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Is it possible to cultivate self-confidence without the approval

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Is it possible to cultivate self-confidence without the approval of others? Normies always try to spin it and say that confidence is about not caring what others think, but thats obviously bullshit. If I've been laughed at and bullied my whole life I have no basis for being "confident", unless I just completely delude myself
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I'm not saying I'm confident, but my life is a lot better when I can block out everybody else and just bee myself and do whatever the fuck. When people make fun of me I just look at them like "really dude? You think I fucking care? Are you a damn child? You can't care what they say, once you learn how to block it out you act more naturally and attractive. I know this post is fucking stupid so

Tldr don't give a fuck what anybody thinks whatsoever. Sounds stupid but it will make your life better
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Yes, it is possible. In fact, it's how it should be. In the end, your life is only and forever exclusively yours, fuck the others. Fix a goal, an objective, and by the end of the day, look at yourself in the mirror and ask: how I worked for what I want, what I believe? I strongly think that discipline is the key to being content, and also, confident.
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I just literally dont give a fuck, if you say or do something that has no meaning to me then I just ignore your stupid ass.
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I try not to give a fuck and b mysef but sometimes the cold disproving stares of the normies strike my core, and I need to be alone for an extended period to renew my senses
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confidence is something that is reinforced by others. you didn't get this "don't give a fuck" attitude by sheer will alone, you got it because you're not a weirdo and you know this.
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"Don't care what others thing" is actually the thing you need to do.
You can try being confident by believing everyone thinks you're awesome, but that'll turn you into an asshole and when people reject you you'll face into problems.

You need to understand that shit doesn't matter. You just need to believe that you're like other people. This is hard for the average Robot. Try looking into the mirror and comparing yourself to other people. Just compare how you act and how you look, don't compare your inner personality (bcuz normal people dont watch hentai). You do this to realize that you're not actually that different than others.

If you can't make yourself buy that, change the way you act and try different looks.
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