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>You find that rose-colored campus life yet anon?
Nope. It was all a lie. You'll only find it the same way you did in high school: by being a total normie. Thank god I'm about to get out of this shithole and get my degree.

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>>34275232
>lived on campus my first year of uni, first semester was ok, because my grades were ok
>second semester
>depressed, hated my noisy dude weed lmao roommates
>barely got to see my friends from high school
>walked around aimlessly around the city instead of doing homework
>got close to ODing on strong pain killers
>was practically failing half my classes, miraculously pulled off B's in everything
>second year, decide to get my act together and shape up
>commuting from home
>switch majors and fall for the CS meme
>look into transferring to my first choice college
>entire year goes by great, made a few friends, shared some great moments, got into my the other uni
>leaving it behind felt like it did when graduating high school, that weird feeling like you're leaving something behind and you have no idea what to expect, that uncertainty that you'll ever see your old life again
>third year, at new college, isn't cheap enough to stay on campus and my dad's unwilling to help out with the tuition
>no friends, classes are shit hard
>had to drop half the classes to keep my GPA from hitting the shitter and losing my meager scholarship
>barely get by
>spring semester, take shit easy classes, make OK grades
>last fall, take hard classes, but a friend back from high school days show up in my life again
>he basically keeps me sane and keeps me from killing myself
>met a fellow anon in another one of my classes, did my project with him
>get good grades altogether
>this semester, taking classes with same friend from last semester
>met an anon today and talked about vidya
honestly man it's like playing a nintendo game. it's better with friends.

>>34276071
lol @ its better with friends
too bad everyones a fucking normie or a pseudo-normie trying to fit in
anyone who isnt normie and might actually be worth socializing with is a shut-in. Uni fucking sucks man. So behind in my classes righ tnow and I keep telling myself I'm just going to spend the day getting caught up but it never happens

I have no idea what I want to do on campus. I want to be active but I have no intrests

Last semester till I graduate. I've basically cut off contact with everyone I met here. Only talk to people in my major. Can't wait to leave.

>>34275232
>Found a qt
>She interested for some reason
>Hold hands watching movie
>Really cute dates
>Tells me we can't date
>WTF why
>Never kissed
>"I didn't feel anything when we held hands Anon"
>This woman writes me off
>Cry and wank
>More crying and more wanking
>Still caught on her
>FUCK

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i sit next to this cute ass korean girl that i know absolutely nothing about but i think i'm in love with her what the fuck do i do

>>34276370
holy fuck you're autistics

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I'm dropping out after nearly 3 years since I'm out of money and not getting student loans due to being severely behind in courses. Moving back to mom next month. Might start another uni there because I doubt I can get a job.

If there's any underage lurking, don't move out unless you have to. It will fuck you up unless you're strong.

>>34276460
stop being a faggot and ask her if she wants to get some dinner/brunch/study/go to the park/something jesus christ she will never be your gf if you dont ask fuckkkkk
you are all fucking tards. just ask her out, dont be creepy, just bee urself ;^). if you never ask her it will never happen

>>34276460
>>34276521
you wlil probably fail and hopefully learn to try again

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>friend just found out the girl he was beta-orbiting was a lesbo

>>34276521
i have never initiated a talk with a woman in real life before anon how do you expect me to do that shit

>>34276639
how do you imagine other people have done it?

>>34276639
"hi anonette, how's your day going?"
"hi anon, its just fine"
"hey, I was wondering if youd liek to grab some coffee this saturday morning?"
"sure anon, that sounds good."
"ok, meet at XX at 11?

or

"hi anonette, how's your day going?"
"hi anon, its just fine"
"hey, I was wondering if youd liek to grab some coffee this saturday morning?"
"sorry anon, but I'm not interested"
"ok, thanks for lettting me know. have you done the homework yet?"

or

"hi anonette, how's your day going?"
"hi anon, its just fine"
"hey, I was wondering if youd liek to grab some coffee this saturday morning?"
"i'm busy that morning but could we do AA activity at XX time on ZZ day?/some other time."
"ok, that works for me/ suggest another activity at another time"

anon, there you go. the three ways it goes down. jsut don't be awkward, and don't force the issue if she's not interested

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>>34276725
>jsut don't be awkward

>tfw second week of classes
>most people are starting to make friends
>i'm still alone although i have a few people i could befriend because they're in a lot of my classes

>>34276725
this sounds like shit that only works in movies. i'd imagine an autist such as myself would get redfaced in 5 seconds and run away embarrassed

>>34276820
Normalfags make friends through the ones that they already have. They never actually approach strangers like this, even though they tell other people to do it.

