tfw you have a gf but she's never horny and doesn't want sex

>>34295804

Or she's fucking someone else and you're a pussy ass faggot provider

>>34295804
i need another show that has the same kind of humor as prison school, know any?

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>>34295804
Me too anon
Shit sucks, I even bought an onahole but she got mad at me and it's still in its packaging

It's not that she's not horny. She just isn't sexually attracted to you. You are not a turn on, but a turn off.

>>34295804
Maybe you should take a hard look at whats going on, either you are shit in bed or the likely is she is cheating on you.

>tfw have a bf but he's only about half as horny as you and literally orgasms upon the initial thrust every time you've tried to engage in intercourse for the past year
So you end up hiding in his bathroom, crying and flicking your bean to /aco/ xeno threads

>>34295804
Have you actually fucked her?

>>34295804
Talk to her and if you can't find a solution to the problem, then why bother?
Sex is one of the main means of bonding in a relationship. Once they honeymoon phase is over it's going to fall apart.

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Had this problem before.

She only wanted sex 3-4 times a month usually right before period. We spent all day together pretty much every day so she wasn't cheating.

Some people are just sexually incompatible.

>>34296073
But there's no girls on 4chin

>tfw you have a girlfriend and she tells you she wants to try anal for the first time
Then I woke up.

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can you imagine having a qt like pic related and not being able to blow your load inside of her everyday?

would dump her if I was you op.

>>34296073
When I hear those stories, it makes me wonder.
How much of an autist do you have to be to not consider the pleasure of your partner? Shit, if you're the first one to come then at least finish her off orally.

>>34296224
>tfw you have a girlfriend
Supension of disbelief blown.

>>34296279
In this case, literal diagnosed autist.

>>34296302
You the person I replied to originally?
Sorry to hear that. Why would you do that though? Desperate? Personal history together?

>>34296392
>Personal history together
A general long-ass friendship and a perfect meshing of our individual retardations.
It's incredibly dysfunctional but but also symbiotic and probably going to last the rest of our lives.

>>34296510
Well, you better find a way to sort this out then.
Talk and such.

Same situation
Talked a lot about it
I have said her multiple times that she isn't atracted to me and that can't be fixed
She says that she is indeed atracted to me
After some time she says that she isn't atracted to anything, bodies, faces, whatever
The sexual part is horrible because I want her to like ME but she gets turn on by factors, not the person themselves, for example fingering her in the cinema or something like that
But the non-sexual part is great and I love her and I'm afraid of being alone and I don't know what to do

>>34296161
>in a relationship with a pre-transition MtF
>they're so upset with their physical appearance they will do nothing sexual
>I have an exclusive paraphilia
>I'm incapable of having normal sexual relationships
>we're both incredibly supportive of each other
>live together
>love each other

Sex isn't everything in a relationship. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. Only normies think sex is everything.

>>34295804
lies.
she getting laid by someone else

>>34296695
Do you enjoy spending time with her?

>>34296771
You are 100% right. People put too much emphasis on sex.

>>34296771
>in a relationship with a pre-transition MtF
Eh, this already makes me not want to respond to it. Well, you have reached an agreement since sex isn't necessary/possible for either of you. Good for you, checks out.

However in a semi-normal relationship it's not something you can leave out.

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>>34295804
What's the point of having a so-called gf if she doesn't want to fuck you?
Only actual retards can know this feel.

>>34296801
Yes, a lot, more than with anybody else

>>34297061
Don't worry about sex then. Enjoying each others company is far more important than Sex - despite what everyone tries to tell you

>>34295804
that's pretty bad
>tfw no gf

my gf is way more lewd than i am and forces herself on my and grabs my cock and forcibly starts making out with me and humping my leg and ripping my clothes off when im just trying to chill

>>34297297
if your sexual needs are not being met or you are not sexually compatible with your partner you need to break it off before you get cucked.

>>34297409
How many girlfriends have you had mate?

>>34297297
But sex IS important to me
I don't care what everyone tells me, I have sexual urges and I feel bad masturbating when I have a gf and I feel when she masturbates when she has me

I've been with my girlfriend for four years. I've been unemployed the whole time. First couple years we had sex regularly. Past year and a half it's much less frequent and when it happens it's usually us swapping oral. I confronted her about this and she claims she's depressed.

