/virginmentality/

>>34375840
>It's about your mentality crystallizing.

Yep. Typically the only hope for guys like us is to be at the right place at the right time with an aggressive female.

>>34375840
>inb4 lots of /r9k/ anons with "muh virginity"
You guys can pay 500 bucks and fuck an escort if you're worried that much.

>b-but muh STDs
Didn't you wanted to kill yourself?

But eh, no problems with anons trying to die virgins though, just don't become a future psycho pedophile when you become 40.
Back in the day dying virging you were close, if not, being a Saint desu.

>>720066353
>>34376086

>Be 26
>No social life,neet,not rich or handsome
>Never had gf, touched or kissed a girl
>One day having conversation with dad
>He learns that i'm a still virgin
>He is shocked and sad
>He calls a hooker for me
>She comes to our house meeting her
>Just sitting on couch next to her it was enough to get a boner
>Then she says lets go your room
>panic.jpg
>She starts to take of her clothes while i'm still waiting like at bus line
>okherewegothisisfinallyhappening
>Take off all everything get into bed
>Ask her to what to do now like real autist
>She grabs my dick puts into her vagina
>Finally i'm inside of a vagina but not feeling anything
>Go back and forward, change positions still nothing, can't cum
>I'm tired as fuck but still don't know whats wrong probably because of jerking off dry too much
>Pull out she jerks me off and finishes finally managed to cum
>The end

Not sure if it counts but nothing changed in my life after this experience still i feel miserable. I was very close to become a wizard but hey at least i saw a real a vagina and touched boobs. I still don't have a girlfriend and couldn't get laid with anyone else. I'm hoping to get a gf one day and maybe i might enjoy fucking her.

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>>34376373
>Not sure if it counts
It counted but you were kind of nervous but with the hardest dick in the world somehow.

But yeah, if you really want a gf, you should try TO change in order to want change in your life, Anon.

Literally start lifting or start getting skinnier, dress better (see /fa/ sticky, don't browse there), be more interesting by reading more interesting things on the internet or w/e thing you like the most that isn't anime or vidya, be more confident and stop being a mouthbreather if you're one.

It seems like you just want some company, Anon. You can have it but it all depends on you and I hope you're aware of that, since your dad won't help you with that.
If you really want change, change yourself but only on appearence, you don't need to stop loving what you do but try to keep it to yourself only, even if the girl likes the same shit you do, I'm sure you like it more than her.

So, Anon, I hope you will have a gf this year and maybe a wife in <5 years later.
Once you reached this point, you will laugh at yourself once you see yourself <5 years ago.

Finally, IN CASE YOU COULDN'T ACHIEVE WHAT I BELIVE YOU WOULD DO:
Be grateful that you are alone, since once you are with some bitch you don't love and have some kids that hate you because how beta you are, you will look back at this past and appreciate what you had.
(Just don't gf/marry the first bitch you find cute, seriously.)

>>34375840
>This picture gave me a lot of anxiety

You get anxiety from a poorly drawn meme... think about that. You have mental problems that caused your virginity in the first place

>>34376575
Oh thanks dude i guess you are right.

23 virgin here, it dont worry me since 19 and im happy

>>34376086
I've been a psycho pedophile since I was a teenager. I guess I'm precocious.

>>34377329
Kill yourself.

Rust.jpeg

>>34375840
>turn 30 in 5 days
>still a khv neet

just kill me now, senpaitachi

>>34375840
You haven't missed anything. The powers are just a meme - they're not real.

>>34375840
>I have the same sense of inferiority and shame around basically everyone. I still have the self-defeating attitude about women.

That's what you get for thinking a woman can solve any problems you have.

>>34375840
>tfw 20
At least I'm getting gains

>>34375840
I lost my virginity to a 17 year old when I was 16.

She was the love of my life, I still miss her to this day.

>>34376373

"Love is what makes sex more than masturbation. If there is no love even if you are really with a partner you masturbate with a partner." -Slavoj Zizek

>>34378255
*when I was 15

my bad

>>34375840

Sex isn't what most of r9k is looking for. It's love and belonging. I imagine having sex at an average age of 16 helps in finding that.

