>gf just asked for an open relationship

>>34758129
>>gf just asked for an open relationship

cuck

That means she's already fucked someone or is about to fuck someone lmao

>>34758129
>gf

GET OUT NORMIE

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

THIS IS ORIGINAL

Dump her. Tell her no and if she persists, just leave her.

drop her , only sane response.

What the fuck is an "open relationship"

Is that normie speak for adultery

rape her
not surprisingly original

Say yes, hire a bunch of prostitutes and fuck them whilst she's in the house.

>>34758129
How did you respond? You dumped her, right?

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>>34758129

here are your options OP;
1. you accept your gf's offer, you know she's going to get fucked. in fact, since she suggested it, there might be someone she already has in mind. this means you can fuck other girls too, even her friends.

2. you tell her no, and either she respects your decision or you drop the bitch.

it's alright, she probably already had chad cum in her mouth and then she kissed you a few hours later

>>34758162
This. Gotta do it. And cite this as the reason.
>You're not satisfied with me, clearly, it's best if you just leave.

If you take any advice from 4chan, let it be this.
You can't let her win or feel like you are the one in the wrong.

>>34758129

You have a gf. Grats on that. In this day n age they'll fuck everyone. You're one of the people she fucks right?

>>34758148
yeah this only happens when someone finds a person they're willing to open the relationship for

say no and hold fast, tell her you're done if she cheats, no strikes/second chances. Say you know why she wants to open it and make her paranoid.

>>34758169

basically having the romantic and emotional "closeness" of a relationship while being able to fuck other people because sexual desire. swinging essentially in a 21st century way.

>>34758169
When you're both not exclusive to each other and can go out and fuck who ever else they want.

If your pull game is strong enough, you could probably use this to your advantage and fuck another girl that could be into you. But mostly people don't want to do that except for the people who suggests it in the first place.

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>>34758210
>You're one of the people she fucks right?

no

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>>34758129
marry her and become a feminist

>>34758188
actually, this.

Tell her yes, and you're so glad she brought it up because you've been eyeing this 9/10 at school/work. Ask how many partners you can have at once, say you have a few more in mind and can't wait to pamper them, you have cute date ideas, etc.

It will destroy her if she cares about you at all.

>>34758245

Then gtfo out of the "open" relationshit

Hey this just means you can fuck however many women you want and she can't complain

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>>34758246
>too dumb to realise you've been ultra-cucked

>>34758227
>>34758129

This only happens when you're a shit bf, dude.

>>34758279

But he's ok with it, and you're only mad because you get zero sex. Who's the real loser? You.

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>bisexual
>have fujoshi gf
>she wants me to fuck guys and let her watch or tell her about it afterwards

>>34758227
It's already over, there's no point in extending the relationship. If she wants to fuck other people (regardless if she did it or not) and is willingly risking your relationship telling you this that means she puts sex with other men higher that the relationship.

I'm sorry for OP really but that's what it means.

>>34758315
>feeling big because you called someone you've never met a loser

get your libtard cuckoldry shit off my board

>>34758129
fucking normal scum

you deserve it. besides, you already are a normie, so just embrace it and become the cuck you are.

>>34758401
How is this liberal? In fact. I see many more altrights doing shit like this

There's literally nothing wrong with an open relationship if you're both comfortable and confident in your relationship. If you tell her to not do it she's going to see that as a sign of insecurity and go fuck someone anyway so just tell her to go for it.

Give her the old cuck

>>34758368
Oh please. Regale us of your relationship advice oh king of robots.

The fact they even bothered to tell them how they were feeling shows they wish to strengthen the relationship and has respect for the other person.

>>34758188
>this means you can fuck other girls too, even her friends.
He's OP, he can't.
Even if he's the chaddest Chad, his "gf" will get bedded much more often. It's an uneven treaty.

Put her on the backburner for a bit, bring another girl over and fuck her, and when your gf walks in dump her then and there, and tell her to go and enjoy her newfound freedom.

>>34758344
i am so fucking jealous i could strangle you

>>34758129
time to cut her loose anon. As others already said, she has either already cheated like a white or is about to.

