>Tfw you talk to grill for a whole year
>Goes great, talk to her every single day
>Tfw fall in love with her
>Suddenly out of nowhere, made no advances or anything I just get the message "You're a good friend"
The friendzone is fucking automatic nowadays
>>34779326
maybe she already had a boyfriend when you started meeting her?
Iktf because that shit happens to me all the time (usually after first few meetings, though)
>>34779326
You waited far too long, you idiot
You can't leave that shit for a whole year and expect her to reciprocate the live you never expressed to her
>>34779397
I suppose, but advances ALWAYS feel like they'll be made at the wrong time
Is there just some time they just pop into your head and you realise it's the right time to do it?
>>34779326
Dude, you have to make a move WAY sooner.
She probably literally thought you friendzoned her.
>>34779411
You literally should have asked her out in the first month. It didn't even have to be anything serious.
>>34779411
A date. All you have to do is say "Hey wanna have a lunch/dinner at this place?".
If she still ignores you, cut and run. Don't fall into the investing fallacy.
"I've started digging this hole already so I guess I have to invest more time and energy..."
Never do that.
>>34779326
>Suddenly out of nowhere, made no advances or anything I just get the message "You're a good friend"
>>34779326
Compare that to a guy who sleeps with a girl within hours of meeting her.
......you're more impressive.
Anon, I have no clue how to start talking to a girl. Can you help?
Yeah, you didn't move fast enough, I've had the same shit happen to me
>>34779326
It's already been repeated several times in this thread but you are an idiot for not acting sooner.