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how do you know if you are attractive

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how do you know if you are attractive
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>>34257162
get rated on /soc/
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>>34257162
girls try to talk 2 u
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good question I don't know and don't want to post face

bump
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>>34257166
dont do it dude
just dont
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>>34257180
Why not
>>34257174
Some girls talk to me and really like my personality, while others look at me with scared eyes so idk.
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>occasionally catch women looking at me and smiling
>been approached by women a few times
>too autismo to capitalize on their interest
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i found out by looking at myself objectively

dont trust mirrors, and dont trust still images

only rate yourself on video as that shows the range of expression you can use
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You wouldn't be on this board if you were attractive
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>>34257162

Someone will tell you. If they haven't yet, you're not
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>>34257162
Look at yourself. Would you fuck you? If not, then you aren't attractive.

>inb4 I'm not gay

Doesn't matter. If you're hot enough, you'd fuck you.
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>>34257342
What, so I have to imagine myself as the opposite sex? I do think I'd fuck my original self if I was a girl.
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>>34257394
Nah you've got it all wrong. Look at yourself. Don't imagine yourself as anything. Just take a long look. Would you but your dick up your own ass and give it to yourself like a madman?

If the answer is yes, you are hot. If not, you aren't. It's that simple.
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>>34257174
Women talk to me all the time. It's because I look extremely harmless/young and thus they (rightfully) know I'm not going to fuck them and destroy their long term relationship with chad
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>look attractive on picture
>look attractice in mirror


>look horribly ugly and autistic on film, like a cringe video or something all my mannerisms are off and quick and twitcher, cant make eye contact eyes darting everywherw


I look like im on heroin all the time or somethi g but with bad posture and anxiety
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>>34257529
Just do actual heroin, then you'll have an excuse for how retarded you are,
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>>34257445
You do know that gays are a minority right? I don't understand why you would put your theory out there when it doesn't even apply to most people.
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>>34257565
Like I said in >>34257342 you don't have to be gay. Just you know, would you fuck yourself? Yes or no?
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>>34257561
Too scary

Original scary
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>>34257162
You'll be told fairly explicitly and repeatedly if you are.
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>>34257308
OP here

I've been told quite a few times (attractive/hot/cute) etc.

i have really low self esteem though so i find it hard to believe
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>>34257685
my mom tells me this a lot
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>>34257702

Post a pic scaredy cat.
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>>34257702
wow you fucking normie shit
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>>34257308

I found out my cousin was attracted to me by over hearing my aunt and mom talk. They were joking how we should get married (we're spics). She was like 16 at the time. Never really talked to her or hanged out with her. It's been about 4 years since that day and I haven't seen her since. She's probably over her lil girl crush.
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>>34257702
>Been told I'm cute/somewhat handsome/nice face
>Never been told I'm actually attractive/sexy/hot
>Really low self esteem
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>>34257714
if it's your mom it's because you're ugly and it's a vain attempt to get you to deny reality so you feel better
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>>34257268
fuck I'll never do this
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>>34257162
People will give you compliments or be overly friendly towards you. As I was growing up, older women that I barely even knew gave me compliments. I distinctly remember overhearing a nurse who worked with my aunt say something like "it's a shame he's only 17" when I was wandering around her office at work one day.

Girls made comments about how attractive I was from time to time, even during the days when I never spoke to anyone. In high school, some even tried to talk to me first. Girls gave me phone numbers and made a little too much of an effort to talk to me, even back when I was a shy fuck who could barely hold a conversation. Girls pursued me despite how much of a shy dork I was.

If I wasn't so shy and awkward, I would have lost my virginity at 14. Yes, 14. A girl who I was friends with for a while offered to have sex with me one day. Instead of saying yes, I simply replied with "maybe idk" and never brought it up again. I finally got my confidence up and just had sex with her, five years later.

I didn't have my first real relationship until I was 18. This is when I had my first kiss and lost my virginity. I quickly jumped into another relationship shortly afterwards, and was suprised by what happened when I broke up with her. The girl who I lost my virginity to came back to me, and tried so hard to keep me around. At the time I thought we were done for good.

Girls check me out a good amount, and with the help of a couple Chad friends I made it became easier. I know how to dress. I know how to get people to like me. I am confident in myself and my appearance (which are above average, but not decisively). I can pick up on when girls are interested in me pretty quickly, and it's a great feeling.

Even guy friends have said that I am a good looking guy, despite the fact that I'm built like a very tall twink.

