What does having someone say "I love you" to you feel like?

>>35086381
Great
if they mean it

>>35086381
Probably one of the best things you'll ever hear in your life and one of the most deafening, soul crushing, memories to let go of when it's gone.

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>>35086381
feels great

vordhosbn

>>35086381
like a big fucking lie

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>>35086410
>>35086419
>>35086432
Sounds pleasant. Hope I can one day have someone say it to me, but that probably won't happen.

Overused. From someone who says I love you to the guy who just let her merges without running her off the road? Pretty worthless. But from someone who is more serious about the word it feels nice.

How the fuck should I know? Fuck you.

>>35086508
Now that's something I used to hearing

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>>35086455
maybe it'll happen if you keep trying

who knows

not me

>>35086603
I want Frank to whisper "I love you" in my ear with a mouthful of chicharones

>>35086381
feels gay, kind of boring and annoying.
love is made up and it's gay and weird when someone wants to play the gay pretend love game with you.

>>35086637
I could be down for that

vordhosbn

you get a fuzzy feeling in your chest, it's cool

Empathy is the poor man's cocaine
And love is just a chemical by any other name.

>>35086381
I'm 5'6" and my 5'9" gf says it to me after she sucks my 5" dick

>>35086844
Bro you're so fuckin deep are you a professional quote maker?

>>35086381

It's nice.

Then it's routine.

You hardly notice it, eventually. Just words.

>>35086895
Google the lyrics, listen to the song and you'll find someone that was.

>>35086432
aphex twin is the fucking shit

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>>35086975
second person on /r9k/ who's noticed that so far

I want people to recognize my posts from that
I'm getting there

>>35086960
i did but i should have told you before i don't like gay music by gay queer fags. you wouldn't have recommended i do that if you'd known.

>>35086381

Stressful.

I cant handle the stress of maintain a relationship. Even when the girl asked me out the mindset of being in a relationship is poison to me.

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>>35086381
I depends. It used to make my heart race and from certain people it could make me smile and glow for days.

But when my borderline personality disorder developed it changes into something that I need for assurance and I feel tremendously guilty for it.

>>35087414
So what do you like, specifically?

>>35087481
just queen and liberace. village people if i feel like getting down on some hot penis tonight. (which is every night lol!) but yeah none of your fag music, being gay is a sin.

suspicion and doubt.

>>35087477
have u tried not being a roastie

https://youtu.be/xtEmJeojY0I

>>35087592
im a dude, although i think it is more common in women

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>>35086381
I had it happen to me for the first time ever this year.

Made it so pretty much all I want to do is be with her. It's my first time with a gf and not casual fucks since high school (4 years) and I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life

Really is amazing anon. Gotta feel it for yourself

>>35086381
It's nice, but then something bad happens and you'll never believe it when you hear it again

cloying and claustrophobic. anyone who loves you really just wants something from you, even if it's just affection and time. ugh.

I had my oneitis' say "she had never liked anyone as much as me and never felt greater around anyone" and kiss me (holyfug.jpg, dating my oneitis'wtf).
Eastward a few days, haven't seen her since last time. Anyways she has some type of manic breakdown and literally went into a different personality or something and began toinflict self harm.
Fuggg.jpg, me and her friend get her under control .
Anyways after that she distanced herself--presumably out of embarrassment.
Apparently she wasn't supposed to drink on whatever medicine she was taking.
Needless to say, was rather traumatic for me.

>>35086381
Comforting, warm feeling inside. It's like a little assurance that we will last for as long as we live. We've been married 7 years. It's nice. We love each other, as imperfect as we are.

There. It's special anon, especially when you've got somebody reliable, loyal and caring by your side.

>>35086381
It only feels good if they mean it and the moment is right. Otherwise it's just a lie and they're giving a bad rep to something meaningful.

>>35087812
Stop fucking typing like that you turbofaggot

can someone tell me who the girl in op is, I heard her mentioned as being a streamer of sorts.

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Nobody has ever said "I love you" to me. And I do mean absolutely nobody. Not family, not my parents, nobody.

