How the fuck am I supposed to get over her

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>>34746286
A 12ga maybe anon? That looks like the only way for me at least.

>>34746286
takes about a year. depending on how serious it was

>>34746286
WHY THE FUCK AM I GETTING DREAMS OF HER AFTER 6 YEARS?

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>>34746286

>think about her every minute of the day
>think about how she's getting fucked by another dude
>feel physically ill down to my stomach
>can barely focus at uni and work because too depressed about her

fuck this

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>>34746286
You dont

You just find somebody else who makes you feel the same way

Then she leaves too

And the cycle repeats

Youll remember them all and wonder every single day what couldve happened if Bella stayed, or Nicole or Izzy or Christina.

The names stack up, thats the only thing that changes

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>>34746816

nobody makes me feel the same way

i see girls who are objectively more attractive than her etc. but they don't do anything for me

she was the only one. she is the only one. there's nobody else like her.

>>34746907
Work on yourself, your self-worth issues and codependency issues. Learn from this. The break-up and relationship obviously opened up alot of old chilhood wounds, now is the time to tend to them and finally make them heal as best as you can.

>>34747065
How does one establish self worth and independence? I'm not op. I've never even had a gf. I just know that if I ever get one, I'll probably be a clingy mess and none of my problems will be solved.

I've been trying to look inwards for validation but it's really not the same as knowing someone else values you.

>>34747144
>ive never had a gf

That was assumed, might wanna check the board youre on

The point is not having a gf but being in a close relationship with a girl

Having her spend time with you and laugh with you, whether there is any romantic feeling for you or not

You love her and she sees something in you worth being close to

Validation is knowing that there is some aspect of you that is unique, a product of who you are that cannot be replicated or imitated to even a marginal extent

But you cannot realize that until someone else sees it, thats the thing

She sees it in you and values it, and once you realize this you dont ever want her to leave because simply having someone recognize your worth is all it takes to get attached

But she'll leave at some point and youll be back where you started til the next one comes around and rediscovers what the ones before her saw

i cut contact with my ex for two years after out break up, and it wasn't until I spoke to her again and realized how much I idealized her that I got over her

>>34746424
Hi , Mr Brightside. How's it going?

>>34746286
>tfw not stupid enough to fall in love
Am I doomed to a lifetime of apathy and cinism?

>>34746286
>tfw ghosted my ex gf
>tfw it's been a year
>tfw thinking about here every single day

trust me robots, you don't want a gf

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>>34748001

WHAT THE FUCK I'M SUPPOSED TO FEEL LIKE THIS FOR A YEAR?

FUCK

>>34747995
Not a bad thing. You can become passionate about your hobby and not about a person, that is good imo

>>34748048

even more, I'll give it 4 years minimum

>>34748001
>trust me robots, you don't want a gf

you don't know me, famalam

>>34747995

yes, you are fucked. sorry

>>34748066
4 years or one very convinient cutuation discrediting a person in your eyes!

>>34748113

depends, if you are a complete beta cuck, no matter what you hear you will love her still

t. complete beta cuck