>>34378275

I assume she broke up with you.

But look on the bright side. She probably has HPV now.

>>34378296

Women don't know how to love, but they do know how to get fucked.

No woman will love you like your mother. And she only does it because you're kin.

>>34375840
For a brief 2 months I found love and it was amazing. Sex was just a byproduct of this love. There are no words to describe this feeling. I was blessed. But when it goes the hole it leaves is 10x as powerful as that love, that is the price you pay.

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>>34375840
>gets laid
>still bellyaches about it

Seriously, fuck you and everyone like you. Try being a 24 year old virgin that only ever wanted to be a family man since high school.

I'm so sorry you don't get fucking laid every day like your ill-concluded delusion that everyone else around you does. I'm so sorry it took you fucking some random slut to realize that you're some low energy nu-male with self-esteem issues. It must be so fucking hard to be you.

>>34378350

"sometimes it lasts in love and sometimes it hurts instead"

>>34378305
Why would she have HPV

I'll be ascending to Wizardhood in about six months. What school of magic should I specialize in?

>>34378350

Reminds me of a saying.

Men use love to get sex, women use sex to get love.

>>34378386

Because half of men have HPV, and I'm assuming she went on to have more sexual partners after you?

>>34376086
>You guys can pay 500 bucks and fuck an escort if you're worried that much.

Not gonna risk showing up in the local paper.

>>34378489
Why would I want that? I want everyone to bear witness to my powers.

>>34378373
>Try being a 24 year old virgin that only ever wanted to be a family man since high school.
I hear you, anon. All I want is to find the love of my life and have 6 kids (hell, I'd be happy with more).

>tfw turned 23 last month and have never held someone's hand

>>34378388
Blood magic, my boy.

>>34378388
>>34378577
There is power in blood, the spirits trapped in this dimension still need to feed. This is a dark route to take.

>>34378577
>>34378594
Its very tempting. How dangerous is it actually, though?

>My degit ratio means I had little testosterone in my mother's womb.
>I'm short.
>My dick is small.
>My voice is a higher pitch than most men.

I lost the genetic lottery hardcore, from the moment I was born my fate was determined that I will forever be a virgin. It also didn't help that I was a weak kid who was bullied in school so now my self esteem is stunted because I wasn't strong enough to fight back.

I don't even know why I continue living. Even if my conditions have improved, I am able to perform a physically demanding job as an HVAC/Refrigeration technician where I'm able to rope up compressors onto the roofs of Targets and Walmarts. I typically work by myself, I got good at my job and that means I make money to support myself with no debt and pay for my hobbies in peace.

It doesn't change the fact that I'm still a short, fat, small dicked worthless excuse for a man.

>>34378641
I have very little experience but I do know it involves pain and enduring that pain. If you are worried about the dangers then it isn't for you.

>>34378660
Life is just a test anon, some people have a harder path to walk than others, but they are stronger for it. You are still here which proves your strength.

>>34378700

Life is a joke accident that we are all forced to partake. Through the programming of our biology we walk this unending struggle only to just die.

It's horse shit.

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>>34378813
I completely understand that perspective and for the longest time I believed that myself. I can't convince you of anything because I wouldn't have been able to convince my past self either, you have to discover that yourself. I wish you the best anon as we are all brothers and sisters on this journey, be it your version or mine, that remains true.

>>34378660

Can you afford a VR helmet? Ever modded Skyrim?

I'm not saying it's a perfect substitute. But many lonely males just end up drinking -- even in the animal kingdom.

>>34378813

"All of us are brought into existence, without our consent, and over the course of our lives we are acquainted with a multitude of goods. Unfortunately, there is a limit to the amount of good each of us will have in our lives. Eventually each of us will die and we will be permanently cut off from the prospect of any further good. Existence, viewed in this way, seems to be a cruel joke." -Marc Larock

But a man can voluntarily put a stop to the farce of life and death, by abstaining from sex.

