I just got rejected once again lads. It really hurts. How do you cope with this feeling?
stop expecting anything more than being alone
try to move on, i had a girl's mom tell me not to see a girl. i tried talking to her anyway and some other girl cockblocked me.
I have a strategy that works for me.
I force myself to not think about girls, except when I am in their presence. This way I stop wallowing in sadness about the whole thing.
>>34822646
forget about it
nothing matters
>>34822678
I'm starting to think that may be the answer. I've tried it all. I'm highly introverted and shy. But I tried to go out to the clubs pretty much every weekend for two years, tried nights drinking, tried nights sober, tried nights alone, tried nights with people I knew, tried dressing well, tried being outgoing. It all failed. Last year I had a breakdown and became a full blown hiki, this year I've been healing and have tried socialising. I've been doing the be yourself meme and that has actually raised my confidence and self-esteem. And I still failed. People don't like the fake me and the real me.
It hurts to get rejected so much. Even in high school I must have been rejected at least 5 times.