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>>34990708
>/Where are we supposed to meet girls?/
I went back to school to pursue my """dreams"""

Many early 20 girls in uni go out with older guys.

I'm 25 btw.

Here's my life-chart.

I'm 25. I've just started trying to become normal and i still feel young.i wont give up yet

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>28 years old
>finally getting everything together and things are going well
>look youthful from no alcohol/smoking/tanning, spending time inside and eating healthy
>hits me the other day the girls I find most attractive are the exact same as they were when I was 18, 16-23 yr old age range
>realize I'm 28 now
>half the girls I know my age could pass for mid 30s easily
>feel nothing sexually/romantically
>society would look down on my going after 18-23 yr old girls
>work in a good but incredibly male dominated profession and have no social media

Gets me down, just the fact that I missed out on experiencing women in their prime. Something men have scarified hundreds of hours dedicating themselves to obtain and in order to have a better chance - nope, I missed the boat and now have to get some jaded chick who when she goes out I'll fapping to her Facebook photos from 5 years ago instead wishing she still lookd like that baka

blogpost over does anyone else get completely mind fucked by how old girls our age are looking? some have aged well who took care of themselves but 90% look like utter dogshit after years of tanning/make up/shitty diets and no exercise. Most looked much the same between 18 and 22/23, but the mid 20s is when some fell apart and the 25-28 age period where it all falls apart

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>>34990904
I could pass as a 20 year old if it wasn't for my pic related hairline. My skin is nice and smooth.

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>26
>still feel like 16
>friends all have GF's. full time jobs, cars etc
>I'm a lazy, virginal, student who spends most of his time shitposting on here

>>34990927
>how old girls our age are looking
It's always the girls who turned into roasties when they hit 15, not the shy and "traditional" girls. It's probably the overuse of makeup and other chemicals that makes them age faster.

I knew an "average" looking girl when we were both around 20 (pretty sure she was also a virgin at the time), she never wore make up or anything, and I recently saw her IRL and she looks just the same. She hasn't aged a day. Kinda cute too.

Maybe I should hit her up or something, but I doubt I could ever have a relationship, I'm too old.

26, I don't care about friends, relationships or sex. When my parasitic existence is in danger or a big responsibility comes into my life then I will finally kill myself. As of now mommy still houses and feeds me and I still have the internet so my pathetic existence shall continue.

>>34990927
why you care about being judged for dating younger girl?
chicks dig older dudes

>>34991164
>chicks dig older dudes
Debatable, but the "half your age + 7" seems and sound right to me actually.
25 / 2 + 7 = 19.5

I should totally date 20 year old freshmen in uni.

>>34991096
I think it's because while men might have shitty diets and not exercise, smoke etc. too, it's women who overwhelmingly tan and use make up - That's about as destructive as you can be to your skin bar pouring acid onto it

Any advice for a 20yo virgin with 0 friends and ambition? I feel like a total loser, i have never worked in my life, never experienced a teen love, never had the chance to fuck a girl in their prime..fuck i havent even finished high school. all the shit i do is to play fucking vidya and fap to the most degenerate shit.

I want your help guys, i need to get my shit together before its too late. how do i start?

>>34991516
Do you think we can offer some advice? We're over 25 years of age and we're still here ffs.

>>34991516
try to stop fapping, go finish high school ged whatever.

>>34991516

Dont take things seriusly ,forget about 4chan and manosphere bullshit and try to make friends with nerd like people,chads and normies are not going to accept you either way.

If you get a job,focus on making friends with cowokers and ty to look like a hard worker ,even an ape can do an actual job so dont worry about it

>>34991516
Spend less time online, stop watching porn

Study a trade or a decent Uni degree (Actuarial, Accounting, Economics/Econometrics, Surveying or anything in health or STEM)

Get experience/internships

You probably already know this but it's up to you to do it anon

>>34991516
get the fuck off this website and never come back.

My life has been downhill since I discovered 4chan and everything else that comes with the culture surrounding it.

>>34990927
Well at least you have a professional career. What do you do?

There's a lot of us here with no career, no friends, and no experience being in a romantic relationship.

But yeah, I totally agree with your characterization of how women look.

I'm 29 and amazed how wrinkly most men and women my age are.

I think I've fucked up my own looks a bit by drinking too much (14-30 beers a week for a couple of years), and I worked as a lifeguard for a couple of years, but luckily I have only some small smile lines.

>>34991516
Stop jerking off so much.

Finish high school/get your GED and learn a trade at a community college. University is a waste unless you capable of making it through a STEM degree.

Don't get started drinking or doing drugs. You'll kill what little motivation or ambition you have left with those.

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>>34991516
I will echo >>34991701, but with modifications.

1. Select a career path. Set one or multiple goals and do what you must to achieve them.
2. Maintain a balance between work and fun.

You must do both. Your work must have direction for you to achieve anything, but you will be more likely to burn out if you only work.

You don't have to stop going online or stop watching porn, that's just a meme.

>>34991861
>Don't get started drinking or doing drugs. You'll kill what little motivation or ambition you have left with those.

>>34991516

My 2 cents would be to do a little bit of those while you're still young.

There's nothing worse than being a 25 year old or a 30 year old who's never done a drug or drank anything in his life and then one day starts doing pills with absolutely no learned self-control whatsoever because he regrets not doing it when he was a decade younger.

>>34991787
Construction management, even the recent affirmative action attempts to only hire women haven't diversified things too much because it's just young Uni grads who stick around for a few years then go elsewhere or have kids. At the end of the day women just have no interest in it.

It's alright, I'm not going to pretend I'm successful at it or anything - I just got lucky

>>34991924
>You don't have to stop going online or stop watching porn, that's just a meme.

Let me expand, too. I'm super introverted, so the way I recharge is by taking time for myself. This often means spending mindless hours online, which may or may not include watching porn. In moderation, that's ok. There will be times you have to sacrifice it for work or school, but again the key is finding a balance. You will be surprised by how much you can tolerate on busy weeks. It's also helpful to burn out at least once, so you know what it feels like.

When I first entered college, I discovered what it feels like to be stressed and overwhelmed. I had never experienced this before, but suddenly I knew what it felt like when I needed a break.

>>34991969
I didn't start drinking until my last year in college.

Even though my grades went up slightly, and I graduated with honors, it made my depressive "the economy is wrecked, so why bother even looking for a job?" moods much worse. It got worse after I got out and I spent years drinking alone in my room and not doing much.

Finally cut back on drinking and Im working on a plan I should've executed righ out of college. I'm almost 30 now and thinking and planning on teaching English overseas, but most people do that when they are 22-25.

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>>34990927
At 28, it's still not weird for you to snag an early 20s cutie. Furthermore, if you spent all that time on your career and feel nothing sexually/romantically for women, just buy time from an escort.

Personally, I'm more concerned I will get to my 40s and realize I want companionship, or worse yet, get to my 80s and have no one to care for me in my failing health. I feel so uncomfortable getting close to people, though...

>>34990927
27 here. I know these feels, friend. I feel like I have wasted so much potential but not fucking girls in high school and college. Not a virgin, but could have done alot better. My plan now is to move to the city in a couple months and live with my buddy who is going to grad school. Hopefully this will give me the opportunity to hang with some college girls.

>>34991516
There is still hope for you friend. My college buddy was home schooled most of his life and didnt lose his virginity until he was 20. Since then he has gotten with lots of hot girls. Small steps to success. Get out of the house regularly, doesnt matter what you do. Try to make friends. If you have your GED take some classes at a community college.

26

worst part is when you realize it probably is too late to salvage your life. I don't wanna hear any of that "you can turn your life around at 40!" bullshit. Most of us are so far behind in life. Relationship wise i am on the same level as a middle school kid, I got kissed on the cheek once that's my entire love life. Job wise I am a college drop out, not even a 2 year degree, no debt thankfully but no more funds to go back to school. I work a shit job with not much room to move up unless I work there for like 5+ years which I do not plan on doing. No idea where to go from here bros, stuck in my disgusting little home town, in my moms house, no where to run, barely $1000 in savings. I feel so stuck. I went to school with guys that fucked up worse than me, are in debt, had a kid, got a DUI, or worse.....yet they're doing better in life than me right now.... I did nothing wrong and here I am.