>>34758260
This op, unless you cant get girls then try this approach

See this could work out to your advantage where you could fuck waaaay more people then her but your on here so..

>>34758568
like a whore I mean. stupid ass phone.

>>34758489
no, she told him so she could say, "but I told you!"

She wants a security blanket with no guilt, and if she finds a better guy you bet she's going to dump OP

>>34758422
Some people will never be okay with an open relationship because freaking out is a very natural reaction to your partner having unfaithful sex. It's just the way their brains are wired

It's irrational, sure, but the entire relationship is an irrational construct to make people feel good, too. It would be kinda dumb to be in a relationship that doesn't make you feel good. Defeats the purpose

>>34758531
She probably will enjoy her freedom if the guy she is with is someone like you.

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>gf
you are in the wrong neighbourhood motherfucker

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>>34758129

Oy vey goyim. This is great! You finally get to experience the enrichment of a truly complex and rewarding relationship! You must support her 100% without falter. A real man provides for a women, this means getting her pleasure when you cannot provide it yourself. Be sure to welcome Tyrone into your home and let him eat your food before letting him fuck your woman. You also must watch as to let her know that you support her. Welcome to the new age, goy.

All /pol/lack posting aside. She has probably fucked another dude or best case scenario she is planning to. Tell her no and explain why it hurts your feelings. Dump her brutally if she asks again, never pick up contact with her again afterwards.

Masturbate prior to engaging in any sort of dialogue regarding the open relationship.

Also, how big is your dick and how good is your sexual performance?

>>34758602
That is the furthest from the truth and you know it. If she wanted to date and find another guy, nothing would stop her from it.

>>34758686
I'm a girl and I've done this, I've talked to other girls who have done this, it's very very common.

Girls do this because they don't like the prospect of being alone - it's called branch swinging - she just wants to find a better guy to get with and have no guilt about it.

>>34758489
>shows they wish to strengthen the relationship
Holy shit, how much of a cuck can you be?

>>34758630
Poor man's fucked either way. Better he goes out doing a bit of damage to her first.

Stay toasty, roastie.

>>34758315

Die of pussy cancer roastie

>>34758678
if she already fucked someone else, she will just continue fucking someone else while keeping it a secret.

best to drop her on the spot.

>>34758725
you know the rules. Tits and timestamp with current newspaper and government issued barcode or GTFO.

>>34758749
He really isn't fucked either way. You are just projecting your insecurities onto other peoples relationships.

>>34758626
Yeah it is a pretty natural reaction, but like you said it's irrational. I don't see the concept of a relationship being irrational, it fulfills many perceived needs by both parties in a symbiotic way.

>>34758781

Actually, yeah. Didn't think about this. Even if she says she'll stop asking about an open relationship, she probably go behind his back and fuck some Chad anyways. Only reason she is asking for this is because she does not want to feel guilty and it makes it easier to fuck other guys. She doesn't have to be low key about it.

Also, OP is a normie. Forgot to mention this.

>>34758489
It's not though. Someone who was just showing their feeling would maybe talk about that in particular, not talk about an open-relationship.

Bear in mind that I don't think desire fucking other people is a innerently a bad thing, but wanting to do something doesn't immediately translates into actually doing it.

OP's gf not only desires to fuck other dudes (which is kinda acceptable and normal from time to time I guess), she also wants to actually do it. She wants to actually do it so much, that she puts the cards on the table even at the risk of her bf leaving her for this reason. She has "sex with other men" at such higher value, that it's simply bigger than her desire to care for the relationship. "Sex with other people" is more important to her than her relationship.

Now let's see OP's options
A) Say yes. She fucks other guys (she will definitely do it since she wants it so much)
B) Say no, but try to keep the relationship. She either drops him or fucks other guys behind his back because, as said before, "sex with other people" is more important than her relationship.
C) OP drops her.

So, unless OP's a cuck, he should pick option C

also im a normie

>>34758169
Some sort of retarded wording to being a slut but with partners consent

>>34759012
Not the case at all actually. Regardless of this scenario, if she was going to. She would.