I miss fucking pussy so god damn much. She never even lets me cum in her mouth.

>>34297460
Have you spoke to her about it? If she doesn't want full sex does she offer to help you out in other ways?

>>34297444
what are you trying to imply with that question lad?

>>34297579
She should at least suck him off

>>34297507
Get a job lad. Show her who is boss

>>34297507
Does she work?

>>34297579
Have you ever had a girlfriend? Blox

>>34297701
I have an e-gf does that count?

Am I the only girl (girl) that would have sex whenever my bf wanted, or at least give him a bj if I absolutely wasn't up for penetration? I don't get horny that often but if he wanted sex, I would give it to him.

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>>34295804
Kek poor op.

>>34297632
I think that really will help. I'm finally on the upswing of a long depression myself so I think this year's the year!
>>34297648
She lost her job in early 2015. She's used to working all the time and it's hit her pretty bad. She's also 28 and I'm 25 so she's bummed out about nearing 30 with little going on for her.
I think she's lovely, brilliant, and talented.

>>34295804
LEAVE MY BOARD YOU FUCKING NORMIES. FUCK YOU ALL AND FUCK THIS THREAD.

>>34297756
What the fuck is an e-gf

Its always either one of two things, your penis size insecurity ruling your actions or you having a big dick but not knowing how to get her wet enough to take it

>>34297767
You sound like a man (man) trying to project your desires onto the impressionable fair young maidens of /r9k/

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>>34295804
NEVER masturbate to porn with your girlfriend in the house. Just let the tension build up and show her how horny your are. My girlfriend is doing the same thing. she doesnt WANT anything, and anything i want she says is weird or gross and she doesnt do it. Her legs always hurt, and shes never initiated sex before. She doesnt give the blowjobs, and she gets mad when i indicate that i want to have sex. "theres more fun things to do than have sex". "couples dont need to have sex all the time". i wouldnt mind those statements if we had sex more frequently, but its NEVER!

Whats the story of your girl? how many dicks has she taken? does she masturbate? how long have you been together?

>>34297794
You replied to me twice there. If you are happy. Relax and be happy

>>34297942
There's two more things, either she's not attracted to him and commited because he's an emotional/material provider or she's cucking him too. The man is not always at fault, sometimes his gf is a shitty person who put him into a relationship because she sucks, stop being a nu-male faggot.

>>34297554
Yes, we have spoke a lot about that

It depends
From feeling bad because I can see that she isn't enjoying blowing me up and knowing that she is doing it oligated
To her doing nothing for weeks even when I have a boner almost everytime I'm with her, I can't kiss her or see her face without poping a boner and feeling bad because she doesn't do nothing
But if she does something I start to feel bad because she doesn't like it
So I don't like her to "help me out", I want her to be attracted to me, or at least feeling that when she does something she is doing it with her heart, not like a chore

>>34297856
Make me block bloxxx

>>34298012
>Just let the tension build up and show her how horny your are.
And how is that helping you in any you since you never have sex?

>>34297767
You're not. Of the 3 girls I've dated, one of them would happily have sex if I managed to turn her on (not hard to do), the other would just happily serve me if I ever got horny.

>>34297940
someone who lets you orbit them on line but are in a relationship IRL

>>34297767
no, my gf does this. if i never got laid id be pissed enough to break up i think

>>34297554
Hahaha. That's fucking pathetic. Begging and negotiating sex will probably make a pussy even dryier.

>>34298028
As long as you're not the type of man who bends to the will of everyone he meets neither of those should be a problem, but it would appear I forgot what board I'm on.

>>34297962
I don't have a penis. I just don't think being horny is necessary for sex. If my bf wants me, that would be enough to turn me on and give him what he wants. I could go a long time with just my right hand, but if my man needs me, who am I to say no?

>>34297770

When I read these stories, I can't help but ask myself if these incredible husbands and incredibly nice guys might just be shit at sex.

