i normally cook and clean the kitchen but for the last three

Why don't you just take the first step to clean your dishes and avoid a huge dumbass conflict you fucking retard. Whether or not he "Should have done it!", you still have the chance to just clean your dishes covered with rotting food and not be fucking disgusting pigs.

Jesus christ, uncleanly people piss me off.

>>35112085
why are men such assholes

my grandma is sick loser why doesn't he do them instead

sick bait.

very originl

Grilled cheese + feta + spinach.
Also, maybe you should ask him to do the dishes? Instead of just leaving them there to rot?

>>35112677
spinach is gross but i love cheeses
he should do them without me having to ask him if he respected me the fact he doesn't care just makes me angrier hes such an asshole

>>35112763
Sounds like a lack of communication. If he never does the dishes, why should he think that things are different all of a sudden? You could have told him "Hey i'm going through shit, would you mind helping me out by doing the dishes? I'd mean a lot to me." He would have felt like a good guy, and you get slack.

This is a common relationship problem that I've observed between my family members and their partners.

I think the solution is to ask your boyfriend to do the dishes together. If he refuses, you need to deliver an ultimatum e.g. break up or move out.
If he doesn't believe you or you don't believe it yourself you need to communicate that you can't live in conditions like this.

Communication is the solution. Keeping it internal/subconscious and expecting him and you to read each others minds is the worst outcome.

>>35112624
so your grandma is suffering
and thay means you get to be lazy?
why do you insist on benefitting from another persons suffering like some rectal parasite?

>>35112763
Then leave him. Problem solved. If my partner would pull this kind of sick mind game shit on me it would be the end of the relationship. This is 1st step towards abusive. Not kidding.

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>Roastie is toasty over her normie problems

The sensible solution is to fuck off and kys.

>>35112901
>passive aggressiveness is the first step towards abuse
>encouraging someone to do a fucking chore is a mind game
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha

>>35112998
Ok let me give a quick rundown:
>takes it for granted that partner cooks and does the dishes (lol)
>feels entitled to partner doing the dishes for him
>once this "contract" is broken tries to expand boundaries by putting dishes on the floor
>turning mundane task of "doing dishes" into a game of dominance and submission
>if he wins this one he will constantly try to push boundaries and force partner into submission throughout relationship
>this will eventually escalate in emotional (and if he's the type physical) violence
By all means do what you like but don't say you haven't been warned!