>>34992357
>My college buddy was home schooled most of his life and didnt lose his virginity until he was 20

Proof robots are born and not made.

Most of us robots are probably on the spectrum.

>>34992367
>they're doing better in life than me right now

How?

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>>34992367
>live at home
>no criminal record
>steady job (albeit shitty)
>$1000 in savings and no debt
>worse off than peers in debt, with kids, criminal records, etc

I mean, I guess it's relative... Would you take on debt, a criminal record, or children just to be able to say you fucked one or multiple girls?

>>34992367
>I did nothing wrong and here I am.

What you mean to say is you did nothing, which is equally as bad, in fact it's probably worse.

You need to get qualified in something and you need to save to leave. You're the only person stopping you.

>28
>single for five years
>suddenly challenger appears out of nowhere
>8/10 nuclear engineer
>chases me like I'm a real prize

I don't know how I did it but doing nothing, staying at home and playing video games apparently worked for me.
Keep hoping, pals.

>>34992484

Sadly at this point, yes. But these guys also moved out, have nicer cars than me, have social lives......all despite fucking up BAD in life. I fucked up too by failing out of college but still.

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>girlfriend of the last year just broke up with me
>was the first proper relationship I ever had

>tfw no gf anymore

I'm just gonna play vidya and get drunk on expensive whiskey all night

>>34992583
What sort of job do you have? How much does it pay?

>single for 5 years.

GTFO normeh

>>34992605
I'm a forensic scientist. I make 4.5k Euros a month.
Nuclear engineers definitely make more than that but I can live a good comfy life on my own.

>>34992394
Even if what you say is true, does that mean robots should completely give up trying to improve their situation/get laid?

>>34992681
GTFO. You are so normie it hurts.

>No friends
>No gf

Where am I supposed to find motivation to keep going to my cubicle slavery every day?

>Oh boy, I get another $1,xxx paycheck dropped into my bank account in two weeks...whoo hoo
Just doesn't work for me anymore like it did a few years ago.

>>34992718
Im a 29 year old kv.

I'm uncomfortable around people. I have a hard time making eye ciontact most of the time.

Even if I somehow found a willing and understanding significant other, I'd probably suffer some sort of sexual dysfunction anyway.

>>34991516
Go to /r/theredpill. Read EVERYTHING.

Leave 4chan, start lifting, start eating better.

I wish I had this advice when I was your age.

>>34992841
hey, a least you get a cubicle

>>34991516
Get off 4chan (and specifically r9k) immediately.

Even if what is said on here is true, once you get transformed by 4chan, you figuratively radiate autism off yourself in real life.

Go on normie approved websites like Reddit, Facebook and the like, start working out and start trying to get a part-time job while going to school.

You're welcome.

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>Age 18
"Don't worry about being a virgin, anon! You're young and have all the time in the world! You're such a handsome young man, you've got nothing to worry about! Just don't sweat it, focus on enjoying life and being social, and before you know it, you'll have found the girl for you without even trying! Just be yourself!"

>Age 22
"It's okay, anon, you're just a late bloomer! Not everyone goes through college without having sex! It's only a big deal if you make it a big deal! You're such a handsome young man and if any girl you're dating has a problem with you being a virgin, then she isn't worth your time! If you're nervous, just fake it til you make it!"

>Age 26 (now)
"...I don't know anon, have you tried Tinder? Oh, you've had it for months with no matches? But you're such a handsome young man and you live in a college town! Maybe your app is broken. Just don't give up hope anon, you'll find the girl for you. She'll be extremely patient and understanding that you've gone 26 years without even holding a girl's hand and she'll find all of your niche interests and personality quirks endearing instead of off-putting. She's out there anon, she has to be! It could be tomorrow, it could be when you're 40. Just try to enjoy life, I guess."

I'm 34 and just trying to start dating now because of health problems earlier in my life. Tinder and online dating only works if you're tall white and handsome.

I basically see it as we're fucked and that's all there is to it. I bought a fake ass/vag sex toy. I'm debating buying a full sized sex doll.

As for life I'm just trying to move on in my own. Went to a movie and concert last week on my own. Going to a club tonight for a DJ show.

I guess the question you should ask is what would I be doing now if I just had to pick an impulse activity at random. Whatever it is, go do it. Just do whatever. We're all gonna just keep getting older and uglier and there's no going back so may as well keep living what you can.

>>34991684
>>34991701
>>34991769
>>34991861
>>34991924
>>34991969
>>34992357

Great, thank you guys, much appreciated. i think the first thing i should do is to finish hs. hopefully i will be graduating in May. meanwhile i will start going out more often and studying for the uni access test to learn maths which is the only thing i feel passion for.

>>34993189

heh I remember when I thought I was "just a late bloomer", now I'm 26 too. I got zero matches on tinder as well which really was the final straw, because I am pretty good looking and I looked good in the pics......but nope. Nothing.

25
Doing a trade as an electrician since I fucked up getting my associates. Fucking English essays that require research keep screwing me over.

Not bothering with dating until I move out of my parents house.

>>34992585

You need to grow out of thinking people care about minor crimes like DUIs. They're like the equivalent of getting detention after school and apart from the hassle of losing your license for a while, nobody really cares. You sound like the kid who believed the teacher when they threatened you with something on your permanent record.

>>34992887

Don't listen to this idiot. The red pill is like feminism for omega males who have gone to far through a life of failure.

>>34993656
>Not bothering with dating until I move out of my parents house.

>I'm setting myself up for failure - the post.

If you have a job, attend college/university, or have a drivers license, you need to leave this thread.

Once you are pass 25 if you don't have any job or experience and a girlfriend you are fucking done

Origami

>>34993821
Lil bro dated about 5 women while still living here. They ended up trashing his read: my dad's car when they broke up with him and he ended up having to pay for damages to the old man.
I don't know if he's going after crazy ones, but I'm not dealing with that shit.

>>34992980
>>34992887
>>34991769
>>34992011


The problem is that this site is addictive as fuck, you have so much shit here, porn, politics, memes and most importantly the keks, that its hard to leave, and im pretty much a new fag. i think its ok to visit the site every once in a while as >>34991924 said but will do my best.

>>34993992

This is a stupid excuse and you know it.

>>34994356
Whatever, I'll do what I do.

life hit me hard today, realizing that i really am too ugly for any girl to ever be attracted to me. even if i lost weight i still have a terrible body composition, wide hips, relatively narrow shoulders i think, so i'll still be ugly even if i get fit. there's really no hope at all. i always know this on some level, but today was one of the days it really hit me with the force of objectivity.

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>27, khv at least a solid 6/10
>barely jerk it anymore, have almost no romantic or sexual feelings anymore
>working fulltime netting 20k~ USD a year
>trying to move into shitty little apartment to be on my own
>considering joining the national guard and going back to school (public school is tuition free if you're a guard member)
>already have a degree (read: useless one) but want to go back for something better
>constantly anxious about the future

I have a plan, I hope I can make it happen. I gotta do something, I don't even care about relationships or sex anymore. I just want to be on my own, living a quite existence with enough money left over after bills/food/rent to be able to enjoy myself in my free time.

There any military robots here?

>>34993189

I am tired about that goddamn app, every time anyone else using it they have so many matches. And me? 1 bot and a single mom landwhale.

FUCK ME

>>34994754

become a merchant marine

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27 and fat. I feel like it's over for me. feel like skinny is too far.

The other aspects of my life are shit too
HKV,No job, Community college dropout

>>34990708
Not too good 39 in less than 2 months don't know where to meet females here wouldn't mind being a part time normie again but that was over 20 yrs now just loneliness and depression consume me

>>34991787
Not him but I'm posting from my professional job right now (Australian)

This is better than being a NEET but not by much

>>34994754
>There any military robots here?
if you're NG your state should cover your education as long as its a public college

>>34991516
go to a trade school, learn electrical or plumbing.
friends/women over rated. save your money, buy a comfy little house and work until you have enough to retire to thailand and slam hot boi pucci until you die.

