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who else here has come to terms with never ever getting a gf

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who else here has come to terms with never ever getting a gf

for me Its just the way things worked out I guess, I'm 24 and never even held hands with a girl. I know its over.
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>>34152629

Yeah I'm past the point of no return. Could have been avoided, and my parents are really at fault tbqh. I'm always going to be miserable about it though.
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>>34152629
Me. There is nothing I can do at this point. The last step for me is accepting that I will end up dying alone.
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>>34152669
>my parents are really at fault tbqh
this, I know a lot of it has to do with chance, but they set up a lot of the circumstances that made it more likely I would end up a KV
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Guck firlfriends
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>>34152669
>>34152707
anyone else here planning on killing themselves past a certain point

I cant imagine living past 30 like this, im not going to keep watching this tragedy in motion
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>>34152707
>>34152669
how did the rest of you get this way
like what do you think it was
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>>34152886

I think I was malnourished growing up. I was always underweight and didn't eat much as a teenager. I also never exercised, and I was on pills that might have had negative effects on my hormone levels. I ended up having thinner bones than my mother with narrow shoulders, wide hips, etc.
Also, not having a father during teenage years was probably an issue, especially with how negative and temperamental my female family members were.
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It's easy to accept. Why would you want to enter a commited relationship with people that have all around shit personalities.

>no bs
>get to keep the money you earn
>get to travel and do things without someone bitching about one thing or another
in a decade prostitution will probably be legal and cheap so any physical lust can be calmed.

Already used to being alone, so there is nowhere to go but up once you get a real job.
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>>34152886
Me developing fucked up fetishes in early childhood. I've never even been turned on by normal porn and even nudity of other people looks jarring as fuck to me, and always has. I was doomed before I hit puberty.
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>>34152629
just dont become a bitter old man.
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>>34153551
>Why would you want to enter a commited relationship with people that have all around shit personalities.
because im alone and want to not be a kv
its embarrasing I feel like half a person
>in a decade prostitution will probably be legal and cheap so any physical lust can be calmed.
This I dont understand at all, I really dont want anything to do with someone I dont know and especially not fuck them
>>34153568
yea I figure I will if I dont kms
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>>34153556
what kind of porn
unoriginal comment
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I always think I've come to terms with it. Nights like these where I have my music, vidya, and blankets make me think I don't need another humans companionship. But then I see a couple holding hands or some cute pictures on social media and I always feel lonely again.

I just want to have sex so I can at least kill myself knowing I didn't miss anything.
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>>34152778
Please don't be serious. If you really want something you need to work for it and it's going to suck but you're not going to get a gf to fall out of the sky and into your lap.
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>>34153841
Crossdressing, bondage, furry smut, transformation, latex and liquid rubber, chastity, giving oral, anal play, and nipple play.

The first thing I remember fapping to was pictures of animal costumes off of google and bondage websites on geocities. Didn't take me long to find SL and discover what a furry was.
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>>34152629
I'm 26 years old and never had a gf. KV obviously. The only experience I've had with girls is groping strippers during lap dances.

I know it's over for me. I'm way past the point of no return. Fortunately I have a good job, so I'm just trying to find things to fill the no gf void.
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>>34153900
>Please don't be serious. If you really want something you need to work for it and it's going to suck but you're not going to get a gf to fall out of the sky and into your lap.
thats what everyone keeps telling me senpai, but is it really reasonable to have 5 years of nothing without coming to the conclusion that youre doomed. I honestly wish my parents had aborted me.
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>>34154007
>but is it really reasonable to have 5 years of nothing without coming to the conclusion that youre doomed.
Tell me what you have done to change things? I'm a 30 and have never even held a girl's hand but I know that it's because I have never tried.
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24 here too and khv. Was reading some escort pages a few days back. might try it out
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>>34154038
>Tell me what you have done to change things?
been on three dating sites for the past 2 years
I try talking to people all the time, but its always a terrible experience
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>>34154067
Ok, it sounds like you've tried.
Could you post an example of how one of your conversations have gone?
Is it possible that you could make yourself more attractive (i.e. exercise) so that women will be more likely to overlook any awkward moments you may have?
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This interests me. I'm decently weeby though I'd say a good 7/10 and I manage to get girlfriends etc etc. Are you guys just incredibly socially inept? Or hideously unattractive? To high of standards? I'm very curious how you guys ended up just accepting loneliness. I'm alone atm, of my own choice, and am currently fighting the urge to get back with my ex I broke up with like 3 days ago.
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>>34154125
>Could you post an example of how one of your conversations have gone?
they usually dont go anywhere
I say a couple of things, they say a couple of things and then they stop responding
or I get really bored with talking to them and stop responding myself

