Robot Help Thread #3

>>34787243
How to form a meaningful relationship without fucking it up.

>>34787583
I'm afraid that's a question without an answer.

Honest bro tip: If you're ugly you can get girls by being funny and witty.

If you're not funny the next thing I can say is find common ground

>>34787243
I live in Tampa near USF. Can anyone get me a job nearby? Longshot but here goes.

>>34787744
I do all these things and I'd say I'm not that ugly and I still get nothing.

gg

>>34788451
I can't help you with that.

But search in the news paper for job interviews or help wanted.
it's not that hard even if you don't have a degree.

EVERY SINGLE MOMENT IS A TOUGH TIME

>>34788503
Tell me your thoughts and maybe we can get to a point in where i can give you an advice.

What do you do when no one makes an effort to talk or see you? Like you're constantly trying to make plans to do things with people or friends and they always let you down.

>>34788555
Find someone you connect with who won't let you down. Shit happens to me all the time, I'm constantly let down by everyone in my life.

I just haven't found the right people I guess.

>>34787243
I've had a bunch of retarded fetishes for as long as I can remember and have never been attracted to a living human being in my lifetime. Is there any hope for me?

>>34788584
That's the kicker. I thought I connected well with these people. When I do see and meet up with people through parties and shit, we have a great time. Good talks, good laughs etc...

But whenever I try to organise something with someone, they don't do shit.

>>34788555
They might not be the friends you think they are.

I suggest either beeing a little bit more flexible on the suggestions about the meet ups,beeing more intresting Telling stories about your past even if they are lies sometimes or just get new friends becouse the feelings you have for them are not the same they have for you.

Also this:
>>34788584

>>34788621
I honestly don't know why this happens.

I'm the same way, I can get along great with a bunch of people and then get sidelined and excluded by them. I feel like I'm always the one putting the effort into everything and nobody ever reciprocates it.

>>34788616
Yes.
You might not renember or you haven't found that ""special one"" yet..
Also if you want to have a ""special one"" why are you asking this?
Is it becouse you want to be ""normal""?

>>34788679
Being normal would be ideal, I am a complete normalfag aside from my fucked up sexuality and aborted romantic life. Flesh and body parts really don't do it for me, so I don't know how I can really find a person to be with.

>>34788733
kek

what are your retarded fetishes, I need a laugh.

>>34788733
I won't lie..
This is something i have never heard about in my life.
Is there a chanse that you can get a fetish for human affection?

>>34788754
Animal transformation, humiliation and crossdressing are the only things that turn me on. This has been the case for me since I was at least 8.

>>34788757
I don't know what that would be like. I already don't like it when people touch me.

>>34787243
Fello Robots, how do I find motivation? I find it difficult to even get out of bed everyday. I'm just so tired and nothing makes me feel any different.

>>34788792
Since 8?
Can you tell me a little bit on how do you think this originated?

>>34788792
I guess the only really bad shit is furry porn from that
Anything else is really normie fetishes
i mean cmon its 2017

>>34788839
I feel the same
But going outside without any reason,walking and just enjoying the little things in life keep me going.
Also you can try things like (Insert Name Of a Musical Instrument That Anon Finds Intresting Here) gym or things that you find intresting and capable of doing

>>34788864
No idea.

I grew up watching lots of Disney movies in the early 90s around the time when the transformation shit started. I always liked girls clothes. My mom said I wanted to wear my younger sister's baptismal dress when I was three, which I don't remember.

>>34788878
I was into that shit long long before I knew what furry porn was. And the humiliation stuff got weird when I was younger like making cringe drawings of animals getting tied up and fucked and leaving them around the house while fapping to the idea that my parents would find them and be deeply ashamed of me.

>>34787583
It's hard, I often screw it up, whenever I'm close to having something steady and intimate in a platonic way, I go and try to take it to the next level and get my dick involved, and ruin everything.

Just be genuine and honest, and fun to be around. Share ideas, dreams, jokes, etc. Be comfy to be around. And don't try to kiss them every 2 days.

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Help. How do I not fall in love with this girl?

>>34788982
Why don't you want to be in love with somebody?
You don't want to get hurt?
Or do you know you don't have a stand a chanse with her and you want to give up?

>>34787583
Find complacency within yourself.

In a less autistic way, just be happy with yourself before getting into relationships. It fucks with your shit if you aren't.

Also, realize that it's okay to have different interests, needs, wants, or preoccupations. Don't put the other person on a fucking pedestal.

>>34789013
>Or do you know you don't have a stand a chanse with her and you want to give up?
Yes, that.

>>34788941
The only way i see it is to leave your fetishes away.
And try to handle human affection everyway you can.
Also the humilliation can fetish can go well with the "i don't like to touch people" thing.

>>34789034
Ok.
So you want to stay as a friend with her?
Becouse what i'm getting from the message are 2 things
1-She is into you
2-She sees you as that friend wich is always there for her not matter what happens.

>>34789040
That's something I've tried many times before. It's what my sexuality is. There's nothing to leave behind because it's a part of me. Normal porn is jarring as fuck to me, and abstaining eventually just causes me to get diamond hard at inconvenient times to intrusive thoughts.

I'd try therapy maybe but this shit is just too embarrassing to talk to anyone about.

How can I start to socialize from zero at the uni?

In September, I was motivated to change things up but social anxiety caught me back a week later. Almost didn't talk to anyone since.
I literally have no friends and I'm tired to be seen as a creep.

>>34789081
>this shit is just too embarrassing to talk to anyone about.
Isn't humilliation one of your fetishes?

Also the therapy sounds nice.
since i don't think i can do much with the information and your mental state right now.

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>>34789077
I don't really think she thinks either of those ways. We just kind of talk about stuff on facebook and have similar interests. She's very sweet and kind though.

>>34789095
I personally have heard getting into clubs in uni is a decent way to get to know people. Maybe dorm life but that seems eh.

>>34789106
It's hard to explain. I get off to humiliation but I don't feel like I can seriously talk to someone about the extent of it, even if it is a therapist. I'm a pretty reserved person.