You just don't understand relationships.

>>34758558
>i am so fucking jealous i could strangle you
CHOKE ME DADDY

>>34759088
>if she was going to. She would.
But that's exactly what I'm saying. OP can't do shit about not making her fuck other people.

It's the same shit as when people cheat. When people cheat they put sex at a higher value than their relationship. They'll risk the chance of being found out and dropped... for sex.

I do understand relationships, I've been in one for the last four years.

But I also understand people, unlike you.

>>34759012
this guy is right

I aslo went normie lately

>gf

Serves you right.

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I had the same issue
I talked with them and they agreed to not do it
Then they distanced themselves from me gradually and dropped me a month later
I should've dumped them when they asked for it because she started talking about all the guys they fucked behind my back
Dump her right now

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>>34759348
Forgot to mention the absolute worst part
After I was told they wanted to go open I vehemetly opposed but I got curious about the idea
I think some part of me tried to adapt to the idea and started to enjoy cuck/porn where a girl fucks other guys than her bf
I saved shit like pic related for christs sake
And the worst part is even after I was dumped I still get off on imagining stuff like it
I have considered asking her to take me back and that I'd be fine with it but then I finish jerking off and I realize how shitty my life is

Welcome to the family, son.
*strike of reality*

>>34759313
Piss off you condescending cunt. You probably never had a real relationship in your life. I have been in a relationship for the last 6 years that started off fully open, and now is partially open with consent from my partner. Guess what. Still together.

People will always have the urge to fuck other people. A relationship does not turn off attraction. Grow up.

Open relationships are degenerate. Dump her.

>>34759517
>Aka: Dump her so I have a fraction of a chance more to fuck a girl

>>34758678
>how big is your dick and how good is your sexual performance?

asking the important questions

So you're bummed out because you can fuck other girls and potentially have treesomes and orgies...

Yeah, I sympathize with you...


Sheesh, lol

>>34758129
Stay with her.
Guys in relationships have higher chances of getting laid than those that don't.
Don't do anything for her, though.
It's a relationship in name, alone.

>>34758129
leave her immediatly. DUDE she is considering fucking other men and asked you. she doesnt love you.

>>34758368
This. If she's thinking about fucking other dudes she's just going to keep thinking about it until she does it, whether you're together or not, whether you're okay with it or not.

>>34759511
Not a single thing of my post was a lie, I don't need to. I've been in a relationship for the last four years.

Also
>People will always have the urge to fuck other people. A relationship does not turn off attraction
I Never said this. But desiring something and acting on it are different things.

You also prove my point again because
>I have been in a relationship for the last 6 years that started off fully open
so you knew from the start that you're risking nothing by being in a open relationship and therefore acting on it comes at no cost for your relationship. You never had to put your relationship before sex, didn't have to sacrifice something you valued for something you valued more. It's you who don't know shit about how closed relationships work.

OP's gif did sacrifice something. She risks her relationship by asking for an open-relationship with someone who clearly isn't into it. And she's willing to risk it because for her, sex is more valuable than her relationship.

That's it for OP's relationship, sorry for the bud but that's the true.

And if you're happy at your arrangement, I'd reccommend you to start valuing more what you have and realise how odd it is, because there're very few people who can find someone that is willing to accept something like that.

>>34759996
Once again. All of this is false and you are only trying to push your ideals on other people without giving unbiased advice to those people who may actually need it regardless of "muh ironic image board".

>>34758188
>this means you can fuck other girls too, even her friends.
This doesn't happen. It's an open invite for his soon to be ex to ride anything she wants while he's stuck with nothing.

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>>34758227
>>34758129
It's already over. Break up with her, I'm sorry. Any other choice and you're literally a cuck.

>>34760124
It's all true. I'd post my normiebook but I fear being doxxed. Also, regardless of my relationship status, everything else I said is also true and you should feel bad for trying to make robots accept something they really shouldn't if they aren't ok with it.