I dont often get a lot of decent girls either especially on the dating sites, sure some are decent, but many are fat
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>>34154139
>alone
>for three entire days
k
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>>34154125
>Is it possible that you could make yourself more attractive (i.e. exercise)
yea, im trying I have a job on top of school and feel very tired and depressed a lot so I usually dont want to go
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>>34154181
Only mention it because I'm sitting here like "fuck this sucks" and it's only been 3 days. How have you guys gone your entire lives. Like at some point I feel I'd just settle for anything.
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>>34154139
I've always been afraid to talk to girls, even ones I'm not attracted to.

>25
>Fat
>Balding
>Live with parents
>Retailcuck
>No IRL friends
>KV
>Awkward, can't keep conversations going
>Shy around new people
>Self-conscious
>Interests are vidya and collecting old music on CD

Where do I find girls who would date me (and have a comparable level of sexual experience)?
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bro girls is easy you just have to be funny, i.e. subtle... study mathematics and don't give up on hard problems to build your focus and concentration, your mind will strengthen and you will be able to make females laugh
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>>34154218
I've never shown interest in a girl except for one online friend who turned me down, so it's more a matter of them not settling for me.
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>>34154218
can you fucking off yourself friendo

thanks
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>>34154176
>I get really bored with talking to them and stop responding myself
Hmmm...
>but many are fat
How do you look?

>>34154205
I recommend exercising first thing in the morning. It's going to be a pain in the ass though, but that's the price you/we need to pay.
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>>34154293
I was considered the funniest guy in my class but have made it nearly 25 years kissless and dateless.
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>>34154272
We're around the same age, do you look bad with a shaved head? My hairline is going too but I look like a serial killer without hair so I just have it in a fauxhawk. Have you tried online dating? Or shit even just trying to act alpha and giving your number out to random people. I can't tell you how many times I've written my number on recipts at restruants. Or gone up to girls (when I was younger) and played the whole "I mentioned to my friends you were cute and they're bugging me to come ask for your number. But I felt thay was awkward so I'm gonna just talk to you for a few minutes if that's cool and pretend" the awkward joke usually makes them laugh and I end up getting a real number.
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>>34154218
That's a stupid question to ask imo.

You're confused as to how were alone our entire lives but we are confused as to how you can feel alone after literally 72 hours. It's just a matter of perspectives from different people.
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>>34154306
Why not settle? I'm sure there's a balloon of a woman who'd be so happy to have someone at least feign interest in them they'd date anyone.
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>>34154362
I only gave the 3 days thing as an example of how Im failing to understand how you wouldn't settle. Like I'm willing to say fuck it and get with someone I obviously wasn't happy with. I'm sure after a year I'd date a walrus
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>>34154319
>How do you look?
yea, im kinda fat, im not obese though like these girls are. I mean Id be fine with a girl with a similar BMI or whatever, not these fat girls though.

I'm 6'1'' and 207 lbs I do work out I dont have any of these fat rolls or grandmother arms like these girls have though ffs
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>>34154350
I would look terrible bald and don't want to do anything weird with my hair.

I could never ever ever go up to a girl and do that, I'd start tripping over my words after the first sentence. I can barely make eye contact and am too scared to say more than "hi" to female coworkers because I'm worried they'll think I'm hitting on them.

