tfw I only attract the girls I don't like.
I know of this feeling you mention.
Me too. I think it has to do with the fact that i get nervous as soone as i meet a girl i really like.
And because of that nervousness, i ironically fuck it up every time.
It's much easier with girls you don't really care about, you can usually manipulate them easily. Also, they know they're not attractive and that they need to take their chances, so they will be a lot friendlier and easy in general.
>>34825313
I thought I was alone...
>>34825326
>It's much easier with girls you don't really care about
Are you me?
>>34825270
>>34825313
>>34825326
>>34825361
But then you autists complain about "girls only liking chad".
>>34825548
Not really. I accepted that some girls just make bad choices and search for "bad" guys, who willfuck their lives foreverput them in troubles. I just avoid this kind of girls, while I try to improve as a person.
>>34825548
We get the kind of girls that even chad doesn't want. They are settling for us because they are fat and ugly and its all really sad for everyone involved.
>tfw only attract girls who are out of my league
I don't know why I can attract normies, but not autistics like Eliza.
I dated one really cute girl and after we broke up we remained friends and I couldn't get any non-fat, non-ugly girl to like me. I asked her about that and basically complained that "no attractive girl is into me."
She told me that was bullshit, that attractive girls and non-attractive girls find the same guys attractive, it's just that non-attractive girls are more likely to approach you.
I think she was full of shit and my experience with online dating has more or less confirmed that.
>>34825771
I just want a kind and gentle girl, educated, cute (not astonishing 11/10's, just objectively cute, fit and healthy), and slightly pervy.A soft and feminine voice would be even better
Am I asking for something impossible?
>>34825839
>that attractive girls and non-attractive girls find the same guys attractive, it's just that non-attractive girls are more likely to approach you
a man can dream
>>34825915
>girl
>kind
Pick one. They're all wicked.
>>34825958
tfw she'll never be real. I'll go somewhere else and listen to Neutral Milk Hotel...
>>34825958
I still have faith, anon.
>>34825771
>being picky
>hate girls for being picky
Actually autistic, good job!
I don't attract any girls, you all sound like normies. Sage.
>>34825270
http://reductress.com/post/how-to-stop-being-so-picky-and-settle-for-someone-you-barely-like/
Read this. You can't have it both ways either you are not picky or okay with others being so.
>>34826458
Are you discriminating us? #NormiesLivesMatter.
*holds in breath* AT LEAST YOU CAN ATTRACT ONE GIRL YOU MOTHERFUCKER REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>34826490
>You can't have it both ways
Yes, you can. Not being attracted to ugly girls is not being picky, in the same way that women are picky.
Women are ULTRA picky and will discard you for any minor detail.
>didn't like his hair
>didn't like his clothes
>he has a weird voice
>his eyes are the wrong angle
>he plays video games
unless of course you are a male model aka chad.
>>34826558
But it's not the kind of girls I want to attract...
>>34825822
>autistics like Eliza
I hope your fucking joking.
>>34826574
Also, once I attracted an effeminated grandpa. He was an old dude who was dressed in a "posh" way.
I attract cluster B women a lot. My friend believes it's because I remind them of their nonexistent father figure. I hate it.
>>34826490
I'd rather be single than settle for someone I barely like though. I mean it has some gems of truth, like trying to leave your comfort zone and acknowledging that someones flaws will likely not go anywhere (e.g. don't date a fat gal hoping she'll lose her weight). But I'd rather be alone than try to build a life with someone that can barely muster up a "meh".
>>34826567
Would love to get in on the whole "romance movies are like feels porn and raise unrealistic expectations" thing, but I fear that this would bleed into my real life attitude and as a beta hoping to get laid this would most likely kill my chances.
>>34826636
You are right. Even if she loves you, someone tagging along because "what the fuck why say no to a free cookie" really hurts her, too, in the end.
Speaking from my male e
>>34826733
..xperience
>>34826636
>cluster B women
What is this?
>>34826636
>I'd rather be single than settle for someone I barely like though
People already forgot that girls are for sex. If you want to share your deepest feelings... that's what friends are for.
>>34825822
If you're attracting girls outside of your league they aren't outside of your league. Nice humble bragging chad.
>>34826574
Fuck off. At least you're attracting a girl and not a dude, quit your bitching and lower your standards. Unless they're black, obese, or mentally disabled you should at least give them a chance.
>>34826924
>At least you're attracting a girl and not a dude
I attracted a few guys too. But I'm more into little girls...
>>34826764
Bumpo for this.