Anyone here legit doesn't have any friends? Why is that for you?

>>34197477
Probably because I don't know how to socialise, what in the blazes did you expect to be the issue?

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avoided getting too close to people so they couldn't hurt me in the future

also having to "fake it" takes a toll on the mind

>>34197477

Does it count if I used to have them but don't anymore?

One buddy moved away and I can't be asked to call or message people. Another friend became a degenerate, so I just dropped him.

Cause I'm way too fuckin introverted. Haven't had a friend in years

After years and years of being alone and feeling miserable, I just stopped caring and have started to enjoy my own company.
Funny because after I got a job, I met a really cool guy who I consider to be a friend. But even then, it doesn't feel I'm a friend, just a former work buddy.

Back then, I probably would have put more effort to keep him in my life.

But I really just dont care about anyone or anything anymore

Sad

>>34197477
I can have a conversation with my coworkers but they do not invite me to do stuff. Maybe I do not have enough rapport with them but I do not know how to build it.

also, the girl in your picture.
one of the most beautiful faces I have ever seen.
I wonder what life would be like if I looked like that.

>>34197553
same

I somehow made friends in gradeschool when all you needed to be friends was to like the same power ranger. Then they all left me after high school and I have literally no ability to meet new people. Thus, im on r9k drinking on a monday night

>>34197612
I would make you my wife and put a baby in you.

I've never had an actual friend. People don't like to associate with ugly people, except to make themselves look better (but I'm too ugly for even that). I'm not bitter, this is just the way it is and always will be.

I'm annoying, shy, and boring

and I don't ever even try

>>34197612
Probably the same as hers: a bunch of orbiters give her free money just for existing/posting pictures of herself.

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>>34197477
Because everyone is a fucking normalfag in real life. Plus I haven't a real life weeb who isn't fucking autismo to the max.

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>>34197477
Have 1 online friend and 0 irl friends.

I just can't approach anyone, everyone knows each other and the fact I never share any interest with anyone is a pretty big wall. Also I can't lead a conversation for shit so everyone just gets bored of me.
Doesn't help I feel very insecure about myself and I'm ugly.

Luckily I have that one friend so I still manage to stay mentally stable.

Because I cut them off after they got gfs

I have one acquintance who I have known for almost all of my life, we barely have anything in common other than shared experiences but since he's the only guy who talks to me I hang out with him sometimes. He very occasionally invites me along to social stuff but I can tell he's the only one who actually wants me there (otherwise I would have been asked personally instead of having to tag along with someone). Other than that I work from home so I never meet anyone. I don't think I'm incredibly unattractive but all of my hobbies are weird stuff that nobody can relate to and my social skills are complete shit. Plus I live in the south of England so even if I had the balls to try to speak to strangers it's not socially acceptable anyway. I wish I had a friend who I could really get along with but there is literally nowhere for me to even start trying to look.

Do online friends count?
Uh, original

0 IRL friends and 0 Internet friends
Probably due to my extreme paranoia.

>>34197477
You should have specified "has never had friends." Fuck the normie "introverts" in this thread.

>>34198392
Not having friends under like 12 is a really low dice roll rather than personality or intrinsic value, isolation for reasons of self doesn't happen until puberty when social awareness happens

>>34197477
>Anyone here legit doesn't have any friends?
yes I have none
no online friends, no offline friends
the only people I talk to are my parents and brother

>Why is that for you?
I have major problems with keeping in contact with people

I think on a one on one basis I do ok, I can hold a conversation sometimes if I am not feeling particularly autistic that day, but I can never complete the transaction and go from ok person to friend

I have tried to make friends before, I really have, but I just can never successfully get close to someone and simultaneously care enough to continue the relationship

>>34197477
Does not having any friends in real life count? I mean I still occasionally talk with an ex roommate, but that's generally less than once a month.

>>34197477
Not enough motivation to try and get over my social inability. Even when I did try, it was horrible. I was only ever able to be the annoying kid in the group. All you robots with your autism, fears, ugliness, or fatness, have a tiny chance that someone might somehow love you. It is slim, but it exists. But no one ever likes the annoying kid. I'm just a shitty, no good person.

Zero friends for about 8-9 years now. 22 yrs old KV. I just do not care anymore. Worrying about it is just not needed stress in my opinion.

I'm mostly this way due to being socially awkward and cringy when I was younger.

>>34197612
This is me. People talk to and seem to like me but not enough to want to become friends, instead I just have acquaintances that ask me how I am but really don't care what I answer.

>>34197612
>>34199831
this is also me
I don't know if it's because i'm not interesting or what
people never invite me to anything

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>>34197477
I used to have friends, but the older I got the less I could tolerate.
I like being this way.
Or maybe I've become numb but I couldn't care less at this point.

>>34197477
I took that photo and she's my ex-gf but you guys will never believe me.

saber is cute

>>34200789
>this meme again

Post nudes or something.

0 online friends and 0 irl friends
Shut-in NEET and I just can't. I have a really nice cat who I consider my friend, but I don't think cats understand the concept of friendship.

>>34197477
My friends are the best, they know I'm a pedo and still accept me.

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>>34197477
I used to have a group of friends for 2 years in high school until they started to realize how weird I was and started ignoring me once they started prioritizing getting laid and going to party to deal with the embarrassment of associating with me.