Plus it feels pointless because it takes me MONTHS to feel comfortable enough not to be awkward around someone.
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>>34154418
When you've never lusted after anyone it's amazing how quickly the years fly by you.
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>>34154422
It is a true shame that most of the women who would accept people like us have no willpower and fall victim to eating too much food and not exercising.
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>>34152629
Get a waifu

No, no the weeb failed-normie post-modern shit

Its almost like a tulpa, find a 2D character with a design that you love, gather pictures of her, imagine her being the most perfect wife/gf possible, masturbate only to her ( lights out, and all the shit ) and when you sleep or whatever just think about her

This will kill the neediness for female attention

Don't cheat on her tho
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>>34154424
You might be able to play that off as shy, cute, nervous. Most girls will find it awkward yes. However some like that awkward guy because they feel in control. Especially girls who have had bad expiriences with men they'll take a beta guy over and alpha in order to stay in comfort zone. I'd recommend just trying a "I'm really bad at this stuff and I saw your (shirt, bag, pin anything you thing you can relate to) and i like ____ too. Any chance you'd wanna grab coffee sometimes.

Stumbling over words is okay cause it makes you seem genuine and like you're not some guy that picks up on chicks
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>>34154381
I have too much trouble dealing with rejection to try, and such a girl would prevent me from getting hard enough to fuck her.
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>>34154470
I mean wtf arent there some like mid ground girls who arent fucking cows
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>>34154481
>Its almost like a tulpa, find a 2D character with a design that you love, gather pictures of her, imagine her being the most perfect wife/gf possible, masturbate only to her ( lights out, and all the shit ) and when you sleep or whatever just think about her
ohhgod, this is more pathetic than the asexual meme.
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>>34154441
I was obsessed with my ex not to long ago. She broke up with me and I was devistated. But I figured the best way to get over her was new girl. So I went out and got one. Still not over her and that's probably why my last relationship didn't work.
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>>34154481
>when you sleep or whatever just think about her
Hmm, this usually happens inadvertently when I crush on a girl. Is there a way I can trigger a crush on a 2D girl?
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>>34154504
I bet there are, they're just rare it seems. Once upon a time I found one on OKCupid but I didn't send a message because I don't have a picture up (I'm too much of a pussy)
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>>34154532
fuck off cunt, youre not helping anyone
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>>34154532
>So I went out and got one.

Just that easy huh.

>>34154496
Hard to imagine that working as a fat 4/10.
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>>34154498
Don't worry so much about fucking them. It'll come with time (and so will you) and worry more about getting to know them. If they see you're not just trying to fuck and your awkward and socially inept then when the time comes they'll get you there. Also liquid courage? Just not to much
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>>34154576
Try with a 3/10 work your way up, and if you're fat then dress appropriatly. Google how to dress if you're fat.
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>>34154583
>It'll come with time
no it wont

man Id give fucking anything to make you normies live my life for a year and see how shitty and lonely it is
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>>34154630
>Google how to dress if you're fat.
I would recommend exercise.
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>32 year old virgin
>had one GF when I was 16 only because she pursued me
>have never asked a girl out and never will

I know it's not what you want to hear but it gets even worse the older you become. I'm fucking suffocating here.
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>>34152629

I come to terms that I'll die alone. I could have a stroke right now and no one will find me until I start smelling and my juices start seeping into the apartment under me.
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>>34154650
I figured if they were gonna work out they would. And some people are just bulky, or to busy with life to hit the gym and or lack the motivation to go.
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>>34154654
>I'm fucking suffocating here.

fuck. this hits the nail on the head. im not very far from 32 but ive got the same feeling.
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>>34154675
True. It pisses me off when people give up because hard work is hard. If they would exercise their life would improve.
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>>34154642
If you're desperate enough and can fake an accent well just do that. If you're in the US and can do a convicting Irish accent alot of stuttering, awkwardness, and other shit just goes out the window cause you're busy focusing on the accent. Or do online dating and mention the accent in your profile a few times. You'll get a couple messages from some girls, even if its just to help you practice talking to them.
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>>34152629
I feel like there's this wavelength people like us live on.... I'll hang out with my loser friends and their behavior's predictable and painful to a tee, but they can't avoid doing it

>make a shit middle-school joke
>laugh at their own joke
>talk about topics as if they're intellectuals in that field
>perma-smug or self-depreciating

And I can see how normal people act, but I can't find joy in it. It's like normal people just accept where they are on the social hierarchy and find anyone that challenges it an enemy of the state. They're lives are just as boring and more fatalistic but somehow more happy. Somehow they prefer it to even attempting to be a unique person.

