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Just got accused of rape, not sure what to do.

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So I was accused of rape by one of my room mates. I'm the guy that takes her to work in the morning since she doesn't have a car. We got into an argument one night and I told her I wouldn't take her to work anymore. She did have to work the next morning and I felt bad for her so I did give her a ride but it was on her to get a ride from then on. A few days later I'm told by one of the other female roommates that her boss questioned why she couldn't get to work on time lately and she told him that the guy that gives her rides (i.e. Me) had tried to rape her and she has to avoid me now if she want to be safe. She's done things like this in the past and it worries me that I might get arrested under false pretenses. What should I do?
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If theres no seaman on her theres no way to proof you raped her


In all cases just sue her if she goes to court against you

Ez profit from roastie whore
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>>34828634
kill her tf you gay or something?
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>>34828634
get lawyer, sue her for making bullshit up
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>>34828735
I don't think that's how it works, not really sure either way but I don't want "registered sex offender" over my name. I'm just a college student, all I ever did was give her rides to work.
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>>34828775
Nothing has happened yet so I'm a bit hesitant to go out and try to make something out of this. I feel like I would be blowing this up way more then it needs to be. I'm just a bit shaken up since this has never happened to me before.
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post pics of her roastie
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>>34828849
>she accuses you of rape
>"nothing has happened yet"

It's defamation. Move out and sue her ass.
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>>34828849
For once in your stupid robot life, don't be retarded. Talk to a fucking lawyer ASAP.
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>>34828876
I'm just a college student, I kind of need this place.
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>>34828805
You dont need to fear that.... if theres no evidence you cant be guilty. Unless she jacks you off in your sleep and inseminates herself and goes to hospital make a rape test u should be fine if u didn't rape her :)
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if you have serious reason to worry and have the resources, talk to a lawyer asap and explain everything. will cost a little bit of money, but they can guide you on the what ifs and the what to dos and you will be in control if things do go south.

for free, you can go to the police station and talk to them NOW and BEFORE she does and just explain everything to them. this is normal and encouraged to do, so i hear

otherwise all you can do if it happens is dont flip out and do anything that would make things worse
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>>34828634
You're already fucked. Might as well do it
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>>34828893
I guess you guys are right. I'll see if i can get some legal advice, again this shit is just kind of crazy to me since all I do is go to class and computer.
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Post about it on 4chan and ask all the NEETs what to do rather than seeking genuine legal advice.
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>>34828634
always believe victims
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>>34828959
>implying single 4chan user is a NEET
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>>34828849
That sounds like a pretty unnerving situation, do what >>34828893 says and talk to a lawyer about it as soon as possible, it's your best option.
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>>34829001
Every single*
Oregano kawai correction origanal desu
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>>34828912
Well we haven't had sex and I have been avoiding her like the plague so I think i should be good there.

>>34828933
That seems like horrible advice.
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>>34828956
Honestly asking the plebbit fags on /r/legaladvice is probably a way faster and more reliable source. The people there tend to take things seriously rather than just memeing.
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>>34828634
Roasties

Not.Even.Once.

If you do think you'll get arrested. Might as well do it for real.
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>>34829044
>That seems like horrible advice.
Welcome to 4chan
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>>34829044

>contract aids

>get diagnosed positive

>she can't say you raped her at any point after the date of the test or she'll have aids

???
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>>34828922
I'm a relatively calm guy so I don't think that will be an issue, I'll go to the police and talk to them about what has happened, I just really don't want to leave my house since I don't think I can find a cheaper place.
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>>34828634
does her boss know who you are? like know you by name? has he seen you? have you talked? if not you're just an anonymous dude, she's not really defaming you. i disagree with using that as a way to get herself off the hook, but she probably only said that to make her boss uncomfortable enough not to ask for details.
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>>34828959
It literally just happened, just wanted to get some ideas of what to do from various sources.
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Make sure you squash this before friends and family find out.
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File a lawsuit. She has to face some kind of consequences for making up bullshit like that. At the least you should do everything you can to get her fired from her job. It's not hard, just Google 'how2 git sumon fiared' if you can't come up with anything.
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>>34829047
No this is a terrible idea, just go find a real lawyer.
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>>34829016
I plan on doing that tomorrow morning. To be honest though It's going to feel a little weird talking to the police about this.
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>>34829138
We are both prior Navy and we worked on the same ship, I just finished my 4 years and left, almost everyone on the ship knows who I am.
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>>34829111

That's pretty much the worst thing you could do. If it comes to police then lawyer up and don't go to the station unless you're in handcuffs. It's not the police's job to help prove innocence. In fact, go ahead and get a lawyer on retainer, as well as bail. The money is in escrow until it's needed or you take it back. It's worth every fucking penny, and doesn't even cost 1 unless you need it.
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>>34829138
Sorry meant to say I'm prior Navy and she is current Navy on the same ship I was on.
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>>34829195
That's to be expected but feeling weird is better than going to jail.
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>>34829044
>That seems like horrible advice
>4chan
New banner when?
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>>34829167
>>34829247
So definitely go to lawyer first? Will do.
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>>34829195
Lawyers are the opposite of police. Make sure when you go it's to the one who wants to help you instead of hurt you. There's kind of a big difference between the two, make sure you can tell them apart.
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>>34829166
dubs confirm this to be true.
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>>34829332
I didn't realize there was a difference.
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Get away from her asap. Everyone will believe her because she possesses a cunt. She may even go crazy and start dragging around a mattress like that nutso roastie did and then went on to make a porno depicting her "rape".
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>>34829453
I've been avoiding her for almost a month now, I just recently found out she accused me of rape.
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>>34829195
Do NOT go to the police, especially not if you live in Burgeristan. Repeat after me:

Policemen are not your friends.
Policemen are not paid to investigate cases fairly, impartially or completely.
Policemen are not penalized in any way for putting the wrong person in jail.
Policemen are vulnerable to the same biases as everyone else.
Policemen will usually favour women, just like everyone else.
Policemen in the US are actually required by law to favour women in domestic violence cases.
Policemen have one job: to identify possible criminals, arrest them and sic their local prosecutor on them.

Also, prosecutors are not your friends, in case you're wondering.
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>>34829641
This, the law are chads

Chad is not your friend
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>>34829641
See this is the kind of shit I'm scared of, i'm just going to go to the lawyers office tomorrow. Never in my life have I had to deal with something like this. I just though If I avoided toxic people then I wouldn't have to deal with shit like this.
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>>34829824
Sorry for making you feel feels, anon. Governments are just fucked in the head and you gotta cover your arse sometimes.
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>>34828634
Go to the police proactively.

Tell them you heard from the third person what your room mate said.

Maybe get a lawyer and sue her for libel or whatever the thing is when its speech and not writing.
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>>34830009
>go to the police

no, go to a lawyer first
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>>34830009
>*enters police station*
>lol hi guys
>did you hear?
>word on the street is I'm a rapist who raped someone last week
>wacky huh?
>good thing it's not a big political issue or has any mandatory reporting requirements
>oh well, toodle-loo!
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>>34830193
As scary as this whole situation is for me, that one made me laugh.
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>>34828849
You need to make the first move in this situation you spineless idiot. Talk to a lawyer and take her to court for defamation. If you just wait then she has time to come up with a sob story to sway the court and it's in her favor then because she's the one taking you to court.
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