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>tfw about to graduate hs
>tfw I got a surprise phone call from a university today

It's about to happen lads, what should expect?

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>>34276820
fucking a anon, that's how you do it. it's how i do it, on tinder or in bars. here's my most recent conversation, after 5 minutes. you literally have to just beee urself ;^) and ask them to do a thing. fug i am so salty right now

>>34276460
if she's in your class, just try to be her classmate. you have it fairly easy

ask her to study together and such

do NOT straight up ask her on a date if you don't know what you're doing >>34276725

>>34276901
Go to the forced activities and hope to make friends. Being alone makes you go insane and will fuck up your academics too.
>but if I'm alone I'll have more time to study
Nope, depression doesn't work like that. Also if you can live with your parents I'd advice you to unless they're rich or something.

>>34276926
You don't say, hey wanna go on a date. you ask them if they want to do something fun or food-oriented that clearly implies its just you and the other person going. they will understand it's a date, even if your dumb ass doesn't pick up on it.

>>34276961
so true man. it doesn't even have to be an actual friend, just find someone to study with

>>34275232
Dropped out after going on and off for 4 years and now I'm at a tech school.

>>34276974
i know.

it's still weird to flat out ask a girl out on a date like that. usually better to keep it platonic at first

might get lucky if that korean girl indeed loves bwc

>>34276974
what do i do when she inevitably asks me what my interests are? all i do is watch anime and waste my life away on 4chan when i'm not doing classwork. only redeeming quality is that i'm fairly attractive. i don't think i'm cut out to have a gf

>tfw found this girl who has the same 2 classes back-to-back
>she almost sat right next to me last class
>have no courage to actually talk to her

>>34277072
>I enjoy Japanese animation and computers

>>34277072
Anime is pretty popular nowadays

>>34277015
if you sit next to her, I assume you have already talked to her, yes? don't just point blank adsk her out if you have literally never said hi, unless you really do have bwc or are quite handsome. you don't keep things platonic if you want to go on a date jesus christ you are so fucking dense.
i was like that, too afraid to ask out becuase i was afraid of failure. you know what--you won't marry 99% of all girls you date, and a lot of girls you ask out wont date you. if you don't try you wont make it. i believe in you anonkun

>>34277072
i work on computers as a hobby, enjoy animated films, enjoy cooking, go for walks sometime. its like a resume--you bullshit, but not too much. if you go hiking once a year--you enjot hiking. if you read a book in the last 3 months, you enjoy reading. fug man, you gotta be confident in yourself.

>>34277072
dude you're thinking way ahead

you didn't even talk to her yet and you're worrying about that

btw how hot is that korean girl? pretty unlikely she'd like anime though

>>34277162
>you don't keep things platonic if you want to go on a date jesus christ you are so fucking dense.
idk man, i'm more comfortable with befriending these girls before dating them. that's just how i am

>>34277189
that's how i am anon, but you don't ask them on a 1 on 1 date like setting with the intent of keeping it platonic. go in knowing that if shes cool/you want to bang her, you're gonna ask her out again. if shes neat but you're not feeling it, hey presto youve made a female friend. but if you go in thinking that you're just friends, and maybeeee it will turn romantic, buddy you're doing it wrong. go in expecting a romance, but prepare for a friendship.

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who here /no friends at uni/

orignalio

>>34277248
I have one friend left since middle school but I haven't met someone new for 8 years. Started talking to myself a while ago.

