How do people know they are transgender? Are you supposed to

>>35100143
they jerk off to sissy porn until it takes over their lives

pro tip: no tranny can define a non-fetish reason for their transition. "i-i felt like a girl because i liked dresses and barbies!" is a pathetic adherence to gender roles

>>35100143
Look down at your peepee. Does it's existence make you feel disgusted? If so, go to a therapist and see if you are not just memeing yourself.

>>35100303
This right here tbqoriginalwy

>>35100363
That's called a mental illness

Think about it why the hell would your biology care if you have a penis or not when you've always had it? Color blind people don't know there's anything wrong with them unless they find it out. They don't feel like they're missing anything. There's no part of your brain that scans through a list of body parts like "have I got this yep check, have I got this nope check" etc

And even if there was some "I shouldn't have a penis" part of your brain why would doctors let this person chop their own dick off but not let a person chop their arm off if his brain is telling him it doesn't belong?

Also how do we separate the fetishfags from the "real" transgenders? Should we treat them all the same? But then why don't we let the people who want to be animals and helicopters be surgically altered too?

>>35100143

Do u wanna be a gril? Ur trans now haha.

I don't know why but when I finger myself anally, bent over reaching back like I'm presenting myself to a man, I end up orgasming 15 times. I also feel really good kneeling before a man servicing him. On a non-sexual note, I like being held and protected by a stronger man.

Sure it's a sexualized reason to like feeling like a girl, but if I can't feel sexual satisfaction from being with a girl, and I act like a girl in bed, how is that not a sign that my brain and my body dont connect?

>>35100143
>How do people know they are trannies
because they become trannies, what kind of inane question is this?

>>35100363
What if you have sex repulsion? All pee pees are gross tbqh.
>>35101272
No, I don't really "feel" like anything. I forget I'm a girl and I don't like being treated like a girl but I don't know if I want to be a boy. Are cis people supposed to want to be their birth sex?

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I thought I was trans for the last 8 years of my life, but it was just a manifestation of my severe depression. My psychiatrist explained it to me that sometimes when people have a stressful or otherwise overwhelming mental illness like chronic depression or autism they might become fixated on their gender subconsciously and end up thinking they are trans when they are not.

Once my depression was away and over I stopped feeling tranny feelings completely.

It's a form of mental illness and I honestly believe only a small percentage of the already small percentage of trannies have a real born-with condition that makes them trans.

Most trannies I know were either abused in their childhood in one way or another or have some sort of other personality disorder like manic or bipolar.

>>35101501
You're not supposed to want to be your birth sex, you're supposed to not even think about it at all. It's supposed to be a natural, integral part of you that you don't ever even question, but please take my post >>35101705 seriously, and consider that if you feel trans it might not be because you have gender dysphoria, and that since you probably started feeling this way or realizing it relatively recently it is most likely you're not a "true" tranny, so instead of overthinking it, try to think about it less.

>>35101705
See, I actually think that's my issue. I had some really tough shit happen and I'm suicidal, and I think never carong about gender and feeling like I have to is pushing me to question.

>>35101705
This. It's autistic depression

>>35101757
Yes so please hear me out, consider that transitoning will not solve ANY issues you currently have and will in fact cause more issues for you than you already have.

The less you think about it, the less prevalent in your daily life tranny stuff will be.
In fact I'd go as far as to say that if you started questioning your sex/gender recently you are NOT trans under any circumstances, just distraught and affected by your life circumstances and that the fastest you get tranny thoughts out of the way the better your life is going to be.

Take it from someone who almost made the mistake of going trans.
If you can visit a psychiatrist and explain to them your current situation and that you started questioning your gender recently.
Though maybe you're unlucky and you get one of those tranny-enabling pyschs that will make things worse for you.
Just try to think it through with a cold mind,

Are you trans?

I think you know the answer if you even doubt it.

>>35101852
I just have questioned it for years now. It's not a problem untill someone asks me how I identify or what my pronouns are, and I just don't want to think about it so I get confused and don't know what to say. I don't want the choice.