To answer your question OP: You know you're attractive when people let you know that you are.
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>>34257752

Well, there's really only one way to find out for sure, anon. Post pics and let us be the jury.
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>>34257719
>posting a pic on r9k
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>>34258018

It's been done. It's the only way to get a truly unbiased opinion.
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I'm attractive but weird looking

Hard to know if a girls into me or if shes just worried I'm gonna pull out a gun
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>>34257174
this except they try to ask you personal questions like dating life and music

i get asked if i go to school or what i do for work with majority of girls that talk to me for the sake of talking and it leads nowhere. if they're more personal you'll feel it
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>>34257162
post a pic qt
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>>34257291
And how do you explain this chad then faggot?
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>>34258081
ego. he knows he's hot shit since he's surrounded by subhumans here
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>>34258081

This fucker could be a model. He's either gotta be deaf or a turbo autist.
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>>34258129
He's been posting on /fit/ for years whining about tfwnogf. Was such a pussy and wouldn't even talk to girls despite the fact he's like a 9/10
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am l handsome?
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>>34258207

No, you look like fucking uncle fester, desu
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>>34258177
well of course if he spends the majority of his time brandon shitposting he wouldnt get a gf. brad pit can do the same
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Rate me..inb4 I look like a twink.
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>>34258241

Are you old enough to be on this site or to be driving that car?
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>>34258253
Wtf..I am 20 you dick hole.
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>>34258289

Sorry dude, you look mad young.
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>>34258300
I think it's cause I am really skinny.
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>>34258241
you have untrustworthy eyes
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>>34258231
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MDT7no8OiLU
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its really how much women approach you and if you're asking you arent.

you can cope however you want, but in any setting where there are females around your age, you will get approached. girls make chads know they are genetically superior
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>>34258241
You look like your typical insecure faggot who needs to come here and be validated by a bunch of autists,
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>>34258352
Not a fag desu. Love girls.
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>>34258300
not to mention mad queer
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gf is more about compatibility/chemistry, not too much looks
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>>34258241
>>34258322
Agreed I wouldn't trust you. You look like you have AIDS but I'm sure girls find you pretty attractive and you get tons of pussy. Nice validation post
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>>34258320

Yeah that's definitely it. You could probably be a chad if you bulk up and ditch the nose ring.
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>>34257529
>look horribly ugly and autistic on film, like a cringe video or something all my mannerisms are off and quick and twitcher, cant make eye contact eyes darting everywherw

oiuytrre
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>>34258241
"yo bro you wanna go smoke a bowl bro? Just got some dank ass edibles too"
"hey bro you ever seen American History X? that move is MESSED up! But way good"
"bro you wanna go camping for the weekend? maybe take a little shrooms? My old man said I could borrow the escalade."
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>>34258241
good jawline, extremely low melanin, high symmetry

you must be a manlet cause you look better than most people I see here, and that's sayin something
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>>34258352
>>34258427
>>34258387
Still get more pussy than you fags despite looking like a "fag" ..
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>>34258456
Thanks desu. Not really a Manlet. I am almost 6ft. I am really skinny, that's my own downfall.
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>>34258481
>7 11 25

what exactlhy did he mean by this?
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>>34258481
get out chad jb slayer
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>>34258514
worst part about you is probably that you browese r9k
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>>34258481
Isn't that literally what I said? And you do look like a fag.
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>>34258481
Cool, please tell us more about your interesting life.
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>>34258481
I'm the same age as you are and I've fucked 15 girls. Low number by some standards, high number by other standards. Even have a little gf situation right now to.
And I am still an awful bastard alcoholic robot.

Pussy isn't the problem here doggo.

I bet you're one of those guys that says "malk" instead of milk.
Despicable.
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>>34258552
Lol what you wanna know? My life isn't that interesting. I just take tons of pics when I go outside so it looks like I have a life.
>>34258577
I say milk desu.
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>>34258577
>And I am still an awful bastard alcoholic robot.

No you're not.

>Pussy isn't the problem here doggo.

Yes it is.
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>tfw my best pics average around 6/10 on /soc/ but I know if I post my face without getting a perfect angle I look like a 4/10.

Also all you normies saying you get told you're attractive gtfo off this board. I can't remember the last time a girl has complimented me in person, let alone just struck up conversation with me ffs. And I'm /fit/ too wtf why can't a girl just say I look big at least fuckckckckc!!!!!
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>>34258577
>those guys that says "malk" instead of milk
do people actually do this?
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I have a cute boyfriend who swears up and down that I'm attractive. I've had other guys confirm that I am attractive

I've never been complimented by a girl on my appearance. I think I'm only attractive to gay men. Thank christ I'm bisexual.
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>>34258700
fuck off Chag
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>>34258623
You look like an anorexic version of the guy from "why him"
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>>34258700

I have no idea what in the fuck you are or what you mean by this.
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>>34258626
fuck you dude, I bet it's so hard to be a virgin.
I'm sickand tired of hearing bots moan about this crap. It made since from 2006-2010ish but now it's just silly. If virginity and muhneed2bloved is your one sole reason for your depression than you aren't truly depressed.
Go to Wizardchan if that's real all there is to you.
Making every wrong turn in your adult life should be the only valid reason for being here.

