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How do you stop the isolation from driving you crazy? I work

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How do you stop the isolation from driving you crazy?

I work as a programmer from home, zero friends, virtually no human contact outside of work. The first 2 years were okay but now my brain seems to be melting.
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>>35059691
You're lucky anon, I wish I had your job & knowledge.
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>>35059691

Why did you choose that career, anon? Surely you knew the life it would lead to....
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I wish I had that job. I can't into programming.
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>>35060874
>Why did you choose that career, anon?
I don't think I ever had a choice.
Autism and a moderate mathematical talent sealed the fate early on.
I'm not a very good programmer to be honest, but it pays bills
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>>35060842
Thank you. I sometimes fail to appreciate that bit of luck.
The isolation makes everything seem insignificant sometimes. In fact there have been studies confirming just that.
Isolation flattens all emotions
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>>35059691
i usually find events that i know people are going to be at and forcibly talk to them, even if it turns out spaghetti.
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>>35059691
Presumably you have money, just go and spend it on stuff that gets you around people. Try:

>group therapy
>yoga class
>aerobics class
>language class

And try to make an effort to talk to people there.

Otherwise you could watch YouTube videos and shit to make yourself feel less lonely.
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Thankfully I still have friends I've met on the internet so that's all the "socialization" I need
NEET life is driving me crazy but I'm hanging on
I wish I could work as a programmer from home
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>>35060990

I see what you mean. I chose to be a CPA for similar reasons, but I'm pretty high-functioning and it provides me with some social interaction (sad as it may be)
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I live with my parents, I don't talk to anyone else. Still feel really lonely tho.
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>>35059691

same with me except now i use my money and unlimited time to travel and work using my laptop
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>>35059691
What language do you use and what do you primarily make for your clients? I really wanna learn to code so I can work from home but I'm not sure what the best language for it is.
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>>35059691
>I work as a programmer from home
Are you self taught? How do you do this? Sorry to ignore your question:

My advice is to make some friends online if you're afraid of social stuff irl, otherwise you could go to a local programming school and volunteer to teach or refresh on some classes and while there try to make some friends.
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