Girls & Self-harming

>>34571952
Been talking once with a friend of mine about this. She told me that the pain gives her relief, and tried to encourage me to doing this. Thank goodness I refused immediately

All I do is drink a ton of alcohol. I never quite got the appeal of cutting.

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>>34571952
>Why do so many girls self-harm
we're weak "people" with a herd mentality who all want to be special snowflakes and having scars shows people we're hurt/deep/different/hardcore/need help
>how can we help them to stop?
you can't, most stop when the attention stops, meaning when they're out of high school
>Does giving them the d help?
yes, but only to those of us who were raped/molested/sexually abused, I'd guess. Even still, probably not that much unless you can lay it down like daddy did.

>>34571952
They do it for attention mostly and because emo shit or whatever draws a lot of young girls in because they think it's really cool and hardcore but the guys are all cute and sensitive emotionally damaged souls that they can nurture back to their many selves or whatever whilst glorifying killing yourself, shitty made up genders and sexualities and other similar bullshit, fuck emo cunts

>>34572049
What did your dad do to you exactly fembot? Just standard molestation?

opiates > cutting endorphins

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Why would you want to stop them? Cutting is cute, maybe you or she can cut your name into her skin so that everyone knows she belongs to you. Don't you want to kiss and lick the scars/wounds to show her that even with that she is truly beautiful to you?

I cut myself once but I did it like an autist. I cut my own name onto my body and I realised the only way to mend this was basically scribble it out.

So I got drunk and grabbed a shard of glass and scribbled it out so you couldn't tell I wrote my own name.

Never done it since and I'm embarrassed about the whole thing really

>>34572220
Fembots are cray-cray as fuck. What the hell is wrong with you?

Where did daddy touch you?

>>34572135
Opiates are worse brah.

It's for relief and control. I beat my thighs and my body with my fists when I get really angry and pull out my hair in giant clumps in anxiety. It's just a combination of mental illness and poor coping skills. The only cure is suicide

>>34572049

You need to get mental help. You are weak, as most women are, but you can still get help.

>>34572275

Same as above.

>>34571952
Because they are attention whores. It's not that complicated.

"lol jus get mental help xDDD"


Like it's so easy.

>>34571952
I let my (off and on) ex cut me instead of herself anytime she wanted to self-harm.

She's the only one for me and I hope to get her back soon. Fucking bitch, I hate her so much sometimes. Just kidding, I fucking love her ;-; she's my angel.

>>34572468
You could go out tonight. TONIGHT and get a guy with a nine or ten inch dick, you'd feel refreshed, happier and you would cease to feel lonely.

>>34572468
it is. people with mental disorders are only whiny losers seeking attention.

>>34572518
robots think sex fixes everything, that's why they're miserable.

>>34572468 aside from what >>34572518 said, mental help is that easy to get, walked to my local mental health clinic two weeks ago and made an apointment for today, got back from it a few hours ago with a diagnosis and a perscription, yes its that easy if you get off you fat attention whoring ass

>>34572586
tfw schizophrenia and my life is a living hell

>>34572592
Sex helps you focus better, and women are basically empty things without a big dick in them.

>>34572518
My boyfriend has a pretty big cock and I'm still depressed. What does that mean? Do I just need a bigger cock or what? I don't think that's feasible for me right now, looks like I'm SOL.

>>34572599
You got a prescription after one appointment? Sounds like you visited a quack candyman. Nobody should be giving you pills after just one session.

>>34572619
except that. and mayb severe bipolar

>>34572654
>Do I just need a bigger cock or what?

Yeah.

6-8 inches are nice, but generally 8-10 inches are what tend to scratch that itch that most girls have, 11 inches plus are rare but a bonus because it can actually hit her cervix which is pleasurable for a lot of women.

I did it for a number of years, but I am still not entirely sure why. I was cutting/burning/etc. for about a decade, but prior to that in actual childhood I would bite myself/bash my head on walls/hit myself.

I have not ever felt the "it gives me relief" meme or the "I need to punish myself" meme that other girls have offered me. I also did not do it anywhere people could see, so it could not have been an attention thing either. I still do not understand why I have done it. The closest thing I can think of was that it stems from a similar desire as suicide, because it would usually precede these thoughts, and must therefore be associated with some desire to destroy/deconstruct myself; to not exist. This still does not seem entirely logical to me though, so I don't know.

Nothing specifically changed to make me stop, it just gradually declined as I entered my 20's and as I'm now 24, I don't do it anymore. I do occasionally still feel an impulse though, which is, again, usually associated with the desire to stop existing.