"By means of abstention from procreation the wheel of suffering would be deprived of its impetus until it comes to a standstill." -Karim Akerma

There's a reason that many religions think that man has a greater chance of enlightment than women (or that only men do). Women are fallen creatures. After Eve procreated, death entered the world. Procreation causes death.

>>34375840
The wizard I always read his voice as that of sindri from dawn of war because the chaos sorcerer says that quote when you command him

Also
>METAL BOXES

>>34378965
You have to look past being a human to understand the true nature of reality. To say that we are brought into existence without our consent is only true if we believe that this body is everything we are and will ever be.

>>34375943
This is so accurate and relevant to my life that it stopped me in my tracks reading it. It's our sad truth.

>>34378325
joke's on you
my mother didn't love me at all

>>34375840

For anyone fretting about being a virgin, you should drop the idea that being a virgin is a bad thing (mainly promoted by sluts seeking alphas with high notch counts, and frat bros just looking to seem superior to someone to feel good about themselves), and realize the nobility in virginity:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antinatalism
https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Antinatalism
http://www.goodreads.com/quotes/tag/antinatalism
http://www.thecritique.com/articles/we-are-creatures-that-should-not-exist-the-theory-of-anti-natalism/

"For the bodily procreation of children (let no one be displayed by this argument) is more an embarking upon death that upon life for man. Corruption has its beginning in birth and those who refrain from procreation through virginity themselves bring about a cancellation of death by preventing it from advancing further because of them, and, by setting themselves up as a kind of boundary stone between life and death, they keep death from going forward." -Gregory of Nyssa

However, I bet most people who are mad about being a virgin are just jealous. That envy kind of ruins the virtue of their chastity.

You have done good in not having children, which means sending an innocent child into a cold cruel world, where it will inevitably suffer and die. And you have no way of knowing what horrible things might happen to it.

You may be suffering now, but think of the generations and generations of suffering that would have been spared if even one of your ancestors had never procreated. So too, look to future generations, and think of all the generations and generations of suffering you will have prevented, by not having children.

>>34378994

I guess Mormonism believes that everyone chooses to come to Earth. But they believe life on Earth is a test. I have a hard time believing that ass cancer and being tortured to death qualify as a "test" by God.

I suppose pantheists believe that God chooses to incarnate on Earth.

But many religions insist that reincarnation is caused by ignorance, that a soul unconsciously reincarnates in opposite forms from its last one, in an attempt to shake off bad karma, but it only accumulates more.

Even if someone believes in a soul, not having children means one less soul experiencing pain, suffering, and death.

Even if someone believes in no soul, not having children means one less human experiencing pain, suffering, and death.

In any case, the only 100% guaranteed way to prevent the pain and suffering of children is to not have them.

>>34379048
I always felt pure when I was a virgin. I can't quite put my finger on it but deep inside of me was a deep state of calmness about the fact I had no had sex. Sadly >>34375943 like this anon says, an aggresive female found me and stole that purity. I didn't have children with her as it was a fleeting experience, however I feel like that purity is gone now.

>>34379047

LOL. Sorry anon, if that's true.

>>34378925

I can if I wanted but VR as it is right now is kind of shit.

Having monitors strapped to your face will most definitely be uncomfortable.

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I don't even care about sex desu. I lost my virginity at 17 to an escort, it was easily the best night of my life not because of the sex but because of the intimacy involved (cuddles, kisses, even conversation did it for me) - something I'll probably never get from a regular girl since I can't initiate socialisation for shit. The worst part is that even though I'm not ugly (by that I mean I'm comfortable in my own skin), practice good hygeine and can easily carry a conversation I've only ever been talked to by a girl once before.

I still feel like a virgin, but honestly that's a good thing because it's better than not undermining your individuality by practising PUA or other material bullshit for the sake of shallow pussy. Why try to be someone else and feel like shit because of it when you can just pay and jump straight into quality nights out?

>>34379138
>an aggresive female found me and stole that purity.