>>35086381
It feels like it's bullshit and you have to delude yourself into believing it. Because it is bullshit and you do have to delude yourself into believing it

>>35088036
Why? Does your family just not use the term?

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>>35088109
I've heard them say it to each other and to other people but never to me. They also told me that they wanted to abort me but couldn't find a doctor to do it. I don't know why they kept me and didn't just put me up for adoption. They never let me to anything as a kid. I always had to stay inside. I wasn't allowed to have friends either. My father also used to beat me and both parents would always verbally "put me down." I haven't talked to them for six years at this point. I don't even remember where they live or know their phone numbers. My grandmother called me last Christmas and asked me to come to Christmas. I told her I was busy and wouldn't be coming. That Christmas, I sat at home and drank myself to sleep.

>>35088109
nah, i kept touching their gens and they got mad

>>35086877
yea okay

fuckin original

it was wierd at first then it just became a platitude

>>35088176
I'm sorry anon, you don't /didn't deserve that shittiness

>>35086381
Hollow. So hollow. At this point my father texts me "I love you" every night and if I don't respond "Love you too," he calls a few minutes later. It's all just a routine at this point. I hate him. I fucking hate him so much, but I have to put up this shitty facade because I know that he'll probably kill himself if I cut him off. Even he probably realizes it's all fake, but keeps going on pretending nothing is wrong between me and him because he's finally getting some comeuppance after all his years spent being a terrible person and having his "good boy" abandoning him would push him over the edge.

I used to hold the phrase close, reserved for a special time and someone, but now I resent it.

>>35086381
I don't know, it's not like any girl has ever said it.

But some have said similar things, probably not really being 100% serious with them but still it felt great.

>>35089594
What difference does him living make and what would him dying change? If you hate him and he bothers you so much why not just allow things to run their course?

Family ties only mean so much.

>>35087477
>it could make me smile and glow for days
I remember feeling this when one girl at work, that I had a crush on, would actually start hanging around me and talking to me all the time. She didn't straight up say it but I knew she was into me at the time and it felt amazing. I was really happy and finally felt a light in my soul. It ended pretty quick and badly though.

>>35086381
It was nice for a while, but now it's not as special. Part of it may be that I'm not sure if I can ever believe it.

It felt like I wasted my twenty bucks.

>>35086381

Feels a bit meh desu. Them saying 'I do' is the real deal.

>>35089863
>Part of it may be that I'm not sure if I can ever believe it.
Oh god are you me, anon?

When I managed to get a gf I actually wasn't all that happy because then all I was thinking about was "how soon and in what way will it end" and "when will Chad snatch her from me".

>>35086381
Feels phenomenal until you realize you will always love more than you will recieve. Good luck anon.

>>35086381
Sometimes it's easy. Sometimes it's hard. Sometimes it barely registers.

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>>35089883
Oh really? That's nice Anon. Glad I have something to look forward to. Btw The JUST statistic in the U.S. is at 52% and it is often much much higher elsewhere in the western world. Hmmm real deal

>>35089944
Not really. I've seen girls so obsessed with their bfs it's unbelievable. Most girls are like that really, unless I'm the bf.

>>35089914
So much this. I felt happy but I can't help but feel paranoid about the future because this type of shit just doesn't happen to people like me. Did Chad end up taking her, anon?

>>35090123
Yes, he did. It actually happened 3 times.

>>35086381
Awkward and like you have to say something back but can't quite bring yourself to lie to them.
It feels like an unanswered expectation that you can never really meet.

If it's from a girl that you love also and it's the first time she's saying it to you and she means it in the highest possible way I think it would probably be the most amazing feeling ever like I think my knees would give out or I would just fall on the ground and feel like I was lying in a field of daisies on a perfect day

>>35090178
H-hello? Me? How is this happening?

>>35090171
What the fuck. You should have left her after the first time man.

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>>35090178
This anon gets it.

That's why I never let it get that far.

>>35086381
Depends on how you feel about the person saying it to you, and in what context they are saying it in.

I don't give a shit when my sister says, "Love ya!" for example.

