The effort it requires to find, maintain and grow a relationship is asking for failure.
If incels are struggling to find even one, imagine the normies that date twice a week and still never find anyone after months. The chemistry required to connect and get along with someone else is not happening for us.
Maintaining a relationship means you're actually going to have to sacrifice a lot. good mood, hobbies, money, etc. Whatever it is, you will definitely be giving up things with no guarantees of a women committing. There will always be ups and downs but sadly no solutions exist.
Growing a relationship from nothing is just a fantasy. They have to find you interesting, funny, high value to even want you in their life. Imagine if you were normal and they had countless different offers from guys around them, they're not going to pick you. growing relationships are almost never in your control, why should we let something never in our control dictate our life?
My mom will just have to deal with never having grandkids or not seeing me get married. It's my life.
>>34616719
that's not her boyfriend
>My mom will just have to deal with never having grandkids or not seeing me get married. It's my life.
alright edgelord
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzmTOCFnMgg
FUCK OFF TO CLLUB PENGUINNNNN
I'm more than likely a normie by /r9k/ standards, meaning I'm not a virgin and I have at least a modicum of self-esteem. That being said you're completely right. Relationships are a time drain. Would much rather deal with my own shit, it's much easier. The amount of stress and self-sacrifice isn't worth it. Love is just a chemical reaction anyways, and sex is a novelty that is easily attainable outside of a committed relationship. Contrary to popular belief sex is possible without being a "Chad," just have realistic standards and avoid being a total artist. /rant
If you're white, you literally have no justified reason to imply you're capable of being alone
I'm not black btw
kek his face
Autist* Fucking auto-correct.
>>34616924
I can't they shut it down mkay
>>34617680
But why? Are you imlying that there aren't white men EVERYWHERE? You're not going to get very far being white when there are still better white boys Shaneeeequa can pick.
>>34616719
>imagine the normies that date twice a week and still never find anyone after months.
I got fucking triggered at the gym a few months ago. 2 friends were bickering about something and I hear one of them say "sorry for being an asshole, man! My dick has been really dry lately!"
>tfw never meet new people
>tfw too shy to ever approach people
>tfw too little self-confidence to just use dating apps
I can't grasp that people would like me, I don't even like me so why would anyone else. I'm not attractive either.
>tfw lonely
>tfw no connections
>>34617816
I feel ya desu