Usually when a woman stops wanting sex from you, it's usually because they don't enjoy sex with you anymore or might never have.

I mean why in the fuck would you marry a guy who cannot sexually please you? And invertedly, why would you marry a woman you have no sexual chemistry with?

Shit is fucking stupid. It's either people care only about sex and play with people's feelings or it's a bunch of fucking prudes who are like ewww no no it's wrong to enjoy sex and consider it an important part of the whole relationship. Nobody ever cares to talk about how good relationships are about good complicity mixed with good sexual chemistry and that when one element lacks compared to the other, the relationship dwindles.

But yeah, it's always the poor, saint married man who gets betrayed by the evil most tainted non virgin woman.

I'm sick of this, you guys don't get it, the fucking dumb sluts and chads don't get it, nobody fucking gets it.

The jew wins again.

>>34298012
Nigga break up with her wtf
Women are people with sexual needs just like men, if she is going out of her way to deny sex even when she should want it she's either scheming or was kept in a cage all her life

>>34298118
>I just don't think being horny is necessary
>that would be enough to turn me
that's as contradictory as it gets. women are fucking stupid.

>>34298044
Look this is going to sound like alpha bullshit but would you like me to tell you what you should do?

>>34297767
is this just what girls are supposed to do? i ask my girl for sex, and she says no. a blowie, and she says no. "ill give you a handie"... then she just gets mad when i ask for a blowie again.

all she does is lay there for sex anyway, its not like it requires her to expend any energy. just let me do my thing, and it'll be good for her too.

>>34298152
she had approximately 8 dicks in about 2 years before me. and prior to that she had a horrible childhood.

>>34298101
You seem to be quite the expert. Please elaborate

>>34298118
The moment you stop being faithful to him its game over, either that or you better be into open relationships

>>34298161

Since you're too dumb to understand, let me help you.

She means she doesn't need to feel turned on before having sex with her boyfriend because her boyfriend wanting to fuck the living shit out of her is enough to turn her on.

This means that she needs no "prep time" so to speak, her bf can show up, be like "ayyoo bb wan sum fuk?" and she'll be mentally ready to receive his dick.

Go get laid, seriously.

>>34298172
there really isn't anything women (or men) are "supposed" to do. everyone has different sexual needs and levels of comfort with different sexual activities. if you're with someone that doesn't like giving handjobs, they aren't obligated to give you one just because they're you're partner. sex should be a mutually beneficial and pleasurable experience, not a chore or a favor.

of course it's nice if your partner does something for you that they don't like to do normally, but it shouldn't be expected of them.

>>34298134
>I mean why in the fuck would you marry a guy who cannot sexually please you?
Because he's a beta, emotional/material provider that is bluepilled and doesn't know that his woman is not attracted to him.

>Nobody ever cares to talk about how good relationships are about good complicity mixed with good sexual chemistry and that when one element lacks compared to the other, the relationship dwindles.
That's your suggarcoated unrealistic view of relationships. Relationships are nothing but a manipulative act. And true love, if that shit even exists, is a statistical anomaly reserved to a few lucky people.

>>34297767

The girl I sleep with is usually turned on just by being with me in general.

I mean it's the fucking niagara falls down there every single time I put my hand there. Like every fucking time.

>>34298169
Of course, tell me your opinion, man

>>34298217
>Since you're too dumb to understand, let me help you.
You go boy. Make her stupid poorly written post look like something worthy and you surely will get a sniff of her smelly snatch. Why is this board filled with white-knight bitches lately?

>>34298284
pepe memes brought on an influx of normalfags who think they've integrated and can only contribute normalfag advice.

>>34298247
This guy's rape victim pisses herself every time he comes down to the basement to visit her.

>>34298246
>Because he's a beta, emotional/material provider that is bluepilled and doesn't know that his woman is not attracted to him.

With that I agree entirely

>That's your suggarcoated unrealistic view of relationships. Relationships are nothing but a manipulative act. And true love, if that shit even exists, is a statistical anomaly reserved to a few lucky people

With that I entirely disagree, you have a wrong perception of the feeling of being in love, but I can't blame you, as I said, nobody actually fucking understands, it's not me shitting on the robots when I say this. Normies are as oblivious when it comes to actual emotions and feelings in a relationship as the robots are.