Fucking a fat mexican whaleita while black out drunk and waking up robbed with a gash up your side was twice as depressing as hurr durr vurginuhtee
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who here got excited when they saw a new mike mew vid
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>>34257162
Do women ever spill spaghetti for you?
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>>34258689
can confirm this is real. you're going to start noticing it and you will hate it.

>>34258623
That fingers been in your ass hasn't it?
Hasn't it?
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>>34257162

It's kind of easy. You will definitely know if you are attractive or not. If you don't, then most likely you are not attractive.
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>>34257166
>post face to get rated on /soc/
not many people even respond, others tell me I'm 5/10
>get sad and post in "tfw ugly" thread on /r9k/
>people tell me I'm "really cute", multiple people request noods and two anons offers to let me live with them in exchange for a relationship
>a week later see another socfagging thread on /r9k/ while browsing 4chan in bed
>just post a pic of my barely conscious face lying on a pillow because I look a lot like the OP of the thread
>anons tell me I'm 8/10 and more attractive than OP

not sure what to feel, maybe robots are just way more desperate than the normies on /soc/
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>>34258847
how did I fuck up that second line
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>>34257166
>>34258847
/soc/ is fucking weird, they'll rate fat women and bad trannies to be at least a 6/10.
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>>34258847

In any event, your neither as good looking of as cool as Nigel Farage.
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>>34258061
>implying thats being attractive
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>>34257220
How can they like your personality from a photo? Thats fucking stupid.
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>>34258886
>fat women and bad trannies get rated 6/10
brb becoming a fat tranny and getting that 12/10 ratings and hundreds of (You)s I should have thought of this sooner
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>>34257808
normie
how
do
u
do
this
i need to know how to be attractive
f-for a friend ofc
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>>34257786
And if it's my elder sister and sister's friends ?
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>>34258729
It's pretty simple my friend

Guys are attracted to me

Girls are not

I have a fag face
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>>34258623
>>34258481
>>34258514
come on kiddo try harder
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>>34258514
u see, ik u are kind of using these females as a pride symbol, but to me they are unattractive whores

idk why, but all these pornstar looking females just make me lose my boner
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>>34259011
Oh, and I'm also a dude. Sorry if that wasn't very clear.
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>>34257162
OK boyo listen here, the only 100% PROVEN sign of being attractive, is that ATTRACTIVE GIRLS APPROACH YOU WHEN YOU GO OUTSIDE. Simple as that.
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>>34258241
Solid 7/10 dude, but you look like a fucking faggot.
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>>34257808
>As I was growing up, older women that I barely even knew gave me compliments
I had the same thing. Women in their 30s and 40s like doctors barbers my mom's friends etc. would always make cheeky remarks and give me compliments that always made me feel really weird. I also got a job once simply by looking young an innocent. Later the lady who essentially hired me told me I reminded her of his dead son and tore up when I left the place.
Weird stuff since I'm still a khv at 19 years old. Maybe I should try shaving my neckbeard
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How to tell if you are ugly FULL PROOF (works every time)
>The last five text messages you received are probably from family members
>Babies do not smile back at you, instead they stare blankly
>The cashier does not smile at you for more than the .01 millisecond they are required to
>In elementary school, you were the kid that people tried to make uncomfortable by saying "Anon likes you"
>You repeat the same joke someone else told, it got a lot of laughs but when you say it everyone acts like they didnt hear you
>Girls say you are "Like a brother" to them and could never see themselves having sex with you because it would be "so weird, right!"
>You wouldnt fuck yourself if you had the chance
>You have to take a picture 20 times before you find one that even looks slightly decent
>Pictures that are not taken by you are the bane of your exsistance and in group photos you stick out
>Ugly chicks always think they have a chance with you
>Look at your friends. If your friends are not attractive then chances are, neither are you
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>>34257529

the mirror is sort of like your brain fading out lack of symmetry and "quirks" of your face.

the mirror is always more forgiving because, like I said, the brain literally filters the photos & does not fully analyse the entire image.

it also can't properly analyse the image as it's constantly in motion.

the photo is also slightly biased but in the opposite direction, your face is completely reversed and your brain doesn't like it.

photos are very confronting because they're static images, it highlights every single imperfection that would otherwise be minimised by motion.

furthermore, lens & lighting can highlight or minimise imperfections in a photo.