I had another group of friends after high school that were a bunch of metalheads I didn't really fit into. After I sperged out and "confessed me love" for my high school crush (who rarely hung out with them), and then afterwards told her to go fuck herself for telling me a needed to go see a shrink, they mysteriously started avoiding me and ignoring my texts. I'm sure it was a coincidence

It's been nearly 3 years of being a friendless virgin NEET now since then. The way the world's going and my complete lack of control over my own life has left me helpless and lonely that I'm often paralyzed by it. I just wish i had some hope, like a rock in the middle of the sea to cling on to. My arms are getting tired treading water and I don't know how much longer I can hang on

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>>34197477
>tfw have friends but don't really have fun with them anymore

All we do is hang out and do nothing while thinking of what to do.

>>34200939
Heh I wish I had some.

She never let me take nudes literally because "if we ever break up you'll probably go post them on 4chan."

I had some slightly lewd stuff like upskirts but at some point before we broke up she went into my computer and deleted them all.

>>34200197
This is exactly what happened to me too.

I hit the point where everybody I actually thought was interesting got too busy with normie lives and all I had left for "friends" were a bunch of weebs and alcoholics who are nothing but depressing to spend time around.

>>34201314
That's a very upsetting story anon. I hope the best for you & hope you find something to help you

>>34201314
I have had 0 friends for 5 years
not sure if it has been going worse, it feels more... constant

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used to have crippling social anxiety a few years back, which miraculously went away. i actually like being around people and having conversations and having friends. but i think being so distant from people for most of my life makes me act like a fucking moron whenever i try to socialize. i end up always saying shit that's weird or nonsensical or just god damn stupid, which in turn scares everyone off. oops.

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>>34202628
socializing is just like a job
you need to have experience to be able to socialize
you need to socialize to get experience
uhhhh

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No I don't have any. I used to have some "friends" but we really didn't have anything in common so I stopped faking my interests and split off from them.

Nope, no friends at all past my cousin if that counts. I don't want friends anyway. I just want a woman that won't cheat on me.

>>34203840
I also feel this way, but it's easier to get women when you have friends

I was popular and had lots of friends in primary school, but upon entering high school (or middle school, if I'd have been American) I drifted apart from my peers because they (suddenly) started taking an interest in things I didn't really have an interest in: smoking, certain movies, certain "teen" television shows, sex, alcohol and what-have-you. It's hard to make friends if you don't have any shared interests.

I didn't really have any interest in socialising anyway (and I still don't), as online substitutes (read: 4chan) were/are much better. Most people in real life are just really boring and uninteresting, at least on the surface, so I don't know why I should even bother. I've not had a single friend in real life for almost 10 years now and I must say I'm really content with my situation.

>>34203948
Not having any friends is probably a bigger turnoff for women than being a virgin.

My hobbies are mostly solitary, I have trouble connecting with people, and I find it more frustrating than rewarding talking to others.

>>34197477
people get jealous that im perfect and i can get anyone i want.
they also get jealous that i can look like shit and still people will like me
i just cant help my self...
i can literally say some racist shit and people will still like me...
i might even be fourth cousins to trump..

>>34197477
also people refuse to believe that my interests are true and that im not lieing. sometimes im the one for them and they cant handle it.

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In school I did but it's hard for me to socialise. People kind of made friends with me, you know? Had small groups of friends and rarely asked anyone to hangout except my best friend at the time. Usually if anyone asked me to hangout I'd come up with an excuse to stay home. Had a gf all through high school but we split up, that was the only serious relationship I've been in.

Now I rarely hangout with coworkers and when I do it's usually awkward because they know I'm weird.

I stopped talking to my friends from high school because >depression, and I haven't made a single friend in university because I don't drink so I don't go to any social events.

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I have two or three online friends on Steam and that's about it. I managed to make friends with two guys when I went back to classes a few months ago but I stopped talking to them even though we had similar interests and could have lengthy conversations sometimes (I spent most of them thinking about how much I wanted to go back home and talk to my online friends).
I just felt like not talking to them anymore and stopped approaching them.
I wonder if they hate me now.
Maybe they were just temporary acquaintances instead of "friends", or maybe I don't like people in general because this isn't the first time I've done so before.

There was the schizophrenic girl I used to talk to on AIM a few years ago but she developed full-blown psychosis and vanished from the internet.

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>>34197477
>I was a fat, awkward and cringy weirdo with a stutter when I was in high school so i couldn't make any friends there.
>dropped out of college because I was legit too fucking stupid to pass the classes, even when I studied hours and hours everyday.
>making friends there was even harder because people are more "mature" and "stable" and more or less have their shit together, so they didn't want to relate themselves to a social retard like myself.
>finally became /fit/ and fixed my stutter with vocal therapy at 23 but my workplace only has middle aged workers and 16 year old high school part timers, and they don't want to be my friends.
That's pretty much it. There's no way for me to acquire friends. It's not normal in my country to just walk up to people in the gym or the mall or other public places so that's not an option. I'm pretty much fucked I guess.

I don't know what happened. I always had friends because I played sports throughout my childhood, and my Chad cousin kept inviting me to parties, but when I moved away that all went away.

All along, I was worth fucking nothing as a human being, I only stumbled into "friendships" through blind luck. I haven't had a friend officially in 4 years (since I was 17), but I'm beginning to think that I never had one. I just want to die, please, somebody end it because I dont' have the b alls to do it myself

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>>34202898
This post needs more attention