Almost happened to me, it was a cashier who took an interest in my weird ass, she had a bf and was 4/10 so it wasn't hard to resist.

>>34379134
>In any case, the only 100% guaranteed way to prevent the pain and suffering of children is to not have them.

There is so much power in not having kids. Having kids is basically just recreating all the problems you had to solve for someone else to suffer through. They have to take care of their bodies in a world filled with tempting treats, resist procrastination, pay bills and taxes, be a wage slave, fear bullies, fear death, fear niggers, it just never ends.

>>34379138

Well I think women "lose" their virginity more than men do. With women, it's often a physical change. With men, I guess it's more of a mental change, if any.

But there is strength in chastity, abstinence, strength in character.

Look, any virgin guy can probably find a diseased whore and get laid. But it's not worth it stooping to that level.

I don't care what people say. There is something special about two people saving themselves for marriage. There is something special about two married people making love to each other for the first time. And only loving each other. That each other's body is meant for the other.

The older I get, the more I realize that premarital sex/extramarital sex is wrong. Because it includes: adultery, cheating, hardcore pornography, prostitution, sex trafficking, all rape except marital rape, child sexual abuse, child sex trafficking, single motherhood, bastard children living in poverty, bastard children growing up without proper male role models in their lives and going on to be criminals and a drain on society, etc. And cheating can even lead to murder, because sexual jealousy evolved as a matter of genetic self-interest.

It's the virgins who are right. It's the sluts and manwhores who are wrong. And if you don't love the person you're having sex with, you're just using another person to masturbate. Sex without love is empty, like a pornstar's gaze.

>>34379134

There are many different ways of thinking in relation to why we choose to be here or why we are here at all. A test could be correct, punishment also has its merits, especially from the perspective that life is ultimately suffering and death.

To me, both seem too small in scale and require some omnificent being who is at the center of it. I personally believe we are simply here to experience. An example would be experiencing something as simple as saddness, you could explain saddness to someone who has never experienced it themselves but they would never fully be able to understand it unless they themselves felt it first hand. That's just an example of experience. I like to imagine that our souls are video game charactors, there is someone controlling it, but that person is ultimately ourselfs, as we experience more and more we build up and become more powerful and understanding.

>>34379190
Lucky you. Mine was a 7/10 who I knew for 3 years and was in love with from the moment I set eyes on her. Hurt when it ended.

>>34379259
You hit the nail on the head. This world and the people in control of the world understand the true power in a man and a woman loving each other and bringing a child into this world. They push for women to be proud of their sexuallity and sleep with as many men as they want.

>>34379246
>Having kids is basically just recreating all the problems you had to solve for someone else to suffer through.

Yes.

I've heard people with depression say they could never have kids, because they could never burden someone else with their mental illness.

Now, people can have sex and not have kids. But sex is how kids are made. It was sex that led to the suffering of every person alive today. It was sex that led to the suffering of people who die in earthquakes, who drown in the ocean, who die in tsnunamis, who die of cancer, who die of malaria, who die of starvation, who die of traffic accidents, who die of industrial accidents at work, who die of heart attacks, who die of flesh-eating bacteria, who die of infectious dieseas, who die of war, who die of bombs, who die of genocide.

Sex causes death. Without sex there can be no death.

Oblivious of the suffering to which life is subject, man begets children, and is thus the cause of old age and death. If he would only realize what suffering he would add to by his act, he would desist from the procreation of children; and so stop the operation of old age and death." -Hari Singh Gour on the Buddha

>>34379276

We are probably just fragments of a bored god. What else could a god do for fun besides wipe his own memory and be a vulnerable scared mortal for a while. Its like someone tripping on acid, you're fucked up for a few hours then you come back to reality with a sigh of relief. When we die we just go back to being god again like "Oh fuck that was crazy lol" sleep for a million years then come back as a bear or something when we are bored again.

>>34379333
Times that by infinity and you just might be able to quell the boredome of a god. I like that thought.

>>34379276

Well, there is something to be said about experience.

If God is the universe, then God experiences every experience. If there is no God, the universe still experiences every experience.