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>25
>lost my job in September due to downsizing
>totaled my car in October because I took my eyes off the road trying to pick a song on my phone
>entire situation had me dip into my savings account quite a bit, only $600 left
>became a full-blown wino because I was stuck at my apartment with no job and no car

The end of 2016 was a real kick to the nuts. 2017 is going very well so far, though. Moved in with my parents 2 weeks ago, had an interview this past Friday which saw me getting hired on the spot, and I'm also nearly done with the admission process at a local trade school. I'll be working as a Security Guard in a local hospital, any of you robots done similar work?

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>>34990708
>/Where are we supposed to meet girls?/ Edition
meet them through hobbies / activities encourage you to socialize with the opposite sex (even if its just on the internet)

27 and oddly content despite being a virgin who lives at home. Even semi NEET right now. I don't even know how I do it desu.

>tfw waiting to hear back about a job interview i did
>tfw life will improve if i get this job

i have faith

>>34992367
>I got kissed on the cheek once that's my entire love life
I'm a year older than you and I didn't even get that far.

JUST

>coming home from work
>favorite takeaways are closed
>no parks at the supermarket
guess im starving tonight

>>34990708
TOP 5 PLACES TO MEET GIRLS POWER RANKINGS: 25+ EDITION

1. Through a friend or family member
2. Dating Sites
3. Book stores & or libraries
4. Sports bar rooting your favorite team on
5. Your particular religions place of worship
3

>>34993978
sources

inb4 but i don't need any.

>>34996918
999999999999999999999. The workplace

>>34996523

>totaled my car in October because I took my eyes off the road trying to pick a song on my phone

Your post makes me never want to do this again, thanks anon

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>got denied a fast food gig
>was asked "what makes you panda material?"
>didn't get the panda express job
>tfw 26

>>34998206
If you're resorting to working fast food, you should really think about going to a temp agency. The jobs they find for you almost always pay more than minimum wage, and some assignments last indefinitely.

I got assigned to a trucking company that moved dairy products, and the assignment said it would only last 3 months. Ended up working there for 2 years, until I found something else

>>34996523
You got your Guard Card(tm), Anon?

>>34997936
Not a problem. The officer's couldn't help but laugh at me, because at first they suspected I had been drinking. When I told them what really happened, they relaxed and asked me what sort of music I listened to and whatnot. I've since gotten another vehicle, and the first thing I did was buy a phone holder for the windshield

>>34996918
>2. Dating sites
If you look like chad yeah

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>>34998382
Nope, but I'll have a week of training before I'm left alone to work my own shift. I'm assuming they'll make me certified to be a guard. What's a guard card, if you don't mind me asking?

>>34996571
Fuck you and this shit answer

>>34994754
Degree usually means better pay for Federal job. Also, if you're joining the military, you need to not only meet a weight quota but also not be on anti-depressants for over a year. Good luck, Commander.

>>34998324
what else did you find after the dairy company anon?

>>34998431
In the State of California (prolly not where you're at), you need a Guard Card to be even considered for a security guard job. Putting in the time and money is no guarantee of a job, even if you're training with a company that hires.

trade schools cost money right? i'm a 26 yr old neet highschool dropout with no future

>>34998444
Auditor for a regional airport. Since the dairy job was a desk job, I used that to my advantage and reached out for similar positions. I currently work 3rd shift (11PM-7AM), but it's perfect for a robot

>growing up, parents joke not to get married
>tfw 25 year old friendless virgin who's never had a gf and never going to give them grandkids

>>34994457
You can mitigate the wide hips by working your lats and shoulders. You'll never have the athletic figure of a chad, but it will help.

T. Female hip/waist ratio man

>>34990927
hey man i know some people who are 20 dating like 31 year olds. my ex who left me for some huge ugly virgin faggot is 19 and the guy is turning 27 this year. im pretty sure girls like older guys cause even in highschool the guys would always hang with girls 1-2 years younger and the girls 1-2 years older lol

>>34998514
Yes, they do. Some classes, such as EMS, cost around $2,500.

Research all of your local trade schools, and find ones that offer scholarships and grants. The trade school I'm attending is charging me 16k for my course, but I've been able to reduce it to 12k with scholarships. With loans, I'll be able to get it down to $3000, which I can make in staggered payments

>>34998477
Oh right, that rings a bell. I lived in CA for a couple of years, and one of my roommates was a guard at a trainyard. I remember him bitching about having to pay for his certification, I guess that's what he was talking about.

I'm in PA though, so I guess it's different

>Where are we supposed to meet girls?

Yeah, where?

>no girls at work (big corporation too)
>sisters don't know any girls
>cousins don't know any girls
>friends don't know any girls
>tried meetups and clubs- no girls

I do see the occasional girl working as a waitress or jogging but that's it, never in situations where I can get to know them.

>>34998514
>>34998599
To expand on that, you'll also need a high school diploma or GED in order to enroll. You might want to focus on that first

>>34998689
>I do see the occasional girl working as a waitress or jogging but that's it

Chase the jogger down, rip out her headphones, and demand her to take you on a date

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>>34990708
Just got done smearing McDonald's quartet pounders all over myself while drinking vodka. Fuck I hate being alive, I literally only exist to piss off. Normi Chad's with my fatass antics. I'm trying to balloon to 500lbs so the gubmint has to give me NEET bux

>>34998729
It's scary that this would work for Chad

>>34998639
FBI background check is $50.
Fingerprint is $50.
Training, if you're unlucky enough to not find somewhere that will train you for free, is at least $400.

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30, live at home, not virgin but due to religious reasons I sort of wish I was. MASSIVE fuck up most of my life. I've had jobs, worked good at them but a part of me just doesn't give a shit about anything, so I wind up quitting them. Grew up a fat ass in childhood, lost weight in teens and had some female success but I dropped out of high school at like 15 and hated being around people all the time because people do retarded shit (I live in gary, indiana and people fight over the dumbest shit here). I have had a few women try catching my attention but like another robot on here posted above, I don't even desire sex or relationships anymore, it's not like i'm sad or angry about it though, very strange feeling. I have about $5000 in the bank and a crap car, it's better than a lot of people on here but still sucks. I was going to get my CDL and become a truck driver but I quit before the program ended cause my trainer hardly showed up and sat around eating cheeseburgers and sleeping instead of training. I spend my free time reading tarot cards and selling ice cream for money that is SLIGHTLY better than minimum wage.

>>34998815
How long have you been working as a security guard? What's it like?

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>27
>havent worked in many years
>basement neet
>no gf ever
>recently able to land some online dates
>never a second date

tfw can only fail when i try

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feeling like i cant go on much longer lads. 42 and literally no signs of hope. no choices left.

>>34998877
Is this my future? I don't want this to be my future.

Tell us your story, wizard

>>34998689
Work at places where young girls work. Eg supermarkets, McDs
There's a constant stream of new chicks

>>34998872
>focusing on getting dates instead of getting a job

Why tho?

>>34998599
>34998599
What are you going to trade school for? There seems to be very limited options

>0-7 normal kid in a small town in Canada
>8-18 bullied by most, disliked by all, lonely at school and home. No idea what its like to be loved or appreciated.
>19-20 Lived on campus in a new city, lost v-card, had girls interested in me, dated/slept around. I felt like my life had changed
>End up dating girl from 20-22. First person I truly loved/trusted.
>move into own apparentment, lose social circles because autism.
>GF get job as resident advisor for university becomes busy with university life. Never sees me, tons of attention from younger chads, unimpressed by my lack of social life or lack of being in school. Leaves me.
>23-26 Work, eat, vidya, sleep. I have no social life, no friends or contacts.

I really need help with one thing. How does one forget "her". Every single day for the past 3 years she has come across my mind throughout the day. Everything reminds me of her.
I've tried getting with other women but they don't make me forget her.

Thing is, this girl wasn't that pretty, she was chubby with no tits and a round face. She was amazing with makeup though. This girl wasn't even nice to me, or treated me that good.

Why does love have to suck and be so nonsensical. I just want to go back to being myself without constantly missing her or thinking about her.

>>34998926
Cool, then I can meet girls but they won't want to date me because I gave up my cushy office job to work at Mcdonalds.

