Anyone else disowned family members?

>>34395885
protip for all of the bitter /r9k/ers anyone who you can't leave if you wanted to, is someone that you should leave. (not including hurr but I love them.)

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>family kicks me out at 17 and tells me I should commit suicide
>started to make enough money through other stuff
>own a pseudo business
>family knows from somewhere that I make more money now and try to reestablish contact
>we didn't mean that anon
They should just fuck off already

>>34396038
yeah fuck them srs

>>34396082
Since they kicked me out my mental state started to recover and I don't feel terrible anymore. There are still a lot of issues, but over these 4 years living on my own, I improved a lot. I own a nice apartment and it's already paid off, have more money than I need etc., if they would have actually supported me in some way, I would be willing to share, but other constant abuse and then abandoning me, there is nothing I have to give them. Many people don't want to leave their family when they are toxic because it's "family", but even surrounding yourself with nothing is better than that.

I intend to cut off my mum at some point in the future, but I don't know when that will be. I'm not even sure how to describe it in a way that does justice, basically she's an enmeshing helicopter parent and emotional vampire who all the issues I have tend to be traced back to. I really think cutting her off and taking my life back would be for the best.

>>34396202
how old ryou??????,? originallll

>>34395885
Yeah. Most of my immediate family on my dad's side (two of dad's sisters, dad, a cousin, my brother, and myself ) cut off my dad's brother.

The guy is a user with no filter, who takestrel advantage of everything that is given to him, uses his disability as a crutch, molested my brother when he was about 12, a NEET, etc. Plus, nothing he said made sense, It was easier to cut him out than to try to reason with him, as he was toxic and stubborn.

>>34396586
I'm a 20-year-old manchild

I haven't spoken to either of my parents in years. They goad me into fights whenever I'm around, and then each blames my "behavior" on the other's influence. Maybe after a long enough time away they'll try to apologize on their deathbeds or something.

>>34395885
yes, now i just need to get this ssi check so i can move out and far away to completely cut them off, all of them with the exception of my nephew

Not formally, but I haven't talked to my mom in like 3+ years.
I miss the relationship, but I'm coming to terms with the fact that the person she pretended to be for a long time wasn't real, and is never coming back.

>>34395885
>i hated where i lived in the last 4 months i lived with my father i didn't even eat with them at the dinner table
>i shut my blinds when they were out the back so they wouldn't look in on me
>never went outside left my room once a week for laundry

>>34396923
now I've left and live with my brother and i may have gotten 100 times happier and i am on my way to being a productive member of society

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I've thought about cutting out my parents so much but there are good parts about them I can't help but love even though they've both had there part to play in how fucked up I am. Their emotional abuse and neglect is top shelf and neither of them have admitted to it acknowledged it.

They both they "did what they could" under the "circumstances" of my birth. Basically that I was a bastard child neither of them wanted responsibility for. I get pissed off just thinking about it.

I'm 26 and a failure of a broken man that contemplates suicide each and every day.

>>34395885
Thanks for the success story

I'd love to do the same, but I'm just not stable enough to become independent right now.

It kind of makes me feel bad knowing that your situation was probably much worse and you still managed just fine.

>>34396813
pretended%? owigniall