But do all things need to be experienced? Some might argue that in order for a being to become omniscienct, it would have to experience all things.

However, by refusing to procreate, a person can become a wall, take a stand, and say no, I won't let this go on, I cannot do to another what my parents did to me -- bring someone into existence. Every cradle is a grave. So they can say no, I will not sentence another human to death because I fear death. I will make no replacements, I will face death head on. My parents sentenced me to death, and I refuse to do the same.

>>34379393
I understand your perspective and it's one I shared for a long time and it does still resonate with me . But I also think death is just another gateway to life.

>>34375840
>WHAT
>ABOUT
>PRIESTS

As a failed chad I got my wizard powers when I was 15 and became a wraith 5 years earlier than any of you had your first taste of magic. I will never buy a hooker because I'm BURSTING with curiosity of what will happen when I hit the big years.

>>34375840
really it should be the total opposite the longer you go being a virgin failure the more painfully obvious it gets and harder it is to hide then you get to the point you start to rationalize hiring a hooker and become repulsed by it because she's a true whore but realize all women are this true whore but don't flat out say pay to use my hole they demand rings cars and other bullshit
tldr i gave up and regret my choice.

>>34379323
microbes and jellyfish and stuff that reproduce asexually say hi

>>34379546
28 year old khv
it gets a lot harder
i dont even care if i sleep with a hooker, it is my anxiety that stops me


it is a cycle i dont know how to get out of

>>34379546
>but realize all women are this true whore but don't flat out say pay to use my hole they demand rings cars and other bullshit

QFT

>>34379549

Well when it comes to land mammals, sex causes death, and without sex there can be no death.

I also think humans have a much greater capacity for suffering than jellyfish.

So in order to decrease suffering in the world, one should refrain from having sex, or at least refrain from having children.

>>34379608
Anxiety sucks, I have been cursed with this too. I have ways to deal with it. The experience is completely subjective however, so what works for me almost certainly wont work for you.

I would say that because you are not experiencing certain aspects of life which the majority of people experience you are however, experiencing things which most people wont. There is some solace in that I believe.

Why are non-virgins allowed to act like they're on the same level as virgins?
It is literally impossible for you to understand how far fetched losing their virginity is for some people.
Fuck you.

>>34380202
Most of us lost our virginities late too. We know exactly how you feel.

>>34380212
You don't. Fuck off.

>>34375840
Who the fuck gives this much of a damn about their virginity, lmao

>>34380225
t. 18 yo virgin

kek

>>34380251
t. cocoon mode normie

kys

>>34380273
So I was right. You're crying because you haven't lost your virginity in your late teens yet. And you have the audacity to tell others that they don't know how it is.

>>34380289
23
Your next reply consists of "liar"

>>34380300
Still more than enough time to turn things around.

>>34375840
20 year old virgin here

im disgusted by sex, but i guess i technically lost my virginity when I was 10?

>>34380339
This is why you will never understand.

>had the chance to fuck this 8/10 girl this summer
>not the first time it happened
>I'm 26 and a virgin
>friend keeps nagging me ever since
>I'm really just not interested in casual sex
>he can't process it
>I can't feel intimacy toward random girls that I don't even know
>I don't find it appealing if a girl is open for sex from day one like she doesn't have a spine


I know 90% of guys would kill for random good looking girl for casual sex but I just find it bizarre. I may be retarded.

>>34379690
i hope the experience you speak of me having is not anxiety. If it is, you are one twisted person

that is no experience i wouldnt wish on anyone

>>34378211
>the powers are just a meme
That's what the jews want you to think

>>34380395
>I may be retarded.

Yes, you are. If you had taken up the chance and used that experience for practice, it wouldn't have taken long for you to actually get into a proper relationship with a girl that you really dig.

23 and counting.
I have no sexual desire, but I still have romantic needs. I guess gf hopes are wasted if you're not willing or able to have sex.

>>34380411

You really don't understand the phrase "I don't find it appealing". I don't make a boogeyman out of virginity like most people on this board. I'm just not into physical contact when I have zero interest / knowledge about the other regardless of their look.