you can easily find a candid photo of a professional model that looks "meh" but yet you look at their professional photos its "wow".
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>>34259157
>>The cashier does not smile at you for more than the .01 millisecond they are required to
fucking this
feels bad man
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>>34259157
>>Ugly chicks always think they have a chance with you
>>Look at your friends. If your friends are not attractive then chances are, neither are you
>tfw not a single women told me they were attracted to me
>tfw dont have any friends to compare
basically ive been through everything you wrote
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>>34259157
>last five text messages
nigger I get like 2 max a month (by mom and dad)
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>>34258781
it's a couple of times
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>>34259157
>>Babies do not smile back at you, instead they stare blankly
They usually get that look on their face like they're considering crying.
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>>34259157
>Ugly chicks always think they have a chance with you
I used to get this sometimes when I was chubby.
The weirdest part is that when rejected, they would always ask if I was gay. Like "nah bitch, I just don't find you attractive".
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is 750-800 matches on tinder enough to be considered attractive?
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>>34257162
if you have girls orbiting you, you are it.
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>>34258781
>tfw (currently) fat fuck who yoyos weight constantly and I see the look in the eyes of women I know change depending on my weight
It's not a good feel but it is a telling and sobering one.
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>>34259157
>>Babies do not smile back at you, instead they stare blankly
what about toddlers?
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>>34259328
>tinder
get the fuck out
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>>34258847
Femanon willing to give honest advice
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>>34259202
I smile at everyone for the duration of the transation unless theyre r00d cunts.

I also like to make robots and incels speak to me.
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>>34259384
bout 6 months in babies got full range or motion on the facial muscles.
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If many girls on various occasions call you handsome.
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>>34259512
are you a female? also where are you cashier at?
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>>34259547
Yeah. I live in NZ so you may not be familisr with the chain
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>>34259551
Hey is NZ comfy? I've always wanted to move there for some reason but never really researched immigration or what life is like there.
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>>34259384
Toddlers too, yes. Children know ugly, they don't know what exactly it is they don't like about someone but if kids are warm to you right off the bat you're probably a little handsome. If they don't smile back when you try to be friendly it's cos you have a threatening face
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>>34259606
Wow I shall really be handsome. Children always smile at me even if I ignore them. But adults avoid me...
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>>34259582
In smaller towns like my own, Napier, it is. For people who aren't big on outings etc definitely Hawkes Bay. Min wage is $15ish so if you know how to budget, and get the right job for you, you'll like it.
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Hey guys can I get an honest rating please?

How can I improve?
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>>34259625
You're probably handsome but put off a bad vibe. Try not to be so standoffish, Anon. What makes you think people 'avoid' you?
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>>34257162
Don't trust in women, even when they tell you you are attractive.

>Last year of High School
>For 3 years i never spoken with anyone in my class either my school
>Get approached by a girl of my class, she get Interested in me
>We start to hang out for a few days
>She say that i'm "good looking"
>Finals season is getting near
>We both start studying together
>I help her in some school subjects, such as geography and history
>After that she never spoke with me again, lost contact with her

Can't fully blame her, i'm to autistic to be with, but i still have the feeling that she was using me, or in my autistic behaivor i never notice her "truth" interest in me
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>>34259713
People never want to talk with me, and every time I try to make eye contact they avoid it. I'm super shy and people actually think I'm haughty. I don't get along with people well
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>>34259726
She was using you, anon. Was friends with similar chicks, cut them off when I realised their bitch attitudes. I don't want to be around people like that.

Some advice? If a woman shows interest but quickly brings up mutual hobbies/classes etc where you have deadlines or something to work towards, consider if its a convo dtarter2or if she's fishing. The same way women will post 'im so ugly' type fb shit, fishing for likes.

If she asks to study together, practice something, be weary but don't immediately cut her off. If she has no contact or interest in you outside of these things, end it.
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>>34258481
okay sure, but you still look like a twink faggot.
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>>34259470
This is the half awake pic I posted that got a 8/10
this was also right after a very depressing acid trip
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>>34259813

i wanna fuck u in the ass
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>>34257162
If women suck your dick
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>>34259759
It's probably impatience and not having enough value in you to expend energy after their 'trying day'. I also find that at work, if someone is skittish or obviously shy, I have to decide if me conversating with them will enduce anxiety or have them open up. But as you said about being haughty, a lot of people misread body language and rely on their family's own nuances do determine an outsiders attitude. Don't let it get to you, this is beyond common.

