25 year old khv cyborg here.
Many of you guys write that they want "to be genuinely loved" and to give that love back to a significant other. Recently I've discovered that the main reason for me was just attention whoring. I don't want a gf because I want someone to love me and who I can love back but rather for showing off a nice girl in public and in front of my family. I love the thought of other people seeing me with a beautiful woman and thinking "wow, that guy made it!". I just want people (family and strangers) to see that I'm not a retarded loser.
Does that make me some sort of psychopath or are such thoughts common?
that's the normie kind of mindset, normies just like to pretend they don't act that way because it gets them the moral high ground
I just want a girl i can always cuddle with and give kisses to.
Oh, and also so everyone stops wondering why i'm single and acting like i'm worthless for not having a gf.
B-but mostly because i want a grill waiting to snug me when i get home.
Id like to have te sex, reliability, tlc and appearance of being normal from a gf
But I realised i would be a shit boyfriend, I'm exhausted from work and I'm not motivated to really go out places, I'm obsessed with saving my money for a easy care free future, and my years without friends has left me unable to hold a conversation, the man I am today doesn't have the tools to be good boyfriend
Fuck being miserable about something I cant change
I want to take care of someone, and I want that person to take care of me.
>>34339157
I don't want one. Maybe I'm just that self centered or whatever but I can't imagine myself being anymore happier in that position, besides most relationships are just sugarcoated bullshit, they'll last for a bit until one of the partners gets bored and then they'll go find someone else to be with and/or bleed dry.
>>34339157
pretty sad if u think like that, i dont need validation from other people, only for myself.
>>34339157
I just want someone who genuinely likes me for who I am and enjoys talking and being with me. And also sex and cuddles.
But right now I'm not worth anyone's affection so I'm not really surprised that I don't have one
>>34340528
You are the closest person to me I've seen on r9k.
>>34339157
I want someone to be my life companion, to love me and enjoy being with me. Someone I can connect to on a deeper level.
>>34339157
I'm fucking tired of being an island, dude.
>>34340502
>I just want a girl i can always cuddle with and give kisses to.
LOL! This is why you don't have a GF loser!
>>34339157
nah you're not a psychpath. pretty normie desu
i'd say more of a narcissist