How do I find a girl to eventually wife? I want kids someday,

>>34464330
you dont in the current year. if you werent born in some remote village that has older peoe doubling down on pure relationships you're 100% fucked and if you do find a virgin there's 99.99% chance she is going to fuck somebody else

>>34464369
I'm hoping to hear otherwise. That's just too bleak.

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>>34464539
Welcome to the Jew World Order, goy.

>>34464539
mate, todays gen is all about being a slut, sex, etc. the faggot guys fuck women for the hell of it and dont seek real relationships

>>34464633
There must be exceptions though... Right?

Why do you even deserve a wife?

>>34464330

You have to find the nerdy girl that spends way too much of her life studying and forgot about doing things like making herself pretty or getting a boyfriend. Common in Asian countries.

Actually Asian girls that aren't exposed to western degeneracy have a more "good girl" value, and you are probably going to corrupt her actually.

But realistically speaking don't bother most people fucked at the age of 16 and you are just the weird guy who missed out and is pissed he can't find a virgin.

>>34464713
One would think so. The only exception I know of is my sister, and even then I am trusting her that she really is waiting for marriage and not fucking every guy she meets.

you accept your role as the beta provider and get some used up roastie to settle down with

>>34464713

Yes they are. Just not in the West.

>>34464816
Ok, so say you've found this girl who's studied hard and ignored men. How do you get her to change her views when she seems almost asexual

>>34464713
Why would you come here asking such a question, what did you expect as a response????

4chan and especially boards like /r9k/ and /pol/ feed on their own user base fears exemplifying extreme reports that are considerably rare, purporting them as the overall norm.

>>34464330
It makes me furious that I can't have a virgin girl to wife too. I'm good looking, fit, have a good job lined up, etc... but social anxiety screwed me in my teens, now I'm fucked. I'm 21 now so my odds of actually getting a virgin are as almost none. I wouldn't even care if we had to wait for marriage, it just drives me insane to think I can't get that kind of girl no matter what.

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>>34464330
>I want kids someday

YOU FOOL

I just posted this pic recently, stop following meeee

>>34464330
Well, what do you think makes a woman "respectable"? Or, if it's easier, what would disqualify her from being considered as such?

>>34464916

You can't. These people become professors or researchers and spend their entire life in that particular field. They are probably ugly too. You wouldn't want her.

Unless you are smart like her, but come on all of us probably aren't.

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>>34464330
>How do I find a girl to eventually wife?

just grab a gun and shoot yourself because that is the same exact thing. you are literally sacrificing yourself for no gain in marriage you have no rights once so ever not even when it comes to custody of children.

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>tfw too much of an autistic faggot to be a respectable husband or father.

I'd like a family too but I know I could never be good at it.

>>34464974
She would be disqualified if she is not a virgin.

Im a mormon, most the women here are virgins, the church organizes meetings for everyone to be wed, i got wed at 18, its nice, also its mostly whites only so ya white power yada yada 1488

>>34465118
>the church organizes meetings for everyone to be wed, i got wed at 18
WHY ISN'T THIS A THING IN MORE COMMUNITIES?!

>>34465086

Why the fuck would you guys even want a family? You will be a failed father and have a failed marriage.

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>>34464330
>respectable woman

*distant chuckling and snorting noises*

>>34465118
>Im a mormon, most the women here are virgins

anal and blowjobs don't count you guys so are women are still pure come join our colt so we can make it grow more.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zBkuNpgACH0

>>34464330
I legitimately want to cry when I think that I'll never have the chance at innocent love. Just enjoying simple stuff like holding her soft hands in mine or a light kiss. Girls now have already done a ton more with multiple guys and ruined any innocence.

