I want a gril to be happy to see me

>>34156732
So do something about it and get a gf.

>>34156732
you need to make her love you first.

>>34156752
Not Op, but how you do this tho?

>>34156871
>Talk to girl you know
>Talk more to girl you know
>See if she responds well
>Hang out with her a bit more than you do with others
>See if she responds well
>Go to bar together or club for some fun night out or just spend time with her alone, no date though.
>Kiss her
>Then go on date if you're up for that
>Afterwards kiss her again
>You got a gf

>>34156924
Thanks for the advice
orangina

>>34156924
NEED HELP WITH STEP ONE!

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>>34156732
How can it be possible? I mean i'm 24 khv and thought about holding girls hands makes me dizzy. Other girls would expect me +10 partners and being very confident with girls.

>>34156732
Yeah? and then what? so it starts happening regularly....the novelty wears off, then you're still just a fucking loser who posts anime on a message board.

>>34156924
>see if she responds well
big red flag senpai

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>>34156924
>Talk to girl you know
>Talk more to girl you know
>See if she responds well

I got to this step. She did respond well (and I mean she actually went out of her way to tell me that she liked talking to me), and I attempted to hang out with her again and now I have been ghosted.

Everything goes wrong even when it starts to go right. I am tired of it anon, I am so tired.

>>34156732
I had this once

It's as amazing as it seems

Fuck I miss her. It's been 7 years ;_;

>>34158516
In many cases, non-virgins do not attach as much significance to love and sex as virgins do (maybe that's why we're virgins, huh?).

Let me put it this way. Say you drank root beer every once in a while. It was easy for you to get a hold of it, and you never thought much about having it. Would you freak out if you went for lunch with a guy who'd never had root beer? The metaphor isn't that strange. If you read interviews with the baseline normie, they literally do not care or view virginity as a novelty.

So you don't have to worry.

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>>34158600
lol you're just a loser virgin who drinks root beer what do you know

Honestly this might be a weird recommendation but I suggest reading that storybro story that was posted in 2014. I once read it in an entire week and it completely changed my life, made me realize how much I wanted a gf, started dressing myself better, lost some weight, gained more confidence, and within a year, I'd found the love of my life.

Just a suggestion tho, it's quite heavy on the feels and you're going to cry a couple of times but it's worth it

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>>34156732
I won't lie, that feeling is beyond anything life can give you. Sex, money, status, just trash to be covered in compared to the moment of seeing someone expressively show joy when they see you, that of all the people they could have cared about, they choose you, they see you as a source of happiness, they have a better day just because you are there with them and that feeling is exclusive to you.
It's a feeling that can make you stand at hell's gates with a smile.
Even to lose it, that pain is worth the experience it brought, because even in memories it's a fire to keep the soul warm.

>>34158600
But you see when girls are used to guys who carry them with confidence, being virgin means severe disability. Sure, you're not serial killer but it really makes them think why are you so shy about it when others are much more relaxed.

>>34158646
DAM IT ANON IT WAS ONLY AN EXAMPLE !

>>34156924
>Go to bar together or club for some fun night out

So she can get drunk and start making out with other dudes right infront of you?

Been there done that...never again, women are major whores when they're drunk

>>34158671
>that feeling is beyond anything life can give you
>stand at hell's gates with a smile
>fire to keep the soul warm

just fuck off with your low rent barnes and noble poetry shit you little bitch numale. the best feeling you can truly have is loving and accepting yourself.
dont ever count on someone else to give you love.

>>34158647
Oh shit, I'd love to read that. can you post it?

>>34158671
Dam m8

there's an unnecessary apostrophe in your filename

>>34158679
You're right about confidence. But I think that a lot of it is in your head. You could be a very confident guy and tell a girl you were a virgin and she'd be ok with it, you know? I mean wtf do I know but it doesn't seem to strain the imagination that much

>>34158720
https://storybroadventures.wordpress.com/about/storybros-magically-lewd-sleepover-adventure/

It's quite long, and completely in greentext, but trust me it's worth it

Update 12 hits hard, and from 24 onn it's all aboard the feels train

Theres also a sequel thats 3 times as long I think, which is also good but doesnt have that same kick to your nuts as number 1, although 3 makes up for by being the saddest thind I'd read in a while and jumpstarted my plan to iprove my life.

Shame Storybro never came out and say what happened still mad at him for that

>>34158671
So you just leech off of someone else in the hopes of finding acceptance? Fuck that shit. I'd rather love myself first then put so much faith in another person like that.

>>34158715
>the best feeling you can truly have is loving and accepting yourself
For some they need to know they are worthy of that. We spew this logic of you have to love yourself first but sometimes we get their faster knowing someone loved you before you knew how. After all you always love yourself to some degree otherwise you be dead already.

>>34158761
Who said anything about putting faith in another? It's an instant action, they see you, the face lights up and they go "Anon!" and great you with a warm hug, even a kiss they make you the center of that moment. No faith is needed for such actions.

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I've got that every day... still doesn't make my life any better. If anything it makes it worse

>>34158715
>dont ever count on someone else to give you love.
not anon but the topic at hand wasn't counting on it but rather wanting it. Slight difference but it makes the situation and context change.

>>34158720
>You could be a very confident guy and tell a girl you were a virgin and she'd be ok with it, you know?
That seems weird. People with low self-esteem are not proficient with girls while sucking at every other area just like people with high-esteem are not proficient with every other area except love. What i'm trying to say that if you have high confidence then you have good love/sex life because those things boost your confidence.

>>34158796
That entire thing is based purely on faith that the other person legitimately loves you. This isn't one of those super cheesy puke inducing animes where couples are fine and dandy. People suck ass, myself included, and personally you're setting yourself up to crash if you think that happening is realistic, especially nowadays.