Why do you have to fret and be anxious about sex? If you ever read any material on it or saw 10 porn movies you know what a pussy looks like and what to do. I just find the concept of sex as the most intim thing to do with a women pointless if I don't feel a thing toward her.

I know it sounds ridiculous but it's my two cents on the subject.

>>34380470
>gf hopes are wasted if you're not willing or able to have sex

You can either try getting with one of the very few assexual women there are, or become someone's emotional bf, aka her wallet.

>>34380477
It's not only the sex itself, anon. Once you'll find a girl you really like, chances are you'll struggle to get with her, when you're inexpereinced. At least that was the case for me. Once I actually got some experience, things became really easy.

>>34380488

I can get it that it's suppose to be a "cross point" mentally. I do have passion in me enough that I really don't think it will be a problem, it's just that I NEED to know the other. I don't like women that take sex to a casual level.

So basically I get how other people think and don't mind it, but others can't get how I think.

>>34378376
This was so gay I almost ended my life

32 m virgin los angeles

kik: zsasza

its pretty true

no powers

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>>34380593
The fact that this and many more like it exists is proof that non-virgins will never EVER understand how impossible it is for some people, no matter how miserable they were before losing their virginity.

>>34380478
Yeah, no one is going to take advantage of me. I'm not that desperate. It's kind of a shitty situation I'm in but it's better than living with a girl who doesn't come home three nights a week

>>34378270
great quote anon, thanks for sharing, hits it right on the head

truth is i think a lot of robots could have lost their virginity at some point in their life. the only problem is that it wouldn't have been ideal, it wouldn't have meant anything because sex for the sake of sex is oftentimes meaningless for a robot.

>>34380611

I just don't see why would you consider someone less as a person because he is a virgin.

I know it "matters" from a primal more unconcious side when it comes to men but honestly, it doesn't have to do with anything towards people in your non romantic social circle. It doesn't make you more, it doesn't make you less.

Level 30 wizard here.
I feel like I'm slowly going crazy, but now again I'm pretty sure many kinds of people feel like that disregarding their virgin status.
Aging sucks, being alone sucks even harder.

>>34378373
KHV here too, 26. Life is fucking torture when love and sex are programmed into your biology but you've grown old without ever experiencing it. It's not like I haven't tried either, I've been rejected by over 10 women that I've met in my life and that I thought I had a chance with.

>>34380663
It's not about the virginity alone. If a guy of a certain age is still virgin that also entails that he has zero relationship experience. Look at it from a girl's perspective. Inexperienced guys tend to be horrible partners. It's better to get with a guy that knows what he wants already.

>>34380698
This.
It's about lack of mental maturity.
If you have wizard potential you most likely didn't have friends either.

>>34380698

I don't have relationship experience but I'm a pretty decent guy in a lot of way. I'm not that guy who "know what he wants", women can feel it, I don't mind. I'm pretty solid in understanding psychology and body language and I laugh how women find me attractive and when they get to know me they lose interest.

I'm that kind of a guy, I'm a confident and ballanced idiot, it works for me.

>>34380711

I have friends, people I meet get a liking to me fast. I can understand what kind of people they are really fast and adopt to that so they always have a nice time with me. It's a whole different matter when it comes to intimacy.

>>34380685

>I've been rejected by over 10 women that I've met in my life and that I thought I had a chance with


Oh man I know that feel, I always laugh at that shit.

>>34380663
>I just don't see why would you consider someone less as a person because he is a virgin.
If a guy is a virgin after certain age then it screams mental illness or low-worth. No girl would choose to be with virgin than non-virgin if both guys would be on the terms. Being virgin means that you lack crucial experience of human development. Im not talking about priests but normal single guys.

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>>34380906

>If a guy is a virgin after certain age then it screams mental illness or low-worth

Your are 100% on point. Yet 99% of the time you can't tell if someone is a virgin or not if he doesn't show really obvious signs of it and won't say it.