>>34277244
lol you've reminded me of a female friend i knew in first year

she kept trying to ask me out on weekend dates few weeks before leading up to valentines day

she was REALLY specific too, like saying we should skate

she never actually followed up (i guess i was the one who was supposed to), so i just called it off

on valentine's day i think she got a different bf who she was really awkward with

fugg i still cringe

>>34277248
i used to have SOME acquaintances in first year. i got lucky

but then i changed programs and they slowly moved away

im also on academic probation and failed my first semester even worse

apparently there was my high school friend in the same major as me (CS) but i'm a year behind now lol

>>34277162
>I assume you have already talked to her, yes?
no. she's shy and i'm shy and i have no clue how to start a conversation
>>34277165
she's not HOT but she's cute. which is good because i don't have to compete with the chads who want to fuck the 9/10 korean stacys on campus. she looks like a girl that would be into anime but i can't find anything about her on the internet because her name is some generic korean name

>>34277317
christ anon, just do what she did. literally that's all you have to do. except don't be an autist and keep badgering her if you won't clearly say yes to activities.
I am 23, and i went through the exact same phases as you fagets, except now I know to stop being a retard, and just ask girls out without spilling spaghetti. girls are not mysterious beasts, they are jsut the same as us except they have plot and backstory.

>>34277375
well, you're the white guy (i think). you're gonna have to be the one to initiate the convo, man.

>which is good because i don't have to compete with the chads who want to fuck the 9/10 korean stacys on campus.
oh damn is that real?

>>34277375
say hi. ask her how her week is going. did she do anything fun last weekend/over winter break. what she thinks of uni. what her major is. ask her if she can help you understand some stupid thing in class. i dunno.

>>34277388
i know. problem is i really only get attracted in girls once i know it's mutual. also i'm not a normie so labs and lectures are pretty much my only way of meeting girls

if they're uglier than me, they end up being some stacy slut
if they're way prettier than me, i end up spilling spaghetti

i'm not lying but i'm usually attractive enough to get girls interested in me, i just never follow through

thinking about going to therapy lads. i feel a little bit too lonely and dead inside and often get too depressed to finish my work and go home to get high instead. free uni therapy good/bad idea?

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>>34275232
THE GUYS IN MY HALLWAY ARE HAVING A PORN WATCH PARTY IN THE ROOM ACROSS FROM MINE
FUCKING CHAD FRAT NORMIES REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE FUCK OFF

>>34277493
Of course it's a good idea if you have the guts to go.

>>34277493
>free uni therapy good/bad idea?
it's free so use the resources, of course

>>34277470
>i know. problem is i really only get attracted in girls once i know it's mutual

that's what dinner/lunch/coffe dates are for. as long as i at least think she's cute, and i know what shes doing with her life/basic interests/etc, i ask her out. that's the whole point of first dates getting food--relaxed, safe atmosphere to get to know the person, and both parties know they'r scoping each other out for a potential relationship.

>>34277494

You should join in and suggest mutual masturbation. After all, it's only natural.

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>2nd week of classes
>three close friends already with shared interests
>mfw

>>34277375
>she looks like a girl that would be into anime but i can't find anything about her on the internet because her name is some generic korean name
since she's korean, i'd say it's less likely for her to be into anime. it usually tends to be white people or chinese people who like anime. she might like kpop or something idk

i'm just generalizing, i hope you keep us posted

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>>34276270
>anyone who isnt normie and might actually be worth socializing with is a shut-in.

There must be a way to draw them out into the light.

>>34277556
I hope you get hit by a truck and become a vegetable

>>34277544
>that's what dinner/lunch/coffe dates are for.
i don't even know her yet, why would i ask her out on a date like that?

i've been to restaurants and saw so many couples where it's obvious the girl is only using the guy for food lol. often the guy was actually more attractive, poor guy

>>34277591
well ,that's the way shit rolls. i always offer to pay, but if she doesn't insist we split the check, i immediately bounce afterwards. it's all part of the game of dating, friendo.
and if you ask her out for lynch/coffee, worst case scenario you're out like 15-20 bucks. or ask her to go to a museum/exhibit/historical part of town/go do outdoors activity--skate, small hike, etc.

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Any Ausfags here? Any starting next year? What/where you studying?

>tfw in the Arid Chadlands that is WA

>>34277556
Fucking die
Fucking normie

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>>34277684
>tfw want to study abroad in Australia to increase my chances of getting an aussie stud as a bf but don't want to leave the country on my own
what do

>second week of classes
>see this guy in two of my classes who's from my high school
>didn't see him in class today

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>>34275232
I can't wait to go back, tbf. I'm so fucking bored at home.

>>34277658
well that's the thing

i don't know enough girls to even try to ask out like that

i'm not confident in myself although i have SOME experience (not really actually dating)

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First semester my grades were fair enough and I was lucky enough to be going into college already with a friend group. I'm worried I would have been alone If I didn't already have then, and I have low hopes that I will ever get a gf. And if I can't get a gf in uni when it's supposedly the easiest I guess I'm fucked for life.

