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Why the fuck you don't improve yourself?

It hurt to lurk this board and see people complaining instead of archiving new things like everybody else.

And it hurts more to see people complaining about things from their past instead of living the present where you can change everything you want.

The problem isn't your looks, other people or your past, it's you. It's all inside of you.
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Is "pretend to help people I feel I am superior to so I can get points with my progressive buddies" on your self improvement list?
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>>34655420
Do you relly think i win something in this anonymous board? I just wanna know the "why".
>You feel superior
Tell me one thing i'm wrong.
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>it hurt to lurk this board

then dont
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>>34655456
Most of these people don't want to be here, but it's addictive
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>>34655456
Same as smoking. It fuck you but you keep coming back. This is why i'm here.
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>>34655397
>It's all inside of you.
Where else would mental illness be lol
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But I do try to improve myself
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>>34655397
We're like a cult OP
You can't just ask us what we're doing, cause even we don't really know
You have to deliberately break the hypnotic spell
But that can probably only happen on an individual basis
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>>34655397
>why don't you just work really hard so you might have a chance to get Chad's leftovers in a couple of years?
nah
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>>34655725
>Chad's leftovers
Nice fantasy.
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>>34655701
How? I really wanna hear you.
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There's no such thing as "improving yourself", one if born with potential and if one acts on it one can usually fulfil it. we, robots, are born without such things and are objectively incapable of "improving" due to the laws of causality and so on.
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>>34655771
Absolutely wrong. You just tell yourself that.
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>>34655725
This is exactly the attitude that does not let you achieve your goals. Then you complain about why "Chad" gets what you want
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>>34655800
keep denying reality normie
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>>34655397
>instead of living the present where you can change everything you want.
Please direct me to where the present can give me an extra foot of height, a masculine facial structure and a more bulky skeletal frame.

Unless you can fix those I'll never compete with the top men. If you can't compete with the top men, there's no reason to bother because due to the internet, women can compare me to EVERY SINGLE MAN ON THE PLANET, or at the very least in a non-exaggerated sense, every single Chad in a 50 mile radius just by swiping right on their phone app.

>the problem isn't your looks
It is objectively my looks. The Halo effect is real normie, the world is not just. Having a good "personality" comes from having good looks and therefore people thinking you are a better person.
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>>34655771
Holy fuck are you serious?

You can go to a gym for example to improve your body.
You can go to college to improve your knowledge.
You can go to cooking class to know how to cook.
You can get a jod and had some money.
You can become rich and had a comfortable life.
The list go on in every aspects of life,

Are you stupid? Get off your computer lazy faggot.
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>>34655844
>Please direct me to where the present can give me an extra foot of height, a masculine facial structure and a more bulky skeletal frame.
You aren't ugly, you are poor.

>It is objectively my looks.
Lol no, you are just weak, get off your computer and see how different the world is, not every girl is the same. 4chan brainwashed you. Most of these people compare theirself to supermodels when not even 1% of the poblation look like that.
Ok Cupid is based in looks same as Tinder, the first thing they see is your face. In the real world is different, you show who you are.
There is no redpill for womens because every individual is different.
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>>34655872
Thats just not true - if it was no one would be uneducated, obese and so on. Free will is a huge meme.
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>>34655814
I dont have goals you retarded normie
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>>34655980
Do you feel like a sucessful person?
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>>34655965
>You aren't ugly,
Glad you can see through the fucking internet to tell me I'm not a 5'2 manlet with a babyface faggot.

>not every girl is the same
>4chan brainwashed you
The only one brainwashed here is you, brainwashed by women.
>the real world is different,
I didn't know people walk around fucking blind in the real world until they talk with you for five minutes.
I've been fucking LAUGHED AT trying to talk to women because of my height.

>There is no redpill for womens because every individual is different.
Wrong, all women still have the underlying sexual strategy of hypergamy. It's baked into their fucking genes. Every woman is hypergamous just as every women will subconciously breathe oxygen. That's the real redpill you baiting normalfag.
Fuck off and die.
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>>34655990
what success entails changes from culture to culture, from person to person - why would one try to achieve something so ethereal, to have it as a goal? we just want to avoid as much suffering as possible and then die, yet you normies constantly beat us down, why kick a lying man?

maybe you should change normie.
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>>34655990
Successful enough to fuck your mom
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>>34655976
Free will is one thing.
Lazy people is another thing.
You are free, you can choose whatever you want, but you need to force you to do these things. You force yourself to learn, to do things.
That's the difference between sucessful and lazy.
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>>34655820
No, that would be you denying reality.