Normies constantly confuse good sexual chemistry with being in love, especially the girls. When you sleep with a woman and she enjoyed it a lot, you'Re basically, her boyfriend from that point on, it's not the case for everyone, but many girls will get intensely attached to you if you pleased them in bed. Then they get confused and self-loathing when they realize there is such a thing as getting along in bed, but not as people.

As I said it's about the full package. Good sexual chemistry, good complicity. Love is a very simple feeling, although intense.

>>34298202
Negotiang sex puts hands the power of the relationship to her. Women are the happiest and horniest when their men are attractive and dominant. If you act like a submissive bitch that begs for sex you're doing the opposite of what turns her on. Are you that stupid?

>>34298332

This pathetic robot masturbates to pictures of young children.>>34298284

>>34298246
>>34298333
How do you two feel about this scenario? >>34296771

Two people, one who is sexually attracted to the other and can't act on it, and the other who is completely nonsexual towards their partner. They love each other. How do you feel about a case where two individuals want to spend their lives together with no sexual interaction?

>>34298333
This doesn't anulates the truth of what I said. It doesn't matter how you rationalize your sexual frustration. Your "full package" is something that only mutualy happens to a few select humans.

>>34298161
Basically what >>34298217 said. If I'm horny I would try to initiate. When I'm not horny, sex is the last thing on my mind. But if my bf shows up with a rock hard boner for me, the fact that he wants me is enough for me to get going.

>>34298172
It depends from girl to girl, I don't think many girls have the same opinion on sex as me. It's not very feminist-y. It sounds like she doesn't like sex.

>>34298209
I hate cheating/cheaters and would never accept an open relationship or polygamy, I would get jealous. I'm low libido, I'm not that motivated by sex.

>>34298284

Funny that I didn't have any problem understanding her post, but you did.


>>34298313

A mere month ago, I was a fucking virgin, give me a fucking break you fag. Always black and white with you deluded fucks. Just because I don't believe in your stupid shitty frog memes and statistics doesn't make me any less of a mentally insane motherfucker.

It's just that I was lucky enough that my fwb accepts my insanity because she's as fucking headbroken as I am. It still doesn'T change the fact that over the course of 10 fucking years, I've tried dating/fucking over a dozen girls who all rejected me or laughed me off or abused me. I even cried in front of one once, beta as fuck style.

And yet, at 27 yeas old I found one who doesn't care if I'm fucking broken. Maybe it's because I kept trying despite the humiliation, maybe I was just lucky, I don't know, I'm just fucking thankful.

IF you're mad at me, it's not my problem. Stop being so jealous that I finally graduated from robothood and achieved what everyone here dreams of achieving. I stay here because memes.

>>34295804
TFW gf too sexualized some times and is addicted to cock.

>>34298470
>>>34298161 (You)
>Basically what >>34298217 said. If I'm horny I would try to initiate. When I'm not horny, sex is the last thing on my mind. But if my bf shows up with a rock hard boner for me, the fact that he wants me is enough for me to get going.
I'll bite, you stupid bitch. You said being horny is not necessary but then you said that your bf easily turns you on. That means you need to be horny to have sex and it's not what you wrote on your first statement. Are you that dumb?
>>34298492
I didn't either. I just love to point out when normies and women are dumb when they come to this board with their stupid cliche shit.

>>34298430

That is verifiable because if it happens to few people, it might be because, as I'Ve said, people don't even understand what love is supposed to be, not necessarily because it's some turn of fate or some shit.

>>34298430

I'm not saying all sex free relationships are doomed, there are always exceptions to everything and things can be a matter of context, but are you even sure we have the full details of this story? I mean who is to say if the guy saying he's okay with not having his sexual needs pleased is actually okay with it? People tend to be in denial a lot in these kinds of asexual relationships.

Can they happen, though? Yes, I believe they can, is this one true? Well, that we can't know for sure.