But I can't complain because I'm neither. Just a cynical, unwelcoming person that acts anti-social to avoid showing anxiety. I don't want to be a loser and can't find joy in normie life so it's just waiting to die.
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>>34154779
I personally don't work out from laziness and I know it. I'm a slender build to begin with but I always play it off as a joke. I don't need to be able to lift a shit ton of weight if I can pretend I can't lift this pen. Humor goes a long way.
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>>34154654
>>34154740
Fuck. I know this isn't new and all but it's finally gotten to me. I'm going to work hard and get a gf just to spite people on r9k.
>30
>handholdless virgin
>never asked a girl out
That's me. I'm going to do this. Fuck everything.
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>>34154838
if you're like me and close to suicide, you might as well just say "fuck it all" and not be scared of failing. who gives a fuck? just do shit. we can always kill ourselves, but we can't always go balls to the wall.
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>>34152629
I don't understand on where people even meet girls past highschool.
>inb4 college
Oh I got a story for you
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>>34154906
i really hate to say this.

are you me?
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>>34154917
Most likely just look at the time we're on this board
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>>34154864
I'm actually not even close to suicide because I don't want to hurt my grandparents and I still look forward to watching anime.
My first plan of attack will be signing up on OKCupid; hopefully not getting any results won't destroy me.
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>>34154963
I don't want to hurt my family either but I'm getting to the point of not caring.
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suicide is for pussy fucks. you can be a happy alcoholic drinking 12+ beers a day for at least a decade until you die of liver failure or something, might as well do that like me instead of killing urself
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Yeah that's me. 28 this year and no hope as a KHV.

The more I think about it I pretty much don't like women. I don't like the idea of having to maintain a relationship with attention and affection for someone else if I can't do that for myself. I have been alone most of the time and use to it.
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>>34154963
Same. Online daiting is my last shot before killing my self. I'm really scared that there will be no results and what's worse is I got a glock as to start hobby.
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>>34155067
how did you get used it i have been trying for years and can't?
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>>34154963
>My first plan of attack will be signing up on OKCupid;
dont get your hopes up m8
been on there for 2 years and every other girl is a special snowflake/fat

think about it, people always use a dating site because theres at least one thing wrong with them.
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>>34152886
I remember sitting in my babysitter's lap when I was like 2 as she played with my penis. Idk if that made me autistic though. It could've been a vaccine I took. I think it was mostly neglect. I remember even when I was very young, standing at the window and thinking about how long it had been since I had gone outside. I was always alone. Nobody ever listened to me or cared about my opinions on anything. My mom overfed me and made me fat, and I never had new clothes. I always wore clothes from yard sales and it was embarrassing. The only time I ever left the house was to go to school. I wasn't allowed to outside and play like everyone else so I've spent most of my time on the computer since I was very young.
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>>34155160
This. Also any females that sees you on a daiting site will automatically lower her opinion of you. What kind of guy has to use a DAITING site to get a gf. No bigger turn off.
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>>34155067

Don't worry, you're not missing much. You could have sex and even a gf for a year or so and you'll still end up with that mentality. Don't even bother. You're not missing out on anything, trust me. You could have a gf, have kids and ge tmarried then get divorced and youll still think that way. The most important part is that you have accepted it and you're happy with yourself. Don't pretend that you're missing "your other half" or other cliche bullshit that you see on TV. That's fake jew shit.
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At 27 I've come to the realization that although its quite possible for me to go outside and get an average or below gf its not really worth it at this point. I'm too far behind in relationship/sexual experience and any girl within my age group would be throughly confused and disinterested after finding out.

I wish I started earlier but I kept putting it off and now it looks like I'm in for the long haul.
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>>34152629

Anyone here just self-loathing and being all humble and shit, and doing so to hope that one day a girl would see through all that and realise you are actually a decent being who just got misunderstood and will pity you enough to love you?
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>>34155160
>think about it, people always use a dating site because theres at least one thing wrong with them.
I expect this -- obviously there is something wrong with me (social anxiety), so I don't expect my partner to be perfect either.