>>34465172
To make things right for once.
To care about something for once.
To be loved for once.
not anon

Be good enough to be masculine and capable, then give her the ultimatum, does she want a family and husband in 20 or 40 years when she's an old granny, or does she want a used up vag that 100 dudes have fucked and a strong independent career? Stop tolerating their stupid shit. Women have delusional expectations and lower value than ever. Walk away if she even hints at being a dumb slut. Trust but verify. Girls over 24 are almost always a lost cause, find someone younger and avoid the whores.

>>34465290

You can't have that when you don't even love yourself anon. Look at yourself in the mirror geez

>>34465022
She doesn't want to anything post grad and she super cute. I'm probably the smartest of our friends group.

She's perfect in every way except she has orbiters and doesn't want anything more. If I only I could condition her out of it, but I can't and every time I try to pull away she gets more affectionate than ever and I fall back in line.

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>>34465424
I-i'm sorry for having dreams anon.

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>grandmother told me she wants to be at my wedding before she dies

Sorry, grandma, I don't think I can make that happen.

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OP, two things.
1) Never sign a marriage contract. Ever. Save yourself the thousands of dollars you'd likely lose.
2) Raise your status (aesthetics, income, musculature, etc) as high as possible. Granted, true love doesn't exist either way, but a high status male gets women clamoring to make them happy. As long as they keep their status, that is.

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>>34465536
Fuck your grandma, she has no clue that marriage can actually kill you. Statistically divorced males are at a higher rate of suicide, due to the massive amount of money/property lost and stress undergone.

>>34465500

S-sorry for spoiling your mood anon. Maybe I'm just projecting my disappointment in myself on everyone.

>>34465696
It's o-ok we all do sometimes.

S-so how is life threating you?

Yes of course there are exceptions.

If you have the mindset of having a wife and raising a family, someone else will because you are not a statistical outlier.

Gen Z is having the least sex out of previous generations.

However, your questions was about finding a wife and family. That really is an economic question more than a social question. Marriage is an economic decision - it has been for centuries. The romanticism of it is nice but you should be aware it's been a recent idealism.

If it is unaffordable to raise a family, then your chances of wiving someone is difficult.

>>34464875
So where then? What hellhole is there other than the Middle East?

>2017
>wife
literally LMAoing my ass

>>34466066

You can try the SEA.

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>>34465758
it's going shit. I'm in college right now, and I fucking hate everything about it. let me give you some advice kid, don't fall for the Uni meme. just go to trade school or something. Uni is for faggots with rich parents and the occasional "good Will hunting" type smart kid. everyone one else will end up failing and going broke from student debt.

>>34464330
The best way to have kids is to have them with someone else's wife, not your own.

That way, some other poor schmuck has to pay for them, and you can donate all the money you would have spent on your kids to the Against Malaria Foundation. (Approximately every $3300 saves 1 life.)

Before you all jump down my throat and call me an asshole...
Think of all the lives you will be saving if you do this.
Then think of all the lives you will be failing to save if you don't.
Clearly, this is the more moral option.

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>>34465188
this. we're too deep into this cave to turn back now. OP, you gotta plunge as far in as you can if you wanna come out the other side.

i.e,
find the most damaged insane bitch you can and start dating her. this is your only hope at a future wife, dating normie girls will only end in heartbreak, or worse, divorce. crazy bitches may not fit within your ideal pure girl but they're loyal as hell. crazy bitches are pure on the inside, you just need to bring it out of them.

tl;dr stick your dick in crazy, it's for your own good.

>>34464330
Find a sweet-hearted fatty who is much younger than you. She will be insecure, clingy, and do whatever you say to keep you.

>>34464718
HOLY SHIT A ROBOT WHO GAINED HUMANITY AND REALIZED THE ISSUE HERE
no wonder he got zero replies...fuck this board

>>34466946
Why is his response any more human than the rest of them?

Most of them are shitting on women, his was shitting on OP. Its not obvious to me that that's any better.

>>34466912
Now where exactly would one go to find such a person?

>>34467012
Are you seriously having a hard time finding young fat girls? Just go anywhere in the Midwestern or Southern US pretty much.