>tfw second year in first year classes because i changed majors and failed some of them
it's getting harder to try to find a gf in class

they all think i'm some kind of creep because i'm older than them

>>34277571
Fortunately at my uni, there's an arcade nearby and I end up forcing myself to talk to some of the other people that play rhythm games.

help, a girl thinks i'm stalking her now

i used to know her in first year, she actually liked me and fought over me with her friend (lol)

now fast forward to the beginning of second year, i start seeing her on the way out of one of my classes

so we said hi a couple times, and she actually talked to me afterwards.

i happily said "we're in the same classroom!" like a fucking autist

she then got creeped out as FUCK and asked me how i knew. well i didn't know how to answer that and it just made me seem even more suspicious

how did I know?
>always see her on the way out of my class
>the class after seems to have pretty girls, so i look up which class it is
>matches up with the class she said was taking

that's how i knew, but somehow i think she thought i was watching her or something

after that she started avoiding me. came late to class so she wouldn't see me and such.

what do?

>second week of classes and i'm already frustrated with the workload
i fucking HATE waking up for 9am classes

i never work out either

coffee makes it worse because i can't sleep and it gives me sleep apnea

i need adderall or something, can anyone confirm it works better?

4 years spent in my room as a friendless loser.

Can't wait for it to be over.

>>34277994
You have two options.
Face the problem head on or avoid it altogether.
If you take the first option, you can approach her and be like "Hey, I know you think I'm a stalker or something now, but the reason I knew you were in the same class as me is because I fucking saw you in it, big surprise. It just caught me off guard that you couldn't come to that conclusion and I wasn't able to answer you at the time."
If you take the second option, drop the class.

>>34277994
It's too late to explain it to her now. Ignore her and move on.

>>34278042
>i fucking HATE waking up for 9am classes
then don't go to bed so late. develop discipline. and being able to get up at 9 doesn't count as discipline.

>i never work out either
it'll help you sleep and improve stress and confidence too. start running, lifting, or playing sports regularly.

>coffee makes it worse because i can't sleep and it gives me sleep apnea
no coffee 8 hours before bedtime. use f.lux before bed to ease the strain on your eyes.

>i need adderall or something
you'll regret that in a few years. at least i did.


nigga i just sorted out all of your problems

>>34278106
I miss her because she was a really rich Chinese girl... I guess it's too late, I don't think she even likes me anymore

That was one term ago, and I saw her on Monday as well. She did say hi to me but looked at me with disgust

>>34278105
What do you mean drop the class?

>>34278182
>then don't go to bed so late.
I'm a night person. I usually doze off by evening (5pm) and become more awake at 11pm or so.

I would like to work out, but I don't have friends to do it with.

I do use f.lux but I don't think it matters too much

What's wrong with Adderall anyway? I start getting ADD symptoms when I'm depressed or anxious

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>>34275232
>20 years old
>Don't remember anything from high-school
>Have had 2 years of no social interaction what-so-ever
>Went to a bowling place with my dad and almost cried in front of others because it jarred me so heavily
>Dad is now expecting me to integrate into a college environment as he's now too old to work

Has anyone else been here before?
I have never done anything I wasn't forced to do by someone else.

>>34275232
>tfw still haven't purchased any books for my classes yet

>>34278438
I regret purchasing mine. The chemistry teacher on the first day of classes told us not to buy the book so I have to return it.

>>34278361
Unenroll in it and enroll in a different class

>>34278409
>I usually doze off by evening (5pm) and become more awake at 11pm or so.
i used to do this all the time back in high school, but i'm afraid it just wont cut it in uni my man. if you want to be a more 'normal' person then you need to try to be awake at the same times as the rest of them lel

>I would like to work out, but I don't have friends to do it with.
not necessary. just need a place to work out and a steady routine. i'm not a social type at all, but i've actually got on first name basis with like 5 people just from playing basketball on the weekends, so you might even make friends.

>What's wrong with Adderall anyway? I start getting ADD symptoms when I'm depressed or anxious
when i used it i used to jump out of my seat at surprising noises, have wild mood swings, and most of all it didn't help me socially. also, work on your depression and anxiety if you have ADD symptoms when you're in those states.