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>finally work up the courage and decide I'm gonna ask someone to hang out
>realize I don't have anywhere interesting in mind to hang out

FUCK

>>34789095
Welp..
Imagine a ladder.
The ladder has steps
Each step is like a level of social connections
Start at the bottom and the bottom step will help you get connections from the next step and so on.
That's how i did it i'm not happy since i always feel like shit but the mask helps a lot.
But your case is harder since you have social anxiety,so let's focus on how to get ""rid of it""
there are 2 ways that i know

1 Anxiety comes from knowing you're inferior to others. accept that you suck, and it'll get better.

2 Gain confidence in anyway posible.

>>34789150
Thanks. I thought about that but except for parties there is absolutely nothing in my country. Clubs are literally about that. Seems a little harsh for a start.

Any idea on how I could introduce myself to random people? I don't need much, just to find a group and it already feels unreachable

>>34789128
Mm.. Well you should get some face to face talk and maybe meet ups
Know more about her etc etc.
After a while of you 2 knowing each other just tell her how you have been feeling.
If it fails
Well too bad but hey life keeps going and if you are lucky you can still be friends
And if she actually feels the same way and wants to be with you
hey enjoy while it lasts.

>>34789234
I struggle to see the point. How can I be confident if I need to beat myself even more?

>>34789285
You beat yourself over to the point where it only gets better and better.
And who knows if you do it you might find out that you don't suck at all after all.

Also that's one of the 2 points.

>>34789285
Also It takes years of self talk to convince yourself to stop giving a shit about what others might think about you.

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I feel like i really need to see a therapist again but I'm so afraid of telling someone my life and more only for them to leave. First was Robin who left when she transfered schools, then there was Sarah who moved so the trip to me was too far. The other night I realized that i stay up late so that I become tired enough that the moment I lay my head down I will fall asleep. If I don't then I will sit in the dark thinking about things that are meaningless and have no affect on my life, yet I obsess over them to the point that I feel worthless.

A-am I a robot?
Please help.

>>34789309
I can appreciate metaphors but I lost years trying to put words on what happened in my life, it never helped me unfortunately. I need to feel proud about little social successes to gain confidence.

Do you have practical advices? Concretely, how do I talk to random students without being a creep or a sperg? I spend so much time alone, I can talk to buy something but that's all.

>>34789372
Why are you afraid of people leaving you?
Is it becouse something happend in your childhood?
Or do you feel lonely?

Also stop doing the "I sit in the dark thinking about things that don't have an affect in my life but i can't stop thinking about them" stuff becouse it's gonna fuck you over in the long run.
it's going to stop you from archiving anything significant in your future
That is if it didn't happend yet.

>>34789257
Fuck if I know. Socializing has always been a bitch for me; just note the obvious things like don't open up with "I browse 4chan" and shit like that.

>>34789429
Nothing of the sort happened in my childhood that I can think. It's literally only Robin and Sarah that fucked me on that one, and it was at the age of 16 and 17 respectively. I really shouldn't feel lonely either. I've got a job and friends, I'm close with my family and there's plenty of people who care about me. I have a girlfriend of 5+ years. But even with all of this, things still keep me up at night

>>34789464
Funny, I often imagine myself doing something that cringy, even if I would never talk about 4chan in real life obviously, I think I just like to imagine the worst-case scenarios to punish myself.

>>34789095
I'm in the same position but i'm just learning to accept I will always be like this. I can't talk to anyone at uni without it triggering a panic attack. I had a girl simply ask me for my notes and I wanted to puke. That's how bad it is. The only advice I can give you is to not expect it to be easy. Expect disappointment.

>>34789608
Are you me? A girl asked me too, I couldn't leave my phone when she was copying.

We can't be like that forever, it's too extreme to be permanent. When did it start for you? I was 15.

>>34789196
Get a hobby anon. look up online for hobbies that get you to socialize and would take you outdoors. That would help a lot.If you don't like what you are doing, then switch the hobby. Keep on trying new stuff and you'll eventually discover something you are interested in and people who like the same stuff too. Best of luck!

>>34789257
Go to /r/socialskills on leddit. Ask them for help. They sometime good give advice anon. Hope everything works out for you. What I did in uni was to sit around people and listen to them to talk. If they were talking about something that I was interested in, I would jump in and make a comment from the side on that topic, then start talking about them. After 5 minutes I would ask for their name and introduce myself. Then you just start seeing them everyday and talking to them.This is how I made friends in uni.

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FIgued out my egf was cheating on me and constantly flirting with her beta orbiter and ex boyfriends. Im gonna talk to her in like 7 hours when she wakes up and I have no idea how to break up with her.
how do?

>>34789257
>>34789754
Also anon try to smile when you talk to them and be at ease, if you're a bit stiff you might come as unlikeable. Be cool that's all and it would work out :)

>>34789717
I have honestly been like this my whole life, for as long as I can remember. But it's becoming even worse now. I'd be lying if I said it doesn't freak me out, being in uni where i'm supposed to create all these "amazing" memories but I can't even hold a convo without the damn anxiety. It really holds me back man.

>>34789754
Thanks man, I will follow your advice, very practical I like that. I can almost stop thinking and it's what I want, unplug my brain.

I may keep an eye on leddit because of you. Hope it worth it.

>>34789765
be honest and tell her you're breaking up with her because of the cheating. literally just say it and block the bitch. she no longer exists. how did you figure out she was cheating?

How do I find a NEET boyfriend (gay) to be in a toxic relationship with?

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>>34789844
she asked me to talk to one of her beta orbiters from discord to tell him to stop messaging her. and after a 30 minute skype call it turned out he was a really chill guy and told me about how she talks about getting fucked by everyone in that discord and how she still loves her ex boyfriends and is trying to get back together with em. Also found out she was a turbo slut and lied about only having sex once with a pedo when she was 15 and was pretty much a cumdump for a while

>>34789866
Make a thread. Works for all the other gay faggot trap threads. Now fuck off to /lgbt/

>>34789888

Nice trips, but I don't like traps and I report trap threads and Steam feel threads. I want an average NEET bf.