>>34998926
its poor form/sexual harassment to try to date female coworkers unless they are interested first.

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>>34998931
is it to much to not want to be alone for 27 years

>>34998956
Biomedical Engineering. It's a two-year program, so it's more expensive than most.

But yes, the options are very limited, and half of the things they offer won't even be viable in the next 20-30 years. If you want my advice, pick something in the medical field. Plenty of job security in the medical field, since people are always getting sick, shitting out babies, or dying

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>>34999034
n-no, but I feel like it would be hard to go on a date without any monies.

Don't cry

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>>34998986
I also am trying to get over girl of last 3 years. I have tried drowning myself in alcohol and choking my lungs with cigs but nothing works. Recently I've started fucking a pillow thinking about her. Am truly long gone now? I wish I were dead.

>>34998877
Oh shit it's like looking into the future

>>34998995
Like in that movie Beautiful American

>>34998871
Sorry, I couldn't tell you. I'm doing training soon and I'm anxious about getting the job afterward. I've done my research and am trying to get hired is about all.

>>34999105
I still have pictures of her ass in thongs, I still have 2 videos of us fucking, one from before we dated and one 2 months before she dumped me. I don't watch them for obvious reasons.

I use to check her instagram daily to see how she looks lately. I've cut out all forms of looking at her, but my memories are apparently still too much.

I dated 1 girl for 7 months, this girl was hotter, talented, kinder, religious and wanted kids. I couldn't let go of my ex and ended up losing this new girl because I just didn't love or care.

Other people aren't the key to forgetting. I don't know what is.

28yo aspie, virgin, schizoid, 40k in savings, 8/10, 6'3. Hate being around people and have no intrest in woman. No friends by choice. Earn 5k a month affiliate marketing. Live in small rural house with nice mountain views. Spend 90% of my time online. Strange life but i am happy. Going to retire in spain with a nice villa and private pool. Simple life by myself.

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>>34999560
You have a nice life, good for you anon

>>34999560
>affiliate marketing.
Can you help me get into this?

>>34999962
This, I'll sign up under you as an affiliate so you can get commissions off me or whatever

How hard is it to get a decent looking tranny gf?

>26 years old
>employed full time in my field (lawyer)
>pay is shit but I only do it because job prospects are shittier
>no real room for advancement at my office. Boss expects me to leave for some other job at some point.
>can't afford my own place, have to live with roommates
>roommates are bros so it's not so bad
>Only leave apartment to go to work or to run to convenience store up the street
>have no idea where to meet girls
>my office has a lot of girls but most of them have bf's and I'm pretty sure I'd get in trouble with hr if I asked one of them out
>don't look so bad although my hair's starting to go gray.
>getting a lot more matches on Tinder/OkCupid lately but too beta to actually ask any of them out.
>still don't have my driver's license
>still have never had a gf (not a virgin though)

All in all life is pretty... meh. It's not perfect but at least I sort of have a life for myself.

>>34990927
fuck the 'stigma', there is none. the only stigma is in your mind bro, only in your mind.

>>35000152
You might try moving to Thailand.

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>tfw 29
>in love with camwhore
>too old for her
>she left us
I'm pathetic

>26 tomorrow...
>Mum is taking me out to Mexican food (fuck yeah)
>I own a $1000 car
>Programmer for a small games company
>Have a qt

Pretty good life.

>>34990927

I'm 31 and I have dated girls around 20 lately, I'm actually a forever alone who has been getting kind of lucky, I feel I'm making up for all the lost time.

I'm totally upfront though I tell them I'm older but they seem even more interested then...

>>35000172
You're a lawyer? Don't you get paid shitloads?

>>34999478
You'll never forget her... I've been with my current gf for 5 years, and my first gf still gives me butterflies thinking of her.

>>35000378
Where do you live and how do you meet them?

Tinder, through friends, school?

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>tfw you're getting closer to 30 and all you do is shitpost on 4chan and watch anime.

Help. Please.

>>34999560
>8/10
As in appearance? Losing virginity should not be a problem at that age and appearance.

>>35000392
If you aren't a partner then you are paying off your huge student loan debt while getting billed out for massive overtime while collecting a base salary.
Law is for Chad.
At least that's what one lawyer anon was saying in a thread once.

>>35000392
Not fresh out of law school you don't. Sure there's some jobs that will pay you $80K+ a year for an entry level position but unless you were top of your class and editor of law review you are gonna have a hard time getting those jobs.

Truth is when you graduate law school and pass the bar exam you're gonna have to be willing to put up with whatever bullshit you have to in order to at least get a job as a lawyer. I mean I know people who graduated law school years ago and still aren't doing any kind of legal related work.

>>35000416
Who cares? Do what you enjoy.

>>35000416
What have you been doing the past 10+ years since graduating high school? At like 25, didn't you think "wow, my high school peers are getting married, having kids and getting promoted to big money jobs, maybe I should start fixing my shit?"

>>34990708
I'm 25

I'm holding up pretty well, I temporarily stopped smoking pot so I can get a job in my degree field. Losing some weight, eating better. I got a girlfriend by getting lucky on Okcupid. So I have regular sex now. I play video games with my friends, play guitar, write scripts and comedy, work on projects with friends.

Right now I have a shitty part time job and live at home, but that's really the worst of my problems. Things are looking up.

Self confidence goes a long way anons, many of you don't give yourself the credit you deserve. I mean, some of you are pretty pathetic losers, but you're not beyond saving either.

Try some dating websites, Okcupid and tinder at the very least. Otherwise your best bet for meeting girls is going to parties or bars and working up courage to talk to strangers. At least with online dating theres less pressure and the worst they can do is ignore or block you.

>>35000582
>caring about high school peers
>wanting the nuclear family bullshit fantasy
>promoted to $$$$$ big dollar jobs$$$$$ where you are still expendable
>working and doing things where my life still doesn't matter but i lie to myself and tell myself it does

>>35000416
Get a goal and go for.

It might not be your first choice but do it.

I'm 29 and going forward with my plan to teach English overseas. Gonna put my useless degree to work.

Really mad I didn't do this when I got out of school when I was 23 though. DESU I didnt really feel mature enough though.

>>34998836
I love you.

oranguton

>>34991516
First get your GED, then get a job. Work your way up to supervisor then get another better job. A job will help you with social skills. It's not too late if you start now anon.

>>35000504
It's not necessarily for Chad. I mean if you want to work at a big name law firm then yeah you gotta be Chad in order make partner. Granted if you're the kind of Chad that thinks "lol the rules don't apply to me because I have abs" then you're in for a very rude awakening.

But if you can make it as a lawyer for the Govt. or you do some bullshit transactional law that doesn't really require you to be in court then you don't have to be alpha just good at your job.

The most important thing that a lawyer has is his reputation. That doesn't mean you're politics or beliefs but rather are you good at your job and do you pull shit that could land you in front of an ethics committee.

>>34993189
you're using the app wrong or taking unflattering pictures. You might want a friend who knows a thing or two about taking pictures to take a picture for you. Also hopefully you aren't a sperg on your profiel.

>>35000754
Nah he's just not good looking enough

If youve had success with online dating you need to get out

>>35000790
he should post a picture then, ill be the judge of that. Even people who arent great looking can take more flattering pictures.

I mean if you have a huge double chin you're kinda fucked tho.

>>35000820
Define success please

>>35000864
If youve gone anything past being ghosted after a few conversations leave

>>35000835
I wonder how helpful it would be to have Tinder photos done by a professional photographer. Might be kind of expensive, but I'm pretty rich.

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26 here, sometimes I think I'm 28 for some reason. Working an OK programming job, living at home saving money. Hoping to get fired soon so I can just travel and then an hero after I run out of money.

>>35000928
Why dont you just buy a gf then? Seriously why are you here?

>>35000953
>travel and then an hero after i run out of money

i lold

you are a good man.

>>35000928
It doesn't have to be a professional photographer, but someone with a nice smart phone who can take nice pictures and practices basic photography principles, for example the rule of thirds.

Professional photographer pictures can be fun though, and useful for other things. Especially if you take a picture in a suit, it can be good for a linkedin page.

