>manage to get myself a gf
>tfw she's asexual
if you were a chad she wouldn't be asexual
lol yo i feel bad for u
>>34640906
That just means she's fucking other guys and just wants you for money or other shit.
origami
>>34640906
i thought being asexual was a good thing?
>>34640906
Yeaaah, I had a gf for almost 6 years, she toldme she's asexual and it's not my fault, it's just in her head and she cant change it. She broke up with me aboht a year ago. Recently shefound herself a new boyfriend. I asked her what does he think about her asuexuality and she said she wants to have sex with him. I was like WAIT WUT and then she said Iwas just completely unattractive to her, just too ugly. That coming from a person who I wanted to marry, who was reassuring me every day that she loves me. Well, that wasa lie too, she told me that she realised after about a year or so that there's no chance of us being together but she didn't break up with me because she didn't want me to kys (which I would do). TLDR - you are unattractive to her, sorry mate.
>>34640906
manipulate her into cutting off contact with everyone else and being entirely dependent on you, then see how asexual she's feeling
>>34641696
God damn that is rough, hopefully this (You) will bring some peace to your soul.
>>34641696
how come you never lifted for her
how come 6 years into the relationship you never talked about how you can make her happier
smells like bs
>>34641782
Naaah, it won't. I can't kys because my grandma will be upset and I don't want to make her feel upset. But when she dies I will probabbly do it, I have the plan ready. I just need some courage (alot of courage actually), I'll give my pc and money to my younger brother, that will help him with choosing a career or something.
>>34641856
I asked her all the timeif everything is ok, I reminded her that if there 's something not right, that if there'ssomething she wants to tal about she can tell me and I will try to fix it. I aksed her if maybe she wants to fuck other men but she told me that no, it's not me, it's just the way she is snd she czn't change it.
>>34641973
ah okay, bad luck then.
>>34640906
>get girl's number
>she's a lesbian
at least I made a friend
>>34640906
She's getting a Chad D on the side anon, you're just not wanted\are a fallback plan.
Even if she was asexual, she would let you use her body if she loved you.
>>34640906
>asexual
codeword for "literally don't want to fuck you but you are better than nothing, and I will fuck chad at the slight opportunity"
>>34640906
does she at least let you fap with her vagina like fleshlight?
if not, chad is not far
>>34640906
>tfw find a girl only to have her flake out after a month of talking
>tfw that cycle's repeated countless times over now
I just want a girl who I can actually form a goddamn connection with.
If she is asexual I don't think she would mind you fucking her bussy
>>34641696
You see OP, isn't it convenient how there are so many women that self identify as asexual? She's just using you, so get out while you can.
>>34642882
What. The. Fuck. Is this real? Because I'm fucking speachless. When I was reading that I thought I'm going to fucking explode. WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?! Please tell me it's a joke, I fucking beg You, anyone, please?
I don't know what's worse now - that during these6 years with my gf we fucked less than 20 times in total (I've managed to beg her to havesome sex but it was like fucking a doll, I didn't even finish couple of times because she started crying) or being blissfully unaware, like those bithces' husbands are. I think I've just got redpilled. I don't feel so good about it.
>>34643291
Cont.
Is there anyone here who can explain that to me? Like, wtf is wrong with women? Wtf is that supposed to be? Why do they act likethat? And I don't want any answers like "women are zluts, they can't be trusted hurr durr". Yes, I know taht now, but WHY? Why do they act like that after marriage? Whydo they stop feeling any desire toward their husbands? Why do they have to cheat?
>>34643385
Women want thrills. They want unpredictability. The same person doing the same shit for years is a colossal turn off for them. When women feel like they control you/have you locked down they lose any sort of sexual attraction to you.
>>34643385
They're bored. Life has become too easy for them, so they want more because they feel what they have is not enough. They love being chased around and being desired by multiple men, not just settling for one. People don't want what they think they want, they just delude themselves into thinking that.
>>34643475
>>34643567
Ok, so let's say I'll somehow manage to get another gf. She won't be as smart and cute and perfect as my "asexual" exgf but hey, it's something, I'll have cuddles and warmth and emotional support and maybe there will be some sex involved (woohoo!). But how the flyingfloatingdiving fuck am I supposed to trust her? I don't want to have this thought of her cheating on me or leaving me like my exgf constantly, then I'll surely turn into a spying creep and she will leave me anyway. How am I supposed to trust her? To be comfortable around her? Any advice? Yeah, I know this is the wrong board for that but maybesomething? Anything?
>>34643706
If she cheats then you just have to move on. Can't force people to do things, legally anyway.
Alternatively, cheat on her before she cheats on you.