>>34656033
The fact that you're getting so mad showcases your desperation to cling to your delusions about women.

>>34656053
Being alone for your entire life is not avoiding suffering. It is creating suffering.
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>>34655397
You think I don't try? You think I haven't tried? You think I want to be a useless pathetic waste of a human being and I enjoy being this way? Fuck off you retard normie
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>>34656089
"Lol u mad" is not an argument normie. Saged, hidden, reported and called the cops.
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>>34656089
being isolated might cause one to suffer - but that suffering is an illusion of the mind, a mind that constantly craves stimulation. and even if one cant avoid the suffering caused by loneliness, you do however avoid the potential suffering caused by other humans.

>>34656061
you should examine the things you want and crave and why you think those things are important.
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ITT: Normie gets lucky in life and thinks it's from his hard work, then puts everyone here beneath him in the guise of "helping".

People like OP make me not want to do anything just in spite
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>>34655769
I've already posted it in other threads
I'm improving my physical appeareance to feel more comfortable and confident, some examples are fixing my nails (they broke and got infected - years ago), seems a tiny thing but it made me quite self conscious, another example would be dieting (not overweight but want to lose some fat). There are some other things I'll consider later on will be fixing my teeth a bit, but I'm not in a hurry.
Apart from that I've been working for two years after dropping out and neeting.
I have been learning foreign languages for years because I enjoy it, speak 3 fluently (another one I know at a high level but I don't use it, so it's rusty), I'm learning a new one.
I also like cooking so I'm always trying to learn to make new dishes or techniques, guess you could count that too.

There are some things I don't do because they make me real anxious, like going to the gym, it's a matter of time that I push myself to do it.

What do you think?
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>>34656094
But tell me what do you do...It's not tell "I improve myself!" It's saying thing that you do to improve yourself. Maybe i can help.
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>>34656108
Making absurd generalizations about women is not an argument either, you retard.

>>34656142
>implying no one's ever worked hard to succeed

>>34656161
Sounds like you're on the right path but need to put yourself in social situations more.
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>>34656201
>put yourself in social situations more.
But why?
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>>34656201
>>implying no one's ever worked hard to succeed

many people work hard but only few actually get somewhere, you wouldn't know though
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>>34656201
Not being comfortable in social situations is only a problem for specific things, like going to the gym (if you can call it a social situation). I'm a lone person and I like it that way.
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>>34655397
>Why the fuck you don't improve yourself?

Its very hard work for not much gain.
I was "improving myself" for a couple of years, got tired, quit, and haven't since.
At no point did my life turn around.
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>>34656142
I born in a communist country, just me and my mother, when i was 20 i move to the united states and work for 3 years until i had money to buy a car and a house and move my mother with me. Right now i work as a administrative assistant manager and make 50k in a year.

Fuck you.
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>>34656240
Because being isolated, to the vast majority of people, is suffering? Because other people can bring you joy? Because you're not going to get a GF otherwise? I dunno. If you're really happy alone, then don't.

>>34656248
Nah, I would certainly know. Math PhDs don't come from a lack of effort.

>>34656254
That's fair. It sounds like you're doing great, then.

>>34656269
Your life didn't turn around because you quit, not because success is impossible.
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>>34656288
>Because other people can bring you joy?
Now youre just lying
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>>34656161
you are good anon, you are on the way.
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>comes to one place we feel okay at
>tells us were the problem, it's entirely us

how did he think this was gonna help?
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>>34656286
baffles me how unwilling you normies are to accept that you got lucky.
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>>34656286
how do you buy a car and a house after working 3 years?
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>>34655397
>just b ursflf

t.op
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>>34656288
>Your life didn't turn around because you quit, not because success is impossible.
I didn't quit on the next day, I was "self actualizing" and "self improving" and "gaming women" for 2-3 years.
I got all the objectives checked, but my fulfillment didn't increase, and I felt happiest when I took breaks to just lie and rest. So eventually I stopped doing this, then that, and reverted back to being lazy. Similar happiness levels, minus the hard work and stress.
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>>34656326
Get in here i post the number of your comment so you can see my flag.