>>34158823
wanting to be loved is a pathetic desire though. just focus on being able to give love, and the rest will come when its time.

>>34158849
>People suck ass, myself included, and personally you're setting yourself up to crash if you think that happening is realistic
Been at it for 10 years now, also I'm pretty sure she loves me more.
>>34158854
It's not pathetic until you start treating a want as a need and then it crosses into bad territory of that.
> just focus on being able to give love
This I agree is a big one no matter what.

>>34156732

To the kind of people who are still able to enjoy those kind feelings, I imagine it must be pure bliss.

Unfortunately I've been jaded and pessimistic for so long that even when I've had such wonderful women in my life, I felt nothing and it meant nothing to me.

I've crossed the point of being able to find happiness in other people, all I long for is to live my miserable life in solitude, indulging in my hedonism, until I eventually expire.

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I want a bf to hug and cuddle.

>>34158926
>I want a bf to hug and cuddle.
fak off tranny.

>>34158935
I'm a biological female, though. But ok.

>>34158966
you must be a busted fat piece of shit otherwise why the fuck would you be on this board at this hour

>>34158966
>I'm a biological female, though. But ok.
That's even worse because you can get bf at the snap of your fingers. Leave poor robots alone.

>>34158966
Do you have a brother?
Try to fuck one of his friends, it's how I got my gf

>>34158966
>tits or gtfo
This should come back into relevance already.

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>>34158926
>I want a bf to hug and cuddle.
>>34158966
>I'm a biological female

Then literally go and get "A" bf if you're fine with just "A BF", it's JUST that easy.
Now please retype your first post and be honest this time with what you want, which I expect is along the lines of
>I want a white, 7+/10 5'9" or higher BF with a car, job and house/apartment to hug and cuddle!

And then, you can hang yourself for posting your shitty bait here.

>>34158983
>>34158986
>>34158988
>>34159014
>>34159186
>giving (you)'s to stacy

>>34159215
Sorry, (you) can have one too

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>>34159227
Have one back (you) qt ;3

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>>34159215
Don't (You) me or my wife's posts ever again.

>>34156924
Wat if u don't know any girls

>>34158600
>Let me put it this way. Say you drank root beer every once in a while. It was easy for you to get a hold of it, and you never thought much about having it. Would you freak out if you went for lunch with a guy who'd never had root beer? The metaphor isn't that strange. If you read interviews with the baseline normie, they literally do not care or view virginity as a novelty.
lol this is such a shit analogy, a root beer costs 50 cents, sex costs human dignity when you're forced to have it with a detestable male virgin

>>34159276
>detestable male virgin
Do women in America relly think like this?
That sucks man, over in my country people love to have sex with virgins, at least teenage girls do, adult women I'm not too sure

>>34158757
>chad 14 year old gets several women flirting with him and sexually toying with him right off the bat
Fuck that story, get the fuck out normie

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>>34159303
>That sucks man, over in my country people love to have sex with virgins,
What do you live, "Madethefuckupistan"?

>>34159303
Not all women, but a lot.

>>34159303
>people love to have sex with female virgins
fixed, besides being virgin male is almost the same as being slutty female as both of those categories describe divergence from norm. However in current times sluts are somewhat tolerated by society while male virgins are looked with disgust.

>>34159320
Belgium, it's a place, look it up
We're being cucked to shit right now tho, early 2000's and 90's were the best

>>34159316
It's about more than that though, you've obviously never read it

>>34158757
Brings back some memories this

Team Glasses 4lyf

>>34159355
I read more than enough, normie

>>34159535
Did you get to the part where they start choking each other and vomiting in the bathtub

>>34159610
No, and that obviously didn't happen

>That feeling when you fall asleep cuddling with a girl in your arms
>That feeling when you use your finger to put her hair round her ears
>When she tells you she's so happy your in her life
>When you mistook all this for love and she rejects you when you ask her out

>>34156732
I hugged a girl yesterday, she was so small and frail, but warm

>>34159693
It's a numbers game after all. Guys who fantasize about girls before asking them out, will be at severe disadvantage because they invest their time into things that will never happen.

>>34156924
>Talk to girl you know
this is going to be a bit of a problem

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GIVE ME A BF RIGHT NOW REEEE

>>34159789
My head was still in reality when I knew this girl, we became extremely close extremely quickly, friends pointed out how much we were like a couple. So when it came to finally have the 'what are we' talk it was weird when she said 'aww we're best friends loll'

>>34159789
Funny though, was the only ever time in my life I actually cared and had feelings for another person. I'm sure I felt love.

>>34159836
Oh, yeah the classic "i want to know her first and then have sex" and not "alright, let's know a bit of her and have sex as soon as possible". You've waited too long.

>>34159821
have you considered not being a filthy degenerate

>>34159864
Feeling for women are when they are gf not a second before. You have to look to girl as an investment - if she doesnt want to have sex, she's not comfortable with you.

>>34159897
I keep my degenerate kinks to myself but I'm physically untouched, please be my bf.

>>34159917
sure just be in australia

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>>34159879
>You've waited too long.

I still don't know why women want to have sex first and know the guy later. That's the path to single momhood.

>Because they are beast who only think with their vaginas

May be so but I'd like to have a more specific answer.

>>34159821
and risk being emotional tampon and provider when you'd get your pussy scratched by someone else? no way jose.

>>34159953
>why women want to have sex first and know the guy later.
because guys who do that are more masculine than guys who wait and court females.

Go visit your mum

>>34159974
So is the answer really just
>Because they are beast who only think with their vaginas
?

>>34159821
I'm here. Your bf has arrived.

>>34160053
Not really by vaginas but tingles can overwrite rational thoughts, that's why some many girls suddenly drop their bfs.

girls stink
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