Has anyone here ever been the victim of molestation? What was it like? Do you think it made you into what your are today?
My uncle molested me when I was around 7, he was around 14
I still remember it vividly, but I don't blame him. He was just a stupid teenager like we all were at that age.
I wish it hadn't happened, but it did. I have since forgiven him, for the man he is today is not the man he was at 14.
It has definitely contributed to a myriad of other things which has shaped my current state. In a small way, perhaps, but it is still there, forever.
>>34290786
Do you believe a memory such as this could be "put away" in the mind? Like, did you always remember it, or was there a time where you forgot it?
>>34290195
I was raped at the age of 12 by my friends older brother who was about 19. I felt so ashamed, and really fucked with me. I became a sexual deviant and never formed a meaningful relationship with a woman. I'm now 27 and I'm a little messed up because of it. I got my shit together and now hold a good job, but I also fuck trannies and whores.
I was molested by my cousin when I was like 8 she was 13 idk if it made me into the person I am today I don't think it had that much of an impact.
I wonder if I was. I've looked up some stuff online, and a good amount of the symptoms match me. The two most striking were beginning to masturbate at a young age (5), and fear of making intimate relationships with others.
How could I find out if this happened to me?
>>34290944
There was definitely a time when I forgot it. Years, probably. Then it came back, all on its own
I usually forget for long periods of time too, during those periods I have also been with my uncle, and still I would forget.