>>34789835
You're welcome anon. Just remember that you're not the only one like that in uni. Everybody has come from different places and everybody feels like that in a new environment. So somebody out there in your class is feeling the same way as you. Try to change seats often, sit everyday with new people,listen to them and make yourself known and try what I did. If it helps sit in the middle of class, not at the back because if you sit at the back you're just isolating yourself. When you sit in the middle maybe someone would try to start a conversation with you. If you can't find anyone then just bitch and gossip about professors with random people. That's also a good starter. Hope you make friends anon, I wish you the best. And you should try reddit. Try asking that question on askreddit or other subreddits too and hope you can find good answers. We are all not good at doing this anon, we only become better with practice. Also if you have a normie book try adding people in your class to your profile. The key is to make them known and get some good hobbies too.

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How do I find the energy and willpower to put effort into my schoolwork when I've been failing for the last 9 or so years? How do I break out of this when all that makes me comfortable now is refreshing 4chan at home all day? How do I get over all the wasted opportunities from before?

And one more thing. How do I start to feel healthy stress again? I don't feel motivated to try anymore when I feel that there's ALWAYS a chance to try again and succeed later (e.g. you hear of people starting college in their late 30s and still being very successful) so I just sleep in/don't do homework and put it off until later/tomorrow/next semester and have that false hope again. When I DO feel stress it's the manic kind at 1 am the day before a test when I need to study 6 chapters so I can maybe get a C and I'm hating myself and almost crying out of self-hate.

>>34789806
Good advice too. I need to be careful, I tend to act completely depressed with strangers even more than I really am. Anxiety eats me from inside in public.

>>34789814
This is why I don't want to give up, the shit gets worst every year. I can't imagine myself in five years. I can only encourage you to try because I failed every time for now. I'm a bad example. At least we are still in uni, so we can do even worst...

>>34789882
You've probably already thought of this but how do you know he's telling the truth? I mean if I was being unfaithful to a gf the last thing I would do is tell them to go talk to someone who is aware of my scumbag ways and tell them I said to fuck off.

>>34789947
he had nudes of her, showed me chatlogs of the discord on his screen over skype and everything lined up

>>34789924
You still have time anon. Don't be so tense about it. You have to be cheerful and think positive. That's important. Anxiety would go away with practice. You have to move out of your comfort zone. I know it sounds cliched but lying to yourself works. Think that you're happy and smile. Believe me a positive outlook on the world changes your perception. People reciprocate your personality, if you come off as depress then they behave the same way and see you as a gloomy person, if you come off as cheerful, you seem to be more likable. So try to smile more, even when you're not feeling it. That would help :) Like when I started college 3 years ago, I didn't knew anyone at all. I was sitting at my seat and hear two people in front of me talking about where they came from and discussing about that. They lived close to each other. One of that place was where my aunt lived and I jumped in and talked to them about have you seen this or that and yea I have been there and talked that my aunt lived there. Then I asked for their name and introduced myself. Asked about their family and started bitching how stupid the professors are. We started sitting together next day and from that day we just became friends.Always greeting them with a smile, showing that I am happy to be in their company. I started hanging with them and through them I was added in their social circles. Key is being cheerful and likable.

>>34789980
I'm so sorry. No advice but best of luck to you m8.

>>34789919
Know that you're lying to yourself. Realize that. You have self hypnotized yourself and you know that. You know life doesn't work that way, those people just got lucky. Realize that this is your only chance at success and you won't have the same success as those people had. Try to talk to your parents about it if you have good relations with them or your siblings or cousins. You seem depressed to me anon. Talking with people you're close to help. You have to find your drive again and honestly nobody could help you there. Stop lying to yourself. You have been living in delusion thinking that everything would work out fine when you know it will not because you're acting like a lazy bum. Success comes to those who work hard and you know that fact too anon. First thing in solving this problem is acknowledging what you have been doing wrong. You need to stop living in the future and start living in the present. You need to do some soul searching.You won't get this time again anon, and you have to realize this fast. If you don't like what you're doing, talk to people and discover what you love and what you're passionate about and work on that. Stop shutting in yourself and open up to people who can help you out. Also get off the internet and rediscover who you are. Think you have just woke up from amnesiac coma and you have to find yourself again. That's all I can say anon. I wasted first 3 years of my uni like that too. In my final year I realized life doesn't work that way and you don't become a millionaire in a day when you're older. It's all luck. I used to dream that I would be successful later and all my classmates would work for me. I used to be deluded that everything would work out fine. But life doesn't work according to you. I realized that in my final year and now I am working to improve my grades and finding a good job while all my classmates have been placed. Once you know you have been lying to yourself, you will feel that healthy stress again.

>>34790025
Thanks again for all the details. I have not read so much good advices in a row on /r9k/ since a long time.

I have a last question, do you think browsing too much can be unhealthy in my case? You are here and in a good state of mind but should I take a break in my position?

>>34790169
Thank you very much for the thought out advice anon. I'm going to save it. I'll do my best to confront the fact that I've been under my own delusion.

>Think you have just woke up from amnesiac coma and you have to find yourself again.
I'll keep this in mind from now on.

>>34790202
Not your initial responder but definitely yes; the less time you spend on here the better, if you are serious about making changes in your life. It's not only the fact that this place can be a hopeless echo chamber, it's also somewhere where it's so easy to procrastinate hours and hours away when you could be doing something more productive.

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when did all the normies with their regular normie problems invade /r9k/? I used to be able to take screencaps of some truly autistic shit but all of what I'm reading is average stuff.

>>34790202
Anon I have been on r9k for just a week and I start to feel low too on here. I am really going to quit soon because I feel it do start to affect my mind but I just come back to give people some advice. I think the sadness and depression here try to suck people in. It's like an echo chamber of depression and loneliness. r9k is very very unhealthy and toxic. You can find a good thread once in a while and honestly I am a normie. It can be a good for you if you want to vent out and talk to someone when you're lonely, but it does makes you more depress, seeing people who tried and failed in their life and posting about it here. You feel like you will never succeed after reading those posts. I think you should stay off the board for a week or two or longer if possible. Try to find good hobbies that help you socialize, join a gym and start lifting. I can even teach you how to socialize in a gym, like I just joined a gym just a month ago and I started lifting. Try to ask random people in the gym to be your spotter in the gym when the weight is too heavy. After they have helped you out, just introduce yourself and say thanks to them, make small talk about asking how long have they been here, what diet should you take etc. stuff like that.And from the next day just start greeting them with a smile, and shake their hands. Slowly you build up a relationship asking more about them and telling them more about yourself.People aren't too bad and if you put yourself out there, you'll find that it's very easy to talk. So yeah, you should stay away from this board anon. Your anxiety won't go away in just a day, but as you put yourself out there more and more, it will make it easier for you definitely. If you fail, just don't give up. That's all I can say, have faith and keep believing in yourself, don't be dishearten when things don't work out and keep on trying.Stay off r9k.

