I'm a sucker for those.

here's one ho I tried to ask out, they looked kinda similar to her. i met her at a house party and instantly wrote her off as some dumbass because of her model looks, I was actually going out of my way to ignore and avoid her because I thought trying was pointless. but then she shocked me by saying hello to me first and actually knowing shit (we had a v in depth conversation about our love of david bowie and joni mitchell and she had a+ book taste too).

...it then took her two weeks to say 'yeah man i'll be around the library' when I asked her if she wanted to meet up for coffee on fb lmao so I don't have time to chase silly yats like that. I haven't seen and heard from her since and that's totally cool, not worth my time at all, no hard feelings, there's other vaginas. when I tried to ask her out that was when I was my more /r9k/ self but even in those days the two week response time had me laughing and made me lose aaaaaall interest

>>35193480
cheers boss

>>35193849
I had this exact situation on sunday! spent all day working with a gorgeous lovely redhead who I assumed had a bf, and she did. i didn't see the point in staying in contact, I just wanted to tell her I thought she was great at the end of the shift, say I would've asked her out, thrown her a compliment and never seen her again. but I never got the chance to cos she disappeared, it bugged me a lot after the shift, so I was gonna message her on fb.

somehow we have mutual friends and my mates are suggesting I stay in loose contact, so I guess do that. stay in contact, don't get invested, if she becomes single, ask her out.

>>35193957
wow this picture looks fake as fuck lol I swear that is her actual profile pic, a bit of an old one but her recent ones don't really reflect how she looks irl

she also had the most cockney accent ever but was actually v intelligent so that was a nice surprise

>>35189660
You're only on day 2. By the end of the week depending on how often you do it won't even think about it and it gets waaaay easier.

How do you get a gf if you don't go to school and don't have a job? Getting a job is the hard part since my country's unemployment is through the roof and I'm not the only one fucked.

But then again there are jobless thugs with girlfriends so how do they do it?

>>35193957
>I can't, bro

C'mon lad don't give me that. Chads come to /r9k/ all the time and dump nudes just for the sake of showing off. If you're banginng sloots left right and center, give me something better (to fap to) than a Facebook screencap or you're just another LARPer in my book.

>>35194124
Wrong. Chads don't normally dump nudes. They don't feel the need to prove anything. It's losers who got lucky once that are more likely to do it.

>>35193610
>>35192856
What do you do for a living? Are you happy doing it?

>>35194076
>But then again there are jobless thugs with girlfriends so how do they do it?

Girls want to get laid just as bad as guys do. At a young age they go for the jobless thugs because theyr'e alphas. By that, I mean they're physically fit, have always had sex pretty often, and so sex is no big deal for them and they're good at it. Girls feel safe using them as better dildos then jumping ship as soon as it's going nowhere, they like using them for 'fun'.

So your options are - either become an alpha (get ripped and hit on girls basically, long as you are ripped girls will be all over you with little effort required), or don't give a shit about that kind of thing and work on sorting your life out first and foremost. Girls can pick up on when you're happy with who you are, and that makes you instantly more subconsciously attractive.

I used to read so many "How to get girls" books and follow so many bullshit videos, advice, guidelines, methods, etc. I've dropped all that now. All it did was make me stress out about not getting laid every night when not everyone can do that whilst also making me feel like a failure of a man. It's funny to me that now I don't obsess about that stuff, now that I focus on more important things that women, they come.

If you really insist on doing research on the topic, read Models by Mark Manson. Nothing else, keep it at that. The rest will come naturally.

>>35194124
I never got nudes. We made out or banged and I never heard from them again. I'm sorry I can't give you better, dude. The girls I can show you pictures of are the mediocre starters which is obviously not worth showing and the one art girl I briefly got with whom I'm now seeing again but I have no idea wtf is going on in her head and it could very well go down the drain/I could very well end up in the friendzone, we could forever be platonic from this point, we could not, no fucking idea

>>35194124
See>>35194169
Plus he isn't a chad you mongo baby
read the thread

>>35193957
how i dont become invested in someone if I see her almost everyday?