>>34276460
>i sit next to this cute ass korean girl
what does this mean? Do you enter the class and look for her then sit next to her? My uni's classrooms are massive so you never sit next to the same person twice

>>34278686
i go to a small sized uni so there aren't much huge lectures with 80+ people. this one is in a high school sized classroom with about 25 people

>>34278873
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z67_Y1__Nzo

>>34278931
I really feel like sack of shit because my friend tells me that she "cares" about me but it's too late to do anything since I'm leaving in a week and I will probably never see her again.

I can't even do my first homework, it's too difficult for me. Do you guys sometimes skip homework?

>>34279016
it's different with every class. try to communicate with other people in your class to find out how necessary it is to do the homework.

>>34278438
You really don't need to purchase textbooks

Unless there's a required online homework like WebAssign or Aplia

Just try to find a pdf version online

>>34279016
Ideally, you should never skip homework.

If you can't do well on the homework, there's almost no way you're gonna do well on exams

You get plenty of time to do homework, go to office hours or find a friend

>>34277805
Fucking this, I just bury all my self loathing and depression into work.

>>34279016
>uni faculty has a system where we can get grades for all parts of the course weighted
>or just the grade from your final exam
>haven't handed in an assignment for my first two years

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>>34279105
>only do half of my french homework
>get a 112/151 (or something like that) on the final
>pass with a B
>mfw there's people in there that do the homework every night and don't even know the difference in the pronunciations of j'ai and je

>>34276460
>korean girl
I knew a guy who used to date a Korean girl, he considers it the biggest mistake of his life.

>>34281097
korean girls are fucking crazy man.

their culture is totalitarian as fuck, so it's pretty much guaranteed they'll act like those girls in korean dramas

they're the types to cling to you for everything, while at the same time bitching

t. a korean guy

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>>34275232
>don't like talking to people
>still going out of my way to talk to people this year
>actually have people to work with on group projects and shit
>still haven't made any friends though
>still haven't found a gf
>all the girls at my uni are used goods so I don't really want one anyway
>only decent girl I've met (shy qt) probably dropped out
>classes are still shit
It never gets better, uni life is a meme

>>34277571
Beta uprising maybe?

>tfw retaking Python Algorithms
>already skipped the first lab, because the demoing got fucked up by swapping sections right after the lab i switched into
>prof says i can demo at TA's office hours
>feel no motivation to do it and have no idea how to do it
fugggggggggggg

>>34275232
Anyone have any advice for internships? All the ones I'm finding are at least an hour away, at least for Accounting

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>have pajeet professor
>his accents thick as fuck
>regularly fucks up his english
>assume he's just new to the US or something
>he's been teaching in the US for 30 years now
How do you not get better in that time, holy shit

missed 4 lectures out of 7 in the past 2 weeks lads

going oftf the rails

>>34276725
>hello anonette i was wondering if you'd like to grab some coffee on saturday or so?
Tehee, sure anon. Let's say eleven?
>Really? Uhm, desu I don't really like coffee, can i grab a nesquick cocoa and you get whatever coffee you like? We can still drink together and I will pay.
Uhm, sure bit I just remembered I cant on saturday. Maybe another time when it fits my schedule? Tehee


This conversation happened to a buddy of mine who is autism incarnate. I cringed backwards after he told me this.

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>>34275232
I've found jack shit. I'm doing the same thing here that I did back at home; isolate myself in my room, play vidya, browse this place and masturbate. I'm literally paying to do these things.

Why did I let (((Them))) trick me into this?

>>34275232
Who here /mute/?
Haven't said a single word in uni for 3 weeks now, I feel I'm transcending to a new level of anti social

>>34282039
That's what happens when you learn English as an adult.

The accent never changes

>>34282349
I talked to a cute girl in class who kept glancing at me.

For some reason she never came to class afterwards, don't know if she swapped or anything

I am not actually as autismo as many of you robots, so the reason I don't get involved with a girl romantically is not because I don't know how to approach a woman, but because of the fucking shortage of girls I actually consider worth taking a risk for.
So I have only been attracted to a grand total of two girls, both of which shut me down, naturally.
But I wanna know if this happens to anyone else here?