Every time I pull off my pants my dick gets stuck in the little underwear hole and I tug not knowing my dick is stuck in my underwear hole. Any solutions?

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when did all the autists with their autist problems invade /r9k/? I used to be able to take screencaps of some truly awesome self help/lifehack/motivation/infodump/greentext/joke threads but all of what i'm seeing is tfwnogf.

>>34790270
>>34790343
I'm here since three years, joined a gym last week but never went to... This is a start.

Ok, you guys are what I needed. I save everything and I'm done at least for the month, whatever happens, I need to try more, take more risks, staying here makes me feel like I will never be bored. I think I was just hoping for practical advices for a long time.

See you, fellow normies.

>>34790490
Best of luck anon. You're right. Take more risks. Staying here won't make you feel bored but you would just be in your safe space. Challenge your comfort zone. Inaction is worse then doing something and failing at it. Better try and fail then live in regret of what ifs. You'll succeed for sure, my best wishes are with you :)

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>>34787243
how do i find genuine friends on 4chan?
how do i find a gf(male or female) on 4chan?

>>34790697
Make a thread on /r9k/, /lgbt/, /soc/ or /adv/. I hope that can help.

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Is life worth living at all if you've been dealt with a shit hand at life as a 5'8 ugly manlet chink in a third world country?

>>34787243
How do I convince my parents to support me during the waiting period while I try to get disability payments.

>>34790817
definitely 3rd world anon san

>>34790726
thanks anon
very originalu

>>34791222
You're welcome. I know leddit is a meme here but the_donald is a very cohesive community. You really can find good people there if you want to anon. I hope you can give it a shot too. Hope you find great friends and a gf/bf :)

how do i stay sober? i cant seem to go a week without deciding to do a drug, usually weed, morphine acid, or a cigarette

>>34789196
just ask to chill at a park or walk around the mall, you dont have to buy anything

>>34791391
Excersize for an hour everyday. You'll get a natural high that feels better then any toxic substance you put in your body

>>34791391
I hope this can help. Hope you read the article especially.
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/5pw80r/everyone_needs_to_watch_this_ted_talk_and_read/

>>34791257
thanks .__.
i just dont know how to start a thread or how to interact with people

>>34791422
You mean on reddit?

how do i get over my work anxiety aka laziness, i proctastinate everything to the last minute and i feel anxious before doing anything that takes effort such as schoolwork or chores and i havent even begun looking for a job

>>34791439
yes, also 4chan

>>34791445
See these. Someone answered such type of questions.
>>34789719
>>34789754
>>34789806
>>34789905
>>34790025
>>34790169
>>34790343
These are my precious answers to such similar questions. Hope it can help you anon.

anybody know any good places to find some trap porn?

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>>34791507
Here dear anon
https://luscious.net/c/trap_manga/

>>34787243
haya?

>>34791543
i've already gone through all of the crossdressing males only tags on exhentai

>>34791449
For 4chan:
Anon on 4chan you just need to go to a board and look on the top of the board, look for start a new thread. You can fill the stuff out there, like what you are looking for in comments.Also do remember to upload a pic too as this is an imageboard. Pic can be anything.
For Reddit:
On reddit, you need to make an account first. It is very easy, you just need to select a username and a password, no compulsory email required. Then just go to one of the subreddits. Post a question on /r/askreddit to ask about such subreddits where you can make friends. To make a thread look on the right side and there is an option of submit a new text post. Click on it and make a new post. Lurk around and see how the site works.Easier would be to just google "making friends subreddit" and you'll find many subreddits where you can make friend anon.For social skills, I suggest you check out /r/socialskills on reddit. It does offer some good advice. Best of luck anon, I hope you can find some good friends.

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>>34791135
That did nothing to allay the stress and anxiety my existential crisis is giving me, but I appreciate the sentiment.

>>34791422
Also anon see these.>>34791492

>>34791577
t-thanks anon.
but i wasnt talking about how to practically make a thread in either.
i was talking about how to make a thread in kind of a, what words to use and such sense.

im a clueless, socially retarded, friendless robot, bear that in mind anon

>>34791641
Anon I really don't know. Just put a thread on r9k and put "Lonely friendless robot looking for genuine friends. Want someone to talk to." Also post similarly "Genuinely looking for a gf(male or female)" stuff like that. And put up your discord or other contact info, if you have one, in the info and ask them to add you there. That's all I can help you with. How old are you anon?

>>34791697
thanks for the help anon, im 19.
just joined a discord off of reddit

>>34791839
I hope everything works out for you anon. Don't put the robot word on reddit. Just say a 19M looking for friends. And then tell something about yourself on subreddits. On 4chan you can use the robot word. Hope you find friends anon.On reddit lurk for some time and look at different posts. You will get the idea on how to make your own posts. Bye anon. Gotta go now.

I don't know anyone who is interested in me as a person. Everybody that I know is just looking to use me, or my skills. Friends do not ever want to hang out with me or even respond it to text. I'm only asked to come hang out if they need favors.

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>>34788839
You can't just conjure up motivation, a least not without a lot of mental gymnastics.

If you have something you find interesting, there's that, whether it's a musical instrument or shanking people in dark alleyways, it's something to be awake for. But I figure you already thought of that and got nothing, and that's why you're here.

If you are capable of using said "mental gymnastics" forcing yourself to do something, it may be an effective way out as you'll enjoy something more as you see clear signs of improvement, and form routine and discipline, making it easier to do.

If you have no interest in anything, and don't have the willpower to force yourself to do something about your situation, welcome to mental illness. If you can think of a good way to deal with it, good, it often varies from person to person. If you've got nothing, best bet is to try to get medication, or hard drugs, they're basically the same thing and might give you back some feeling or reason.

I hope this is at all helpful, Anon, best I could get from my own experience. Worried about you.

>>34790846
Good or bad relationship with parents? Anyone else to fall back on?