>>34758245
>>34758245
>>34758245


EXPLAIN ME THIS right now though

>>34758145
Gf asking for an open relationship is a dead giveaway the relationship is ending soon. Give it two months top. Only matter of time before this poor fool comes home to a coalburning in progress. Dude should dump her asap.

>>34758148
This. /Thread riginil

>>34758129
maybe it's time to move on
You obviously dont want an open relationship so tell her you arent interested in that and if she leaves you over it she wasnt worth your time anon

>>34758129
maybe it's time to move on
You obviously dont want an open relationship so tell her you arent interested in that and if she leaves you over it she wasnt worth your time anonbro

>>34758129
Dump her. Shes already cheated on you. Cut your losses and move on.

>>34759409
I really hope you're okay anon that'd fuck me up 3 much.

>>34758169
mental gymnastics to downplay trying to fuck other people while in a committed relationship

Ask her if she'd rather have an open door or an open casket.

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>>34761004
I'm really not
I just got done jerking off to a vid of a girl getting fucked by a guy while on the phone with her boyfriend
I finished and felt like absolute fucking shit
I hate myself
I'm gonna go cry

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>>34759511
>People will always have the urge to fuck other people. A relationship does not turn off attraction.

Then what is the point of a relationship then?

>>34761183
relationships are a societal construct shit lord

>>34759996
In this internet fight I choose this guy as the winner. The psychology behind what he's saying is absolutely right, I know because I pulled an OP's gf on my GF once and eventually I was like fuck it and broke it off for the sex. Was the sex worth it? Probably not, I actually like the sex with my GF better, it's hard to explain it's very biological and also sociological and makes me feel like I'm on fire or that I want to tear all my skin off when I see a beautiful girl, I even already had one it was just that I needed to learn there was more to life and now I feel like being petty about sex is really behind me. It's a phase that most robots get stuck in because socially they have problems getting laid and seeing the grass really isnt greener through and open relationship. With that said though a lot depends on you both being satisfied, and when necessary changing things, but don't get cucked it's gonna be an awful time.

Normie advice incoming
No one in this thread seems to have suggested it yet, but I know what I would do if I were you. First off you need to shoot straight like the questions like Have you cheated on me? Do you love me? Do you think were right for each other as we get older, like do you think well last? EXACTLY how important is an open relationship to you?
From there it's like two options.
1. She drops the whole thing but you should be super super suspicious if not borderline paranoid.
2. She says it's so important that she'll leave (see options A and B below)

Okay so if she hasn't cheated on you and say that this open relationship is make or break, then just work it in your favor. Make her see how you feel and ask for an equal-open relationship, this means you go one for one on other partners. She'd be literally worse than Hitler if she was selfish enough to deny you that yet expect to stay with you. Like idk she'll understand on some level you're getting cucked so idk if she isn't willing to go one for one then kick her to the curb.

>>34761145
Dude if it helps you, I signed up for a swingers website because I'm a little into the same thing. I'd want to kill myself if it was my own girl yet im definitly into the degredation of some other guys girlfriend. It's fucked up but I think if you embraced it rather than being ashamed of it, more than even just okay you might fins you really like it, just go live your fantasies. I also frequent craigslist MW4M just to look at all the guys who want their girlfriends fucked, either while theyre there or not. Ride the wave bro don't drown.

>>34758129
enjoy kissing her after she gave Jamal a blowjob in your open relationshit.

OP, I have a plan.

1. Get a hooker (bonus points if it's black, hispanic, or Asian since white girls get mad about non-white girls)
2. Fuck the hooker when your girlfriend walks in
3. She'll no longer be interested in an open relationship and she'll consider you to be an alpha.

lmao

>>34761349
i have never said this unironically before

but jfc kys

>>34761893
Nahhhhh, I was made for this world.

:^)

>>34758129
Kill her then cheat on her corpse

>>34759773
you're gross. you'd be fine rubbing your dick in other men's cum.

>>34760329
naa he's stuck with a pussy that's filled with other men's cum

>>34761349
it's people like you, who have no self control, that ruin life for everyone else.