Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
If you are a fuckup, would you claim they contributed to the way you are right now?
>>34809387
I have a great relatsionship with my parents, they are are still providing for me even as a 25 y/o NEET and let me live with them rent-free.
>>34809387
My mom is in jail and I never met my father. I'm not even black
I get along OK with my parents, but once I started to pay attention I realized they are both kind of stupid and petty.
>>34809387
no, my dad is a dismissive asshole who doesn't care about me and my mom is a cheating bitch.
>>34809387
I have a good relationship with my parents, but we don't have much in common.
I don't think i'm a fuck up, but it would have been nice if they had me interact with more kids during my developmental years so maybe I wouldn't have social anxiety. My parents were pretty libertarian with how they raised me, so they pretty much let me do whatever as long as I wasn't doing anything bad, and did well in school.
>>34809387
My parents always tried to make me do what they wanted, instead of what I wanted.
The wanted me to be a lawyer. I had no interest.
The hated the girl I was dating. Wound up marrying her.
They love me, but they have no idea what it is that makes me happy, and it's not like I ever made it a secret. They just never wanted to ask.
I'm in a great place in my life. I make ~45 bucks per hour doing a job that I love, and have been happily married for 6 years this June, and I am completely debt free, but they are somehow convinced that I have fucked up my life, and are constantly needling me about how I could be "so much happier," if I would just quit my job and go to college, then law school, and divorce my wife.
I speak, but they never LISTEN.
Anyways, I love the shit out of my life, but disregarding what my mom and dad pushed was the best thing I've ever done, and they don't realize that.