>>35194175
I just finished some module retakes for a computer science degree, so I should hopefully be graduating in the summer. In the meantime I'm just working events around London which is poorly paid work, but it's so mindless and easy it's such a nice rest from all the studying, and all the people I work with are in the exact same position (students or recent graduates doing the work because it's easy and gives us solid income to persue stuff we actually want to do). I'm not getting much work right now, so when I'm free I work on music production, reviews, trying to organize putting on club nights, hanging out with friends sometimes for house parties, clubbing, that's it. A lot of the time I'm at home these days but I enjoy the rest and having time to work on myself.

>>35194185
ye I'm not a chad, I went from being an utterly helpless virgin to being average/slightly above average with grills, I just hold myself back by being unnecessarily picky and still not being very good at flirting

>>35194207
so hard, bro. :\ all I can suggest is stop yourself if you catch yourself thinking about her. when she's in front of you, sure, think about her, enjoy her company, she'll probably pick up that you're into her and it'll help things bloom. but otherwise tell yourself to shut the fuck up and not make non-existent attachments in your head by thinking about them too much

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>>35194255
Sounds like you're in a good place man, keep it up.

Doubt you will convince many here though, everybody seems to have a concrete mindset about robothood and why they're miserable.

>>35189889
This is one of the worst angles you could've taken that pic in.

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>>35191824
hey man. i was in your situation with a 9/10 college girl as well - she was into me, ended up at her place overnight twice but then she cut me off completely. now ive been depressed for the last few months.
but i want to forget her and move on, especially with exams coming up. how do i forget and stop giving a fuck?

>>35194540
I'd say I'm concerned about the same thing happening to me, but we hooked up initially about 8 months ago now, she kept saying she loved my passion for music which I haven't stopped persuing, she kept acting hot-cold-yes-no-in-out-up-down, staying in vague contact but not, and now I called her out on it she's telling me she thinks I'm awesome and really wants to jam etc, is writing off all her flaky behaviour as being on too many drugs, and now we're suddenly hanging regularly-ish. So we'll see.

Keep getting out there, socialize, you'll meet more girls.

>>35194540
Sorry, that was shit advice, I got distracted by thoughts of my 9/10. It's never that simple.

Go back to basics. Remember what you love doing. The January incident was I thought she got with a dude in front of me, it fucking destroyed me, I left early to avoid seeing it happen. I just reset for a bit, reminded myself what I liked doing, gave myself time to heal and recover, focused on only doing fun things for a while, then I felt 1000x better. She later came back to me and said nothing happened between them and that she wouldn't do that to me, so that was a nice bonus.

Keep doing you. Forget those hos, they're not worth your time if they dump you like that, just take comfort in knowing that if a girl like that can find you attractive, then more girls like that will.

>>35191090
This is why you will die a virgin
This comment is ORIGINAL

>>35189303
good shit loving it tripfag, normie trash.

well seeing as you are so helpful, let me tell you about me a bit.

we will skip boring stuff like getting fucked in the ass when you was 10
and getting bullied until your eyes and ears bled
or just hit by a random dude on the street just because
that stuff was normal
taking drugs since 8
and smoking since 6
alckohol is there too somewhere

so imagine this.
>you are 14 (thats when it started hitting me)
>you despise humans
>anytime you are in the presence of humans your stomach aches
(basically image you wake up leave the house and keep punching your stomach for the nets 6-8 hours daily and that for 3 years until school ends)
>now you have been NEET for 1 year since school ended and you are already barely hanging
>btw you have no friends
>state tells you to apply for a job
>you get a job and its fucking boring, oh and you have to pretend to be interested in people and the job and smile like a fucking retard cause germany, everyone smiles yay
>btw keep punching your stomach daily again for 1 year (thats how long I lasted first time)
>Next you NEET for 2 years(I think I'm like 22 here)
did few things here and there they are meaningless though
>state tells to apply again obviously(you only want to die)
>still you apply cause you parents tell you
>you do the fucking thing for 2 years this time its fucking disgusting(don't forget the stomach punching and pretending which might be even worse)
>and Now I'm a coward neet who can't even kill himself
> good stuff

oh few more things

>never had a crush in my whole life
>woman are not humans
>never loved anyone
>never felt loved
>haven't used the word love since I'm 18 and don't plan on using it
>haven't fapped in few months(dicky doesn't get hard)
>have no porn on my pc
>like female body only
>not gay

Lay your wisdom on me, you helpful person

btw you not helping robots
only few replied
this board is filled with normie trash, attention whores(both genders), tripfags

>>35189303
>>35195812
thats me.