If something like picture related won't happen.

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>>34378510
that's not going to happen unless you're a public figure

>>34380488
>It's not only the sex itself, anon.
that is why i want to go to a hooker, get it over with so when the time comes with someone i like, i will have enough sexual confidence

>>34380947
Unless you work in all male environment where no one talks about sex or relationships (like in construction) then its possible. However it really becomes obvious in how virgin guy carries himself around female coworkers

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Don't give up hope Anons. It depends on what you want, if you want casual sex and cant pick up women just go fuck an escort.

She won't know anything about you.

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>Was going to be a wizard in four months
>Managed to hook up with a big booty latina that is 18 years old
>Lost my virginity
>Going to see her again and play some video games
I guess I am a late bloomer, but I don't think I can meet people the normal way.
>>34380685
That shit sort of shit wrecked what I thought could be someone interested in me. Now I never know if a woman is interested in me because of a couple women that would talk to me frequently along with actually cooking me lunch and bringing it to work. No they weren't interested into me at all. Now I have zero clue if a woman is interested in me because god damn if they are making you lunch and not interested then how the fuck are you suppose to know?

>>34381009

>Unless you work in all male environment where no one talks about sex or relationships (like in construction) then its possible

Dude I'm a CNC machine programmer / operator and at my last workplace we guys always talked about women and relationships.

>However it really becomes obvious in how virgin guy carries himself around female coworkers

As I said for example I'm really confident in myself cause I don't give a fuck about it. I flirted with a really hot MILF there and she was giggling like a 14 year old teen girl. Everyone tought I was some hot shit. It's all about the body language and manners.

Not to mention I lift and look decent.

>>34380698
this. hurts just reading knowing we are falling behind

regarding the anon who said we make worse partners. I disagree. A person that developed their tastes and likes their own company and has own hobbies is better because they will have their own lives. when it comes to relationship, our lack of experience means we are a blank slate.

Their perspective should be that they can mold us to be how they like (this applies more to sex itself).
Also true when you look at the saying that its hard to unlearn bad habits (bad lays)

the pain we feel as late virgins is not down to biology but a social construct. Society judges men by the amount of pussy they get and there is a lot of pressure. If women werent disgusted by virgins, i wouldnt have any anxiety around it

>>34381084
So why the fuck are you virgin? You can flirt, look good and have a job.

>>34381047

>I guess I am a late bloomer, but I don't think I can meet people the normal way.

If you can form a bond it doesn't matter what way you did it. Not everybody have to act the same.

> Now I have zero clue if a woman is interested in me

I'm full on retarded when it comes to signs of attraction.

>>34381009
how do virgins act, please tell me.
Lots of people have asked me if im a virgin, yet on here people keep saying"its not like anyone asks"

>>34380906
It's the same for girls...especially if your virginity it's not for religious reasons. Men will find you weird and refuse to have sex because of the responsability that comes with it.

>>34381108

>knowing we are falling behind

With that mentality you really are behind. I know you can't change your thinking when it comes to this, I can see the social aspect as well but I basically can't care about it. It's not a part of your personality.

>>34381113

Because this is not something that my life revolves around. If I can get a girl that is into me and we have sex cool. If I don't I don't care. It will happen sooner or later I'm 100% sure it's just not a race so I don't feel I have to score as soon as I can.

I also have friends who brag about fucking girls and the girls look like fucking shit. Quality or quantity I guess.

>>34381159

Primitive people may do. I'm really the kind of person that wants to see and understand others perspectives so I don't judge a person based on something that is unrelated to our social bond.

>>34381159
Its kind of similar but different for a girls. I guess the first difference is that there is a big part of guys who would choose virgin girl over non-virgin one. However, it doesnt work with guys - no significant part of girls would choose inexperienced guy over experienced one. Sure there is a very small amount of girl who have a virgin fetish but that amount is almost non-existant. Its much common to refuse to have sex with a guy when she realized that he's a virgin than a guy with virgin girl.