Small tip. Maybe if you go shopping or something near closing hours or when its dead, ask the cashier 'hey, how are the customers treating you?' Something out of the ordinary that will likely provoke a snort or something of the like. Just grin, and wish them a good night. The next time you go in, do the same thing, and sowly you'll build familiarity with people and you can go from their. Its easier on anxiety if you experience it, and it makes it more comfortable to strike up an easy friendship.
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>>34257162
>People never want to talk with me
Never say never. I'm talking to you right now and I'm enjoying it just fine
>every time I try to make eye contact they avoid it.
I can't look handsome strangers in the face. It's like staring directly into the sun
>people actually think I'm haughty
are you one of those guys who believes he has a 'superior intellect' to those around him? if not than it just might be your physical appearance, once again. maybe others are jealous of you so they assume you are stuck up and don't want to talk to them. this is something that happened to me a lot in High School. either way, I'm sorry, dude. that sounds rough. I doubt strangers are avoiding you because you are "ugly", but by marking yourself as someone people avoid, you're already giving yourself such a disadvantage. but fuck those guys. most people aren't really worth talking to, anyway. and I don't mean that in a haughty way, I mean if they're going to assume things about you without taking the time to get to know you then they're probably a dick.
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>>34257162
you're not

/thread
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>>34259813
You're definitely attractive. What aspects of social life do you struggle with, or do you just lurk for the heck of it?
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>>34259834
are you ukpkmkk?
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>female acquaintance randomly walks up to me and tells me that I look good with long hair (6 months of growth)
>Polish guy that hadn't known me for more than roughly 20 minutes tell me that I don't look bad
>female friend said I looked good after shaving
>people generally like me and my company
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>>34259813
Post a clear pic, that one could be hiding a lot.
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>>34259860
I was an edgy cringelord in high school so I never learned how to talk to people. Also for some reason I always talk very quietly even when I try not to so cashiers always make me repeat myself which makes me nervous every time I talk to a stranger and causes me to stutter sometimes.
I'm also a NEET with a lot of contempt for normals
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>>34259666
>How can I improve?

Drink sulphuric acid...

...Nice devil trips.
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>>34259844
I will believe in this dubs, thanks anon for the tip
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>>34259933
We have a lot in common then tbqh

Volume of speech is probably the most important thing. Quiet voice puts people off because they assume you arent interested (my own experiences). If you write or read a lot, trying reading aloud to yourself and practicing tone, enunciation, and volume. My biggest issue was aside from forced social interaction, I was practically mute. It made me extremely quiet and nearly hoarse wben communicating
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>>34259963
Dis onion belieb in u
>>
based on how often people express attraction toward you obvs
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>>34259916
>could be hiding a lot
It's supposed to. Otherwise you can see my basement dweller hair and asymmetrical facial structure
I took a pic right now but I'm probably gonna regret posting it
>>34260041
>trying reading aloud
I haven't thought of this before but it sounds like a good idea thanks m8.
I also cringe when hearing a recording of myself so it might just be that I have an annoying voice. I've tried recording myself to figure out what's wrong with my speech patterns and I always sound like a fat condescending numale for some reason. It sounds very different in my head so not sure what I should change.
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>>34260211
Shave nose hair+neckbeard

Ez 8/10. I wouldn't take ratings on /r9k/ too personally though; everyone here is extremely bitter and rates people much lower than they should.

I've seen /soc/ rate threads on /r9k/ where a bunch of 5-9/10 people would post and they'd be rated 1-3/10. I'm pretty sure I reverse-imaged searched more than one especially good looking person and it brought up instagram models as well
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>>34260211
Try not to listen to yourself for a while, just focus on gaining a natural, automatic feeling while you speak. It took me year, from as early as I ca remember until 17 to feel like I could speak normally but I had fuckimg severe anxiety

Another slightly awkward method is watching comedy videos, vlogs, or movie scenes on yt and acting out a reply as though it were real. Getting a feel for how to respond. Alt fiction or fanfiction
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>>34260211
Why would you hide such nice eyes from us? Those are very good, along with your nose and lips.
I can't really tell your jawline with that facial hair, but you should probably shave and get a haircut.

Also, could you give us a smile with some teeth action? That's important.
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>>34260211
That's a serious case of babyface. Either grow a beard (which you cant) or lose some of that cheek fat.
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>>34260257
>shave
I used to do that but it makes my face all rashy and shit. It's also extremely itchy if I go outside the day after because the cold makes my skin shrivel up and the stubble pokes it from the inside.
If I could remove my facial hair permanently I'd probably do it desu, but it's not worth the effort to shave regularly.
It's actually really nice of you to tell me I'd be a 8/10 without a neckbeard anon, I'm gonna shave now
>>34260307
>just focus on gaining a natural, automatic feeling while you speak
I like to imagine I'm talking to someone who's actually interested in what I'm saying, but never out loud. I'll try that I guess.
>watching comedy videos, vlogs, or movie scenes on yt and acting out a reply as though it were real
I feel like I'd cringe too hard doing this. It's kind of autistic
>>34260394
Thanks m8. I always feel like my nose and lips are my worst features desu. I'm not sure about that smile tho, it will end up looking extremely autistic. Also my upper incisors are a bit fucked up, the right one slightly overlaps the left one.
>>34260431
I'm not trying to grow a beard m8 I just really hate shaving. I'm pretty sure it will hide enough of my face if I keep not shaving for a few years.
>lose some cheek fat
Alright I'll just rev up those cheek exercises then
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>>34260431
>lose some of that cheek fat
This. You'd be amazed at the difference a couple of pounds can do on your facial aesthetics.
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>>34260502
>it makes my face all rashy and shit
Then you're just not shaving in the right way for your skin.
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>>34257180
I got 7 (or 7,5) by a cuteish girl and she said I was good looking too!