>>34791882
thanks anon, you helped a lot

>>34792121
Try looking for more people anon. There will be someone who will like you for who you are and have common interests like yours. But don't give up on your current "friends" too no matter how they treat you right now, because if you do it, you'll end up socially isolated. There are always people out there who will like you for who you are and would see you as their true friend. Don't give up and keep trying, that's all I can say.But do try to ignore your current friends a bit, learn to say no to them.Maybe they don't see your value because you're putting yourself out there too much? Still, look up people who share your hobbies and interests and befriend them. Also there is an anon above, add him as a friend too. He's a clueless, isolated robot in his own terms. He seems to be a nice kid. >>34791839

>>34792121
I guess when you're looking for more meaningful relationships, over the internet would not be as good although I'm in the same situation right now and wouldn't mind more interesting conversation.

I suppose you just have to give them an ultimatum. I can't ask you to just outright ditch them, as I imagine you must still have some degree of attachment to them, but air the problems you've been having and they might be willing to talk more.

If not, time for some new friends, buddy-boy.

>>34792209
Also anon, you should try to get out more. Try to socialize more in real world. Look in this thread and you'll find out how you can do it. Lots of answers are there for social anxiety and awkwardness.Perhaps you can give them a try? If you always stay in your comfort zone, you will never learn how to be comfortable around people anon. Try putting yourself out there.

>>34792237
Add this kid on discord.>>34792209
He has no friends and looking to make genuine friends on 4chan.Hope you can help him out anon.

>>34792216
>>34792216
I have no current friends. People only call me or have lunch with me too talk about their problems to someone who will listen. Whenever I go to these I end up spending hours of my time listening to someone ramble about retarded shit. I never get a word in edgewise and they don't even care.

People don't tend to want to talk to me or spend time with me. No one ever calls me or visits me. Not even my own parents

>>34787243
Uhhh depressed and uhhh yeah.

2/10 for making me reply.

>>34792237
I have no attachment. People only hang out with me when they want free work, or they have problems that they want to dump on someone.

Hanging out with people isn't meeting for for me because I spend hours just knotting away at people rambling on about bullshit I don't care about.

>>34792310
What kind of person do you want to meet then? Potentially someone on here might be compatible even me, or at least it gives a better concept of how to approach the issue of finding new people.

>>34792267
I just downloaded Discord, never used it before but my username is jsk107

>>34792285
>>34792310
Check out the movie ElizabethTown. You're basically a subsitute person anon. You subsitute for different people in their life when there is no one around them, and then they move on and find someone better then you frankly. Do check that movie out, it's basically about a guy like that.
Also say no to people who call you, don't go to them just to listen to their bullshit.At least make them feel your worth.If you're just readily available to them on a call, they'll treat you like that.Also find some interests and hobbies,so that you can meet people over it. Like I said you will find someone who likes you and is interested in you. You have to keep looking out there, that's all.Become an interesting person, that's all I can say. Look for socializing hobbies etc.

>>34792346
Are you the 19yo anon? Or the different person who wanna have an interesting conversation?

>>34792367
That's good advice actually. Maybe I'm too available.

>>34792346
What's your full username? There must be a four digit letter anon.

>>34792402
Yeah. Don't put yourself out there too much and make people respect you. When you put something out in large quantity, their value crashes. Also do try to find other people who you can be friends with and who you truly value you.

>>34792376
im the 19yo anon, not the one that is new to discord.

if anyone want to text or anything, add me:
ShinyPants#1072

first post >>34790697

>>34792522
>>34792376
what i meant to say, no, this is not the 19yo anon

>>34787243
My problem is porn and fapping too much

I want to make my dick more sensitive again but going a week without rubbing one out is tough and I heard sensitivity can take about a month to regain
I went to the shop today to buy something, really qt girl at the counter and seeing as i don't feel as horny there is less motivation in actually trying to start a conversation
I know when I haven't fapped for a few weeks I start getting really eager for sex and want to talk to more females

>>34792346
His discord is here>>34792522

>>34792522
Anon, I added you on discord. We talked before and something came up so I had to leave. Can you add me back again? I am sorry that I had to just leave like that without saying good bye.I am the anon from India.

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I fucked up and cut all contact with a fembot friend of mine during an especially shitty week of being laughed at from being the restroom stall at work. That, and also my inability to hold a conversation made me realize how I just wasted her time.

Oh well, we didn't really have much in common besides gaypop. I still feel like shit for doing that. Sorry if you're reading this.

How else can I distract myself from my crippling loneliness besides anonymous, impersonal shitposting?

How do I make an advance on a girl I barely know Don't even know what she looks like

>>34792741
See these. Whatever works for you.
>>34789719
>>34790169
>>34790343

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>>34792785
Is happiness really worth all that effort? I know that makes me sound like a lazy entitled cunt, but I honestly don't know the point in doing things anymore.

I'm about as far away as a sociable person as one can be and at my age, there really isn't a way to fix that. I was drawn to this board because of my shittiness; it didn't cause me to be like a massive sperg. It's honestly the closest thing I have to someone to talk to. I like being able to express and share my thoughts without fearing judgment.

Eh, I guess I'm alright with being a hermit.

>>34792870
Then add the anon who wants to talk here. He says he's lonely and is 19yo. His discord is ShinyPants#1072. I added him before and we talked for 3 days but I was feeling down myself and depressed so I blocked him and left r9k and discord. Hope you can talk to that kid. He's a good guy.

>>34789414
Before your class, ask fellow students what they thought of the homework. After class, ask students if they'd like to study for the test. Join clubs at your school. In the dorm, keep your door open. If you see other people with their door open doing something you recognize, like playing a video game or watching a show, introduce yourself and join in.

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>>34792896
Nah, miss me with that normie shit. Chances are, we'll just awkwardly shift the burden of being interesting enough and exchange meaningless bullshit. It's a waste of time, really. I guess I'll stop complaining now.

Back to thinking of sucide this year or after then.

>>34792870
How about you get into games? You don't really need good social skills there and its still a place where you can spend time with other people.

>>34787243
Thanks for reminding me that there hasn't been a Frogs and Feels thread in ages.

>>34789903
That's literally what steam threads are for. Are you dumb?

>>34792770
I'm gonna need to hear the story here

>>34792545
Well, it can be good since you will last longer during sex. Honestly i don't see any downsides to having insensitive dick.

