Literally at work today I was hit on by at least 5 girls who zi was servinf simply because I was nice and respectful and smiled a lot.
I think the problem is most of you dont hide your pain, insecurities, anger and annoyances with a smile.
I havent actually frowned or showed my actual feelings in years and I have years of regret a horrible household and so many things I can rage about but I just dont talk about these things and instead smile.
What do you guys think ahout this type of lifestyle?
>>35136805
I agree. Why can't these guys just think about happy things until their mood starts to change? Watch some kitten videos or something ffs
>>35136805
How old are you and where do you work
>>35136805
Putting on a smile can definitely make basic interactions with people easier, but getting hit on is a whole other level. More importantly it doesn't grant the social ability to proceed past cursory interaction into friendship
I still like to greet everyone with a warm smile, but I think you're overvaluing it
>>35136861
Im 21 and I work part-time at Krispy Kreme in NYC while I go to college.
>>35136882
I think the two are very connected. Majority of people really welcome you more when you smile and im not the most handsome flower in the garden, I just smile do my job and try to be as respectful and even small talk if the line isnt too long and that hits the spot with women. I do the same with guys too and it is so simple for basic interaction and gaining friends. I have so many grevances with life and im a very very depressed and angry person but I know this isnt what society wants so I do what is best. I devalue my emotions and how I feel to do what is needed and my life picks up a lot better but I still have those problems naturally yet theyre ignored. Smiling helps me cope with life.
>>35136805
I work graveyard in a places women fear to tread so I don't have to do watch how I act.
Much prefer this to exposure desu because I fucking hate normals.
>>35136949
How are they connected, then? Smile or no, I can't talk to people worth a damn. Like I said, the problem is less the welcoming opening and more going anywhere from there