>it's a smugbot episode
Fuck off, you're the 1%
Most robots aren't virgin because they don't care, it's because they don't have the potential.

I have two best friends who knew I'm a virgin. They always pick on me and joke about it, I always laugh. But funny that I'm physically better looking then 90% of the guys I meet and they get intimidated by that so much.

So the whole "social e-penis measuring contest" if fucking retarded in my opinion. I know we are deep down animals and have urges and subconcious thoughts but if you are open minded and rational you realise that some things doesn't matter that much like people want you to think.

>>34381330

You can literally pay for a women to have sex with you. If you care about it so much why not just pay and be done with it? Nothing in the world stops your from doing so. You can go even today.

>>34380402
I'm glad you think the Jews want me to think what I know from experience to be true. Far too often people on 4chan accuse them of wanting people to think things that aren't true.

>>34381377
That doesnt change the fact that you're judged by society standards. You can be more rational or open-minded but you still carry the stigma of being male virgin.

>>34381506

>you are judged by society standards

And? When I say I don't care I do mean it. It's the difference that you can't force on yourself. I'm this kind of a person and I'm more happy about it then being non virgin.

>>34379276
if we're God, then we created this universe to experience. At least we could have created a more interesting one.

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>>34375840
It's more bitterness than anything else.

>only live once
>prime years spent alone and miserable that you know you'll never get back
>pain of knowing you forever missed out on young love
>the burden of all the rejections and missed opportunities
>the anger of knowing the people that hurt you will never know what they've done
>feelings of inadequacy and romantic inexperience
>irrational feelings of emotional betrayal knowing any potential partner already has romantic and sexual experience

>>34381377
>Nothing in the world stops your from doing so.
It's illegal.

As long as I don't somehow lose the ability to fap I'm fine with being a virgin forever, it's never been something which I have thought about. If anything, with everyone being so degenerate nowadays (that includes people on /r9k/, it's no longer the home for robots) it's probably more of a challenge to become a /wiz/ard so I'm looking forward to it.

>>34381758
>it's probably more of a challenge to become a /wiz/ard so I'm looking forward to it.
Why its more of a challenge?

>>34381999
Because in this day and age you have to actively turn down women in order to make it to wizardom.

>>34382031
Dont be stupid if you're ugly and shy, its guaranteed wizardhood.

>>34381999
Everyone is a whore these days. Women have basically told me that if I ever did want to lose my virginity all I need to do is get one of them drunk enough and at the absolute very least I'd get a blowjob. No one has any standards or deceny anymore but then again you could argue that they never did.

>>34382114
What are you faggots even crying about? Go get laid, then find a nice girl to settle down with.

>>34382130
I never said I was unahppy being a /wiz/ard apprentice, why would I ever want to lose my virginity.

>settle down
Literally pointless in the modern day.

>>34382130
>settle down
>its 2017

setteling down in this day and age is impossible and even if someohw you do get married she will divorce you and take yer kids and yer money

no point

>>34375943
What about the hooker therapy?
You go to escorts regularly and practice sex. It's not even about your pleasure, just learning not to be a trembling mess around a naked woman, getting and staying hard, learning the movements and how to pace yourself.
Even tell them beforehand you're there to learn, or for a refreshment course if it's been a few years.

>>34375840
Who's the oldest virgin on this board?
>tfw 34 reporting in

>>34378965
>quoting religious shit
I don't know if this is why you can't get laid or if you startend believing it because you can't get laid.

I'm almost sure that if the people on this board stopped being misogynistic it'd be a greaaaaaaaaaaat step towards losing yours.

Stop thinking you "Win" a girl by behaving a certain way. That's not how things work.
It's 50/50, even if we tend to imagine that it's the guy's role to confess etc... She has to consent too. There are billions of people you'll never have a relationship with, so just get over it.

Find a girl (or a boy, or whatever as long as they're intelligent, adult and they consent) you'd want to date and who'd want to date you too. That's how it works.

Source: I've lost mine when I was 16 with an 18 years old girl.

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>>34375840
Oh, Looks like we got ourselves a normalfag here.

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