>>34298430
It's not even considered a relationship because it lacks the sexual component. Their frustrations if not properly chained will probably lead to resentment very soon and it will fall apart. Also, how do you define love? Why do you think your definition is of any worth that you can go and make statements such as this:
>They love each other.
You don't fucking know and you can't expect me to agree with it.

I know this feel.

I'm 99.9% sure she's not cheating, but no sex is a constant struggle, and now she's obsessing over the idea of us getting married.

I feel a little trapped.

>>34298492
I don't care if you were a virgin or not. I don't care if you've counted how many women have rejected you, especially if it was only a dozen in a decade. I care that people who have very little empathy or very little ability to understand the plight of most of the posters here try and post advice that just wastes space.

If you care about the average robot and can be considerate, good on you. I'm not trying to shit on people who have issues and are just trying to help. I'm shitting on people without a care in the world who just come here to feel superior.

"Normalfag" is a loaded word. Forgive me if I offended you by misusing it.

>>34298606
channelled*

>>34298636

I'm not here to feel superior either, maybe that's what you want to project on me, but that's not who I am.

But maybe you should take in consideration the person I originally replied to and the shit he said:

>that's as contradictory as it gets. women are fucking stupid.

You expect me to be all wishy washy with some fag saying obviously stupid shit? You think I'm not empathetic to my fellow robots? I am, but I'm not empathetic towards ALL of you because a lot of you are actually fucking stupid.

You want advice, you want some help? Ask for it and I will try my best to help you with what little experience I've gained in the last month sexually, then the experience I've gained with the social life I've spent the last year building, I'm no professional, but I can share perspective.

If you are receptive to the shit I say and it helps you, fucking amazing, I'm glad I could be of help to help you experience one of the greatest thing on earth.

You don't listen to my advice and you kep returning to the comfort of your excuses and victim complex, fair enough, I'll just leave.

You say stupid fucking shit, I will not hold my tongue with you, I will call you names, call youa pathetic fucking bastard who should get out of his fucking basement more and I will spite you all I want because that is exactly what YOU'RE fucking doing.

You're trying to play it as if I'm the dumb evil normie hitting the poor martyr angelic robot who only suffered in his life and is asking for mercy when I'm obviously replying to a piece of shit.

Go fuck yourself.

I apologize in advance if this all sounds like self-indulgent dribble. I'm trying to convey our situation as best as I can and I think this is the best way to do it.

>>34298573
I'm the one who posted that so I can confidently say I have the details of the story. Neither of us are okay with permanently being denied our sexual needs, but my partner is confident that once they transition they'll be comfortable with sexual interaction, and I am in therapy to hopefully address the issues of my paraphilia. It may not be permanent abstinence.

>>34298606
Reiterating that I was the one that made the post so you're certain that I know. You don't have to agree, but please at least humor me and read the following:

We've been together for over two years, live together, and rarely if ever have any disagreements or disputes. We define love by our mutual affection for one another. I want her to be safe, to feel good, to pursue what she cares about, to be fulfilled and happy in all aspects of her life. I want to protect her and never see her suffer. I want to pleasure her, I want her to feel me and feel good when she feels me. I desperately wish I could sexually pleasure her but that's not possible for either of us right now- so we respect that, and we fulfill every other aspect of our love for one another until it's possible. I know that she feels the same way because she tells me multiple times a day, every day, that she cares about me, in countless way. Through showing me by taking care of our home, by telling me verbally, by showing me physically with hugs and cuddles and shit, by accepting my issues and supporting me no matter how horrible I am, I know she loves me.

>>34298761
>I'm glad I could be of help to help you experience one of the greatest thing on earth.
Some pussy worshipper got mad triggered, huh?

>>34298761
I never made the post that said
>that's as contradictory as it gets. women are fucking stupid.
You should know that on 4chan we're all anonymous and you should never assume that the same person makes two different posts if they don't have a name behind it- and if you do, you should have good reason for it.
No one is asking you to be a sugar-coating faggot, the nature of the site is that we're all as honest as possible.
Getting offended is not going to help anyone.