>>34282608
It's not just the accent though, the dude straight up forgets english sometimes, he has to stop and figure out how to say something or ask the class if he's using the right words

>>34282730
>but because of the fucking shortage of girls I actually consider worth taking a risk for
This is basically me as well, I'm slightly socially awkward, but I even had a gf throughout high school but she was extremely religious and turned me into a moral/purityfag and I know every girl at my uni is used goods so I just don't get involved, I'd rather wait until I find a religious purityfag gf or just not get one at all and focus on my studies and job.

>>34278438
That's what the campus library is there for friendo

>>34279066
>Just try to find a pdf version online
Or just go to the campus library

This is the first semester where I'm actually focusing almost all of my energy on classes and schoolwork, rather than on my interests outside of class and socializing.

It's satisfying in a way and I know it's a smart option, but I also kind of feel like I'm going to snap if I keep this up.

Also have a ton of pressure from my major requirements and from the fact that I won't be able to continue my education if I don't get my license by August.

>>34282630
Expect your thread in r/niceguys/ any day now.

>>34282730
My problem is that I have a fucking oneitis crush on my best friend. If I match with a girl on Tinder and we start regularly talking, I'll immediately start making comparisons with my friend.
>well my friend and I love making X joke which this other chick doesn't get so obviously my friendship with her is better, etc
It just makes me feel like I have a stronger bond with my oneitis and I become detached with every potential gf, which is the exact opposite effect of what I wanted Tinder to do. Obviously I know that strong friendships take several years (as it did with my friend) so I shouldn't be making these comparisons, but I can't help it.

>>34284324
Different anon, but I feel you. My oneitis is my ex-girlfriend, she broke up with me last April and we tried to remain friends but just recently I realized how unhealthy my obsession with her has gotten, so I recently fessed up and told her that I've only stayed friends with her because I've been secretly hoping this whole time that I'll be able to convince her to want me back. And I told her that it's probably better for both of us if we didn't talk as much. Deleted her off social media and haven't texted/spoke to her since.

It hurts so fucking badly but I know going cold turkey is the only way to break the addiction

>>34284410
I've wanted to break contact but I just can't do that. She's an essential member of my core friend group and if I break contact with her, then I pretty much break contact with all of my friends. I know that she'll be incredibly sad if I leave because I know she loves me a lot platonically, god fucking why and I don't think I could do that to her, me, or any of my other friends.

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>Two years ago, start uni
>Active antagonism towards the subject, kool kid apathy towards studies, rampant bullying against peers with disabilities
>Don't attend a single class; read notes online.
>Get informed of a course rep meeting
>She tells me I've flunked the course because my weekly coursework submissions only counted if I was in attendance for supervision
>Calls me out on my pre-existing knowledge and presumes I'm arrogant
>Spergs out because I didn't note a phone number on my enrolment phone and refuses to accept that I'm an autist who only bought one recently, and wasn't carrying it during the induction
>Hands me the form for cancelling enrolment, filling in her side, and tells me to get out
Women shouldn't be allowed in academia. Another woman flunked my on an obligatory professional development course because her CV advice was "include sports or something" and I said it wasn't very helpful.
>Shows me a prime example of a perfect programmers CV
>Band camp experience from five years ago
>Chuckle and point it out
>Goes on a rant about how I can't play video games all day and expect to succeed in life (never mentioned, haven't touched a game since a pirated copy of Age of Empires II when I was twelve)

I literally only went in to one class last semester, I still did most of my work at home but I'm fucked. I promised myself I'd get my attendance up this semester but no one will even know who I am. I'm too far gone...

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just barely got in because im borderline retarded (accounting)

>>34284570
>rampant bullying against peers with disabilities

I'm autistic and I can bench 180, I would have slapped your shit up and down if you tried anything you fuckwad

>>34284570
>autist gets called out numerous times for being an autist
>goes complain about it on autist pictureboard

>>34284988
Would you hiss, reee and scratch at his face?

fuck pathology

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>>34275232
>tfw dropped out
Anyone else?

>>34276460
>Hi, I'm anon and just wanted to ask if you would like us to study/drink coffee/go to the park/have dinner tomorrow
Literally just don't overthink it. Even if you fail it's better than doing nothing because you'll be less frightened the next time.

