I gotta get this outta my system somehow. I'm so alone fellow

have you actually tried putting yourself out there and looking for a girl that you can connect with emotionally?

Good luck with originality

I was going to write a long post pouring out my life but instead ill post this:

You can make it. Do the self improvement shit, don't worry about sex. You can find a girl to cuddle. You can get affection and feel true love. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up.

I am there and its terrifying. You can make it.

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>>35066832
It's okay, Anon. We understand you.

>>35066903
Where do you think we are?

>>35066966
No one was asking you though. Maybe he can use some tips. Some robots try, others don't, you never kno.

>>35066993
>No one was asking you though
Rude. But that's fair.

I just really wanted to post that picture for not real reason, desu.

>>35066832
It's not nearly all it's cracked up to be. I have a girl who seems to love me, and tries to express it often. I can have sex with her whenever I want without any hassle or extra steps or anything. It hasn't changed the fact that I hate my life, dislike every new day that comes, am always bored regardless of what I'm doing, have turned to drugs in order to at least not kill myself, have almost no sex drive because I don't get anything out of it, and don't even know if I feel 'love' back to her, or even if I can. If your life sucks now, it'll continue to suck after you have sex, find a girl, or do anything you think might make you happy because you'll realize that they're all empty, pointless wastes of time, as is living through each new day.

>>35067016
Okay, I'll forgive you just cause of the picture.

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>>35066832
You don't need women, live your life alone, you'll be better off for it

>>35066832
>Allowing roasties to think they can have a relationship and not put out.

People like you OP ruin it for men.

I have to accept the fact I won't be in anybody's lives, I'll just be that background character that doesn't matter to others. There was a point in my life where I longed for companionship, or at least a friend, but now I don't even want to try. Maybe its because people perceive me as an emotionless bastard, maybe it's because I can't create that oh-so-needed bond, maybe it's because I was never meant to truly connect with another, I'll probably never know. At this point I'm not sure if I even hate being a schizoid, but I know I'm missing something.

>>35066903
Pretty close to impossible to find a girl compatible with me, specially outside of the house

>>35066832
If you are not fat,ugly,social anxiety,asian,indian,living in your mom basement you should be fine.

>>35067495
I feel you man. I guess the only possible route from now on is to live in comfort with yourself or get a 2d

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>>35067514
>tfw you see nothing wrong with asians or indians

>>35067253
>>35067293

I get the impression most of r9k is American. Don't blame women, if they're as bad as you say for you then blame it on American culture. Australian girls are friendly, nice and loyal for the most part. The American slutty hookup culture is only now just starting to bleed through I think.

>>35066832
I still hate my life and am depressed even though I have a loving and loyal gf. You have to learn to be happy with yourself, getting a girl won't help you if you hate yourself

>>35069086
This is the thing though, I don't hate myself. Sure, I hate certain aspects of myself, the way I look, the fact that I'm bordering normie-tier but can never quite make it, but for the most part I'm okay with who I am. I just want direction in my life. The way things are going at the moment I think it's likely I'll end up offing myself before I hit my 30s. I don't hate me as a person, I hate where I'm going and I think finding a partner would give me a reason to keep going, another reason to work hard,

>>35069407
I think even when you find a girl after some time you will be back at the same place. if you need someone else to give your life meaning, that's the wrong way of looking at things. Idk man I've been thinking a lot lately that life has no meaning and all that stuff so it maybe just me

>>35067706
>The American slutty hookup culture is only now just starting to bleed through I think.
This so much. I'm an American girl, dude rape culture is real.

Shallow guys who want nothing more than to fuck will go to any lengths to get it, including lying. It's rape culture for real.

>>Allowing roasties to think they can have a relationship and not put out.

Guys like this all over the place are ruining it for the actual nice guys who have personalities and crave real connections.

All I can really say is for God's fucking sake if you are a male in america and you consider yourself deeper and better than that PLEASE PLEASE advertise yourself and put yourself out there.

Actually good women are looking for you too.

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>tfw you meet a super cute girl and fall in love and hang out every weekend for a month so far

I'm not sure what happened but after last weekend I just got this strange feeling that she's not interested in me any more. I don't really have a reason to believe this as nothing has changed in her behavior towards me. All these negative thoughts are just swimming through my head. I don't know what to do. Maybe I'm just over thinking this. How do I know for real if she loves me? This is the longest I've ever been in a relationship. I can't stop thinking about whether she still likes me or not. How would I bring this up with her without sounding like a weirdo?

>>35069958
Also if it matters: I was the first one to put my d in her v.

>>35069987
If you got this far I'm pretty sure she won't think you're a weirdo for asking her your question.

Despite this I'm not sure if it's a good idea to ask that. People in general get offended if you question their faith in you. It's a serious friendship/relationship ending question.

Unless she starts showing genuine signs that she doesn't like you anymore then you should probably stay in the mindset that she loves you. Try not to let your doubts affect the way you act around her, don't be your own undoing.