>>35102018
Ok now is the time to stop being autistic ok?
You were born female, so when someone asks you what your pronouns are you say "she" and tell them to stop being a retard. When someone asks you what you identify as you say "woman obviously" and tell them to stop being an idiot.

If you do this you'll eventually just get comfortable with the notion of being female.

If you don't want the choice its so easy, because you're female, you were born female. So where is the hard choice in? You're female and that's it. No need to overthink it.

The more you think about tranny stuff the worse it gets, until it consumes you and you end up believing your own bullshit that you are trans. You're not, stop being an idiot. Your problems lie in abuse, suicidal thoughts and depression. Transgenderism is just a side effect, a manifestation, a coping mechanism your brain is using to try and divert attention from your actual issues. But make no mistake, it just makes your life worse.

>>35101501
>>35101757
>>35102018
>I don't like being treated like a girl
Do you mean getting patronised and pitied too much? Getting into the tranny meme is just stupid so don't do it, you could easily be a tomboy and be just fine, otherwise just deal with it, women find that getting treated as such can be annoying and men find that getting treated like men can be annoying, it's just life.

Do people seriously ask you how you identify? Americans I swear to god, anyway the fact that you don't even want the choice which by the way doesn't actually even exist shows that you are not a transgender. There is no choice, you are a woman and nothing will change that, there is NOT any grey it's just men and women and you are a women, now stop being dumb.

>>35101705
>identity disorder
>congenital
No.

>>35102085
>The more you think about tranny stuff the worse it gets, until it consumes you and you end up believing your own bullshit that you are trans. You're not, stop being an idiot. Your problems lie in abuse, suicidal thoughts and depression. Transgenderism is just a side effect, a manifestation, a coping mechanism your brain is using to try and divert attention from your actual issues. But make no mistake, it just makes your life worse.
Thank you anon, I really needed to here this.

>>35102176
Yeah I guess I hate when I have guy friends and they treat me "like a girl". It's really separating and just kinda feels bad. I look feminine but don't necessarily identify with feminine things. I'm just me.

>>35102179
Yes, and I am speaking from experience.
Just get it out of your mind, instead of focusing on trans stuff, focus on why you're depressed and how you can fix that. Guaranteed to at least make you a bit less miserable.

>>35102353
Thank you, I appreciate anon.

>>35102240
See I realised that having a nice strong rational sense of identity is really good for you, if it gets shaken around too much it can really fuck with a person.

Try to accept who you are and the way you act, sure there are elements of your personality to improve but there are major things like the gender you consider yourself to be which should just not be fucked with.

This guy gets it >>35102353
Try to get more sun and keep a positive attitude.

If you are uncertain, you're not transsexual.

>>35101501
>Are cis people supposed to want to be their birth sex?
I've almost never thought about my chromosomes. Usually I get a lot of "Be a man" but that obviously means that I need to become more decisive, not that I need to increase my dick length.

Absolutely no one in this world needs to think about their gender/sex, except intersex people which are a minority.

If you take hormones and are actively working towards being seen as a woman than you are a tranny. There is no being "born trans gender". It's not some secret discovery that you just need to take HRT to finally be sure about. It's a choice that you are allowed to make. Nothing more nothing less.

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>tfw you'd make a better passing tranny than 90% of trannies out there on hormones and know theyre jealous of you because they try to project their bullshit onto by telling you to transition

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>>35100813
Too much logic for this shitty thread hence 0 replies. Remember to sage, boys.

>>35100303
>"i-i felt like a girl because i liked dresses and barbies!"
Isn't it more the other way around? Stop being transphobic

Imagine if you woke up as a girl one day and didn't notice it until you got to the mirror or looked down at yourself and went, "This isn't my body! Who the fuck is this?"

That was how I felt every day from puberty until HRT kicked in.

