>confess my feelings to my qt oneitis because something has

>>34729658
you came off as a sperg
and she doesn't share the same feelings she only shares the attachment to your wallet
and using you as an emotional tampon

>>34729658
You're not chad. That's the answer.

>treating women like they understand noble emotions and introspection

lmao

>>34729658
>lol wtf

get fucked, buddy

what an original pic, phonefag

>>34729658
I this really you OP, I hope it's not,
if r9k taught me one reasonable thing then it's not sending texts like pic related to your oneitis

>what did I do wrong
the whole thing is wrong, you just don't do something like this

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>can i just say something

HAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

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STAR PLATINUM: FIND ME AN ORIGINAL PICTURE FOR MY BAITPOST

Skip the part after the but next time & just let her know you think she's cute and fun and you enjoy spending time with her

>>34729767
>implying this is bait
No. Also, this is an original pic. You can try to reverse image search it, nothing will come up. I want advice from robots about what I did wrong.

>>34729658
>Wall of text
>Confession over the internet
Sperg tier. Normal people don't confess behind a screen, getting together is best done nonchalantly in real life, find some time to be together while trying your best to charm her however you choose. Then you invite her out again after texting a bit. Regardless you fucked up and aren't Chad to her. If you haven't messaged her back then apologize and say you got drunk/stoned and sent that message to 5 other people.

>>34729767
>What did I do wrong?
Everything. Holy shit, OP...everything. I mean I'm by means Chad but I know you don't do what you did.

>>34729829
literally saw that pic here weeks ago

What a basic fuck she is, "lol wtf" probably uses black emojis and listens to Drake, get away from her OP

>>34729862
Pretty sure you saw a different one, you tard.
>implying there's only one person on /r9k/ with an iphone
My sides.

>>34729848
Like what? I was trying to be genuine and honest with her. I don't get why she replied like that. ;_____;

>>34729738
But WHY? Why don't you do something like that?

t. actual assburger

>>34729886
it was the exact same pic, stop lying faggot.

>>34729942
I saw the same pic a couple weeks ago

OP confirmed for lying faggot

>>34729658
>feel like she doesn't even care about you
>decide it's a good time to confess

Shit, dude. There really was no good ending to this, but you went ahead and made it 10 times worse.

>>34729988
Why wouldn't it be good to confess...? I thought she would take pity on me.

>>34729934
There's tons of these screenshots around and the girl usually answers "lol wtf" or "lol thx" or something similar, notice a pattern?

Confessing your feelings for someone if you're that unsure if your oneitis would reciprocate them is not a good idea because the chance of getting rejected or a response like this is high, you have to wait until it's more clear and make it more subtle and do it in person not over text, also most women are turned off by emotional confessions by men

>>34729658
Sorry lad, but you fucked up. You fell for the "just spill your feelings" meme. Sometimes it works, but most of the time it doesn't, and the only way it does is if they feel the same.

You had better luck telling her you felt strongly, but not saying she was intimidating and distant (nigga what were you thinking). That's where you fucked up.

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>>34729658
she didn't even consider you as a human

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reverse search didn't bring any results so this MIGHT be legit

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>>34729658

Boom. Right there. Right there you should have known not to do it. Let alone know not do spill your aspie feelings out to her.

Do NOT give any girl the kind of day that is gonna hit you with shit like "uh ya"

>Can I just say something?
>uh ya
LMAO
thats when you shouldve cut her off.

>>34730020
>I thought she would take pity on me.

Never happens. No one wants a relationship based on pity.
Not only that, but notice how after your first message, where you indicated that you're about to spill some emotional beans all over, she replied with "uh". That should've been a clear red flag, that not only is there never going to be any serious relationship, but also that she doesn't consider you close enough friend to listen to your emotional drivel without indicating a hint of disgust.

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thanks OP I needed a kek

>>34730274
Came here just to post this, that first "uh ya" should have been the only redflag you need to just be like "nah girl nevermind" because from the sound of that alone it appears that she is completely unworthy of someone feeling that emotional towards her.

Typical basic bitch, I bet she wears Uggs and hates Trump.

Move on my dude, you deserve better.

"uh ya" is primitive basic bitch for "i'd like a creme brulee frappucino"

>>34729908
She feels she can do better. Women have the liberty of choice when it comes to this. Never try to for a stacy or anything close. Don't go for ugly girls O'm not saying that. Go for girls who...Are you more your speed. I cant really explain it.

>>34729658
She know thinks you're a rapist. Well done.