Congratulations on the gf anon

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>>35070099
Thanks, guy. I started tearing up when I read your reply for some reason. I guess the main reason for thinking that way was because she can't hang out this weekend due to a lot of school work and she's going to a play that her friend is in. And I really want to ask her to do stuff with me but I don't want to see her say no.

>Despite this I'm not sure if it's a good idea to ask that. People in general get offended if you question their faith in you. It's a serious friendship/relationship ending question.

This was my exact reasoning for why I hadn't asked her. I just wanted to make sure if it was or wasn't a good idea.

I'm going to be seeing her next Friday before she goes with her family for spring break. Is there anything I should say or ask about in person just to calm my nerves? And another problem I have is it's hard for me to keep a text conversation going for a week. Do I just ask her how her day was every day?

>>35069863
lol fuck off

oreganio

>>35066832
I know this feel OP
Finally worked up enough courage to try and talk to a girl who seemed really nice at work and got completely fucking blanked.
I don't know man. I don't think wanting it as bad as you do will get you any closer to having it, because I feel the exact same thing but nothing changes

>>35070099
What would genuine signs be?

>>35070844
Not that I have much experience but I imagine shit like speaking with a monotone voice, one word responses in person (if they give you one word responses when you're texting them I think this is acceptable).

I guess this only applies if they're not shy too.

You're probably better off asking a femanon or whoever for this.

>>35066960
>Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up. Don't give up.

I heard this in Mikasa's voice, in Japanese. Except she's saying "Gambare" or something.

Wish I knew a girl irl

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>>35067706
>Australian girls are friendly, nice and loyal for the most part.

lol wtf are you retarded? i live in australia and this is very far from the fucking truth.

you're either a retard, a cuck, or you're underage.

holy fuck this is by far one of the stupidest pieces of shit posts i have ever seen on here, and i've been here a very, very long fucking time.

australian girls are fucking shit tier, probably only second to american girls and maybe a few western euro country girls.

you are a fucking retard.

fuck me your post makes me angry at how much of a fucking lie it is.

god damn mother fucking retard.

kill yourself.

fuck.

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>>35066832

We are born to suffer; genetic waste in the pool.

Chances are you will feel like this for the rest of your existence as will I and many others here.

As for your comments on sex I wholeheartedly agree - The obsession with sex completely confuses me. I just want to love and be loved.

>>35071333
Triggered trips. Sittle down m8

>>35071333
Oh shit yeah girls from Victoria and some parts of NSW are pretty trash tier but the rest are pretty nice I find. Even girls in Brisbane are pretty cool. For the most part at least. Not sure if you've ever lived around there for an extended period of time but they're all pretty nice-ish unless they're ultra staceys but I suppose that's a given no matter where they come from.

>>35067706

>Australian girls are friendly nice and loyal.

You are clearly suffering from mental retardation. Please go to your doctor and ask for an evaluation referral from a specialist.

I hope they give you the help you need to get well. god speed anon.

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>tfw can't stop thinking about her...

>>35070099
Acting like this is how people end up getting cucked.

>>35069958
Ask how things are going and why there's a change in behavior. Women lie a lot, so if she avoids the questions or you have a gut feeling that she's lying to you, she probably is.

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>>35071649

I know this feel.

Seems like my days are taken up by it now - I just want it to stop.

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>>35071881
I don't want to go back to tinder!

>>35071747
Well there was no change in behavior. When I stayed the night at her place Friday she was all over me and she actually initiated the "touchy feely" phase while we were laying in her bed. But I don't know what happened when I left the next day I just felt like this. I believe it's all in my head but I just don't know.

Maybe it's just my autismo

>>35066832
Oh my God, Anon, I feel you so much. I also want that, even though most people think I'm comfortable being alone, there are times when I'm not. After many years, I managed to make some friends in the last few months,this really cheered me up becausae I swear I was about to kill myself, we don't hang out a lot but we're always in a group chat. I also had those dreams, I'm never happy but I am in those dreams, I feel her so much and I can feel us holding hands, sometimes it feels too damn real... One time, I woke up and still thought it was all real, I grabbed my phone while thinking "I'm going to send her a message telling I dreamt about us, she's going to love it", but then I realised she doesn't exist, it was all just another dream, it fucking crushed me. I've met some girls in the past months but they're not my type and I'm not their type. I guess we just gotta keep dreaming...

im in love with my friend's sister. the last few times we've been together we've been holding hands and i think we get flirty but i don't really know because im a social autist. a bunch of her family thinks we're in love but she brushes it off. i feel like ill have to kiss her or something the next time i see her or it will be too late and ill be put in the friend category. i know this isn't really the place to ask but how the fuck do i ramp it up and get sexual with her?

>>35073196
When you're alone and holding hands just make eye contact and slowly inch towards her lips for a kiss. If you can't spot any other body language you're just gonna have to guess.