>>34298777
>We've been together for over two years, live together, and rarely if ever have any disagreements or disputes. We define love by our mutual affection for one another. I want her to be safe, to feel good, to pursue what she cares about, to be fulfilled and happy in all aspects of her life. I want to protect her and never see her suffer. I want to pleasure her, I want her to feel me and feel good when she feels me. I desperately wish I could sexually pleasure her but that's not possible for either of us right now- so we respect that, and we fulfill every other aspect of our love for one another until it's possible. I know that she feels the same way because she tells me multiple times a day, every day, that she cares about me, in countless way. Through showing me by taking care of our home, by telling me verbally, by showing me physically with hugs and cuddles and shit, by accepting my issues and supporting me no matter how horrible I am, I know she loves me.
I have that with my mom too and I'm attracted to her but it's still not a relationship.

>>34298636

I'm sorry man I reacted too aggressively, I didn't read your whole post and didn'T realize you weren't aggressive.

I get fucking mad at people here sometimes because they do say the dumbest fucking shit imaginable and try to make you look like the bad guy abuser of robots for calling them out on their dumbass shit.

Sometimes I get tired of it because I come from the same fucking pool.

>>34298814

When you taste pussy, you'll understand why so many people can't shut up about it, but enjoying sex doesn't make you a worshipper, as a matter of fact, most actual pussy worshippers are people who never even got laid.

>>34298552
>calling me a stupid bitch because you don't understand sex
kek. I'm a KHV and I'm not this sexually inept. If you're horny, you actively seek sexual gratification, so you go watch porn and jerk off. If you're not horny, you don't actively seek sexual gratification, but if it was presented to you you wouldn't say no. Being turned on /=/ horny. If you still don't understand the distinction, I would recommend going to a remedial school.

>>34298916
What a pathetic post. Are you really in the right board?
>>34298930
Do you even know that greentext is usually meant for quoting?
>I'm a KHV and I'm not this sexually inept.
How do you know if you're not inept since your're khv? Becasue you read a lot about sex on reddit? Just another sign of your dumbness.
>Being turned on /=/ horny
Huh? I still don't understand. Make the distinction very clear.

All in all you're really a stupid bitch.

>>34298862
If you and your mother had a mutual agreement that you could be romantic with one another, it would be a relationship.

>>34298867
You've obviously been around here for awhile but you're making a newfag mistake. Read entire posts. Cool your emotions and don't get mad over stupid shit. The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.

>>34298916
>ut enjoying sex doesn't make you a worshipper
calling it the best thing on earth does.

>>34299015
>romantic
What the fuck is that? What's the difference between what you have and something that's not romantic?

>>34299037
When you have a romantic relationship you have permission from the other person to hold hands, to kiss, to cuddle, to be close and intimate and share shit that you would not normally do with family.

I understand that some family is VERY intimate in a creepy fucking way and comes very close to what a romantic couple has. It's not normal, though, and people who have that sort of relationship should recognize that the level of intimacy they're sharing is not typical.

>>34299022

>one of the greatest thing on earth.
>one of the
>ONE OF
>ONE
>OF

Not, THE, best fucking thing, dumbass, learn to read, nigga.

Protip: Sex IS really fucking amazing. Do it, then tell me I am wrong.

>>34299002
>implying it's not used for other reasons
If anything, it sounds like you're the newfag here.

>Becasue you read a lot about sex on reddit?
I smell projection. So you're a newfag AND a redditor. Way to prove the stereotypes true.

>Huh? I still don't understand. Make the distinction very clear.
What you're saying here is you're stupid. I have given you multiple clear examples and you still don't get it. The other anons get it, it's just you that doesn't.

>All in all you're really a stupid bitch.
>"I-I don't have anything good to say so I'll keep calling her a stupid bitch! T-that'll show em, r-right?"
wew

>>34299118
>to kiss, to cuddle, to be close and intimate
That's sexual in nature. Is that what you call romantic? Is it a way for you to rationalize your physical activities with your friend into something more less sexual than it actually is?
You're just labeling what you have with a word, romantic, to make it seem different from girly friendships but in fact it's just a sexless friendship.
>should recognize that the level of intimacy they're sharing is not typical
Why should they? Because of your judgement?