>>35000907
Ok, but like what if you've ghosted people? because fugly girls have messaged me and I really don't want anything to do with them. So I usually just answer their questions really boringly and just hope to god that they aren't that persistent.

>>35000928
a professional photographer would only be of limited utility

the best tinder photos look like candids and demonstrate that you have friends/go to social events

i've often thought about running an agency where people pay me a small fee to take dating profile pictures of them--basically i just dress them in normie clothes and take fake candids which i lightly retouch in photoshop afterwards. maybe have a friend or two come by to be 'extras'

>>35000953
You're not alone Anon. I used to think I was 28 but now I think I'm 30. I'm around your age.

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>>35000996
I think it has something to do with all my days being exactly the same, so it doesn't really matter what age I am so very the days are all interchangeable anyways. Soon though I'll either get my termination or I'll finally have saved enough money. I feel at ease these days, it's nice.

how does one cope with the loneliness at 25+?

Feeling good tonight. 2 more days and then I can drop out without financial aid fucking me over and trying to collect. then I can go back to being a neet. Fuck the real world, I really don't care about it anymore.

>>35000969
Not all rich kids are preppy Chads. I grew up in a very sheltered environment. I'm 20, just here to scare myself straight.

>>35000977
What if I don't have a suit?

>>35000990
What if I don't have any friends?

>25
>part time wagecuck, work is easy
>get on with family, stable financially, live like a monk
>been losing weight, only 3 more lbs and i'll no longer be overweight (BMI, want to lose much more though)
>no drugs, alcohol or tobacco for a few months
>grew my hair out, groom everything, take care of skin, fixed teeth bought new basic clothes that fit

>still can't even maintain eye contact with the checkout girl
>spend all my free time exercising or modding morrowind

autism is a party, and nobody's invited

>>35001074
Buy one? Or wear something that looks nice or professional?

If you're rich, you should probably think about getting a suit. It's good for job interviews, formal events, etc. It'll make you feel good about yourself too. Go to Mens Wearhouse or some place where they have a tailor available.

>>35001074
also what anon said above about pics needing to look candid is sorta true. Social events with friends are good photo opportunities.

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>>35001040
>tfw know that feel also

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27 here.
I hope I might have a shot with that 4-5/10 (7 body, 4 face/haircut). She seems to like anime since she showed up in a SnK cosplay for our carnival party at university and sucked in making friends so far.

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>>34990708
Trying to make some business ventures work. Which each failure, I sometimes feel like giving it all up and wasting away, but a part of me knows that if there is even a 1% chance to succeed, it's better than being a drone for a corporation that could care less about you as long as you serve it well and have to adhere to their rules, 8-12 hours a day, every day. Only money and no fulfillment, no time to do what you really want to do in this limited life.

That's the reality my friends will be living, but that's not my reality. I'd rather die. And I have to give up girls for a bit while I do it because they distract me and don't understand when I try to explain what I'm doing to them. "Why don't you just get a job like everyone else?" baka.

>>35000953
>Hoping to get fired soon so I can just travel and then an hero after I run out of money.
Assuming you're not lying, I feel exactly the same. But I don't know why. Why is it for you?

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>tfw you're only 20 but know deep down you're gonna end up like everyone else on this thread

>>35001269
Almost 22 and already crossed the threshold. It won't be long now, boy.

>>35001231
If you got a 1% chance of succeeding, you're doing it wrong. Anon, it's time to get realistic. The vast majorities of dreams just don't pan out. Unless you can figure out how to improve your chances, don't throw your life away trying to roll a stone up to the top of the hill.

How many 30+ robots are here?

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>>35001269
t. 90% of /r9k/

>>35001269
>>35001299
Age is the ultimate lack of self-awareness. Once you get around our ages you won't give a fuck about what you worried about when you were 5 years younger. That's now anxiety works.

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>>35001236
I don't want to sound edgy but the longer I stay here the more I realize I'm just not meant to be a part of this world. My dad and grandmother died a few years ago and they were really the only people I considered my family, I just feel this sense of complete isolation. I figure if this is how I am going to feel for the rest of my life I might as well feel that way in strange new places.

>>35001312
8 months until I become a wizard.

Why did it have to be this way?

>>34990967
heh this is me

my life just seemed to freeze for 10 years. didnt grow in any aspects...didnt even change physically desu

>>35001303
By 'succeed' I mean make a livable income. My work is mostly online and the worst part is, I network with people who are actually living the dream, putting up websites like they're nothing, selling their products, promoting others' for commissions. I get their tips and see some success, but not enough to continue forever yet. With the successes come a lot of failures and I'm easily demotivated by failure is my problem. The 1% chance was a figure of speech. No real way to actually quantify my chances, which is what keeps me going I guess.

>>35001354
Thanks for being honest. But do you think this is a "temporary feeling"? Like what if you find someone else special, valuable to you to free you from your isolation and general feeling of dread, numbness etc. Playing devil's advocate here.

>>35001336
It's hard to not feel overwhelmed about your age when society expects us to be settled with kids and have a loving family within a few years. That is simply not the way life goes for a robot.

>>35001432
>It's hard to not feel overwhelmed about your age when society expects us to be settled with kids and have a loving family within a few years.
But.

But is this what you really want? Or are you being dictated by expectations?

has anyone else had an instance of applying to jobs and not hearing back for more than a montha nd a half?

>>35001476
yes.

I heard back three months after I applied, and I had already started working somewhere else. Luckily the first job I got was the one I wanted.

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>>35001422
I thought I did a few years ago, but that's all ended now. For a time I didn't feel like I do now, but it was always sort of gnawing in the shadows at me. I'm sort of looking forward to my eventually fading, the thinning of all these ties that bind me to this place gives me a sense of contentment.

I may find someone again but I doubt it, not the young guy I used to be.

>>35001476
Yeah sometimes. Usually if you don't hear back by then you should be applying elsewhere.

Most of the time you don't ever hear back for the jobs you don't get.

>>35001476
I've gotten rejections for jobs like a year later. Those automated systems can be fucking hilarious. Stay NEET if you can.

>>35001476
It's more common than you think.
A friend of mine landed a good a job after not hearing from them for 2 months.
But most of the time they just don't reply.

>>35001455
No, I actually want it. But I'm a fucked up robot so it's hard to reach. I'm sure the majority of us don't want to be this way.

>>35001432
I think a lot of us genuinely die inside at our age. When I was in my early 20's I was an emotional wreck, now I'm completely blank.
One step closer to the void I guess.

>>35001432
The thing is that you have no obligation to do any of this. In fact having children in this day and age is highly unethical considering current events and current trends. This is especially true if you've got some genetic deficiency you don't want to pass on. Being pressured by society is like being pressured in high school. Superego it.

>>35000754
>26 y/o KV
>taking unflattering pictures
Gee, I wonder. It's like he's ugly as shit or something.

>>34990708
I'm 30. The only girl I've been with since I was a teenager, a girl that I've been extremely close with for the past six years, told me yesterday that she's been seeing some guy from out of town and that it's getting pretty serious, as he is moving to her city.

I am a recovering alcoholic and can't drink the pain away. I just feel nauseated, like I'm going to vomit.

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>>34990708
Tonight I went back to read my blog from 2 years ago.
>realize i sounded almost identically to elliot rodger
True loneliness seems to manifest itself in similar ways.

>>35001534
I've felt dead inside since I was a teenager. The void must be pretty close at this point.

>>35001536
what does KV mean?

Also we don't know for sure if he's ugly or not without a picture. Most people can be worked with.

>>35001567
>>realize i sounded almost identically to elliot rodger
So you don't sound like him now?

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31 wizard in SoCal

Any grills want to live in my rent controlled apartment only (200usd/month) and help me spend my neetbux.

Location: Just outside Los Angeles

>>35001567
At least you didn't go on a shooting spree and can learn to try and interact with people and not be a sperg around women.

>>35001541
Go running. That will help you organize your thoughts and give you a runner's high. You don't even actually need to run, especially if you're not physically fit. Go for a walk.

>>35001583
Nope, I've mellowed out hugely. I'm not 'happy' with being alone, but I am content now.
I read in my blog that I had my fuckin day ruined by seeing cute couples and shit, and wrote about how I deserved it more, etc.

