>be almost 21
>5'7" 125 lbs
>babyface (look 15), but not ugly
>do have some beard (I'd say 17 with beard)
>dress like a man, not like a 15 y.o. fag: wear botton down shirt, leather shoes and so on
>interested in films, literature, philosophy and music, and enjoy hiking
How do I fucking find a gf? I do have one good friends and some other to go out with, but we're only male and we mostly spend our nights drinking, listening to music and chatting.
I'm currently a college drop out, but I'll be back in college in september.
>5'7
>gf
Pick1
>>34474888
Are you the male version of me...?
(obviously except beard and weight)
>>34474896
I think that babyface is far more problematic than being 5'7"
>>34474888
>5'7"
sorry son the minimum height needed for a gf is 5'10''
dress your age you cringey faggot
>>34475015
sharp man
>>34474966
nice dubs
pls, tell me >>34474987 is not right
If you knew a male version of you, would you date him? Btw, I'm not asking you out because I'm sure I live too far away
>>34475015
I definetely don't dress like him.
>>34475015
more like this, but without tie
>>34475077
A lot of girls have partners that are under 5'10 in my school, so I'd say no.
And there is a possibility that I would, for me, the personality is the biggest factor when it comes to choosing a partner
>>34475193
Here's a you, thanks for support
>>34474888
Have you ever considered becoming a gf?
>>34474966
You sound pretty qt. Why are you on r9k?
And
>get out roastie REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>34475368
Yes, I think I'd enjoy sex but I definetely throw up when thinking about kissing a dude
>>34475427
It's (((current year)))
You can always become a lesbian. Or screw traps.
>>34475402
meme depression disorder and lack of friends, anon
>>34475504
Have all of them
>>34474888
work out, don't brag about dressing like a man when at best the crap you're buying is from gap, great you enjoy consuming things and walking around outside now create something yourself, you're not in education and currently offer nothing to a woman so either get in school or get a plan that will sustain you in the future.
basically try to be more interesting and live for yourself, not a gf, when you improve what you call a life everything else will work out.
>5'7"
Become a trap. At least you got trips.
>>34474888
>be 24 and 1/3
>5'10" 180 lbs
>oldface (look 30), but not ugly
>full beard and moustache
>dress like a prep school kid: collared shirt, Sperries and so on
>interested in TV, short stories, nihilism and music, and enjoy swimming
HOW DO I FIND A GF
>>34475702
OP here, kek'd af
Thanks mate
>>34475504
Would you like to be my friend anon?
please be nearNYS. I'm OK with internet friends too.
>>34476530
>tfw you're European
>>34476721
>I'm OK with internet friends too.
>>34476721
>tfw you cant even define what continent you are on
Ayy
>>34474888
>be me just turn 27
>5'8" 205 lbs ( been working out for 4 years )
>muscular and built, not toned, thin layer of fat
>dress pretty casual, brewery or concert shirts, Nike high tops, hate fashion shoes.
>interests, films/documentaries, music, gym, vidya, tinkering with computer.
Its been years since i've last had a gf and she was a fucking QT but was bipolar, the whole relationship was a mix of a beautiful dream and nightmare all mixed together.
OP college can be a great place to meet new girls, just be confident and befriend them. Then pick whichever one you click with the most and hopefully, they'll like you back.
You'd be such a nice trap, my dude.
>>34474888
>leather shoes
>>34477847
>high tops
found the reason
>>34476721
pls be german or bordering nation
>>34474888
>interested in films
I bet you don't even having anything pre-50's on your top ten list.
Flicks and movies aren't films mate, get your terms right.
>>34474888
i can't remember the last time i used a hobby to connect with a girl.
your hobbies (interest in philosophy lol) shouldn't be used to attract someone. if somebody likes you, then they like you. i don't believe in appealing to someone or getting them to like you because you're just forcing something that wasn't a natural attraction to begin with.
what works for me:
>well-groomed (haircut/facial hair in check, smell nice)
>not dressing like a tryhard (attended college wearing joggers/crewneck longsleeves/comfywear and still got laid.)
>non-cringe sense of humor
>own a car (got laid w.o one too tho, just far less than when i started driving)
>treat girls like a friend (can't stress this enough. idk why but if you show next to no interest, you'll boost your chances of them actually feeling you. keep in mind that the average female gets hit on a billion times a day. by being the one dude who doesn't fall at their feet, you're already different.)
>don't have any expectations of the other party. just because you are doing things the "right" way doesn't mean you're gonna get ass. don't look at sex/relationships as a destination cause you're just gonna ruin it for yourself. it's a lot like how job-searching is painstaking because there is a hiring process and you could make it through every step just to be rejected at the end. you were looking at the destination rather than just taking it for what it is.
tl;dr just don't be autistic and you'll be fine. girls are cool and all but a career and having your own things is nicer. get the essentials squared away at the whole relationships/sex thing will feel like cake.
>>34478197
>your hobbies shouldn't be used to attract someone
never said I approach girls using my hobbies, but if you have something in common like playing tennis then it will be helpful to have a good time together
>treat girls like a friend
that's what I do, problem is they do either
>don't have any expectations
Yeah, that's very important. Thanks anon!