>>35100143
Being a tranny isn't an innate characteristic, it's a choice you make. Having feelings of gender dysphoria is a mental illness, there is no such thing as somehow being the other sex in your brain separate from your body.

>>35103437
>>35103175
neurological research seems to point at gender being something hardwired in the brain during fetal development.

>>35103428
You're just mentally ill, probably from abuse.
It's really amazing though how delusional trannies are, they're probably the most delusional people on the planet.

>>35103497
Neurological research suggests transexuals can have abnormal brains, all that really does is suggest their mental problems are born out of physical development problems. It takes a certain level of begging the question to turn this into as supporting 'gender' theory, which is not even scientific.

>>35103683
>e born out of physical development problems
then your choice argument falls apart then.

>>35100143
>Are you supposed to feel attached to your birthsex?
Most people aren't attached enough to themselves or their identity to actually care about what gender they are. They go with the flow and they go with what they are told they are and should be, usually.

>>35103525
I'm happy with my life choices, haters gonna hate

>>35103766
Because what they are told they should be is what they should be you delusional tranny.

>>35101404
maybe you are just gay you moron

>>35103497
And how do they know what's hardwired and causing people to think they're a certain gender? If it is true it would also conflict with the idea that the gender is part of ones identity which is environmental.

The problem with flat earth theory is you have to provide a model of the universe which describes reality better than our current one which they can't do which is why it wrong, you have a similar problem, in order for the gender someone thinks they are to be determined in the womb you'd have to have a logical explanation for why it would be that rather than identity.

It's like when I look in the mirror and instead of seeing the real me(the 10/10 Chad I know I am) I see an ugly weak piece of repulsive garbage.

I know what it's like to be depressed knowing you're not who you REALLY are.

Anyone know this feel?

I remember asking my parents why I wasn't a girl when I was four years old. At first it was just something I thought about occasionally but by the time I was 11 I was literally obsessing about it night and day and wishing I was dead because I wasn't a girl, and the agony only simmered down once I started taking hormones.

The feeling was literally always there.

>>35104010
>And how do they know what's hardwired
well for one MRI scans of male and female brains are different , that's an established fact
the behavior or male and female newborns (where there no way they could have been environmentally influenced )are observed to be consistently different

>>35104082
What age did you start HRT? Were your parents supportive?

>>35104057
then you should try your best to become Chad
> like I try my best to become gril

>>35104117
Is the brain type of the opposite sex always existent in those who consider themselves to be transgender?

>>35104152
17 the first time I tried to transition, then again at 19 on and off for years. I didn't start taking them fulltime until I was 24

>Were your parents supportive?
No, was kicked out and homeless at 15

>>35104654
Oh shit where did you go? I hope other family or friends let you stay. Do you talk to your parents at all now?

>>35104010
>If it is true it would also conflict with the idea that the gender is part of ones identity which is environmental.
Gender is complete not tied to environment at all.

David reimer was a boy who's penis was destroyed in a botched circumcision. Because people believed at the time that gender was environmental, his parents raised him to believe he was a girl. With no outside influence, he constantly told his parents that he felt like he was a boy and that he was miserable, they later told him the truth and he immediately began living as a guy. He commited suicide at 19.

Gender is completely biological, your body is hardwired as male or female, and you brain is hardwired to identify as male or female. Transgender happens when the body and brain have a mismatch. Trannies that regret transition were never actually trans to begin with, only confused.

>>35104702
Wait no, I decided to relook it up and he didn't die at 19, i think i was thinking of someone else. Everything else is true though, and he did eventually commit suicide

>>35104702
You've misinterpreted what I said, gender is biological yes, but what you think your gender is a matter of a persons identity, my point is that in order for the idea that you can be born a transgender or "a man with a woman's brain" as they like to phrase it you have to deny that what a person believes their gender to be being a matter of identity.

The way I'm having to phrase it is pissing me off because there's no word I know for the concept of what one believes their gender to be.

>>35104984
>there's no word I know for the concept of what one believes their gender to be.
That's called gender identity dingus