I don't feel that way in the slightest now a days. Humans either adapt and cope or... shoot up frat houses in their BMW.

>>35001592
>doxing yourself
FOR THAT MATTER
>only 200 a month

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What do you guys think about marriage and women?

I've always been a poorfag and nobody ever paid attention to me, but once i got into a union everyone in my extended family keeps trying to introduce me to people. Suddenly all of my extended family comes by to visit and the girls the introduce me to find me "so interesting"

Is it just my family that's like this? because I'm really disillusioned right now

>>35001635
Not him but who the fuck is gonna dox a robot?

>>35001580
KV = Kissless Virgin

oc

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Having one too many of
>waking up in literal tears
episodes. Almost always involves 'her'... It's been almost 3 years now. My first and last.

>>35001644
It's great and all but only if you find the right partner. Not with some bitch trying to take all your money after she cheats on you.

>>35001644
Marriage is something for when I've been with her for 5 years and it looks like it will last.

27 year old virgin speaking.

>>35001650
He looks like a normie.
wow original

life was actually enjoyable from 17-24. I lucked out with chaddish looks and being able to manipulate less intelligent, extroverted normies into being my social workhorses.

However, 25+ has been a steady erosion of this capacity. I've treated too many girls like shit, been indifferent and non-reciprocal with my old friends, and been too lazy to make the necessary changes. Doesn't help that I have a useless degree, only making 16$/hr.

I've basically been training myself to accept the reality that I'll probably have to fuck prostitutes for the rest of my life, so I should plan accordingly. Women are completely worthless beyond the holes you can stick your dick into and after having alot of experience with them, any kind of effort beyond a booty call isn't worth it.

I don't have the balls to kill myself, nor do I really want to, but i envy people that checked out early. 25 and beyond just seems like its gonna be shit.

Oh, and if you're 18-20ish GET THE FUCK OFF THIS BOARD. You faggots have no idea what real problems, suffering, etc is. You need to go outside and stop wasting your youth being a depressionmeme faggot.

t. 25.5 dead insider

>>35001592
not buying it. where's the apartment and whats it called. I'll move there right now

>>35001762
>You need to go outside and stop wasting your youth being a depressionmeme faggot.
yeah cause it's not like we have anxiety and depression and it's easy to "just go outside" gtfo oldfag all problems are real. not everyone can be a lucky chad bitch like yourself at that age.

30 year old Wizard here. After 25, my desire for companionship started to fade. I still feel loneliness and longing in my heart, but cynical thoughts take over quickly and I realize its not worth the heartache.
Humans are not to be trusted, male or female, and loneliness is the price. So be it.

>>35001762
>life was actually enjoyable from 17-24. I lucked out with chaddish looks
You are the worse.

You literally had a silver spoon to work with and threw it away.

Most us had nothing and still have nothing.

>>35001762
Oh shut the fuck up you ingrateful fuck. At least you have a fucking job and aren't living in a tiny community in the middle of a forest, 20 miles away from even a fucking gas station. Count your blessings and let the younger ones have a sense of community.

>28
>live in basement
>keep having dreams about killing my mother
>extremely happy to leave house for work
>can't afford to move out

>>35001865
Why do you want to kill her? Wouldn't you be even more fucked up without help from your parents?

>>35001761
Are you one of those "looks are literally all that matter" fags?

>>35001644
This is one of the things that makes rage the hardest.

The placement of value and praise of the man that decides to jump in the meat grinder of marriage.

The elevated social status and "being taken more seriously" that it entails. All projections.

As if a single man cannot be a good person with responsabilities and a sense of paticipation and contribution to society or whatever normalfags value.

>>35001883
He's tired of being a dependent and not having control over his life. There's a good chance his mother is also behaving unsympathetically to his problems, dissolving the family bond.

>>35001883
I didn't say I want to kill her. Just that I've been having dreams about it. In the dreams, she catches me smoking then starts nagging me.

>>35001900
No I'm not but I've seen a bunch of people who don't have it as fortunate as he does when it comes to appearance. Anyways the implication was that some bots would go after him out of spite. Which is a joke >.

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>37 years old
>Kissless virgin
>Have worked in the same Wal mart for 20 years
>20th anniversary came up recently
>the staff threw a 'party' for me
>I am the longest serving staff member other than a 70 year old man who has been there 30 years and a 55 year old woman who has been there 26 years
>they were the only ones who were happy for me
>the other staff kept making snide remarks
>my cake had a bunch of photographs of me when I was 17 and had my first staff picture
>when I cut the cake the store manager (who has worked there 10 years) laughed and said 'its like you finally got promoted to the bakery! 2 decades was worth it!'
>the cake had the words '20 years of memorites' written
>nobody cared about the typo
>other staff kept laughing because I have been there 20 years already
>tried to hit on a 22 year old part timer by saying 'I'll give you this picture of me' as I sliced the cake
>pretended to reach into my wallet to grab a 'nude pic'
>she didn't notice I was making a joke and just took her cake and walked off
>Live in a tiny cramped one bed apartment, with a tiny little kitchen area that always smells of grease because I eat the same thing every day
>breakfast bacon, lunch sausages with peppers, dinner baked potato with ground beef
>2 bars of chocolate a day
>skinnyfat
>stupid
>ugly
>closest I have come to sex is when a woman I work with (the aforementioned 55 year old) kissed me at the christmas party in 2001
>still masturbate thinking about it even though she tells me she regrets it at least once a month even now

at least I live alone

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>>35002105
you poor soul. let me hug you.

>>35002105
You're not a kissless virgin if you got a kiss at a christmas party. You're just a virgin. Have you considered getting a prostitute?

>>35000582
Calm down normie

>>35002105
Sorry that shit turned out for you this way anon.
I know you are 37, but look at this way, people are living to 85 now a days.. you aren't even half way their yet. It's never to late to try and turn things around.

Also, try not to let people's remarks get to you. There is a severe lack of empathy in our culture right now and they are just stupid 20 year old kids who are just thinking about 'me me me'. It's easy to forget you are being cunty towards another human being and it feels bad.

>>35002105
You're a wizard, Harry! And only 3 more years until the next step down the path to lichedom.

Honestly you don't sound stupid. Socially awkward, yes, but not stupid. Try doing something extra with your time off like exercising, which does wonders for the brain, or writing a novella.

>>35000172
sounds like you're doing ok, friend. Stay positive.

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>>34998437
fuck you it worked for me

>>35001592
u look good bro, but this aint u is it

>>35002486
god dammit. kpg sent me to come get you. how did you get out this time?

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>>35002636
you aint taking me anywhere

>>35002486
She has some really ugly hands

Any advice for a dude turning 22 in a few weeks?

I'm trying to improve my life in every way possible. Currently working construction and making $50k net a year and the owner wants me to buy the company from him when he retires in a year.

Also created a tinder recently and have 750 matches.

Drive a newer Mercedes, an Acura, and have a "crotchrocket".

Am I almost Chad? I feel like I'm not doing nearly enough but at the same time I feel like I should feel blessed with what I've got.

>>35001541
Or write. I write those ones out.

>>35002748
Wait 3 years and ask us again.

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>>35002676
we shouldnt do this in public, its embarrassing

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>find an interesting story and compelling characters more appealing then gameplay

Who else born in the 80s?

'87 here.

>>34992887
L M A O u settin that nigga up to be alone for life

>>35002898
Stick to books and movies and quit shitting up other mediums with your congenital idiocy, dimwit.

>>35002920
'81 here. Shit used to be a bit nicer.

>>35001312
here

>>35001644
they are trying to whore you out to any stacy in need of rescue for your chicken tendie credits

My life was going alright up until the end of college. I've been unemployed continuously since I graduated, which was about 2 years ago now.

I'm slowly becoming a NEET. I leave my home about once a month. Play vidya and watch anime all day. Sick of life.

I always feel like I could turn things around since I have a college degree and I'm not an idiot. But I just don't. I don't care. Life is uninteresting.

What's so great about modern life? Work so you can provide for yourself? Provide for what? What's the point of working if all it enables you to do is work again tomorrow? Working for the sake of work? Fuck that.

pro tip.
don't do drugs. I'm hilariously watching my life slip away. Love my job and where I am but soon enough it will all be gone.
28 and have realized life can get very real very fast.