If you want to talk to chicks, then have a few beers

>>34789980
>>34790044
Who cares desu, online relationships are worthless.

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>>34793056
Games really don't do anything for me anymore.

I'm currently immersing myself in attaining wizard powers early through programming though.

How do I get a gun in England guis?

>>34793148
get a hooker. better if you have two and do a threesome. lose your virginity in fashion anon.

How do we purge normies from r9k?

>>34793148
I'm talking about the social aspect of them though. If you are sitting at home alone 24/7 its good to play some shitty game with other people and argue with them in chat, you feel less alone.

But generally, it sounds like you just need to start doing something. Running, drinking, collecting stamps, whatever.

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>>34793178
I can't even talk to my family. Never had. Every social interaction I had ended up as a horrible blunder. What makes you think that losing my virginity even matters at this point? Moreover, I'm an ugly fucking gook. Paying for someone to physically love me is just pathetic and would ironically cause me even more loneliness.

I categorically, unequivocally just want to pass away peacfully. If only I could do that without causing others pain, that'd be golden.

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>>34793222
I am working as a junior developer and being surrounded by normies only served to make me realize just how disqualified I am from being human.

I do feel marginally better after running 10K. I'm even aiming to run a half marathon in my waifu's tracksuit this year.

My mom and some of my brothers are going to Korea this May, but I can't stand the thought of being there to bring everyone down.

>>34793290
Lad you gotta realize that all this is just in your head. Do you think your family hates you and society will forsake you, just because you don't have a witty quick response to everything? 90% of people are unfunny and boring.
Or is there any other issue?

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Parents divorced when I was a kid. Not big deal to me. Both parents are very cool, father especially.

Was always shut-in as a person. Currently (approaching 25) have 1 friend and 2 "mates" (excluding co-workers) that I regularly talk with on the internet. Have exactly 0 real life friends.

Not been talking to my father much in the last several years. He was concerned how I'm doing, I have always been replying "doing fine". Could be a single conversation like that in a year.

Called me today, said "I really want to talk to you and to get to know you as a person better, but I can't find a way to. All my invitations [he invites to meet up irl] you decline, and you never call me. My life is coming to end [I think he thinks to be dead within the next 15 yrs] and I don't want to remain in the "1 convo a year" mode with my son for the rest of it. What do?"

I couldn't say shit. Said "I don't know, it's not like I do that with just you". He said "ok, what is your dream?". I was hesitating but then said "move to a different country".

After some more chatter he said "ok call me back when you decide which country and I'll be working our way towards making your dream come true".

Now sitting here, stunned. I don't deserve to be a child of parents like these. But they still insist on getting in touch with me. Nobody, even my mother, knows who I am exactly and what I feel. Never opened to anybody, and don't ever want to.

What do I do, robots?

>>34793377
Go and meet up with him in person you idiot. He wants to be close to you. Get to know him better and open up to him. Not everyone is as lucky as you. Open up to him and share your heart, you won't get such an opportunity again anon.

>>34793122
She's a femanon, so I only know her by voice.

>>34793359
If only it were that simple that my problems with people boiled down to being uninteresting. I don't know, maybe I do have anxiety about people not actually liking me and judging me i their thoughts. Or maybe it's because I'm ugly.

I don't think my family hates as they already know of my asocial tendecies, but they must do a little after refusing to be at my oldest brother's wedding and almost all family gatherings.

I appreciate you spending your time reading my blog, by the way.

>>34793377
Dude you have an amazing dad.

But i know how you feel, i am the same, all my issues i bottle up inside and it just feels awkward and unpleasant opening up to anybody.

What you got here, though, is an amazing opportunity. There is nothing to be afraid of, one of the people who love you most in the world wants to help you, and make you happy. What you and me both are doing is not healthy and i am feeling how its fucking me up. You got a chance to fix yourself.

Go there. If you are anxious about what to say, try writing some points down on paper. And be honest. Honestly think about your life, what do you think the issue is and then write it down. You don't have to say everything, but it will help you get your mind in order. And if you decide to say everything, even embarassing stuff, i am sure he won't ever laugh at you or look at you with despect.

Just do it for me mate, don't continue this shitty lifestyle and talk to him. All he wants to do is help you.

>>34793402
My mother (who I've been living with up until ~22yo) always talks good about me, but neither she nor my father don't know me. They don't even know I can speak english. Like, literally, nothing, aside from my daily stuff that I was doing (like shower or what I eat, insignificant shit like that).

She was talking good about me and my father said today that "judging by what your mother says you seem like a cool person, but I don't know you".

Problems is that, I am not. My interests are shameful to talk about, my hobbies change on a yearly basis, and my character ain't that great. If my father gets to know who I am I feel like I'll only disappoint him and he would highly regret of his attempts to get to know me. I'm not worth the attention.

Add me on discord if you want someone to talk to, name is JuliaSet#9629.

>>34793436
Nobody will really give you good advice on how to make an advance on a girl he never met. Just try turning the conversation into lewd stuff and if she is into you as well, it will work out.

>>34793498
Don't worry. Don't run simulations in your head about what might happen in your future. Have a positive outlook. Get to know him first. Share stuff with him, you're your own person and you will have your own interests. Skid a bit about the degenerate stuff. We are all human beings and all are lewd in their own way. Even the best person out there have weird kinks and fetishes. You won't get such an opportunity again anon. That's all I am saying. He has extended his hand out for you, at least don't turn him down. Dont tell him about yourself but at least you can get to know more about him right?

>>34793501
See this here (original)>>34792522

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>>34793377
this hit way too close to home for me...

>>34787243
H-how can I kill myself easily?

>>34793629
personally I bought a gun just for that purpose,
granted its just a control thing though
having the choice to end my life when I choose to is probably the only thing I feel I have any control over in my life and having the choice brings me a measure of comfort desu.

>>34787243
How can i find a gf if i am short, ugly and possibly autistic?

>>34793670
Be rich, thats your only hope

>>34793670
Go to an Asian country, Stanley. They'll be all over your dick even if you're short in your country.

>>34793459
Don't worry my time is worthless. We each got our own issues and giving advice to you helps with mine, so its not a bother at all.