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>>34730750
ding ding ding
shoot for a 6 DESU, it's worked for me
I can't remember the last time any woman over an 8 even looked at me, it's like we are different species

>>34730750

Not OP but I agree 100%

Women have the luxury of being able to get a 5-10 as long as they are a 5

Men have to stick to their number. If you really feel like you are a 4, go for a 4. Don't go for a 1 or a 2 or a 5 or a 6. Go for a 4.

OP, you did what you wanted to. I'd just ignore the situation and her. She doesn't return your feelings. Stop talking to her. People on /r9k/ act like these are major humiliating events, but girls have these things happen to them all the time. Keep your chin up. You have this experience behind you.

>>34730824
>>34730878
Thanks guys for the back up.

Basically if you see yourself as a 6 or 4 or whatever aim a little lower. If you aim higher you'll just have a repeat of today, OP.

>>34729658
lol why would you text that to her instead of face to face omfg

>>34729658
Faggot ! If the bitch doesnt give you some sort of signals ,that she is into you , dont fucking confess anything! You will come ouf as a sperg, creepy . Who the fuck answers "lolwtf" , she is a bitch like most bitches . Thaths why you must wait for signals , cause otherwise its fucking weird.

>>34730884
>but girls have these things happen to them all the time.
you absolute swine. that is not true. get out.

you dont really have to get out, but that was a pretty stupid and baseless thing to say

>>34730966
What I am saying is, aim to kill . Get it?

>>34730884
Absolute nope.

All I read is the lol wtf. Cut her off. Do not respond to her at all. Yes you were a sperg. Yes you came off terrible. But her response only shows that no matter how you said it, she'd be weirded out. That she couldn't at the very least show you a little more dignity shows she doesn't give a shit about you. I don't care how much you like her, how much it'll hurt you to do it, but you cannot associate with this person anymore. Don't be dramatic about it. Just delete her number, and off any social media.

>>34729658
You don't reveal shit like this until you're 6 months deep in a relationship with her.

>>34729934
Because you aren't attractive and you aren't charismatic.

>>34729658
>lol wtf
women are heartless

>>34729829
You're basically asking permission to exist around her.

That's not attractive to women.. shows you ahve low self esteem which you probably do.

I'm sorry anon, it's claer you're being painfully honest here. I know that feeling. I guess next time... I don't know. Just say you enjoy spending time with her. I dont' knwo

>>34729934

Because it's just sad to do it over text. You do that shit in person, and you don't vomit emotions at people like that either.

A simple "Hey, let's go out to ____". Is what you say. Only say more if it's unclear that it's a date and even then keep it brief. Do not vomit emotions at people. It's not a difficult concept.

>>34731003
Another way of saying this is imagine a world in which she is doing what you want her to do, and say the things that you EARNESTLY, HONESTLY think would make her say that.

I find it hard to believe that you had fully conceptualized her response to her message above.

OP I"m not value judging you, you seem very sensitive and honest.. dis girls a bitch anyway

haha just because some fag gushes out his feelings in a 90s teen movie doesn't mean this is normal behavior.

You would have literally been better off saying
>can i just say something?
>uh ya
>*fart*

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>>34729658
Uggm Rick, masku sumthn

>>34730274
>>34730681
Ding ding ding.
OP, would you ever reply with "uh ya" to someone you care about?
What makes you think anyone would?
This has nothing to do with the 5/10 bullshit other anons have posted, and everything to od with you living the fantasy you had in your head while ignoring the huge flashing sign telling you STOP NOW.

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OP, I legitimately think you did nothing wrong here but you shouldn't send those kinds of messages to a girl who responds with "uh ya".
She seems really vapid.

I'm gonna defend the girl a little here, but "uh ya" doesn't have to mean she's vapid or doesn't care. She could be extremely creeped out or uncomfortable and wants him to back off or take a hint (that she's not interested in his emotional vomit) and good God anyone would be intimidated by a wall of text like that. Did you expect an equally long response? That's spergville man. Irl conversations you wouldn't have the chance to monopolize the convo with a soliloquy about how much you love her. If texting at least keep it realistically short...

>>34730274
If OP was a Chad she would just say "No but you can fuck me instead :)"

>>34729658
How well do you know this girl? In your response to this question, you may well gain the answer you seek.

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>>34731301
>tfw I probably fucked up my one shot at a relationship by sperging out and confessing rather than asking her out
Shitty thing is that she would've definitely agreed to go out and I know she didn't have a boyfriend. She probably just got scared away when I spilled my spaghetti.

>>34730884
This is the way to move on, take this anon's advice. Once you find another girl you like the pain will stop completely.