Last gf said it way too early and I felt kind of uncomfortable like I had to say it back, but I wasn't ready to.

It's the sort of thing that gives your life any meaning. In fact, it's all that really can give you any meaning and peace in this world. No matter what you do or how hard you work or what you accomplish, you are an organized wet mass of carbon compounds that will decay and disappear sooner than you realize. But for just one moment, everything is okay. For just a moment you have peace and beauty in an otherwise meaningless and fleeting existence. For just a moment it's all worth it.

>>35090515
thanks for describing it perfectly anon. without love life is meaningless

>>35086419
Yes

I was just dumped. I wanna sleep but I can't

>>35090753
Don't worry anon, it can be much, much worse.

>>35090753
You'll get through it. A year from now you won't even think about them.

>>35089653
I know the feel dude. Glad you can relate to the particular feeling.

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>>35086381

I just realized that everytime I heard this from a girlfriend... they did it in some weird voice.

They were role-playing.

It's all a big fucking LARP.

Fuck everything.

>>35086381
who is this grill that is now my waifu

it's a good feeling. if they meant it. when that's not the case, it just makes you feel empty.

>>35086478
>From someone who says I love you to the guy who just let her merges without running her off the road?

I never let women merge.
I go out of my way to inconvenience female drivers as much as possible.

Stupid cunts.

>>35086381
Feels like shit because I never love them back. Too much responsibility, you have to plan everything for 2 people, you have to fake like you care for her etc

>>35086381
nothing, I know they would be lying

It physically hurts inside my chest when I think about how I'll never hear that.

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Today I turned 29!

When I go to work a girl will finally decide to talk to me! She'll tell me happy birthday!

>>35086381
It gets pretty annoying after the first two or three times.

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>>35086381
Horrible because I can't say it back.

>>35091613
Happy birthday, she surely will wish you a happy birthday with a kiss in the cheek

>>35092428
Thanks! I don't care who it is but I hope it's this one /fit/ milf that comes in every so often!

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>>35086381
It is easier to get a woman's love if you don't base your entire self-worth on getting a woman's love

>>35087776
This guy knows what's up. You guys realise that "love" doesn't actually exist.

>>35092642
Does feces exist?

>>35086381
you feel suspicious

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>>35086381
Annoying and awkward

My female childhood friend who forced me into sex when I was 8 years old says that to me whenever we chat. It will literally be the starter of our conversations "I LOVE YOU"

She could be a yandere obsessed with me but she has never been clear about it and I play dumb.

>mfw I don't know how to respond and just laugh or say y-you too

>>35086381
Go back to /mena/ tunis

>I love you anon
>sounds fake but ok

>>35086381
My friends used to say it all the time back in high school. Doesn't matter though, still a KV

>>35086381
You're like a mosquito wondering what it's like to walk on the surface of the moon.

No one is ever going to love you, you're never going to be in a happy relationship, lol, you're never going to be in ANY relationship. you're definitely going to die alone.

and that makes me so fucking happy.

>>35086453
This is the only correct response in the fucking thread, no matter how much they try to sound sincere about it. It always sounds like a lie because it is a lie; nothing in life is meant forever except of course, death and taxes.

Whats the fucking point of saying 'i love you' for 3 fucking years for it to mean absolutely nothing one day? Why choose the fucking words if you dont mean them.

>>35087812
>eastward a few days

W-what did he mean by this

Why i still here?

>>35087053
I noticed it both times but didn't say anything because it's corny bait to get (you)s and to make you feel cooler than you are. Writing a song name at the end of your post is some 12 year old shit. You aren't cool for liking aphex twin, how about just writing an original fucking post?

Yellow Magic Orchestra - Mass

>>35086381
It feels pretty amazing. Its always easy to say it to someone else that you love, but hearing it back is a strange confirmation that you are worth something to someone. That someone cares about you and wants to be around you, it gives you purpose.

Then >>35086419 happens and you spend years wondering what the hell happened to make them stop loving you.

>>35086381
feels like the opposite of "I never loved you"

Warm, kinda like a long hug from someone who loves you