>anxiety about people not actually liking me and judging me i their thoughts
Thats what i mean exactly. You have to stop trying to be a normie. You aren't killing anybody, you don't hurt anybody. Even if you are ugly antisocial freak, there is nothing wrong with that.

This is actually the retarded r9k propaganda speaking from you, since its filled with threads here where people walling in self-pitty, and constantly remind each other about how ugly/small/awkward they are. When a person with low self-confidence like you reads shit like "kys manlet" "why are you still a virgin? are you retarded?" every day, it really fucks you up.

You gotta forget about all that. There are tons of ugly/antisocial people who live relatively normal lives. Sure, they are no prom queen of every party, but they have friends and they attend social gatherings. And thats just because they aren't afraid, they are smiling, talking to other people, visiting new places, like anybody else. And they aren't afraid to do any of those, because that they are also a human beings, and as such they also deserve to participate in society.

I mean, reading few paragraphs from random stranger probably won't change your life, but if i should really give you some advice, its 1stly to always smile and be cheerful. That is 90% of what you need to do to be popular. and 2ndly try reconnecting with someone close to you, like a brother or such. And try going out with those people. to see a movie or to a mall or whatever you do for fun there. You just need to get used to being around people. Now you are scared of it but in time it will become bland and you won't be terrified but just like "meh"

>>34793629
>take a bag
>spend all your money on cans, opener and bottle for water
>walk north
>eat cans, drink water from rivers
Eventually you will die, but at least you might experience something cool

>>34793670
>dating sites
>alcohol
>lowering standards
>lots and lots of waiting for the right one

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>>34793736
Not a bad idea, but I need to improve a little bit.

>Take few condoms
>Rape an 8/10 cute grill
>Eat fast-foods, drink water form a waterfall
>Hang yourself in the woods

>>34793706
Which one would be best?

>>34793844
>Hang yourself in the woods
>not fistfighting a boar
If you gonna bitch out on life, bitch out like a man

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>>34793851
Gensokyo
no virgin boy is safe there

>>34793885
>like a man
I am no man, I'm just coward&NEET

How do you figure out what you want to do in life? I had abusive parents that didn't really nurture me as a person and just wanted obedience. So I never really developed hobbies or interests that I actually like just things I was forced into. How do I figure out my passion after this?

>>34793949
Try different things until you find something you like

>>34793949
Learn what`s important to you and what you`re good at than you can find what you want in life.

>>34793851
Do you want to leave in a first world country?

>>34793949
If you mean like a job, then its the struggle of finding out if you prefer shitty job for big money or good job for little money.

If you mean hobbies, then you can basically chose. No mater what movies say its not like you were born with destiny of being interested in horses. Interest comes with knowledge. Just choose whatever the fuck do you want and read up on it. You like arguing about stupid sociological bullshit on /r9k/? Buy a sociology book. Or watch a sociology youtube channel rather, thats what kids do nowadays.

>>34794033
meant to say live*

>>34787583
Get to a place where you're happy with yourself first and then be honest from the get go.

>>34794033
>>34794062
More than anything senpai

>>34788555
try to reach out to people right up until you can't be bothered. If they can't be bothered either, leave it, make new friends, join a club or something. People need friends, but don't trick yourself into thinking any one person is the be-all-and-end-all

>>34788616
what fetishes?
I've got ridiculous ones (hypnosis, femdom, etc) that my SO has been willing to try because we're invested in each others lives and she likes making me happy

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>>34793714
But us ugly folk tend to be seen in a more negative light if we attempted to act confident. They see through our act like it's nothing at all.

I can't just delude myself into being happy. I literally do not know how to smile without looking creepy or unnatural. I'm a lost cause. Might as well just make peace with my loneliness.

>>34794114
Than you only have two options: Japan or S.Korea

>>34794284
>white loser pedo thinks he can play neocolonialist in asia

lmao they can smell it on you

Thanks for the help, robots.

>>34794326
I can`t be a pedophile

>>34794204
You don't need to look confident. Only thing you need to do is stop looking super anxious.
It is logical, if somebody is anxious and nervous, they are in constant tension, and can freak out any second, and that scares people, so they rather avoid you. (I'm doing a lot of assuming and maybe projecting in here, but i can't do without it)
>I literally do not know how to smile
Practice before mirror then. Just try smiling at yourself every time you brush your teeth or get out of the shower.
>Might as well just make peace with my loneliness.
Well, you need to make peace with yourself, but not like that. You need to stop seeing yourself as somebody who has something wrong with him.

I basically said everything i can. 90% of what you need to do is chill and reach inner peace with yourself. Spending more time with people. realizing they are the same as you, will help you. I'm sure you got family, go out with them then.
And try writing all your faults, all those things you hate about yourself, on a paper. It will help you get your mind in order, it won't be just one big "I AM BAD" but it will be specific issues that can be dealt with.

>>34794327
No problem, i like to help people maybe that makes me feel that somebody will soon help me too

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>>34794372
Something is wrong with me. It would be delusion to refuse to acknowledge that. I hate that I'm an ugly short stupid chink. No amount of self-improvement can ever do anything to amend those faults. I don't understand people at all. I feel like I missed my chance to develop my social skills by being a shut-in even as a child. It's far too late now.

Really, thank you for writing paragraphs of advice, but there's just nothing else but acceptance or escapism for me. It's shitty, but I'm okay with it, I guess. As long as those Japs make more Persona games, I'll live.

>>34794551
>ugly
You're almost definitely overestimating your ugliness.

>short
Not a big deal.

>stupid
You can fix stupid.

>I feel like I missed my chance to develop my social skills
This is incorrect.

>>34794551
Well, considering you are a shut-in, and i am (for NEET standards) pretty social, i'd say i have way more experience with people than you. And you so far haven't said anything that would make me believe you are in any way close to a lost cause.

You just have really fucked up confidence.

I know you probably know think something like "he doesn't know me/he never saw me, he has no idea what he's talking about.". You are not a special case, don't get cheeky. And i am browsing r9k for... I guess its like 6 years now. If i learned anything, its that issue of people like you aren't that they would be unfit for society, but that they see themselves like that. Don't be a slave of your own complexes.

If you decide to continue your shut-in life, then i can't stop you. But you don't really seem happy like that. If you really want to change and improve, then do what i said.
1. Learn to smile
2. Spend more time with people (your family preferably, since they are usually at least a bit part of your comfort zone)
In time it will all get better, trust me.