>>34732307
>Once you find another girl you like the pain will stop completely.
... and begin anew

OP, like every man, should focus only on himself. if a girl shows up, cool. be wary.

>>34731638
Massusumin.
#RIPShane
#GoneTooSoon
#ShaneForSeason7

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Take notes spergs and aspies. This is how you get your oneitis. I should be the next hitch.

>>34733278
Is that even english? What the fuck are you two talking about?
I can't even tell who confessed first, cause you talk like a fag.

>>34733278
>two retards trying to formulate a thought

wow, really made me think

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>>34733278
what the FUCK am i reading here dude

>>34733278
nigger, what you said borders on asspie territory. you just got lucky because she likes you.

>>34733278
>tfw anon doesn't realize he is being cucked at this very second by his "oneitis"

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>>34729658
PURE, 5 TIMES DISTILLED AUTISM

Dude... You whent way too deep with that shit make it short and simple ask them out on a date to like the movies or something

>>34729694
Lol shut the fuck up sperg faggot way to have no clue whats going on buddy

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>>34733278
>that guy who hit on the retarded chick because she had a fat ass
Never change Charlie

>>34729831
Lol don't say the 5 other people part but yeah

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>>34729658
Assuming this isn't bait, and I have some time to waste, feel free to read or don't.

If you have to say something like "Can I just say something?", you fucked up.
If "uh" or "um" is in her response, she already knows it's going to be something stupid coming back.

I've learned these things the hard way, with several different females, but that was probably a decade or so ago.

I've been where you are, OP. The last chick I ever "fucked up" with. She and I were in a similar situation, in which we were flirting and having fun and shit, and then one day comes along and she seems super distant (turned out to be another guy, surprise!).

You might think you're taking a stando by telling her this, or that you feel like you're losing her, but most women (basic bitches) don't appreciate when men regurgitate their feelings all over them.

Play their game. If they're going to be distant, do the same. Take a while to reply to their texts, don't say "sorry, I was busy" unless they ask, and if they ask, don't include the "sorry." Eventually they'll come running back, or they'll drop off the face of the planet. Either way, you lost nothing except a "female friend," which are, for the most part, worthless anyway.

The only good female friends are the ones who want you to come over and fuck every now and then.

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Who /total180/?
>oneitis flirts with me for months
>confess to oneitis over text
>get no response and get super pissed
>weird tension between us for months
>she acts really strangely
>finally just confront her
>find out that I just came on too strong and she wants to just be fuck buddies
>I'm probably going to see her tonight
Reminder that there is a sliver of hope. I'm not even very attractive, the confidence meme is LITERALLY true.

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>>34733392
>>34733441
>>34733473
>>34733561
>>34733685

Shes from france. Here's some more from the other day. I'm having a hard time deciding which one of the girls I talk too I should take out for valentine's day.

>>34729738
Not OP, and I understand that OP's way of going about this was all wrong, but there's no need for her to be a cunt and respond like that

>>34734345
> I'm having a hard time deciding which one of the girls I talk too I should take out for valentine's day.

Get the fuck out of here, man. You don't belong here.

>>34729658
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_obeR1OIm8
Stop talking like a betacuck.

>>34729658
From the sounds of it you made the mistake of hitting up a normie girl

>lol wtf

>>34734345
lmao /r9k/ is fucking dead

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>tfw I don't even have my oneitis's number or talk to/see her at all outside of work so I can't make cringy beta confessions to her

>>34734391
Actually I would argue you don't belong here. I'll post wherever I want thanks :)

>>34730274
This post right here should be the enlightenment you need OP.

>>34734231
Confidence only makes you more attractive then your unconfident self. It isn't going to make you Chad.

>>34734488
haha... totally don't know what you're talking about...

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>>34734488
>tfw she laughed at me when I asked for her number
all part of the plan haha...

>>34734345
you really don't belong here
gtfo, chad

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>>34735015
did she laugh at you in front of her friends?
I got laughed at in front of her friends. Can never harbor any feelings other than sickness towards women after that.

>>34730184
that hurt to read. every single part of it.

everyone telling you that where you fucked up is with sending that cringy ass message or with even saying anything after "uh ya" is right, but aren't really getting at the real problem

You fucked up by having emotions towards a girl in the first place

>>34733278
>he didn't know what a cypress was
Heh.

>>34729658
Start talking to women as you would a child; keep things straightforward and to the point. The only time you should talk about feelings to a female (other than a long-term girlfriend or wife) is when someone close to you dies. That's fucking it.