My gf is always "busy"

Dat your girl?

>wat do

Stop being self-insecure

2 times a week sounds fairly normal

how long have u been together

why do you care if some bitch dumps you

stop caring, be alpha, knock it off

>>34627241
Hello newfriend :^)

Get out

The best phrase I've ever heard is "People make time for the things that are important to them"

You can tell a lot about someone by how they spend their time

>>34627258
I can't help it. I'm so insecure. I've been reading about poor early attachment during infancy that carries over into adult life and I think I have that.

>>34627119
twice a week is normal for people who are busy with uni and jobs man. When i was in uni full time and my gf had a job we only saw eachother like once or twice a week, but would text n shit everyday.

you've only been together for a month, no need to be so insecure mate. Do not be clingy, constantly trying to monopolise her time will come off as desperate and nothing repels a girl faster than being a desperate retard

>>34627375
Good point, thanks. Yeah, I've been consciously trying to not come across as desperate. Like when she tells me her plans I tell her to have fun even though I wish she'd rather hang out with me.

>>34627664
of course, i'm sure everyone has those moments, but part of being mature is accepting that your significant other has a life outside of you.
sounds like you're just anxious, but seems like you're not being an autismo, as long as your still texting ang seeing eachother regularily i wouldn't worry about it.
If she started ghosting you, changing plans last minute constantly etc. then i'd worry. But it sounds like everything is normal to me

Yea sounds like this not going to work, what age is she, like 16? 6 year difference is way too much it never works women are too immature. In this age they still go for fuckbois

>>34628232
She's 22 and I'm 28.

>>34627119
You're probably being clingy. Just start hanging with your friends and doing hobbies. If you want, go to the club (without telling her) and upload a couple of pictures to Facebook.

She will come fucking running senpai

>>34627664
Get it in your head that people have life outside their relationship. You're secretly feeling possessive because you're jealous that other things and people make her happy. In that case, find your other sources of happiness as well. Can be any activity. But don't stop her from growing outside your relationship.

>>34627333
Trips confirm she's cucking you

>>34627277
>be alpha

This is /r9k/ you fool