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At this point, I've pretty much given up. My oneitis sort of implied that she might give me a shot if we hung out, but I was waiting for the right opportunity to ask, and now I think she's ghosting me. I feel like she's the only chance I have at maybe fixing myself and becoming happy again, but I think deep down I know it'll never work. It would be kind of long distance, and I know I'd do something to blow it.

>>34353014
Do like me.

You self-improve to the point where the girls who want you are undesirable but not so much and you stick with them and pretend to not be in eternal unending pain as you remember that the woman of your dreams will never love you.

>>34353088
I'm not even sure how to handle a situation like this

>>34353111
I've been contemplating this, the girls who want me are not bad by conventional standards... but it's not like they are someone I really get along with and WANT to date

Is a practice gf a good idea? Would it help attract better mates?

>>34353169
>Is a practice gf a good idea?
Maybe but I don't think so. Just accept that your gf is not all that you dreamed of and let it be. At least it's better than being alone. It's how most married men feel, I presume.

>>34353218
That sounds even worse than no gf

>>34353416
It's not really, sometimes you learn to enjoy these girls. Maybe out of pity, or Stockholm syndrome, or like the Indians say, out of spending time together.

>>34353014
Anon I think you just have to settle. I'm along the same road now and i know that i should but i haven't fully learned my lesson yet.

I hope you know that this is also because you act less spastic and more confident around the ones you don't want, and more spastic and less confident around those you do want. Unless you can fix that, settle.