>>34572739
>hit her cervix which is pleasurable for a lot of women
>pleasurable
>pleasurable
>pleasurable
Fuck off, you stupid fucking virgin

>>34572796
That's really nice of you, you seem like a nice girl who totally isn't angry all the time.

>>34572654 I went to a mental health clinic and had a two hour therapy/q&a session, after which she we discussed medication for a little bit and she gave me something she things will work but if it doesnt after 2 weeks I have another apointment with her and we'll try something different

>>34572846
Retards like you make me angry with your retardation, retard.

>>34572875
Nothing retarded about it, some girls like it, some don't.

All girls like big dicks though.

>>34572916
Tell me more about female anatomy, Dr. Retard. Alma mater: Shit-pulled-out-of-my-ass University

>>34572796
it is for me. i'm sad my fingers aren't longer.

>>34572959
Just cursing like that makes you seem unfeminine.

See:

>>34573062

There's a reason she's into black guys (unfortunately).

Men self-mutilate too. I've never understood the "pain makes me feel better" because when I have cut I can't feel the pain. I mean that quite literally, it doesn't hurt. As to why, negativity and hurt inflicted upon others can only be forgiven through the shedding of blood I suppose.

>>34573109
I would not say unfeminine. Cursing in such a way also looks bad on men, but is not considered so because it is unmasculine. It appears unintelligent, uncultured, defensive, crass, etc. It signals for a lower class person that lacks the ability to articulate their thoughts with proper words, because they don't know proper words, so they fill it in with angry guttural words.

I don't know why so many girls self harm

Also it should be encouraged that they self harm where it is visible. It's the only way to tell which girls are fucking stacey normal fags or not

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>>34572213
I've never cut, but I have always wanted to but I didn't want to make my parents get mad at me so I just used to punch hard things or whip myself. I would love to have my bf cut his name into me.

>tfw no qt mentally ill gf to cut with

>>34572510
What the FUCK

This is some next-level cucking

>>34573272
Eh, cutting and taking a picture of it to upload to social media as shown in this thread generally means the person has borderline personality disorder. One of the aspects of that disease is endangering oneself for attention. People who are severely depressed will generally go about self mutilation with great privacy. You aren't going to see their wounds most the time. People can harm themselves when in a state of psychosis, but it's going to be pretty obvious they are in psychosis.

>tfw no self harming girlfriend
>we will never cuddle and tell each other about how our parents abused us
>we will never kill the normies together

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>>34573294
Would it be great to have a bf who will choke and slap you? Someone who will mark your body as his? It's just another to show your affection to the other person and stimulate their senses, if they endure the pain for you, you know they truly love and want to be yours. Wouldn't it be great to have someone grab you by the throat and tighten his grip before passionately kissing each other?

>>34573411
You don't know what it's like to be this deep in love with someone. If she decides to kill herself, I will gladly follow her to the afterlife where we can be together forever.

Or if she wants me to lead the way, I'm fine with that too.

She's the only woman I will ever love. She is kind enough to give me love when nothing else in the world does. That's why she's my angel but she can be a bitch sometimes and I want to hate her but I just can't because I love her and we share a blood promise.

>>34573249
ur a fucking fag. idiot.

>>34573062
Do you exclusively watch big dick porn?

>>34573294

This is hot as fuck and I can only hope and pray I manage to find a girlfriend as fucked up as you again (I had one once but cheated on her).

>>34571952
I used to. Not for attention (I cut in areas I could easily cover with everyday clothes, and never told ANYONE), but because I liked the way it felt and I love blood. The feel of the blade slicing was sort of hot and sharp and just kinda euphoric. And watching the blood slide over my skin was something else entirely. It was a esthetically pleasing as well as physically... not to mention that I LOVE the taste of my own blood.

>>34573623
oh, I don't actually watch porn.
I don't really like to masturbate either, because it's sorta gross and I feel like it's "wrong". But the few times I have, I seem to enjoy some amount of pressure on the cervix in a similar way to how it's sort of enjoyable to press a bruise.

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>>34573433
I want me bf to be more rough with me but the worst he will do is spank me hard and grab my body really hard when he is feeling me up. I want him to choke me but he says he doesn't hurt me, which I don't hate because he really cares about me and he sees me as fragile both emotionally and physically. I love him so much but I wish he would do more sometimes.
>>34573647
I'm all sorts of fucked up. I've had suicidal thoughts since I was 5 (woke up crying from dreaming of drowning myself in the pool at night while I was on holiday in Corfu) I'm also intersex and I was raised as a boy but now I am taking mtf HRT. I have ADD and my dad is bipolar and I think I may be as well. I also really like guys beating me up

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>>34571952
Anyone remember who this was? Years back I saw a thread about here. Some of the most insane self harm shit I have ever seen. It was like, coldest rose or something I think?