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>>35002835
*teleports behind you*
*disarms you*
better luck next time kid

>>35002938
Why would I do that?

I enjoy games with good story still.

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>>34990708
25 y/o k/v here,

I don't give a fuck about meeting girls. My only concern is employment, and it really hit me last month when I started having major panic attacks about it.

Lab testing confirmed that I didn't have any health problems besides anxiety, and having that knowledge stopped the major panic attacks, but I will be stuck with heightened generalized anxiety until I get a job.

But I am afraid that getting a job will not restore me to my old self. After having a major panic attack, I feel that I am different forever. Knowing the great amount of fear that my body is capable of in response to anything makes me afraid to live. I am afraid of the panic attacks I could get if I ever started caring about girls. I am afraid of how my body will respond to my parents suffering through old age and then dying. I am afraid of how I will respond when I am truly alone, when my family is gone and I have no one's love to lean on for support. I am afraid that panic attacks based on employment will be child's play compared to those that may be lying in wait.

>>35001476
Far, far longer, dude.

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>>35001476
>he actually hears back from the jobs he applies to
>tfw I've never experienced this

>>34998877
what a harrowing glimpse into the future.
I... I need to escape.

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I'm a 38yo man, I'm to lazy to kill myself and I still have things I want to do. My life is basically work as accountant, fuck prostitutes twice a month, play with my band on weekends and get drunk before, during and after the shows and since I'm always sober on weekdays no one complain. Life is fun like this, I will live my entire life like this until the cirrhosis, a angry pimp or prostitute kill me.

>>35003843
>tfw could fuck prostitutes but afraid of a downward spiral

>>35003380
>I am afraid of how I will respond when I am truly alone, when my family is gone and I have no one's love to lean on for support.

Possibly worse: if your family becomes unable to support you and you have to shoulder the responsibility of supporting them.

>>34992980
How do I make a facebook if I have no friends?

>>35003843
Im 28, i dont play in a band and smoke weed pretty much all the time im at my house.

Otherwise i do pretty.much the same. I dont think id want to do the same for the next 10 yeara, but realistically i dont think ill find a gf that suits me and that makes me want to settle down. Heck i.dont even know if i want that, but social pressure is a real thing.

Still, life is not half bad.

>>35001592
is that you? i'm not gay but you're probably a 9/10 according to /soc/ standards

>>35005530
add your old schoolmates, don't worry if you don't remember the names, they will appear among the suggested friends after you add some. that's the only way to get a non-pathetic number of friends.

>>34992980
i'm so lonely if i don't go on /r9k/ though, without it there is an empty void, it is a coping mechanism for my lonely existence i'm 18

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>>35002105
God fucking damn, what a life

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>>34992887
/r/theredpill is a meme, it only works if you are already semi attractive through genetics (not a manlet, good face, outgoing).

that advice would not have helped you, i'm 18 now and followed that advice for 6 months and it just alienated me from everybody else and i lost my friends since i was too busy pursuing goal and lifting. guess what i was still invisible to girls because HEIGHT > FACE > FRAME.

your best bet is to work on nofap to eliminate your reliance on sex, then you will be able to happily work towards your personal goals without thinking
>tfw no gf

>>35001883
I have bouts of dreams about killing my father/being killed by my father. I would bet everything I own that I would have turned out much more normal if he hadn't been around.

>>35006098
>I'm 18 now

Feck off

Guys i havent been on one of these for a while. I cant believe im 27 and i cant believe ive bewn on r9k since 22 and i cant believe that was 5 years ago.

Anyway, I've come (finally?) to the conclusion that my cause for why i am like this today is largely my parents fault, mostly my mum. She's most definitely classified as what you call a narcissistic parent.

Looking back and connecting the dots. It's all down to my parents. I need to get away from them and move out. Yeah i know im 27 but the thing was i intended to stay at home to save money so i can use it to improve myself. Well i saved money alright but i hardly made an effort to change. If I desperately want to impeove but can't then obviously something is going on. I was born fully functioning so it can only come down to my upbringing. Looking back i had a hunch my parents were to blame i just couldnt accept the fact i had emotionally unstable and self-absorbed parents.

>>35001372
Same. I still have the same emo hairstyle I had when I was 16.

I need putting down.

>>35006196
>tfw when youngest child so spoiled to shit
>no motivation or desire to do anything
>older siblings have literally top tier paying jobs
>still neet at 24
But I don't blame my parents desu, I just need to get out of here

>>34990927

>society would look down on my going after 18-23 yr old girls

They wouldn't as log as they're 18+ society doesn't care.

>>35005707
aka the people who bullied and made fun of me.

I never want to see their faces again and I don't want them to see mine.

>29
>NEET
>Dropped out of high school & college
>can't drive
>live with my mum
>no ambitions, goals or aspirations for the future
>everyone I knew growing up has moved on
>gfs/married/houses/careers
>left behind in a dead end northern town
>nothing to do here but drink yourself to death
>nobody my age to socialise with
>nobody understands that there is nothing to do for someone my age who has no social life
>all the activities that take place outside are social activities
>have nobody to go outside and be social with
>every time I go outside I feel like I don't belong there and can't relate to anyone or anything
>just fill my days watching netflix and playing games to distract myself from the hopelessness of life

>haven't worked for 9 years
>the paper my CV is printed on is worth more than my job experience
>too old to get an apprenticeship in a trade skill
>only place I could find employment is in the service industry
>flipping burgers or serving coffee
>would have to compete with thousands of other people for the most menial jobs
>OAP's coming out of retirement to work in the service industry now
>wages have stagnated since the 70's
>house prices are 5-6x income
>even if I found full time meaningful employment I wouldn't be able to afford to be independent

The only thing I have to look forward to is living to work for the benefit of someone else just so I can be poor and then have to thank them for the opportunity.

It's just slavery with extra steps.

>>34998877
one of toughest pills to swallow is that the vast majority of us will be nobody in life. Just wage slaves to the machine.

>>35006847
I'd be perfectly fine being a nobody if I could start a family and be happy that way. That won't happen either, though.

>>35006361
We get it youre tough because you dont blame other people. It takes courage to blame others. Because blaming people is frowned upon so you can just go against the social pov

>>35006886
How old were you when you got to that stage where you yearned for a family?

>>35006906
Not long after I turned 27.

>>35006906
I'm not >>34998877 by the way

>>35006917
How old are you now?

Oh yes the good ole repost filterbot

>>35006893
>tough
haha anon pls I'm fragile as fuck
although I definitely think my parents are partly to blame. I also think I could have avoided this myself, but being spoilt by them as just made have no value for anything.
Maybe it's what I would have done different knowing what I know now sorta thing.
anyway I'm not even 25+ so I doubt I know anything about true suffering yet

How old are you and what's the oldest woman you'd date?

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>>35002105
work at costco

>>35007013
You need to blame them to move on. Dont think blaming them is some teenage blame bullshit. The day i decided thatita my mums fault is the day i realised i cannot stay here i need to get out or she'll keep me helpless forever

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>>34998877

the future sucks
27 this year, thats a good time to end it all right?

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>26
>gonna be 27 in a few months
>tfw never had a gf and want one very bad because it's one of those comfy life experiences
>fat as fuck
>got gym account
>yesterday was my last day of bad eating
>haven't had a steady job yet,just field work with the Mexicans for a month and one shit warehouse job 2 years ago
>community college dropout
>last semester i aced my botany 2 classes
>tfw applied to panda express
>got the interview
>"what makes YOU panda material"
>didn't know what to say, just regurgitated what I thought they wanted to hear
>tfw didn't get the job at panda express
>tfw not qualified to take boxes out of a truck
>applied to WINCO
>Get a rejection letter from cart pusher gig
>parent's only got like 5 years left
>poor, no connections,no friends
>don't know what to do with life
>stuck in a rut and want to leave hence the gym account
>I lost 40 lbs then gained it back
>can't break the 40 barrier because the depression hits

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>>35007084
Actually I remember a conversation I had with my sister awhile back and she was saying that my mother was to blame, something about not wanting the last child to move out and still spoiling me despite me being the failure of the family.
idk I'm terrified when I think about the concept of living on my own, but it's also something I know needs to be done to actually mature and stop feeling like I'm still 17 despite being 24.
It's amazing I have to be drunk on a monday night to realize this.
Thanks anon.
Sorry for blogposting lads.