;)


It wasn't even a good photo (I did this like 2 yrs ago)
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>>34260551
>I got 7 (or 7,5)
Too bad fat guys cant get that rating.
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people will look at you and hit on you.

i learned this walking around with my attractive female friends. sometimes they would have physical reactions from men like them shuddering or eyes going wide. that's the moment i realized i was not average, but actually ugly.
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>/r9k/ rates below
>/soc/ rates above
Ree
I'm too paranoid to post my picture online anyway.
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>tfw 7-8/10 face
>tfw tall but skeletor mode
>tfw carry myself like a 2/10

Do I have a chance or do my negative physical aspects give off too many red flags?
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>>34260600
I dont know. I had fair share of girl bumping on me on accident or giving random smiles in public. I wouldnt call myself that attractive.
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>>34258081
holy fuck I look just like this dude except I have:

>brown eyes w/ thinner eyelids and slightly visible broken blood-vessels under them
>slightly rounder head
>shorter, less soft looking hair with receeding hairline
>4/10 oily as fuck skin, a little acne, sometimes skin dries up and peels
>slightly crooked nose
>glasses

pretty much talking to myself; just surprising seeing someone with that many similar features
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>>34257162
If you were attractive you wouldn't be asking.
There is your answer.
Have this. I made it for Christmas. Spread my Pepe please thanks.
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>>34260539
How should I shave then? If I don't go against the grain I can't get it all.
>>
Girls in public either pretend i don't exist or quickly glance and then look away, i assume i'm ugly.
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>>34260736
Electric shaver
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>>34260735
Same fag in the house. Here is a pic of me. Rate me.
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guess I am attractive wew
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>>34260991
Timestamp fgt
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>>34260736
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F28B6L2?psc=1
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>>34257166
They hugely overrate girls.
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>>34261024
i put r9k there what more do you need
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>>34257308
What if only ugly people thinks i'm attractive
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>>34258847
>post pic on /r9k/
>they don't even rate me, just get 10 or so replies telling me I'm ugly as shit

No thanks
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>>34261244
>they don't even rate me, just get 10 or so replies telling me I'm ugly as shit
Assume that your rating is below 4/10 if they tell you that.
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>>34259157
>>Ugly chicks always think they have a chance with you
I wish
Who /neverhadasinglehumanbeingevershowattraction/ here?
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>>34260686
girls smile as a habit to everyone.
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>>34260765
Aren't those shit for getting a close shave? I want to be /smooth/
>>34261044
nigga that's $83
>>34261244
If you're a trap it's probably the same person replying 10 times, if you're a girl you shouldn't be here and if you're a guy you're either really good looking and everyone is jelly, or you're ugly for real
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>>34261417
>wanting a smooth shave
no wonder you're a khv
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>>34258745
Why are you depressed? Can you explain it more. I'm interested in the subject of depression. I'm simply asking for academic purposes. If you do not feel comfortable talking about it, that is okay.
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>>34261402
>girls smile as a habit to everyone.
Not really tho.
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>>34261579
>wanting (((designer stubble)))
I'm okay with being a khv, but I'd rather not be a normie redditor
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people would have let you know by now if you were attractive, if not then you are average looking or ugly

One girl hit on me before and that was only because she was drunk, another did who was overweight and another who wasn't good looking.

So i am pretty sure i am average to ugly looking to most girls.
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>>34261266
>>34261417
Here's a pic now that I'm awake. Pretty sure I'm just ugly
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What if I have a somewhat attractive face but I have the build and hands of a fucking baby?
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>>34261970
you're not ugly, you have normal forward face growth, good for you. Dr. Mewes would be proud.

mmeanwhile i'm sitting here with NO FUCKING JAW
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Make an online dating profile change everything about you to seem like Chad, post real pics. Ask girls to rate you. Even Facebook works because it is a sump of normies.
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>>34261970
It actually looks like you'd have a pretty good jawline if you lost a couple of pounds.
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>>34261970
Look like an old man
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>>34261970
Are you overweight, anon? oregano
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>>34262937
No, I'm 5'7" 130lb, ribs showing and everything. My face just looks fat no matter what
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not gonna lie, i would rate you 3/10 based on that pic. you look pathetic.