>>34571952
>Hice meme

what she meant by this?

>>34573503
Post pics

originialiso

>>34574231
Thats Coldnessinmyheart I think she dieded

>>34574271
Yes that was it! Didn't know she died, but uh, I feel like it had to have been coming with some of those cuts.

>>34574290
Yeah I would assume shes a goner at this point, I just don't know how somebody could inflict that much pain upon themselves.

>>34574430
I don't understand how someone could survive repeated cuts of that severity. Completely blew my mind the first time I saw it.

>>34574472
I don't understand why girls want to take their lives when they're loved and desired to be honest.

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>>34571952
I used to cut every single day. I was extremely psychotic and cutting was the only way I could escape it. It numbed me out and I just sat in nothingness liked meditation but stronger.

I switched over to bdsm stuff and now I usually do drugs and spank myself and what not and release my feelings that way and think about my future master and stuff so its a positive thing instead of a destructive thing.

I always hid my scars and took good care of them so they didnt scar much. I used to look like this but more so where she only has a few lines that cross over vertically where I pretty much did mine all crosshatched until i ran out of room.

>>34574617
Maybe her childhood was fucked. Doesn't matter how loved and desired you actually are if you truly feel worthless and hated.

>>34574654
I'm curious, do you know what triggered your spanking fetish? I got spanked as a kid which is why I have mine. For me it's all about the mindset of the person being spanked- they have to be submissive and admitting they deserve the punishment I'm giving them.

I never really put self harm and spanking in the same category though. Why are they connected for you?

>>34574144
are your friends this fucked up too? i don't know how much rough shit i should to do my gf and when i should stop really either. i kinda like putting my hands on her neck and all that

>middle school
>start cutting because badfeel
>high school
>start drinking
>stop cutting because drinking covers it
>college
>keep drinking
>start cutting again because drinking can't cover it all
>get bf
>start getting dick
>stop drinking and cutting because dick covers it all
>bf stops putting out
>pls gib
>he won't gib
>start drinking again
>try telling him you don't understand, I /need/ that dick
>he won't put out
>start cutting again
>try begging him just to fucking fuck me
>he gets mad
>tells me now he doesn't want to fuck an alcoholic cutter

nigger you made me

>>34574803
I just love pain. I discovered I could whip myself and feel a fuck ton of pain but not really damage my body. That helped. Ive heard of some people doing rubber bands but I just slapped myself with a fruit roll up once and it hurt so fucking much and I was like this is a great idea.

>>34574654
This is just sad. BDSM is a magnet for literally abusive men, and I say this as a guy who gets off to sadism and degrading women.

>>34574885
lmao you spank yourself with fruit rollups?

>>34574884
Funny how a good dicking/sex cures a lot of female mental illnesses.

Not even trolling. Women need sex more than men do to feel sane.

>>34574654
Why are girls on 4chan so fucked up? I don't get it.

>>34574809
My friends are pretty normal for the most part, but they love to have fun and I did a good job of hiding my crippling depression and self loathing issues by being one crazy/funny mother fucker all the time. Ever huffed gas in an abandoned house's basement while blasting rave music?

>>34571952
attention, sympathy and not like le other girls

>>34574956
>why does a fucked up place like 4chan attract fucked up people

oh geez I wonder why

I'm pretty fucked up myself, so are a lot of guys here

Man this thread is depressing for me. I've got a major spanking fetish and I'm a switch, so I like being dominant and spanking girls and being spanked by them as well.

But most girls, on here at least seem to vary between "I want you to carve your name into my body" and "I want to stomp on your dick and balls with high heels"

Us moderates always get fucked, in politics and in the bedroom

>>34574956
>Funny how a good dicking/sex cures a lot of female mental illnesses.

they used to prescribe "womb massages" to women in the early 1900's

if only you could still get that prescribed to you
in form of the one dick you're comfortable with because it's the only dick you've ever known and you've known it since you were 14

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Well this might piss off a few of you cunts so if you don't like this then fuk off