>>34155197
>What kind of guy has to use a DAITING site to get a gf. No bigger turn off.
Well, a guy who works 50 hours a week at a small firm who doesn't have time to go out and meet people the natural way? I don't think it's that big of a turn off since they will be on the website for similar reasons.
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>>34155125
I'll been overseas multiple times solo. Been to Japan 6 times and a few times with others. Went to USA last year for Miku Expo and Singapore for Anime Festival - both solo. I like doing things like mountain hikes and discovering historical sites by myself.

Last year I went to a Miku concert in Japan with someone and I hated it (apart from the concert which was awesome). Just having to maintain a convo and listen to their requests and opinions was frustrating me.

The more I did things solo the more I started enjoying things.
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>>34155244
>Anyone here just self-loathing and being all humble and shit, and doing so to hope that one day a girl would see through all that and realise you are actually a decent being who just got misunderstood and will pity you enough to love you?

It's happened to me with various internet friends and IRL acquaintances. I hate myself almost more than I hate the world, that's saying something.
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>>34155248
Can't wait till you go on there and have your soul shattered. The modern daiting market for males is nightmare+ difficulty
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>>34155313

I think most of us secretly wish that way. Like we are all tfw no gf but deep down we really want some girl to look at us and give us attention. We are basically attention starved and it's driving us insane.
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>>34155328
Good. I never liked playing on easy.
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>>34152629
I'm always going to be hopeful, but reasonable hopeful. As I am now, I'll never get a gf.
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>>34155391

hi >>34155351

found you.
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>>34155248
>so I don't expect my partner to be perfect either.
I mean dont get me wrong
theres several decent girls on there. Its just that they might not like you or you dont match up etc. usually its some kind of trade off though. If a girls really cute shes either a super feminist an abstinent christian, or possibly an absolutely dopey 18 year old who doesn't have two fucking brain cells to rub together. I've encountered those three types a lot I think, and its hard to relate to any of them for me at least.

I liked a couple of the christian girls, but I dont think they liked the fact that I wasnt christian and didnt want to wait till marriage.

A lot of trash/ filler girls who have very very tame and predictable tastes in almost everything i.e. harry potter, doctor who, orange is the new black. It was always hard for me to keep up my enthusiasm for these kind of girls and I get bored and depressed pretty easily. Idk if you feel like you can look past that theres at least some solid 7/10s with just very very bland personality and taste and wont do fucking anything interesting ever.
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>6'2"
>3" dick
>HKV at 21

I've resigned to my fate as an incel and have decided to serve at the feet of a woman. Met my Goddess on Craigslist and have been in her servitude for 5 months. It feels good to just submit to another person knowing your life is devoted to making theirs better and that will be your only microscopic mark on history.

She has complete controls of my finances and has me in chastity. I get to lick her soles daily and can cum once a week while jacking off as I sniff her soles. She has joked about castrating me, but it has become less joking and more of an eventual requirement.
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>>34155520
why even bother to type/ paste that
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>>34155520
May as well just cut your own dick off right now
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>>34155576
My dick will remain untouched. Her plan is to crush the balls via trampling. Once they are crushed, the scrotum will recede, testosterone production will cease, and I will effectively be a eunuch.
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>>34155454
I'm going to aim for the 4/10 with good taste in music.
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>>34155660
>I'm going to aim for the 4/10 with good taste in music.
music taste is usually pretty shit across the board. I found a couple of girls with good tastes, a christian girl being one of them.
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>>34152778
I'm going out at 27. Life's only tolerable now because of my growing /fit/ness but once my test drops its all over
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>>34154218
I hope you die in a fire

Fuck off
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>>34152629
We ain't cut out for the job, but let me tell you this anon, when it comes to videogames, with enough practice and effort (videogames are the only TRUE just worlds) anybody can be great. The ogre twins, Yamimash, I got ur pistola, clockwork, snip3down, FB Walshy, anybody from the MLG mainstage of call of duty, counterstrike, Halo, and now OW, speedrunners like Lobosjr, Brownman AKA Ray Narvaez, they all became legends at their own respective games. Kalle became a god at a F2P game before P2W was introduced. Choose a game with however large a skill gap, however low or high the skill ceiling, and play it, and keep playing it. You will become good, destroying people online feels good. Maybe you'll even make some friends.
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I knew it was all over when I realized that I have yet to see someone like me on the street with a gf.