>>34299191
>If anything, it sounds like you're the newfag here.
You're the one using it on a retarded way.
>I smell projection. So you're a newfag AND a redditor. Way to prove the stereotypes true.
Is that all you have to say? The old and tried trick of labeling anything you don't like a projection? C'mon, don't waste posts like that and tell me how does being a KHV doesn't make you sexually inept.
>What you're saying here is you're stupid. I have given you multiple clear examples and you still don't get it. The other anons get it, it's just you that doesn't.
No, you fucking didn't. Stop being evasive and make a decent post.
>All in all you're really a stupid bitch.
Quoting myself to finish this one.

>>34299203
I consider sexual acts to involve genitalia or sexual organs like breasts, nipples, penises, vaginas, etc. I don't consider a peck on the cheek to be sexual. I don't consider cuddling to be sexual. The definition absolutely varies depending on the person so feel free to criticize.

>should recognize that the level of intimacy they're sharing is not typical
>Why should they? Because of your judgement?
No one needs to measure themselves by the judgement of a stranger on 4chan. All I'm saying is that I, personally, consider a relationship between a parent and a child that involves the same level of intimacy as two lovers to be unusual and subject to criticism. If you have a relationship with your parents like that and you're comfortable with it, go for it. Just don't expect praise or acceptance from strangers.

>>34299311
>I don't consider a peck on the cheek to be sexual. I don't consider cuddling to be sexual. The definition absolutely varies depending on the person so feel free to criticize.
That's not something that's only reserved for lovers and if that's all you have with your friend how can you two consider yourselves lovers by your own standards? Are you saying that people that cuddle and hold hands are in a romantic relationship? Is that your definition?

>>34299396
I consider two people who care deeply for one another, who care for one another, who would die for one another, who share affection with one another, who do everything that they can for one another, who are not genetically related and have romantic intent towards each other, to be lovers.

I'd consider a parent and child or two siblings or any familial relationships that meet the above criteria to be romantic if they shared a very, very deep connection to one another and wanted to share intimate physical affection with each other.

>tfw she's allergic to latex and too beta to go to the doctors

>>34299612
Buy non-latex condoms then

>>34297351
>Tfw no girl will ever find me so desirable that they can't keep their hands off me
>tfw i will never be the object of someones sexual desire
you are so lucky please leave

>>34297507
>tfw i want a gf but i am afraid that sex will stop and then passion and intimacy will day.
i just want a life long sex partner i could fuck an old woman

>>34298609
you cannot marry a girl you never have sex with. you will live in a passionless sterile marriage and she will feel it too. you have to do something>>34298527
that sounds like a good feel but maybe that is just me i jerk off like 3 times a day for 40 minutes each

>>34299919
is there anyway to prevent this from happening. like i want to be married but still make love every night or atleast often.

>>34296228
that would be very frustrating

>>34299991
i am posting again cause this is really bothering me. is love and intimacy just something that is doomed to die as you or can you preserve it all your life

>>34300134
i'm trying to think of the best way to describe it

when things are good (we're working parents in our 30s) we just fuck a fair amount. every day? not always, but if i go 3 days without sex i start like hitting her with my dick that is constantly hard all the time until she gets the picture

if she pulled that shit like "i could be fine with never having sex again" it's like ok, that's cool, how do you want to share custody of the kids because this isn't going to work anymore

lots of women have bad values, bad issues with validation/self-esteem from men, controlling men. they think that sex is a bargaining chit, or their partner gets blowjobs as a reward or whatever

that shit is really destructive and corrosive. sex is a requirement for a relationship, nothing is exchanged or lost, it's an expression of intimacy

it's a values thing. you don't need her to be a performance slut, you need her to value your needs and want to express it with you. the chicks who did the most showy and depraved shit coincidentally were the ones who would flip it on you when you didn't do what they want, or cheated or w.e

>>34300472
i don't want it to be a duty for her i want it to be something she likes doing. i don't want to force anyone to love me in that way i just want someone to want me

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>tfw minimal sex drive and I'm 23
>Tfw can never have a relationship because if they want sex I can't give it to them and if they don't I'll think they're cheating