I dont know if i'm enough for her. Why do i have to feel like this ? I was fucking happy(probably not but i was not this sad) before, like why ? She's just so beatiful and i found myself as an good-lookin dude but i'm fucked up in the head i just make everything awkard.
let me tell some of my stories with her
>Was in school(not a underage)
>Talking with some people the girl was in too
>someone told "Anon is such a robot"(pretty fucking ironic huh ?)
>"He has no soul and feelings"
>Didn't give a fuck to be honest, thats what people think about me in general
>Then she replied to him "Anon has a good heart he's nice"
>Happy
another one
>playing truth or dare
>someone asked her "who's the hottest guy in school"
>she hesitated also kinda was uncomfortable with the question i guess
>then replied with a name of a guy i fucking hate he's absoloute douchebag
>sad
>then they asked me "who's the hottest girl"
>i didnt wait a second and said her name
>she blushed
>she started laughing for minutes
>even though i was angry about her saying his name i was happy again
one more last
>Joke a lot about suicide (yea pretty surprising)
>i was going to stop because you know it makes people uncomfortable
>she started to tell me ironically "kill yourself" and laugh
>i roll with it
>some time passed
>she asked me if i was offending from those jokes she also said they are just jokes
>replied "nah you probably cant do anything that can offense me"
>>34504553
Get in detail Anon, what exactly is holding you down?
>>34504704
I have no self-esteem i guess. I always wanted to be a robot you know, while everyone was busy with socialising i was trying to learn how to make games, code and shit. So I'm socially unskilled. I'm kinda good with guys hanging around making jokes but when it comes to girls i have no knowledge.. She seems nice but you know everyone probably going after her. I'm good but there's probably better dudes than me (in look, social skills)
I just dont know that if she'd actually see me in that way you know. I never put myself into "friendzone" i compliment her, act like i'm a alpha, which is something that i'm too far away.
I just dont know man, i dont know whats holding me down excatly i'm a mess
just go for it dude. who cares if you get friendzoned you'll learn to just move on and not give a fuck. at least you tried. since you're kinda good with guys just forget shes a girl if that makes sense. overthinking her gender will just intimidate you moar
>>34504916
What excatly i'm supposed to do ? Go her and say "I like you" or something else ?
I think about the aftermath too you know seeing her in the class, she'd probably tell her friends they'd look awkardly at me.
>>34504836
>everyone probably going after her.
The "probably" is a key word, have you seen any other guy get as close or even closer to her?
If no then this should boost your self-esteem shouldn't it?
>Then she replied to him "Anon has a good heart he's nice"
That's not something you hear for just a friend to be quite honest, but just my opinion
And may I have a question? Has she ever told you anythig about her problems and such? Was she ever openly feeling down with you around?
dont do that yet just spend more time around her, possibly alone, and if she seems like she likes you after a while then tell her you like her. honestly if she tells her friends and they do that, she sounds like an asshat not worth it
>>34505003
I saw some douches going after her
And for the question.. She once told that one time she was thinking about commiting suicide for real. I think that she kinda told about her family problems too. Other than that i cant remember something.
>>34505051
I'll try that. I just dont understand the "telling her that i like her" part. How do you do something like that ? What can she reply ?
you can honestly just say it, or show her in other ways like doing nice things for her, .e. complimenting her, kind gestures
>>34505095
People don't just go around and tell random strangers about their problems.
>I saw some douches going after her
It's whether she is after them
>I think that she kinda told about her family problems too.
You need to pay 100% attention when someone is crying on your shoulder, especially a girl.
To me it sounds like she's feeling something for you.
And if you want my advice I tell you, go for it. But obviously don't just go up and say it. Ask her to go out with you time to time, and when you feel like "it's time" just say what you feel for her.
In terms of detail, doing so at rather late hour sounds like great idea (after all, "The nights were mainly made for saying things that you can't say tomorrow day"). Of course you need to do it face to face not via facebook or any other shit like that, cinema fits the description quite nicely.
Either way good luck, Anon <3
>>34505440
I love you my man.
I hope i can do it. If i can i'll make her happy everyday.
share a song with me in recessional
>>34505543
Happy to help~
You seem to possess a lot of alfa-like traits so it should be easy for you, just don't rush things and you'll be set for life
>>34505778
Yes i probably do but you know i just dont want to lose her to someone else that makes me so anxious. I'd feel so bad if she ended up with some douche you know. They'd use her for her beauty.
>>34505884
If you'll be constantly getting colser to her she won't consider other guys (unless she's total bitch, but that doesn't sound like her, from given descriptions), and that's 'cause she seems already into you. And if you still feel like she'll reject you, take your time and listen to her problems, tell her it's all gonna be okay. That way she'll have a emotional support from you, and that'll only get you two closer.
I doubt the following is going to happen but just in case: if she ever texts you at night (or anytime) something along the lines of "Anon I'm sad and want to kill myself" drop everything, ask her if you can come over and if yes do so, and conform her when you arrive.
Shit like this is borderline movie stuff and will totally stun her, and also worked for me.
>>34506124
you people are the best. You understand the situation thank you. All my irl friends tells "RUSH MY MANG OR YOULL LOSE HER"
Great advice by the way. If that happens i know what i'm going to do
>>34504553
nice blogpost you fucking faggot how about you hang yourself
>>34506283
Not much more I can help you really, unless you have any questions
>>34506360
Thats the spirit of the board <3
>>34506360
Thx for your nice words.
>>34506399
I kinda lost my fear thanks to you. I think i got nothing else to ask. You're the man
>>34506488
Then I'll be making my sleep schedule somewhat reasonable this time, have good night and good luck Anon
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>>34506585
You too, pal. I hope what you wish for comes true.
>>34506999
TRIPS
FUCK WHAT'S HAPPENING I THINK RANDOM NUMBERS TRYING TO TELL ME SOMETHING