>>34998877
at least you got hair

>>35004030
I've been to the brothels outside of Vegas a few times, if you just need to hump something warm for a while, it's an option.

>>35006475
this is why we're on 4chan and not the face jew in the first place

>>35002170
might as well say you're not a kv if you got kissed by mommy when you were a boy. a platonic kiss from a 55 year old female coworker means basically jack shit.

I just spend most of time on twitter laughing at dumb twitter memes. It's one of the only things that actually makes me happy these days.

>>35002359
"just write a novella"

holy fuck i hate this shit.

i remember when i used to think that writing a book would be my redeeming quality. something to prove "hey, look, i'm not a retard. i wrote a book"

now i'm 25 and have been in a state of fulltime apathy for the past three years.

nothing will ever get better. and holding onto dreams like "writing a novella" is a waste of time because it's fucking stupid and will never happen.

kill yourself.

>>35002105
*long sigh*

yep.

>>35001708
at least you had one, fucking crybaby faggot. true pain is when you can't feel anything anymore because you've been alone so long you've forgotten how to do it.

>>35001592
if that's you and you really are a wizard then i believe you are a true robot and autist.

>>35007505
Thats open to debate anon.

T. Ive never had a gf

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>go to little beach town to unwind form brain fog and disconnect from the web for a while
>18 year old couples are holding hands and enjoying their youth
>or groups of people talking having a good time laughing and shit
>will never have that, or will never have that if i contuse this path
>realize i spent the best days of my life online
>will never hold hands and enjoy a cone with a gf then go to the arcade and play games
>27 now

>>35007663
>tfw you spent 23-27 locked up inside your apartment

iktf anon

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>>34998877
anon at least get a nice pair of headphones, I promise they make it at least a little bit better
go ask /g/, they're probably nicer than we are

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27. Spending my president's day off from work locked in my studio apartment, reading the gunsmith cats manga over coffee. Pretty comfy desu

>>34998877
That picture got some empathy out of me. Best of luck man, I really hope you find something. You look like you need it more than anyone else.

>>35000953
I did that. Was actually a great time. Haven't gotten to the an hero part yet, but working on it.

Anyone here seen this video. This robot has a Phd in chemistry but he's an unemployed 34 year old virgin. The guy who made these videos later deleted his channel but someone else re-uploaded the videos

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ViQEsoxWfE

one year follow up video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nzQN3KS6v-M

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cec6qevJP8

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My friends gf broke up with him after a million years so I taped some Tobacco to his door with a gay note to keep his spirits up.

Another friends uncle committed suicide.

My cousin went to talk to me in teh straight but turned out he didn't want to talk and was really rude wouldn't shake my hand. Probably because I'm NEET.

I hope that tobacco doesn't get stolen I feel like a retard.

I'm so glad my parents got a new dog. At least it makes me happy.

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>>35007031

I'm 26 now and I'd say I can find females attractive in a range of +- 10 years, so 16-36. But being a KV robot, that's totally irrelevant of course.

>>34990904
same here, not giving up yet and going back to college.

I've met a few 25+ old dudes that look pretty old, I look like a 20 year old. I'm aware of my age but at least that feeling of being permanently self conscious about looking older than the rest of the kids isn't haunting me, for a few more years hopefully.

I had a gf for 2 years but she dumped me for being a NEET lazy ass. Not going to let that happen to me again

>this month i finally got a real pay for my job (two years of apprenticeship)
>almost spent it all on something (groceries, insurance,rent) and paid my debts to my parents
>have 5 bucks left on my bank account
>bought groceries with bottle refund
>have to survive till next month
I CAN DOIT

>>35009372
Your taste in women doesn't change. You're attracted to the same women that you were when you were 16.

Globalist cucks will try to tell you otherwise.

>>34990927
Early 20s girls prefer older guys. You're at a good spot, friendo

Likewise for women your age - they tend to date men in their 30s

>>34994457
>even if i lost weight

Stopped reading there.
Unfuck yourself, you lazy sack of fat.

>>34990708
>29
>still live with parents
>no job
>might be considered "disabled" if i dont get a job soon
>play BF1 all day

>>35009970
>globalists
>encouraging whites to breed
Yea it's you that's been drinking their kool aid.

>27
>Have a good job as a programmer
>still live with my parents
>spend most of my time lurking and watching anime

I'm really afraid of my future and don't know how to break this stagnation that i'm stuck in.

>33
>last crushed on a girl some 8 years ago
>no social circle
>no women at work

I get random bouts of loneliness or vague longing for intimacy and companionship, but there's never a face on it anymore. Can't remember when I last saw a female that would leave an impression strong enough to last until the evening fap, let alone the next day or week.

Am I supposed to pick a woman based on the criteria of "not physically repulsive" and hope something develops? Or go in fully aware I'm just picking her over loneliness? Is this how adults date? Almost makes me wish I was high-school tier in love again, maybe this time I would actually do something about it

>>35010490
You'd be surprised where trying random hobbies will lead you.

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>>35009999
>those numbers
>such wisdom

>>34991127

Mommy must be so proud of her special boy

>>35000334

I want to learn programming but it's so much to learn and it's hard to find info sometimes you easily get stuck and lose hours trying to find a solution. I was even losing more hair during my time trying to study programming. I was trying to learn phyton and quitted when I reached the point of the lesson were you feel like you didn't understand shit from past lessons...

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>24 yo
>grandma passed away recently, left me feeling existential and shit
>living with mom, stress often what i'll do if something happens to her
>have no idea how to do financial stuff like pay bills and such
>barely finished high school, started working when i was around 17
>washed cars, was a security guard, now working in a convenience store
>the furthest i've gone with a girl was groping around on a bed (not naked tho)
>struggle to find a gf despite looking good, some girls (former coworkers or acquaintances) told me i look like a "player"
>flirt with hot girls from time to time, but they always break contact with me after a couple of dates for some reason
>the last one was a 17 yo chick that i met in the store, got a kiss from her at the very least
>trying to eat healthy, work out and gain confidence so i can finally get a dream high test T H I C C gf and lose my virginity
>considering joining the army later this year

28 y/o here

life only sucks after 25 if you let it suck, otherwise it's awesome

>you still have your youth
>no random pains
>you can still get in shape easily
>no signs of aging (as long as you stay away from cigs and shit food)
>women are in their sexual prime
>people start showing you respect for your opinion
>you don't get ID'd everywhere, saves that dumb hassle

I enjoy my late 20s, it's pretty fun.

>>35011346
Fuck off norman, you cunt

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>27
>shitty university degree
>no job
>got qt gf though
>taking practical classes to get a job

I kind of want to be single again, but then sometimes I install tinder and check out what's out there and see a lot of trash. Online dating has somewhat ruined meeting girls in bars

I mean, if I had tips to getting a girlfriend 25+:

>tinder
>get amazing photos of yourself
>maybe even hire a professional photographer
>study normies
>only go on dates and sleep with them
>don't stay at their houses and don't let them stay at yours overnight
>realize even having a girlfriend is a lonely experience
>she'll never actually care about your real problems
>you'll always die alone, even surrounded by loved ones

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Why can't the normalfags ever be satisfied? They start proding for personal information. I say I'm in college and they start criticizing my major and asking me what I'm doing right now. Why can't they understand that I'm trying?

>>35011569
they ask because they care, they're just bad at caring. if you've known these people for years, they might help you get out of your slump.

>>35011346
>no random pains
if only, I get constant random pains in my knees, my hips and in my heart

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Still providing IT services.
Still wanting to escape even though things look infinitely better than when i was a neet.
Are so called shrinks a meme? Will it help if i go out and actually talk to one?
It's getting to me that i have neither luck nor the brains to achieve what i want and will die a wageslave. At the end of the day this is the thought that occupies my mind. It's there every time i go to sleep.