>>34276820
Practice in front of the mirror. No, I'm being completely serious. You and me? We're autists; we don't get social cues that others get.
But you know what? That can be overcome, like many problems, with a great deal of practice. I'd like to think I'm a 'passing' normie nowadays due to practicing my social cues in front of a mirror until I got them 'right.' I've graduated college now and it's served me well.
Good luck anon

>>34284988
Not me, my peers. I tried befriending a few of the legitimate autists, but they didn't acknowledge me.

>>34285180
Sorry breh

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>>34285071
I did. I was one of the fags two years ago posting about being at a superior Ivy school and relishing being above the robot trash (despite still browsing /r9k/.
Now I'm at a community college trying not to kill myself monthly. I know that feel anon.

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>>34275232
Nope... not yet.

Started my first semester a few weeks ago and everyone seems to be so detached. Fortunately my coursework allows me to keep myself busy.

So I usually just go straight to the library after class. My life consists of diligent work and utter solitude.

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>tfw had to take morning classes
>middle of the night and I'm currently shitposting because I can't sleep
>sleep schedule is fucked
>tried to fix it several times
>fell for the melatonin meme
>even with that can never fix it for more than a week or so
I don't think I'm going to make it

Guise. I still have regrets over my uni life. I hope it's not too late for some of you.

>had literally 10 whole semesters shared with oneitis
>TEN fucking semesters
>got along really well with this qt 3.14159265
>never made a move
>not even once
>almost did once but I pussied out like the beta sperg that I am
>tried to get distracted with other grills but I'd always go back to her
>tfw literally everybody thought something would happen between us but I was too much of a beta fag playing it cool

Now I'm out of college and I will never have a chance like that again. I don't even care about missing out on that rosy uni life crap. I wouldn't even care if I got rejected. Just letting it out and getting a response would have done wonders for me, but alas here I am still pathetic and ronery. Whatever it is, just do it, anons.

>>34285173
classic autismo that could only ever be found on this filipino card collecting imageboard

>>34285877
That's actually what I like about /r9k/ and to a greater extent, 4chan. You actually get what people have to say rather than what people want to hear.
There is no better place for that than an eskimo sailing debate forum.

>4th year of electrical engineering
>fuck around and fail 2 semesters
>realize it'll take me 2+ more years to graduate
>switch to math
>could possibly graduate in a year
>tfw hoping financial aid doesn't run out
>tfw gained 100 lbs in my time here
>tfw lost my virginity in my time here
>tfw have a gf

I was much happier as a friendless loser in high school.

>>34285899
Yeah that is one of the great things about this shithole. Probably one of the biggest differences between us and le ebin reddit maymay lubbers

>tfw that lady who has to sign my internship papers stopped answering to my emails

Damn I'm so tired of checking my email every hour and finding nothing.

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>>34277248

>Haven't been able to make friends for 5 years now, which includes 3 years of high school, 1 year of army and 1 year of studying for uni entrance exams
>All my friends from elementary split when we went to high school
>Getting to the same uni was our chance of reunion
>Everyone ended up going to different unis

Time for loneliness. Good thing I'm very good at entertaining myself.

>Exam imminent
>Cannot stop drinking alcohol

ehhh

Hello my friends, my friends. Harvard Bots represent. Welcome back to campus

>full time work 5 days a week
>4 senior level econ subjects
>while lifting and trying to get 8hrs of sleep

wish me luck boys

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>>34276460
then get to know her, just talk about random shit while in lectures

>>34275232
>Rose coloured campus life
Your tatami galaxy references won't go unnoticed anon

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>>34285173
>ywn be the creator's favorite/main sim
>ywn go past your base charisma level
>ywn woohoo Bella Goth

>class at 8:00
>woke up at 7:45
still made it boys

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who /Doesn'tGoToAnyClasses/ here?

last class i went to was way back in October, have absolutely no drive to go in, get emails from lectures saying my attendance is a cause for concern but i just ignore them

>>34287968
what do you do in your free time then?

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>tfw it's time to buy books for the new semester

What a pain, and what a waste of my sparse savings

>>34284305
What's so /niceguy/ about me? I just wanted to talk to her

>>34288010
fap and vidya mostly

>>34288546
anon is poking fun at you saying that you scared her away with your creepiness but you're too autistic to realize

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>pouring rain
>leave 2 hours earlier
>don't want to drive when everyone else is driving
>to dangerous
>freaking the fuck out while driving
>people flying past me
>get to school
>only one there
Thank god I have you guys, would feel awkward right now. I would be alone with my thoughts, but it is a little comfy having the rain hit my car.

