Why am I such a weirdo? I just don't get how you're supposed to talk/act that makes you seem "cool", "interesting" or "sexy". I know I'm not ugly. I'm not hot or anything, but I'm not so ugly that it would disqualify me.
No, it's something in the way I talk and walk and carry myself. I don't have grace or poise. I'm awkward and spastic. I wish I could fix it, but I don't even know what I'm doing wrong. There's no manual for this stuff since it comes naturally to most people.
The worst part is, I can *tell* when people start to realize there's something off about me. I meet a girl and she's all smiles and bubbly and and trying to keep a convo, but slowly she realizes that I'm no cool and she loses interest. Its so frustrating.
Maybe I'm autistic or have asperger's or something
>>34902084
>There's no manual for this stuff
"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
>>34902084
Post the latest conversion you had with said female.
Same here.
Decent enough looks and height to get interest but then as people start getting to know me they are put "off"
Example: normies at work for the first week were approaching me and even a few qt's literally threw themselves at me (no other dudes or women around) and I kept playing the edgy autist "introvert" game.
I can tell when people have been talking about me/talked about. The looks on people's faces and undertone changes when I get near them.
>>34902129
Has that book helped you mate? I've skipped through it before and desu I thought it was just more self-help pablum, but if it's really worked then I'd totally try it out and post my experiences
>>34902240
Yeah it has
It's less about self help nonsense and more an explanation of other people's psychology and how you can exploit it