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I know im a normie and for some of you maybe even a chad, but let me explain myself before re'ing me out of the room
So, i'm sharing a small place with a guy for uni and i met him two days ago as i moved in.
I'm pretty sure he's one of you. Extremely shy, grabbing his arm and looking down as he talks, can hear anime playing at a low sound from his room, and i think he waits for me to leave the house to go and make himself some food.
Nonetheless, i think he is an actually nice guy and want him to have a good time (I mean so he doesn't need to tip toe around the house) the time we both have to be here.
How do I go about making he feel more at home in here? It's really easy to give good vibes to someone who gives them back, but he is really shy and awkward, even though i see friendliness in him.
Or is it better if i just leave him be? Maybe i'm just annoying him. Can any of you relate from his side? Pic not related.
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>>35158785
FUCKING NORMIE GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE k;ljgefkesl;jtfkasergvrsdgdrgh
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>>35158950
Oh well. I was muted for 2 seconds.
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leave him alone unless you wanna start a convo with him about shit he cares about
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>>35158785
THE ONLY GOOD NORMIE IS A DEAD NORMIE
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>>35158785
I would say just try and get to know him. Once you've gathered sufficient data, talk to him about some shit y'all got in common.
Try inviting him out to a party some time. Something a little more low-key, and try and stick near him. Get him to branch out a bit, have him down a couple shots or smoke some weed beforehand so he calms down.
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>How do I go about making he feel more at home in here?
It's tricky. If you ignore him he'll feel like you're hostile. If you talk too much he'll feel like you're a pain.
Acknowledge his presence when you see him with a friendly hello, good morning, whatever, but don't pursue further. You want to show you don't mind him being there without putting pressure for a social interaction. That way he can do his thing freely without feeling like he's going to bother anyone, or be bothered himself. You may also consider making a schedule for who's using the communal spaces when so he can be sure of when it's his turn and he can do his thing without disturbing anyone or being disturbed. Like if you eat lunch then go to the gym each day or something so he can make his lunch, or you eat dinner then study in your room for an hour and that's his turn to make dinner, that kind of thing.
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