So I met this girl right and I think she's actually showing signs of liking me back. For example
>she gave me her phone number without me asking after we talked for a bit on facebook this one day
>she's been very open to spending more time with me and seems to clearly want to spend more time with me
>seems like she wanted to give me a hug at the end of the last time we hung out but we were both holding drinks (not alc mind you) from the restraunt we went to so i didn't do it [so alpha]
>more than any other girl she's followed through on when she says she's gonna text me and stuff and has never ever ghosted me
>always waves and smiles really excitedly when she sees me, seems happy to see me when we see each other
>our conversations flow well and she seems to think I'm pretty funny sometimes
I mean things seem pretty good but is there anything you guys think I'm missing? If you guys want me to elaborate on anything I can. I like her a lot and she's way my type. What do?
>>34254217
you're in the right time to find a way to close the gap
find a hobby you guys can do together maybe? like watch a movie?
if she's a weeaboo like you, i know exactly an anime that would make her fall in love with you, but only if she's a weeb.
>>34254300
chequed
Also it's funny you say that cause she plans to declare Japanese as her major but I don't think she's that much of a weeb, as far as I know. She might just be concealing her power level, but I think I know her pretty well by now. I don't think we're quite at that point where I can invite her over to watch something, but soon.
I agree with you on the this is the right time to close the gap type thing though. It seems like this is the point where the feelings for each other can come out if they're there. I like to think she has some sort of feelings for me for the reasons she listed but who knows. I kind of just plan to escalate things slowly, maybe get things a little more romantic, start giving her hugs and stuff, and see how she responds and she'll probably get the message.
I've thought about this way too much but I like to get a second, third, etc. opinion
>>34254427
start thinking less about how you're gonna date her, and think more about how you're gonna do more things with her
maybe you should pick up japanese and you can study with her
>>34254427
as long as you give her the vibe you are interested in her too I dont see what could go wrong. If she has took the initiative to hang out that is a really good sign. Finding a common hobby should be the next move
>>34254217
Don't falter or she'll think you're not interested. You don't have all the time in the world to figure it out - it's obvious and you need to go for it. Alpha, my man.
>>34254609
Interesting point, but I don't really get the difference between the two things you're saying...? I'm kind of a weeb and I've read up some stuff about the language so I know a few things but definitely way less than her. Enough to make little jokes/discuss random shit about Japanese with her though.
>>34254625
Okay yeah, she has followed through whenever I bring up hanging out. And when we finished up with lunch the other day right before we were about to part ways she brought up going to the library together (something we kind of had the idea of doing a little while ago) without me saying that. So I guess that's good.
I also know we have some common hobbies cause we are both in the band here so there's that. We kinda know the band so we talk about that a lot. We also both like college basketball and I get really into talking about that (I try not to get too autistic) so there's that as well.
>>34254738
You think it's obvious? And what would "faltering" entail?
>>34254875
I'm not >>34254738 but I do think it's obvious & by not faltering he means you need to show interest in her too. Maybe ask her out to something more romantic or something like that
>>34254963
Yeah, that's something I'll definitely consider. Like I said I think I'll try doing more romantic things like giving her a hug before I'm about to leave her, maybe trying to hold her hand a bit... That sounds good. I guess it would make the message pretty clear.
>>34254217
dude just drop everything else in your life and put all your effort into pursuing her.