I write this.
"I'm from another thread i just want to show something ignore my comment."

>>>/pol/111189520
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>>34656326
Baffles me how some people refuse to understand the concept of working for something, of effort.

Sure some people may have a worse starting point, but it seems like you don't even considering most successfull people do work for their success.

It's like when people go "oh I wish I was as good at you at X", man I'm taking classes twice a week, that's how I got good, it's not magic or rocket science.
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>>34656311
>>34656326
How is this any different from 500lbs tumblrinas saying that being thin is never earned and is always a privilege?
I'm not normal by anyone's standards, I just happen not to blame it on abstract forces that are entirely out of my control.
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>>34656397
I KNOW IT'S FUCKING MY FAULT YOU SHILL BUT WHY WOULD I EVER WANT TO BE REMINDED OF THAT HERE OF ALL PLACES?
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>>34656308
My real broblem is lack of education. I'm a high school dropout. I'm working towards fixing that but it's the hardest.
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>>34656344
I don't go to the united states for vacations, i save some money and sell my car in venezuela, i go to houston and work in a constrution and in a friend bakery. The house is a shit too, nothing special.
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>>34656424

Because it's a self improvement thread
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>>34656200
I have tried all of these meme methods, working out,meditation,wageslaving, eating healthier, nofap, none of that can fix the underlying problems of who I fundementally am, even after being by all accounts the ideal human being I never got any more friends, the stress and anxiety never went away and I'm still just a looser pretending that his not
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>>34656468
then to /fit/ it goes it's not a greentext story or hangout thread so it doesn't Fucking belong here.
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>>34656424
This is the first time i see somebody in this board accepting the true.

You face the true, now you need to change it.
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>>34656424
Reality is more persistent than any delusion.
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>>34655397
I'm incurably ill and have no control over how shit I feel.
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>>34656493
>then to /fit/
But it's not about fitness in particular
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>>34655397
>Why the fuck you don't improve yourself?
went and did that, stop being neet went to university,
have nothing to show for it,
useless piece of paper,
have to clean stuff in a warehouse to pay off student loans,
regret.
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>>34655844
>more bulky skeletal frame

It's called muscles.
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>>34655397
I do improve myself but i'll still be behind everyone else.

I don't like making friends or acquaintances at all, but I am lonely sometimes. I have medical problems that can't be cured. There is no one that helps me, I'm all on my own. I have little money for food so I sometimes only eat once a day. I work 6 days a week, no time or money for school. I know i'll get my dream job someday but that will be a while so I'm content right now. I'm pretty immune to being made fun of so that's good. I'm ugly. I also got some mental problems but again no time to book therapy
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>>34655397

> complaining about things from their past instead of living the present

I am richer and smarter (going by academic stuff, not a online IQ test) than at least 99 percent of people.
I'm also 6'4" and have a average face.

I can't stand interacting with normies but can luckily do everything in normie world exceptionally well apart from socialising, which I'm not too bad at just not good at.

It doesn't change anything, I'm still a paranoid, violent mess inside due to a shitty past and want to blow my brains out everyday.

What should I change? Maybe I should just try BEEing myself?
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>>34656621

Thanks, it's all 100 percent real though (I'm not a genius but way above average and I'm not a billionaire but far richer than the average person)

I'd trade it all to have a normal life growing up and hopefully be a "normie" inside.
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>>34656584
I'm a 7'9'' with a muscle body with david gandy face and one billion in the bank and i'm the most intelligent and special human beign, but i just browse 4chan for fun.
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>>34656656
>take a bait and consider himself as a intelligent person
>use the word: normie
>another nigger eating chinken
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Get fucked OP. My problems are unfixable. Sure I can workout, eat right, study more, learn an instrument, read everyday, meditate, but it won't help. I'm pretty sure I'm autistic. I'm like a shell of a person, not even sure who I am really.

