Am i the only one that automatically says what other people want to hear. My brain just jumps to the answer that will end the conversation faster. Its like Im living as someone that doesnt exist when im not behind a monitor.
>>34386032
When i still went outside and talked to people i made a different personality for every group/person.
If two met i would have a panic attack because i did not know how to act.
>>34386431
Everyone does this to some degree. Even normies.
>>34386032
- I gauge people's reaction on jokes so I get to know their worldview
- I stay neutral on stuff I otherwise have a clear position on so I make the other person more comfortable at giving their own honest opinion
- When I feel I know their beliefs and so on I act in a way that doesn't conflict with theirs
In short I try to see what people think and react to that. I act differently depending on the person, talk about other stuff with them and so forth.
>>34386032
Even if i want to talk to someone or know them better i will often give a few meaningless small talk statements and say see them later. it's automatic panic not sweaty panic, inner panic, then say the 1st thing that comes to mind usually something completely uninteresting to them. and then i end the conversation and walk away. I wish I was more of a natural at interacting with other humans.
>>34386491
I hate disagreement. I avoid any political topic unless I already know the person's opinion. I will only discuss something if I already know they agree. I hate being thought of as closed minded even if it's unfairly. It's a pussy thing I do but I always do this.