If looks are all that matters rather than common interests, then what the hell do people in relationships talk about when they're in the same room together?
>>34950543
stupid bullshit to kill time
>>34950543
Just whateverthefuck
>>34950543
They both matter. A ton. Especially in a long-term relationship, and especially because the girl you're with will most likely get fat eventually, and will definitely get old.
To get a relationship started, looks are more important. To keep a relationship going, common interests are more important. To have a successful relationship, I'm of the mind that both together are a necessity.
>>34950543
You must be talking about gay relationships because I don't think any females have any legitimate deep interest in anything other than feeling fun happy whimsical things in the current moment, they're basically on the intellectual level of puppies.
>>34950720
I think you need to keep the drama flowing, keep buying her shit (and even then she'll cuck you 100% assured), and somehow keep things "interesting" for her, something that nobody has ever figured out what it means, perhaps take her on vacations all the time.
And even then they'll just grow weary of you and find whatever reason to leave you for the next Chad.
>>34951176
oh yes and ""talk about you're emotions"", but I think at least part of that is included in "keep the drama going"
>>34950578
This is a tough pill to swallow