>Be me
>not you
>About a year and a bit ago
>Meet a qt3.14
>hit things off yada yada
>normie shit
>after a while she disapers and doesnt talk to anyone even me
>after a while she confesses her love to me and decides to meet me for new years eve
>meet up all is good
>she decides to go full emo mode
>turns out she is a chronic cutter
>locks herself in the bathroom and her Dad drives me home while I feel sad man
>Stop talking and cease communcation since muh AS roasites
>About a year later; now
>Feeling down, think about her for a second and how happy I felt
>Decide to see if I can self harm and do what she did
>Get out platinum tipped steel razor
>Try to cut my fingers abit
>End up accidetly cutting the tip of my pointer
>Finally cut three fingers on my left hand in round about the same place
>End up autiscally cutting my foot near the ball of the heel
>patch myself up with my first aid kit

Is this what people do when they are sad? Self harm? I can't see the point, how low must you be to do this to yourself, is this how the girl I once loved feels about herself

pic related what I think she may look like in 10 or so years

At least It doesnt hurt that bad but I feel like a faggot for self harming and blog posting
orignaical commmment love love say that you love me

>>34575044
although really I'm technically not getting fucked at all which sucks even more

>>34574886
I would never feel okay with an abusive person. Not being able to trust them or them being too abusive would ruin everything.

>>34574951
Sometimes. Its an easy way to hide a bdsm tool that doesnt do damage. Then I just eat the parts that break off cause they are delicious. Also it feels cool having your body break something mean to punish you. When I cum I scream my name is Toby.

>>34575063
Do you crazy 'fembot' girls actually want to have more than one male sexual partner though?

They'll grow out of it, I did.

>>34575089
>When I cum I scream my name is Toby.

anon, you do what?

Also why not use a wooden spoon or some random kitchen untensil that can double as a spanking instrument?

>>34575089
Do you really want to get married to some autistic guy who insists on you calling him "master"?

Or some nigger with a race play thing?

Just get BDSM out of the bedroom. There are normal guys who like choking the shit out of girls and slapping them around and stuff who aren't into the whole weird "BDSM culture" nonsense.

>tfw found a fembot who is around my age and agrees

fgm

>>34575096
I don't want to have any other sexual partner ever.
I like the one boy, that's it. Forever.

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>>34572049
>>34574654
tits or gtfo roastie scum

To answer your question OP, the dirty whores just want attention.

>>34575194
What if you never find him

>>34575220
Why would you ask for just tits? They should post a video of them spanking themselves, that's fucking hot.

>>34575151
I dont do it for him. I do it for me cause I want to serve and be used and love them. More like a dog/owner dynamic than some weird hypno buttslave slave auction purchase dynamic.

>>34575225
Well I have found him, I found him when I was 14.
I just have to wait for him to decide he's ready to marry me.
It's been eight years, he has to get tired of this eventually, right?

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Fembots, you may as well post a picture of your breasts given that you're already in so deep ITT and divulging all of your innermost feelings to us.

>>34575254
wew

So what you're saying is that you're a female beta orbiting cuck?

>>34575312
Welp, you aren't wrong.

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>>34575246
pic related explains why we reply 'tits or gtfo' to so-called 'femalanons'

>>34575335
maaaan it must really suck getting ignored by chad while he fucks all the other stacies and leaves you alone

>>34575312
I havent figured out how to get mine to close the deal. He always pours his heart out to me and we do sexy things but then he doesnt want to stay but he always comes back to me. I could make him so happy but he wont let me. I think hes just going to kill himself one day instead and then Ill just be lost.

>>34575382
I live the female-analogous life to everyone else on this board.
No one is here because they enjoy life.

>>34575139
>anon, you do what?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CpJpGF8lS8

>>34575662
kek, that's adorable/hilarious

I've had one girlfriend in my life back in high school and she was a self harmer.

I ended up breaking up with her after 3 months because of it and we didn't even fug kek.

It was so awkward and difficult to deal with. "It makes the pain go away" she said. Personally I thought it was fucking stupid but I have a bit more empathy these days.

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>>34574265
Better late than ever.

>>34571952
>Does giving them the d help?
only if you are chad mixmscockus

>>34577265
you're only supposed to fuck and then leave the crazy girls, man...

>>34577443
Couldn't help it. She's the only being on this earth to ever show me affection. I'm hers forever now.

I don't want anyone else. I can't have anyone else because part of my life is hers forever.

>>34571952
My ex used to do it on her thighs so that "she didn't get attention for it" and didn't tell anyone she cut except for me once, and as soon as she told me she freaked out that I knew and left me like a week or two later.

She said she did it because she "deserved it" and she "liked the pain" or some shit, and she's also ironically emo or something stupid like that so I guess maybe it's something she did to be edgy.