Take off the ugly sweater, smile or at least don't look like your dog just died , fix your eyebrows a bit and try to have some spark in your eye and take a new photo senpai
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>>34261970
>>34263316
and get better lighting
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>>34258241
I feel like you'd offer me some kind of hardcore drug within 5 minutes of meeting you.
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>>34259666
i'm not sure you can improve on that ;)
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>>34263283
Have you checked if you're suffering from water retention or excess estrogen? That might cause you to look a bit puffy.
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>>34259907
Did Hitler have the autismo?
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>>34263689
I'm convinced he would at least watch anime if he had lived today.
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Irrelevant but how do you clean shave? Like not feeling the traction of facial hair when you run your hand up and down your cheeks?
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>>34263689
Yea hitler was known to be a social retard at school and was autistic about german history, his mom quoted him wanting to do what was best for every german but never wanting to actually meet them due to his anxiety
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>>34264060
It's your schizophrenia coming back.
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>>34263689
Well...
Aren't we all just a little bit like hitler?
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Am I good looking r9k? I'm a 21 year old KHV. Girls have never seemed to have an interest in me, at least I never get disgusted looks from girls.
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>>34264956
no you aren't good looking
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>>34264956
>21 year old KHV
You look older. And unfortunately you also look gay.
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>>34264956
why does everyone post weird ass pics of themselves with shitty lighting.

how am i supposed to rate you like this?
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>>34258781

actually yes, I know a few girls who are very vocal and brash but the moment they talk to me they start mumbling and tripping over their words. It's beyond adorable
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>>34265115
Yeah that happens to me, though it is actually because they are afraid of me due to my grotesque appearance and lack of friendly disposition lol.
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>>34265007
How old do I look? And why do I look gay?
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>tfw one time my aunt asked my mom if I was a model
she wanted da fug
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>>34265212
>>34265212
imo you look 23-30
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>>34257166
don't do this. facial recognition software is getting so good pretty soon there will be search engines and when you type in your name, that will come up
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>talking with a group of friends
>talking about the best qualities of eachother
>the girl is calling everyone pretty & beatiful
>"What about Anon, Stacy?"
>"I guess he's pleasant"
>mfw
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>>34265174
Iktf. I look like a serial killer.

>>34265029
Fucking this. You don't walk around all blurry in real life so why would you want a blurry pic to be rated?
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>>34265696
at least you are pleasant :^)
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>>34257166
What if I have that sort of beauty that moves?
>>
>>34258745
>If virginity and muhneed2bloved is your one sole reason for your depression than you aren't truly depressed.

Preach
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>>34265845
Then move on
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>>34257162
Youre rated a 6 or higher on hot or not.

Like me.
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>>34261970
I'm going to be honest anon - you are 4/10 in current position. Thin lips, lack of jaw definition, short hair when you have no cheekbones adds to your end score. In your place i'd look for a way to reduce cheekfat, grow a light stubble and grow out hair. You're not that ugly that anyone would look second time at you in the street but there's blandness and sadness in your face.
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>>34257174
>tfw didn't know what to talk about with few girls that did talk to me/stood around too conveniently
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>>34257166
BAD advice.
/soc/ is a huge sausage fest that will knock you down in terms of looks, if you're less attractive than them then you're fucked, if you're more attractive than them then they'll consider you 6/10 at best.

They go on /soc/ so they can meet and pump+dump the dozens of sluts who hang there, they don't want more competition of "potentially good looking guys", so they're harsher with the scores in hopes it will knock your confidence down and leave and if you're on r9k, chances are it will have those effects.

If by a rare chance there's girls in the rating threads and they give you a good rate (7/10 or over), you're can safely hold your head up in pride knowing you have a chance, but at the same time the problem is the second a girl pops up like anywhere else here, everyone goes apeshit and thirsty for her attention. Its a very small window of opportunity.
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Only a woman can tell you that.

If some guy tells you are handsome, he is a faggot.
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I get replies on /soc/ with good ratings but on /fa/ I get 0 replies when I ask for help with my hair and shit.

I don't know who to trust
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>>34266344
Have you seen how people on /fa/ dress? They know sweet fuck all about what looks good, most of them are emaciated fucks who pose pigeon toed and their shoulders hunched forward.
>>
>>34266461
t. fuccboi with no fashion sense
HOWLING
>>
>>34266461
Some stuff on /fa/ looks ok, I've always struggled with fashion and they've helped me in that respect at least.