Also if you wanna talk more about it, i can give you my Skype or something

>>34794168

See
>>34788733
>>34788792
>>34788941

I appreciate what you're saying.

It goes a bit beyond just having a fetish. Having any sort of sexual contact honestly sounds really uncomfortable to me, and this is something I've always thought. It doesn't seem reasonable to pursue any sort of relationship considering the way I am now. I don't honestly know how I would be like in bed, but relationship-experimenting with myself to get a girl to that stage just to find out seems really one sided and selfish to me.

>>34794587
You don't have to be horribly disfigured to be excluded from having a normal life. Just being mildly below average can fuck your whole shit up.

I am convinced that human life is filled with many pure, happy, serene examples of insincerity, truly splendid of their kind - of people deceiving one another without (strangely enough) any wounds being inflicted, of people who seem unaware that they are deceiving one another. But I have no special interest in instances of mutual deception. I myself spent the whole day long deceiving human beings with my clowning. I have not been able to work much up much concern over the morality prescribed in textbooks of ethics under the name as righteousness. I find it difficult to understand the kind of human being who lives, or who is sure he can live, purely, happily, serenely while engaged in deceit. Human beings never did teach me that abstruse secret. If I had only known that one thing I should never have had to dread human beings so, nor should I have opposed myself to human life, nor tasted such torments of hell every night.

Yes, that's a quote from No Longer Human. I'm too stupid to figure out how to articulate my own feelings. It's honestly what I think about social interaction in general.

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>>34794284
You think i could get a Choa gf if i went to Korea?

My question is what now?

I managed to defeat my depression meme

but I have no idea what to do now, 26y sitting at home claiming comfy welfare. Do I just continue this lifestyle until its not viable anymore and dissappear from this planet?

>>34795148
when in doubt
get swole

>>34795239

I do workout semi regularly with bodyweight exercises, my interest in is only for the wellbeing of my body though.

>>34795261
>wellbeing of my body though.
not like that though
do it like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xZQ0YZ7ls4

>>34795123
Shoot for average girls and you'd be much more successful.

>>34795314
not him but I went for ugos and got rejected at the same rate,
that really messed up my self esteem.

>>34795095
>Just being mildly below average can fuck your whole shit up
Nah, not really. You might have it harder but you are not doomed.

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>>34789034
Don't listen to normalfag over there, his advice is shit and is not meant to work, but to make him sound sage and deep and in touch with his feelings or whatnot. Complete horseshit.

If you want to get over a girl, cut all contact and limit exposure to information about her. Do something distracting and focus mental effort elsewhere. Human brains are neural networks and change by adapting to whatever inputs they keep getting consistenly. Over time the synaptic links associated with that girl will naturally weaken and you will cease feeling strong emotions around her.

aka fucking get over it

I'm a second year uni student
Got good grades in first year but I think I really messed up my first set of second year exams back in January
Ever since then I've been spending ALL my free time in bed with a laptop, missing lectures and not catching up, I've spent an entire month without revising ANY lecture material and generally working on shit at the last second, neglecting hygiene etc.
Do I need help or am I just being lazy?
Maybe it's just a fucking winter mood meme

>>34795476
Same here, even fat uggos look at me with disgust.

My answers where shit
but it got +200 replies
I'm happy with the number 3.

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>>34795095
do you have some contact info? you sound like a nice person

>>34795841
You're destroying your life, I'd say you need help

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>>34797019
I am really horrible at talking to people. If you still want to, then shoot me an email. If you're a roastie, then please don't. I already am haunted by the embarrassing things I've said to the fembot I cut contact with.

[email protected]

Talk me out of majoring in Linguistics

I already flunked out of chemistry so STEM isn't a real option, but even though my parents keep telling me that linguistics is not a meme-degree and that I should follow what I am interested in rather than what makes money, but I know it's bullshit and I only trust 4chan's brutal honesty

>>34798457
>>34798457
>STEM isn't a real option
yup STEM is only as good as a general degree if you aren't in the top percentage of your class.

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>>34797402
I emailed you, hopefully you reply bacl

>>34798457
You should not trust what a bunch of shut-in retards have to say about a major. The fact that you do tells me that you are likely to fail in whatever endeavor you choose.

>>34798502
Wrong. Programmers are in huge demand.

>>34799010
I already know I am going to fail in whatever endeavor I will choose. Why else do you think I am here?

>>34799153
So why did you even ask your question? Just go fucking sit in Mommy's basement and give up on life like the rest of the idiots.

I know some of you are against this, but I want somewhere a little cozier to talk about problems with, so if you want I made a server.

https://discord.gg/2Vcbptf

i don't really know where to begin
my parents hate me, my grades are dropping, i'm spending more and more time wasting my life, i don't know where my childhood went, my best friend killed themselves years ago, i feel so alone always, i'm questioning everything that i've ever held true and i have no idea what i want in life or where i'm planning on going

the only reason i've come so far is just propelling myself because of my intelligence, being at the top of classes etc, into what seemed like a great future, but i can't remember the last time something made me truly happy, or i woke up and wanted to do be alive.

>>34799470
thats depression my dude. you should see a psych or therapist

>>34795148
grow weed in your attic

>>34799302
no one wants to join your libcuck circlejerk

>>34800088
i would understand that some parts are depression, but it feels like everything in my life has been falling apart non stop. Every time i do something well and feel happy, the rest of my life starts failing. i literally just came back from having an argument with my parents that ran around in circles and included my mother saying "I just can't trust you with anything anymore, i've lost all trust in you". Every time i distance myself from my parents, they act nice and care about things, then as soon as i act normal, they turn my life into hell.

people say suicide is a solution for temporary problems but my life just feels like temporary solutions

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how does a cyborg make friends?
i can not relate to other robots or normie, only other cyborgs...
god damnit it sucks

>>34801207
Make friends based on whatever your interests are. I'd think it be harder for robots based on the fact that a lot of them don't have any.

>>34802114
i like lifting, not many robots do that

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>>34802304
If it makes you feel any better I'd lift with ya senpai but we probably aren't near each other, kinda been slacking off at college right now... oh well.

>>34802545
feels good anon.
im from denmark, so probably not