People say you just have to fake it til you make it but that's bullshit. I faked it for years with people, made friends, became "confident" but still there was something off about me. I could never really connect to people on an emotional level, even my family and people I've known my whole life. This kills me inside. I want to be able to be close to people but its not possible. Eventually all my relationships seemed like a facade. Like I was just playing a game to please people. I withdrew from everyone and now I want to die. Whatever I do, become, wherever I go, I'll still be me. Experiences mean nothing if you have no one to share them with.
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>>34656784
>Experiences mean nothing if you have no one to share them with.
Elliot rodger was a mistake
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>>34656722

I hate my life and browse 4chan because I like the "community".

>>34656763

>take a bait and consider himself as a intelligent person
Valedictorian, famous/prestigious uni, various competitions which might be good enough to get me doxxed etc
NOTHING related to some IQ test of the internet

>use the word: normie
I shitpost here 3+ hours a day and no pretty much all the "meme" words
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>>34656763
>>34656825

>day and no pretty much

*know
before some autist says "you're le retarded"
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>>34656571
I guess not everyone can improve
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>>34656825
>I hate my life and browse 4chan because I like the "community".
Which communty? This?: lol faggot kill yourself you are a cuck and you should die

>Valedictorian, famous/prestigious uni, various competitions which might be good enough to get me doxxed etc. NOTHING related to some IQ test of the internet
Are you angry because the only fact here is that you take a weak bait? You know all the intelligent people say IQ and college are for faggots?

>I shitpost here 3+ hours a day and no pretty much all the "meme" words
You must be a genius if you shitpost for 3 hours a day in a anime forum.

The worst thing is that you didn't show any intelligence signal

>another nigger eating chicken
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>>34656979

Really made me think.

Pic related seems appropriate
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>>34656813
Uh oh am I giving off Elliot Rodger vibes. Better re adjust my mask.
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He...>>34656825
didn't came back for this...
>>34656979
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>>34657205
this work everytime
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>>34657094
If you plan to kill some people, could you choose Trump?
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>>34657094
>>34657447
>Thread is about improving yourself, turn into this
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>>34657447
Nah but I'll killme
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>>34657447
Because he's literally Hitler, right?

Fucking libtard crybabies I swear.
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>>34655397
its impossible to improve when you have been dealt shitty cards at birth, if you ever tried to improve at best you would be below average in life, get a ugly gf, a shitty minimum wage job. so why should we even try? other people get born with more priviliges than us and are at the top of society, i accepted this as something that CAN NOT be changed, because it just cant. So i wont even try anymore, fuck u for living in ur own bubble
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>>34657591
Actually no, i just want to see a dead president like Kennedy and see the reaction of the world.
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>>34655814
>he thinks it's fair that Chad gets handed everything in life while he has to work his ass off to maybe get a pussy that's seen more dick than an urologist

cuck
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>>34657800
>CHAD IS A GOD AND WE SHOULD DIE
>NATURAL SELECTION
you are beyond repair
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>>34655397
why the fuck do you think?
delusions, michael
delusions

if you are reality you already knew this
so then what did you mean by this??
was it an attempt to postively trigger someone with words such as "present"
or
"is you" "its all inside of you"

well i can only speak for myself but when i see people trying to help me in any way i only distance myself further, its part of my type of delusion.
you might think oh well good, the worse he feels the more willing he is to feel better. this is also not always true.

if you are content maybe it is best that you just go away. leave people that actively seek out places to complain and waddle in shit alone
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>>34656522
>>34656514
>>34656494
All of you can fuck off, I like being a recluse with no life, and I hate all of you who think you're superior to me for no reason other than tradition. You come a place I like and talk like I have to be fixed, wash your mouths out with a 12 gauge.
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>>34658418
You suond sad, your pepe is sad.
Tell me do you feel happy? No? That's why you need to be fixed
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>>34655397
>The problem isn't your looks, other people or your past, it's you. It's all inside of you.

If a person is ugly then their problem is obviously not all inside of them.
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>>34658596
FUCK
IT'S NOT THE PROBLEM IT'S HOW YOU DEAL WITH IT
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A very original post to bump the thread
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How do I archive new things? What sort of storage device do I need? Is that the key to success I need better archives?
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