How are you supposed to keep being nice, if no-one is nice in return
>>34883756
Don't suck up to anyone beyond pleasantries. That isn't recognized as kindness even if it truly is.
Maybe not even that.
>>34883756
You don't instead maintain a cold distant composure regardless of whatever lie they try to force into your head.
>>34883756
Treat everyone with a neutral-positive attitude. If they respond with negativity, respond with a similar reaction. If someone is friendly, keep being neutral-friendly to that person, never be overly nice though. Humans naturally take advantage of that.
>>34883756
because people are flawed, anon
you have to decide what is important and spare fuel for those things instead of petty squabbles with normies.
You have to be better than them. You have to be better than yourself.
>>34883756
Be less nice until they respect you more
Then you can be nice, so long as you make it clear through your actions that you're not a pushover
If you're just nice all of the time to everyone they'll see you as beneath them and just use you