5'7", middle-easternish looking despite being "white", thin bones, narrow shoulders. Never seen a guy like that with a gf.
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I had 1 GF, only dated for a month, took her to prom etc, then I graduated and broke up with her.

It was then I just decided I'm not destined to spend time with a female, I'm not an interesting person it's more like I just know how to not be an asshole. Being with my girlfriend was one of the worst experiences of all time not because she was a cunt, she was a very nice girl actually, but that I had no idea what the fuck to do half the time so I just sat there at war with myself on what to say or do and I could never make up my mind.
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>>34154272
Why wouldn't you try to change your life? do you think maybe if you lost weight and got a six pack you'd gain a lot more confidence not just with women but your actually everyday life? I'd do something before you're 40 years old and really can't do anything.
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These digits confirm that we will all get gfs
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>>34157340
it hurts
original as shit
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(pic unrelated)
i'm getting to that point.
i'm not even the KHV robot archetype, either

>6' tall, average build, maybe on the lanklet side
>aryan features
>facial hair that extends beyond neckbeard territory
>non-embarrassing penis that works fine
>dress normally
>pretty well-educated (not that this means anything), in graduate school at the present
>been all over the world
>have enough "interesting" or normie hobbies that i can talk about to people
>no real crazy beliefs
>have had a couple of jobs
>no outwardly-detectable mental illness
>good relationship with my family
>live in my own place
>can drive (don't need to in the city though)
>have (a small amount of) friends

on paper i sound like a normie who should have no problem finding a gf right?
here's what actually happens. this has played out over and over again

>girls are not interested in me romantically
>girls are perfectly happy to be friends with me, which is appreciated
>they universally insist that i'd be "a great catch" and are baffled at how i am constantly single
>they seem to believe it's by choice
>it's not

and on the other hand:
>girls who are "interested" in me are EXCLUSIVELY looking for sex
>this is pretty much the only way i know i'm not horribly ugly
here's how it goes down
>girl wants to sleep with me, says so
>do it
>continue casual thing for however long
>eventually she gets a real boyfriend or we just stop
"but anon, doesn't that mean they like you?"
>no
>get rejected every time i ever suggest any kind of "real" relationship

i'm 23 now. i'll be 24 by the end of this year. i will get older and less attractive and encounter fewer and fewer people day-to-day. if anything was gonna happen for me, it was gonna happen in college. i tried. it didn't work.

i refuse to off myself while my parents are still alive because they don't deserve that. o assume i'll keep on grinding until they're out of the picture, then exhaust my inheritance, then it will finally be safe to turn off my computer.
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>>34152629
Me. But I think it's fair because I'm a weird-looking autist who has nothing to offer to a girl who wants a normal, healthy family life.
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>>34152629
I thought I did, then I met someone that proved there were still good women who I wouldn't mind being with.

Problem is that we're coworkers that need to closely work together to do our jobs, and she's significantly older than me and has a fiance. I might be a KHV, but I learned my lesson about trying to shit where I eat long ago. I don't need homewrecking to make it any worse.
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>>34155170
>I was always alone.
>Nobody ever listened to me or cared about my opinions on anything. >The only time I ever left the house was to go to school.
>I've spent most of my time on the computer since I was very young.

this is me btw
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>>34158076
> then it will finally be safe to turn off my computer.

Wright in a feels.
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>tfw you will never get into a relationship
>tfw you will die an untouched kissless virgin
>tfw you will never have another human being truly appreciate your existence
>tfw you will never experience love or intimacy
>tfw you will die alone
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>>34155365
Literally me. That how I keep falling for any girl that will give me attention. Always ends badly
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>>34158076
I was with you 100% until
>girls "interested" me
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