Imagine

btw you not helping robots
only few replied
this board is filled with normie trash, attention whores(both genders), tripfags

repeating myself here just for you

most robots will ignore this garbage, I should have done the same.

>>35189387
>stayed up all night working on some beats, ended up rewarding myself with a youtube nostalgia trip, commented on a /b/ thread, now I feel like helping some helpless bros out since they all congregate on this board and I was one of em (I still am in important ways).

You sound like you wear a beanie and subscribe to I FUCKING LOVE SCIENCE

Pls go and stay go

>>35189889
How old are you and how many girls have you had sex with you ugly bugly?

>>35195812
>>35195845
If you haven't been admitted into a mental institution then you should have the capacity to improve your own life.

This board was never for people like you. Almost everybody who ever traversed this board have been failed normies and low self esteem teenagers with meme mental disorders like depression and anxiety. If you actually require help and aren't just attention whoring like the tripfags you claim to vilify then you should speak to a psychiatrist and get your shit sorted or admit yourself. Failing that fuck off to wizardchan. I for one am tired of hearing about this opression olympics style shitposting where people like yoruself believe that everybody should try and prove that they're as miserable as yourself to claim the meaningless title of robot.

>>35189383
This.
>just be yurself :^)

Alright bro here we go didn't see the thread. Looking for a serious response.

Here'd the deal

>Met girl through friends, partying
>Went out Saturday, kissed her , felt some titty's didnt fuck
>Just spoke to her in the car for 2 hours about a bunch of bullshit, getting to know eachother
>She literally just called me to check if I got home safe


WHAT NOW? What do I do to get actual sex and not fuck this up with r9k tier autism?

>>35189531
What do you mean by diagram? Did you actually draw and label things in whatever way, or just write down what you were thinking?

>>35195812
Man, I just... I'm at a loss for words. Life has dealt you a very bad card.

I have no fucking clue. I'm sorry. I'd say "get help" but I know nothing about Germany's healthcare system and where you would even begin with your myriad off issues. Can anybody else chime in? Maybe /adv/ can give you some solid words but I'll have a think for you, man.

I'm going out soon now but keep the thread going, i shall get back to you all ASAP

>>35189303
Bumperino oreganolio for you op. Good thread

How do I talk to girls?

I walk up and say hi, then what?

>>35199510
Tell them to give you their purse or you'll clock them in the face.

Women love a bold man!

>>35196982
I don't know how to respond to this.
This is the first time since I've written so much since I've began using the internet.
15 years and this is the most I've written.
I regret it a little, cause the first response I get is saying that I'm doing the same thing as others.
I don't know what I was thinking.
I guess I wanted attention from OP. have him shit on me or something.
And I didn't actually expect him to prove anything to me.
I know I have it fairly bad, a lot of it is my own fault. since I was a kid.
I never thought of myself as special and never thought I have it the worst. I knew people who had it worse.
7 years I've been here and I always though myself robot. I've seen a lot of genuine posts. I just can't imagine why anyone would come up with random shit to fit in. sure some do, but its mostly visible. its an anonymous board, whats the point. In all this time that I've been here I've prolly made 20 comments. I lurk wizardchan too, only found about it like few years ago I think.
Well don't worry about seeing same shit from me again. In few years I might get angry post some shit if I'm alive by then.

>>35198403

sorry for being an ass

you are still normie though

I expected you to shit on me, and not the response you gave me.
Germany's healthcare is actually very good.
Don't think of me man, its not worth it.

The cards might have been bad, but the choices I made weren't good either.