And when I get a chance to post pics on /r9k/ I don't get negative responses either, pretty much points to confidence being my major issue but i don't know
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>>34258963

the sad truth my grape friend
is that you can't change who you are

you can change your style
you can buy new clothes
you can get a new car
you can lift
you can pick up sports
you can get a nice hair cut

but you can't change who you are
you can't change with what you're born with

to an extent you can make yourself more attractive through what i listed up there

but if you're piss ugly with shit genetics, its just a harsh truth of life accepting it

and theres nothing wrong with accepting it my friend

but yes most people are just born with it
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>>34257162
If you can't look in the mirror and tell trhn you're not.
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>>34266596
The mirror is a liar. Take a pic of yourself instead.
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Here's the pic to say it all
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>>34266344
/soc/ is just a circle jerk

/fa/ is just a bunch of fashion faggots

i mean as >>34266461
/fa/ is weird because they tend to be a little bit above the /r/mfa crowd which is legit autism

but no amount of changing your clothes will help you if you're ugly

but yes you should try, if you wear your ugly cargo shorts with your shit tier haircut + your fatso shit and autism shoes

at least pick up some more normie clothes

but really though i know what you mean

honestly though, some serious advice here :

buy a DSLR or if you don't have the money for it, a vintage film SLR (like a canon ae-1 or nikon FM) and take GOOD photos of yourself

ie. read up a bit on photography and learn about composition and lighting and just get some decent photos of yourself

you can even self timer it if you can't convince a friend to come with you, take good photos
(just look at famous instagram photographers and mimic their style)

just take photos on rooftops or in the city or at a scenic place

then photoshop / lightroom the fuck out of it to get you a nice aesthetic and bamn you'll get artsy girls EZ
>>
>>34266484
>fuccboi
>HOWLING
Are these the kind of memes that come from /fa/?
>>
>>34266511
>post pics on /r9k/
People who post pics of themselves on /r9k/ are one of the biggest cancers on this board, keep that shit on /soc/
>>
>>34266762
Did you even read what I said before?
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>mom keeps rambling about how handsome I am again
shut the fuck up you bitch Im an obese neckbeard with at best 5/10 face, stop mocking me
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>>34266778
Do you think this in some way excuses you?
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>ugly parents
Why did this have to happen?
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>>34266842
Clearly lol
>>
>>34266842
I said I post to /soc/ but people are saying they aren't to be trusted.
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>>34266794
Iktf.
Mothers will tell you that you're handsome just to feel better about themselves. They want to feel like they didn't fuck up.

It's the same when your mom's friends tell you that you're handsome, it's actually just to compliment your mother.
>>
>>34266865
no, anybody who has posted a picture of himself on /r9k/ at any point for any reason is cancer
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>>34266919
>mom has a gay work colleague that she invited over one time
>he says i'm a handsome young man
>ran out in fear
>>
>>34266794
Oh fuck, this makes me rage.
>>
r/amiugly on reddit is actually quite honest and constructive
>>
>>34266902
you should keep it on /soc/ regardless
>>
>>34266976
my fucking sides. This is like a sitcom show
>>
>>34267073
All I got was shave and loose weight.

Now I've done that I'm still lonely. Lol
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>>34267121
That's solid advice though. Not being ugly doesn't mean you'll find a qt3.14
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>>34267459
>Implying my standards are that high
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>>34258781
this is why I'm obese, I can't stand other people staring at me, it makes me wanna run away screaming
>>
>>34259157
>The last five text messages you received are probably from family members
girlfriend, but she's the ugliest woman I've ever met (but at least I'm not a khv anymore)
>Babies do not smile back at you, instead they stare blankly
I don't smile at them, I hate babies
>The cashier does not smile at you for more than the .01 millisecond they are required to
not even that
>In elementary school, you were the kid that people tried to make uncomfortable by saying "Anon likes you"
no, but I was constantly bullied
>You repeat the same joke someone else told, it got a lot of laughs but when you say it everyone acts like they didnt hear you
yep
>Girls say you are "Like a brother" to them and could never see themselves having sex with you because it would be "so weird, right!"
the ones I asked out were more honest lol
>You wouldnt fuck yourself if you had the chance
I'm not gay
>You have to take a picture 20 times before you find one that even looks slightly decent
not this tho
>Pictures that are not taken by you are the bane of your exsistance and in group photos you stick out
nope
>Ugly chicks always think they have a chance with you
I'm dating one now, sadly she isn't fat
>Look at your friends. If your friends are not attractive then chances are, neither are you
what friends?
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>>34258949
>he can't sense a human's personality, desires and mannerisms just by looking at a photo

Filthy mortal.
>>
>>34259666
nice cgi satan
>>
>>34259157
>full proof
triggered
>>
Who /super ugly/ here?
>>
>>34268911
>see people obsess over minor flaws or ridicule somebody's appearance despite them being far better looking than me
feels bad
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>>34268997
You know what really posts my pepes? When fucking Chad is insecure about his damn hair.
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I feel like I am sub attractive
>tall
>white
>okish hair
>acceptable face
>thin
>very subtle acne
>good hygiene

>always wear dirty shit and look like a hobo

most people who aren't Staceys though treat me like a person
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