>>34288587
Yeah that's what I feared too, as well. I don't know what was so creepy about it anyway

>>34287968
same but they just thought my attendance tracking app was faulty so they made a new app for me kek

who university of glasgow here

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who unimelb here

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who /OU/ here

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Who /liberalarts/ here

>>34289759
Fucking Grinnell college bro, all the libs with heads up their asses get annoying as fuck.

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>>34287968
My semester just started but I did this last semester, I only showed up on test days since I'm too much of a sperg to deal with people, I still passed everything though. This semester though I'm trying to force myself to go and interact with people, trying the whole put yourself in social situations meme it's not working I'm still a sperg and I'm almost certain I creep people out

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>>34289696
dated one of the nurses at wexner, god she was great. pic related

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>me and my sperg friend decide to do a radio show together using the uni radio room
>its just me and him talking shit for an hour and a half about whatever
>only thing i look forward to every week is us doing our show together
>we even have a solid stream of listeners every week

>>34292472
that sounds dope. I wish my college had a radio.

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Anyone go to Sac State here? How does a commuting robot transfer student make friends here?

>>34289696
I'm at osu, thought about going to ou but didnt have as good of a programming classes as osu

>>34293367
My dad did a Masters in Computer Science at OSU. want to know anything?

>>34292472
That sounds great, my college radio is ran by two faggots who you have to suck up to for a year or two before they let you do really anything real, I tried joining first year but got tired of just sitting on my ass not being allowed to touch anything

Any protests happening at y'alls unis?

>>34294290
One this morning
Just some stupid bitch sitting on a trashcan shouting shit

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>>34277248
i've made acquaintance in my classes but they all commute and we rarely talk outside the classroom. i've made no friends on campus, i stay in my room most of the day and mostly do any campus actvities by myself. This was a mistake.

>>34275232
>Graduated last year in May (electrical engineering)
>Have been applying to jobs since October (took a long vacation of travelling around)
>Got several interviews, no offers
>Overall average of 61%, 80% 4th year, and 90% average on project courses

How bad are my grades crippling me? Almost all profs told me that a 60 average won't affect you in industry.

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>>34275232
>date with a hapa christian girl
>broke up with her due to arguing all the time
>she is an exchange so I want to say goodbye
>talk with her and walk with her for 5 minutes max
>after 2 hour, she comes to my room and claims that I stole her phone
>wtf.jpg
>"I will search your pockets"
>my roommates are shocked, she also bullshits my roommates
>drag her out and see that her new bf waits outside
>talk to him like a civilised person and suggest we should search for bitch's phone
>while we are searching, even though she has a bf, she still bitches about past and talk bullshit about me all the time
>call me thief, liar etc even though I am the only one who is really working hard for finding her phone
>drink 2 glasses of vodka before she came, so I was kinda tipsy
>get very angry, terrorize whole dormitory, bully her bf, call her bitch and threaten her
>still try to find phone so I can fucking break her phone to pieces and give it to her
>can't find it but go to her room, kick everything throw her baggage from window break her laptop
>she starts to cry hard, she has a flight to home and she needs to go in 5 minutes
>her bf couldn't say even one word, his hand was shaking
>go outside of the room, chads are also scared of me
>some ultra chads talked to me about what happened
>tell them everything, they hug me and say "good job bro"
>didn't get any suspension from school
In my entire life I've never been so angry, I didn't think about consequences I didn't think that I get beaten, I terrorise whole dormitory like a nignog. After that I haven't dated with anybody, don't trust or talk with girls.

>>34292472
That sounds really coll anon, what do you guys talk about?

>>34295918
>act like drunk uncivilized nigger

Ah ha I hope you fuck up mate and your life gets ruined

>>34295918
Hard to believe but Im glad I thought about that bitch roastie getting BTFO
Also get off my board you fucking normie

>>34296089
Why? I am not even nigger, but I defended my honour and give that bitch a lesson. Graduated btw, nothing happened afterwards.

>>34275232
No. Things haven't gone as I thought they would.
>>34282349
I've said maybe 20 words in the first two weeks.

i want to drop out of uni, i'm intelligent but i can't function when sharing a flat.

perhaps its best for me to be a NEET and try again next year in my own apartment