I guess you might actually help some people, you seem like a decent person.

normies and memesters and maybe some robots too.

so I guess just do what you wanna do.

>>35199510
Find any excuse to talk to them. If it's in a public place, since I'm into fashion, music, movies and literature, if I see any hint on them that they are interested in that, I get a little conversation going. "Those are nice kicks (trainers), when'd you get them?" "Oh I love that (band shirt she is wearing)", "How's the book?/I read that book it's really good", just any kind of excuse. If you start a conversation where you're doing it as an extension of your own hobbies and interests rather than hitting on them, they can pick up on that, and it leads to a much better interaction.

I'm not saying you have to ask this girl out either, just talk to random men and women along those lines as a way to practice being good at social interaction, even if it goes nowhere you'll have a little conversation and it'll make your day a little more interesting, as well as theirs. And if you think things are going well enough, feel free to ask for their facebook/phone number, if you're having a pleasant conversation they'll want to learn more about you.

>>35199972
Don't apologize, dude. It's just I really don't know how to help you out right now. Hang in there, bud.

House party time where I'm probably not gonna get laid. Oh well, will be fun. Talk in a few hours.

>>35194864
Holy shit man... I had the same thing happen to me ON JANUARY TOO. Experience really is the best teacher.

>>35194864
thanks for the advice man, I think i will start focusing more on myself instead of girls
you've helped me move on, and im very grateful for that

What do I do when I try to make a move on a girl and she tells me she has a boyfriend? How do I disengage without looking like an autist?

This is especially important since I see this girl every day.

I don't get it. Why does this bullshit sell?

Why does a 9/10 guy telling you about how he picks up girls matter if you're 3/10 at best?

>>35200525
Just do it lol, it's only "awkward" if you make it awkward. These things are timing, you can't help she has a boyfriend, she can't help being taken when she met you, the timing was off, attraction is natural. Just be like "ok cool", continue talking to her like nothing has changed, but at the same time I'd recommend avoiding her wherever you can since there is no point getting attached to someone who is taken, and she will totally understand that.

>>35189889
Is that a fucking Hitler stache?

>>35189889
Man you're an ugly motherfucker.

I think my confidence just went through the roof, thanks for that.

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>>35199972

Assuming you aren't a liar then the advice given in this thread isn't for you. It would be like learning to run before learning to walk. But you aren't looking for advice are you? Even if you were we can't help you, you have serious emotional and mental trauma. OP made it clear he wasn't a psychiartrist (or a fairy with a magical wand who could unfuck your life) so your blog post just seemed unnecessary.

>This is the first time since I've written so much since I've began using the internet.
>the first response I get is saying that I'm doing the same thing as others.
It's true though, sob stories like yours are a dime a dozen around here. I don't know what you expected either desu famalam. If you were just venting then okay then. But venting won't improve your life.

>I've seen a lot of genuine posts.

Now how do you verify that they are genuine? I lie all the fucking time on this website. Look at /b/'s motto about falsehoods.

>I just can't imagine why anyone would come up with random shit to fit in. sure some do, but its mostly visible. its an anonymous board, whats the point.
Because it's fucking funny. Sometimes.

>Well don't worry about seeing same shit from me again. In few years I might get angry post some shit if I'm alive by then.

Why you care the slightest in what some anonymous shitposter like myself or the attention seeking tripfag OP thinks enough to stop yourself posting goes beyond my understanding.

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I'm roughly a 7 (186cm, decent jaw), but still get nervous around hotter chicks, I really shouldn't at this age, in my late 20's,(I was actually much more confident as a teenager) but I am, I totally blew a great opportunity with this qt who was into me and asking questions a few days ago, I have a lot of missed opportunities, basically.

I am proactive though, I work out with dumbbells, meditate, read philosophy and have been reading game material like Heartiste, Rational Male and others, which has certainly killed some beta tendencies and helped me on an intellectual level but not really my nature. I mean I understand why I get nervous around hot chicks, it's all evolutionary, a self preservation instinct to keep from getting brained by an Alpha guarding his harem. But abstract knowledge like this doesn't help me very much in the concrete.