>tfw no crazy borderline gf to be codependent on

hopefully you find her and then commit suicide together

>>34629404
>tfw am the crazy borderline codependent gf and feel like i'm just a crushing burden
on one level it works well with another borderline dependent person, but on the other hand you rip each other apart. What kind of person are you, other than needy? It could be a recipe for disaster or work out quite well. Also depends on what kind of borderline girl she is too

>>34629591
I'm just emotional instable, mostly clingy, slightly depressing and try to be overly nice, but I also can be manipulative and if I get to attached and fear losing someone I get overrun by anger, love and suicidal thoughts, though I never really did harm anyone or broke something. Just cut my ankle a bit.

if you want to talk my kik: Arcus_tan

>>34629667
In general it can be really difficult for two unstable people to have a relationship. Stability is an important factor. I'm borderline and dated a borderline person for a long time and we both had a lot of the stuff you're describing (overrun by anger/love, manipulative if fear of lost) and while it was nice to be codependent and completely needy for each other, we inevitably ended up destroying each other too.
It's a comfort that can rarely last. I think in the end emotionally unstable/codependent people need to end up with a more stable, not-crazy person that they can rely on a little bit. Being with a sane person encourages you to work harder and be good for them, while being with someone who has the same issues just makes those issues grow

>>34629756
do you want to talk? >>34629711 is my (OP) post

>>34629853
i don't really have a reason to talk to you outside of 4chan.

>>34629983
Give him a chance anon

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>>34630013
I'm already dating someone
see >>34629591
" am the crazy borderline codependent gf "

>>34630026
Oh okay, my bad.

I wish I could meet a gf that also would rely on me but I feel like that standard is so rare that it would be hard to find. Do you think it would be a good idea if I did find someone somehow? What about an online "relationship"?

>>34630026
Oh that's unfortunate. I would have also written with you in that case, but I think your bf will have something against that.

where to find extensive eliza/ciara collection?

I can't even handle being away from my so for a few hours but being near him all the time grates my gears what do

>>34630136
write me, we can trade memes and talk about self help

>>34630069
hi, symptomatic grill here! xD
you dont want a girl that relies on you. source: every boyfriend i have ever had. and they were all online dating. you have to help her be happy, you have to help her have a good emotion, and even then she might think youre not being genuine and lash out. you have to help her not be sad, sometimes convince her not to kill herself or self harm. convincing her to eat, not to do drugs, to do this healthy choice instead of the unhealthy one. it is an incredible burden on you emotionally.

>>34630516
I wouldn't really care about any of that if they just told me they loved me every once in awhile.

This is me and this pushed the guy I love away from me. I never have a chance with him now.

>>34630691
I'll be your bf I promise I won't leave you no matter what