The only hard part is
>sweet-hearted
which you will just have to figure out by trial and error. But they aren't that rare.

>>34466832
Didn't expect to find advice like this. Yet remembering it, it's actually true

Right there with you anon. Its totally possible just be patient.

http://louderwithcrowder.com/waiting-till-wedding-night-getting-married-right-way/

if you want virgins, get of your ass and move to china. it's the least shit country that still has virgins and as long as your white and not ugly/fat women will want your dick.

>>34466066
The Democratic People's Republic of Korea
Cuba
The Islamic Republic of Iran
The Syrian Arab Republic
Lebanon (south)

>>34466998
>attacking women is attacking an entire gender
>attacking OP is attacking a single shitstain
There's your difference.

>>34467147
oh and those I listed are not hellholes
They're pretty fucking based actually (inb4 Syrian war well gee that's bc of the U.S./Western-Zionist-Saudi mercenaries destroying the beautiful Arab Socialist B'aath for state-monopoly-capitalist interests)

>>34467102
I have never read an article written in a more condescending or self righteous manner before

Christian might not know how to have fun but wow they are good at stroking their egos

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whenever I talk with a girl who I like, I end up imagining scenarios where we get together and get married and are in love for many years and have kids but then she dies even though she was my heart and soul and we shared everything, even our most intimate thoughts.

And then I become a grizzled loner dad who loves and cares for his kids but doesn't feel or do much in life and never loves again and ends up living on a beach as a hermit in his old age.

I have no idea why I always craft such a depressing fantasy around girls I like.

>>34467190
(cont.)

*Syria is bad now bc of USA-Zionist-Saudi

not b/c of Assad

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>>34467102
>look a muscular proto-chad with amazing social skills and a job was able to find a virgin
>it's totally possible for us robots

quit fucking memeing nigger

>>34467147
And how exactly am I supposed to get a woman OUT of those countries?

>>34467170
Ok, but if you attack a single person, they'll take it way more personally than if you attack their demographic group.

Also,
>shitstain
I don't understand what was wrong with OP's post. All he's wondering about is how to find a wife.

>>34464713
Barely. They're all the same bullshit, most of the ones who seem like exceptions only are on the outside, to get attention for not being like the others.
Same cause though, honorless, soulless bitches. I don't want a gf anymore after all the promises my ex broke and shat on with glee as she revealed her true self. I didn't believe the guys here until then. It might not be biological, but the culture certainly does nothing to keep it in check, and absolutely destroys things if it's not.

You're asking a board of misogynist virgins. At least go to /adv/ or something.

>>34467245
I dunno anything about the discussion or OP, I was just answering the question.

>>34467221
>not migrating to those countries yourself
>not choosing to live there instead of dystopian fascistic hell-hole America where you're always a few unpaid bills away from starving on the streets
>not living a pure, simple life as farmer or industrial mechanic or doctor or teacher etc. with your waifu by your side
>not joining the Axis of Resistance, the very few nations left on the entire planet that have not been enslaved by the global capitalism

>>34467266
By saying that, you're assuming they're inherently wrong because they're misogynist virgins, which makes you a mong.
Nobody created the world and said the baseline for female behavior must be reasonable.

>>34467314
I don't care about people being misogynist virgins I don't give a fuck about the mentalities and virgin status of other people. But they're the wrong place to ask for relationship advice let alone marriage advice.

>>34467199
"Feeling judged? I couldn't care less. You know why? Because me and my wife were judged all throughout our relationship."

anon is feeling judged

>>34467385
>why did you disable greentext? How did you do this

>>34467366
female detected gtfo

>>34467385
Why would I be feeling judged?

>>34467450
I'm not. I'm just saying this is the wrong place to ask.

OP asks a bunch of people who hate women and who have never had a successful relationship how to have a successful relationship.

It's stupid. At least /adv/ is mainly normies who will give genuine advice rather than spewing /pol/ memes about women they take seriously.